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Luke LaValle Obituary

LaVALLE--Luke P. III, December 31, 2008. Beloved husband of Jennifer. Devoted father of Abby Rose. Loving son of Luke P. LaValle Jr. and Nancy. Loving brother of Michael and David. Superman to all. Friends may call Saturday and Sunday 2-5 and 6-9 at Frank E. Campbell, 1076 Madison Ave. at 81st St., New York City. Mass of Christian Burial Monday, January 5, 10am at St. Ignatius Loyola Church, Park Ave. at 84th St., NYC. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in his memory to Lung Cancer Research at Memorial SloanKettering Cancer Center.

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Published by New York Times from Jan. 2 to Jan. 4, 2009.

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NORMA B FORD

December 27, 2022

IN MEMORY OF LUKE LAVELLE3 MY HEART STILL HEART WHEN I REFLECT ON HIM. I WAS HIS NANNY FROM A BABY . HE WAS THE SWEETEST BABY BOY I WATCH HIM GROW UP TO ME A AWESOME YOUNG MAN MAY HE CONTINUES TO R,I.P NORMA BLACKBURN FORD

Esperanza de Jesus

February 23, 2009

Dear Jen & Abby,
Just to let you know that I am always thinking of you and Luke. Although I knew Luke through you and not for a very long time, Luke made me feel as if I had known him my entire life. I love you...con mucho amor y carino, Ms. E

Earl Lester

February 20, 2009

Dear Jennifer,

I offer you, Abby, and everyone in the LaValle family my most profound condolences for the loss of a paragon of generosity of spirit. I enjoyed the distinct privilege of attending St. Ignatius Loyola School with both you and Luke and Regis High School with Luke. Throughout all this time and especially during my time at Regis, I developed a great admiration for the dignity and grace that Luke embodied so seamlessly. He was wise beyond his years and he filled each person who was honored to know him with a sense of awe. At Regis, everyone regarded him as the consummate gentleman and an especially luminous beacon of the Regis spirit of altruism, compassion, and thoughtfulness. It was a sublime gift to know someone who personified myriad virtues in a seemingly effortless fashion.

You are also one of the sweetest, most thoughtful persons I have ever met and thus your union with Luke was a match made in heaven. I wish you all the very best as you draw upon the reservoir of grace and strength that was already so visible when you were at St. Ignatius Loyola School. You will undoubtedly nurture in Abby the generosity of spirit that has been so prominent in you and Luke. Abby, you, and everyone in the LaValle family will be in my prayers for a long time to come. Please rest assured in the knowledge that Luke is now an angel smiling upon everyone whom he cherished and loved from heaven. It has been an infinite honor to know and learn from you and Luke.

Sincerely,

yasmin insanalli

February 20, 2009

i was so sorry to hear of Luke's passing..my deepest sympathy to his beautiful family. In my thoughts and prayers.
Yasmin

Erin Fitzgerald

February 10, 2009

I have many memories of my times with Luke. He was a dear friend, and I could always count on him to cheer me up, make me laugh or show me a good time. I met him during summer school at ND, and from that moment I knew this guy was going to be my friend. We planned parties together, nights out, and just basically bummed around. He was my wonderful Statistics partner, I am confident that we should never have taken the class to begin with, much less have been partners. We planned senior week parties in Turtle Creek, a true “partner in crime”.

After school, Luke invited me up to see New York City. Growing up in a small town it left quite an impression especially with Luke as my guide. Now every time I visit the NYC I think of my friend Luke. I am so sad the years have slipped away and to hear the loss of a dear friend. Our reunion is just around the corner, I have thought many times how I couldn’t wait to see Luke. Today I am saddened to have full meaning why my messages have been left unanswered on linkedin.

Just say the word Luke LaValle and I have a smile on my face! He was generous, funny, lived life with his heart, and no one could ask for a better person. Jennifer and Abby my heartfelt thoughts go out to you in his memory.

James and Melissa Keane

January 31, 2009

We will always remember Luke as a wonderful person who would have moved mountains for our Jen and Abby. We wish we had gotten to know him more but are happy to watch his spirit live on in Abby. We pray for you all everyday. We love you...

Mike Megall

January 30, 2009

Dear Jen and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss and have been keeping you in my prayers. I had several classes with Luke at Notre Dame as we were both Finance majors.

He was a really great guy both inside and outside the classroom and had a way of always making people feel at ease. He was one of those rare people with a gift for lifting others up and he left you feeling better about yourself after spending time with him.

Joe and Meichelle Keane

January 28, 2009

Dear Jen and Abby,

We wanted to tell you that our hearts are broken by this terrible tragedy. We will always remember how much Luke loved his family and how much he was loved by all. My fondest memories are of him racing around after the kids up in Lake George, his zany dancing especially during our family vacation at the Outer Banks, his love of N.Y.C., and the Univ. N.D, and most of all his complete love for you, Jen, and his Li'l Abigail Rose. Abby and Jen surely have an angel watching over them.

Annie Heinzerling

January 28, 2009

Dear Jen and Abby,
I think of Luke so often, especially when I am in the car and I hear the song "You're just too good to be true." I am usually a mess and begin to cry ,but then I laugh and think about Luke dancing to "I'm bringing sexy back!" at your wedding. He was such a great guy. He called me on my birthday... he called my girls on their birthdays.... and he called me to congratulate me on teaching a 5th grade class back in October. It really meant a lot... he was so weak back in October, but he thought of me. His younger brother was right... Luke was the first to say "Congratulations, great job, and well done." It was just his way. I will miss him always. When Abby gets older I will tell her how proud she should be to have a dad like Luke. You and Abby will always be in my prayers. All my love.

Nora Mirshafii

January 22, 2009

To the LaValle Family,
I am deeply, deeply saddened to hear about Luke. I had the honor of meeting him when he began attending our conferences with Dave Carnahan, and we were all very impressed. Whether through his insightful comments during our roundtable discussions or via one-on-one conversations, it was evident Luke was not only very smart and hardworking but also very down-to-earth and a truly fine human being. I shall always remember Luke III fondly and respectfully. Please accept my deepest condolences and know that you are all in my prayers.

Joanne & Patrick Keenan

January 18, 2009

Jen and LaValle Family,
Our condolences to you and your family on the passing of Luke. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May God watch over you and comfort you.

January 18, 2009

Dear Jen, please accept our deepest sympathy to you, Abby Rose and all the family. Kieran, Patricia and all the Hogan family. Ireland

MARY SPIESS

January 17, 2009

To My Jen,
My heart is breaking for you. I see more each day, how much you loved Luke and how much you miss him. I can only hope that you find peace in knowing what a wonderful person he was. In his short time with us, Luke touched more lives than a man three times his age. Yet, with all his accomplishments, he remained humble and unassuming. Luke was a wonderful son-in-law,a devoted husband and one of the most loving fathers that I have ever seen. He was so delighted with his beautiful Abbygirl. I will always remember how he kept her next to him while he was working, reading or resting. Luke, will remain in our hearts always.

Jennifer LaValle

January 16, 2009

Happy Birthday, Lukie Boy. We love you soooo... and miss you more than you know.
Love,
Jen and Abby

Sally Cohen-Alameno

January 16, 2009

Jen-
I am Annie and Glenn's good friend from Westfield who met you many times at princess birthday parties, etc....I know your family and have often envied the amazing Keene support system. Please know that you and Abby are so loved and that she will be your saving grace. My husband Andy (who coincidentally started at Bank of NY also) died in the WTC when Nina was 2 and Joe was 5. I never could have made it through w/out the daily routine of children...You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope to see you when you come out to Westfield.

Joseph D'Agostino

January 13, 2009

Dear Luke & Nancy..and Jen whom we did not have the pleasure of meeting.
As a teacher of "Big" Luke at LaSalle Military, I got to know the spirit and togetherness of the LaValle Family. I note that Luke and Nancy have carried on that strength.
Jen, that is your strength today as you look to the future.
Also, it will be a wonderful beacon for Abby as she comes to grips with the love of her Dad in the years ahead.
God bless you all.
Joe & Mary Ellen D'Agostino

Ronald LaValle

January 12, 2009

Hello Jen,
Please accept my sincere condolences on Luke's passing, as his Uncle I had the pleasure of watching him grow, because I am on the West coast was not as close as I would have liked but followed his school years and then professional life closely. My heart is very heavy right now and I wish I had some words that would make you feel better. Luke was a wonderful nephew and I was so proud of him, in my circule of friends he was a clebrity, wish I was closer and from my heart my deepest sympthy. Seeing you both so happy at your wedding was a very wonderful time for us and will be in my memorry always.

Ann Tierney

January 12, 2009

Dear Jen and the LaValle family,

I am so terribly sorry to hear that Luke lost his fight. I got the chance to visit with Jen & Luke when Colleen & Scott Schaefers came to volunteer at the Hole in the Wall Camp I worked at near Lake George. It was a very funny night and one that I am glad I got to be a part of with them. Luke was the kind of person who made everyone feel comfortable right away, no matter if he'd just met them. Luke will be missed dearly, and I know his legacy will live on in little Abby and through every person who was lucky enough to know him.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Marifran (Knutson) Georgis

January 9, 2009

Jen, Abbey and the LaValle Family

My family and I were so sorry to hear this sad news. Luke and I were classmates at Notre Dame. I will never forget his sense of humor and friendship.

May our thoughts and prayers comfort you during this difficult time.

Matthew Fabricant

January 9, 2009

I knew Luke from National Fencing Tournaments and went to ND a year after he graduated. He was a great person. I am truly sadened by this news.

Minister Alicia Jenkins-Middleton

January 9, 2009

Dear Jennifer,
I would like to offer you my deepest sympathy on the loss of your loved one. I remember the day you ask me questions about taking off to be married and how happy you were. Cherish those memories and if you ever need me, I'm available to talk or to pray with you. Yes, I was your payroll secretary but I am now a minister and I'm here for you whenever you need me. Please feel free to contact me at 718-881-0015.

Allison Barra

January 7, 2009

Luke was the best mentor. He always acted like a big brother, showing concern for my well being, and making sure that I was getting my life in check. He would listen to my stories, and tell me to stop dwelling over the petty things. He would also be the first one to point out the things that I actually should be worrying about. He had the best personality and always knew how to make me laugh. Everyone always had the best time when he was around. He also had a knack for making a great breakfast omelet. I am lucky to have known someone who is so hard to say good-bye to.
Luke was one of a kind and he will always be in my heart.

Love his favorite "woo girl",

Ally

Kevin McCarthy

January 7, 2009

To the LaValle family,

My deepest condolences. I only had one class with Luke at Notre Dame, but I would run into him throughout our four years there. He was truly a great guy and a pleasure to be around. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Sandy Agashiwala

January 7, 2009

Dear Abby, Jen, Mr and Mrs LaValle, Mike and Dave,

I am so very sorry and shocked to hear about Luke's passing.

It was the most random of online searches that brought this news to me yesterday evening and with it came enormous grief for the loss of a wonderful old friend and for the pain that you all certainly must feel.

I often remember our endless hours together in the bowels of the NYAC and traveling around the country for tournaments. We had not seen each other since a college meet years ago but i look back on those times with a great fondness.

I hope to celebrate the friendship that Luke and I shared by seeing you all again sometime soon and continue it by introducing his little Abby to my son one day.

Deepest condolences from all of us,
Sandy, Julie, Satya, Raj, Loma and Mahesh

Dan Yu

January 7, 2009

Dear Jen, Abby, Luke, Nancy, Michael and David-

My heart breaks for all of you. Luke, though 9 years my junior, taught me so much about living life to its fullest. I can only hope to meet the standard that he set.

I have always felt a close connection with Luke - both native New Yorkers, he went to St. Ignatius Loyola and Regis - while I graduated from Loyola HS, sabre fencers that went to Notre Dame, and eventually to Wall Street.

Luke inspired greatness, laughter, compassion, camaraderie, and especially, kindness in everyone he met. And we all know that Luke will have them in stitches in Heaven too.

Luke's legacy is in each of us, and especially in Abigail Rose. If we can somehow replicate his perpetually impish grin, quick wit, and magnanimous personality in our own lives and those we know and meet, then Luke really will live on forever.

To Jen- I will always remember the day when Luke introduced me to you. I asked him that day: "Hey, what's the deal with Jen?" His response: "She's a great girl. Definite keeper." He was right.

My deepest condolences to you all,

Dan Yu

Jane and Rick Carter

January 6, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of your loss...our thoughts and prayers and condolences are with you.

Joseph

January 6, 2009

I did not know Luke, but was a classmate of his at Notre Dame. I'll be praying for all of you.

Sherry (Desautels) Prisco

January 6, 2009

To the LaValle family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am Rob Desautels's younger sister and I got to know Luke through witnessing their friendship. In that process Luke became a friend to me as well. I have come to find out that Luke was a friend to everyone he met. I feel very lucky to have been one of them.
I have been and will continue to pray for Luke, Jen, Abby, and all the LaValle's during this terribly painful time.

Chris Vitale

January 6, 2009

To the Lavalle,

I spent 4 years with Luke at Regis, and remember Luke as a great young man. Regis has lost a great alum. My deepest condolences and please know your family will be in my prayers.

Bob & Theresa Desautels

January 6, 2009

To Jen and the entire LaValle Family:

On behalf of the Theresa and myself (Rob Desautels's parents), we want to let you all know of the impact Like had on our family. Rob's affection for Luke was obvious and lasting.

Sending a condolence to you all is much like learning a new language. Others might understand what you're saying, but for the one speaking, the correct words are hard to find. I perused the many messages sent to you all about Luke. What I learned from them speaks loudly of not only your loving influence on Luke, but the fact that Luke learned from parents and family friends to be the kind of man that God always wanted of him. Quite a legacy, don't you think.

God Bless....

Theresa and Bob Desautels

Kelly Stehlik

January 5, 2009

My brother Rob lived with Luke at ND and counted him as one of his dearest friends. Our hearts go out to Luke's family. We have been praying for Luke and will continue to do so. His love of life and friendship made a huge impression on me. He will always be fondly remembered.

With deepest sympathy,
Kelly (Desautels), Jim, Abby, and Kaitlyn Stehlik

pat albanese

January 5, 2009

To the LaValle Family, I am so gratefull that I had the opportunity to take care of Luke. He taught me so much about life. I will always think of him when I look at the corner room in the chemo suite. Jen you will be ok because you have Abbey Rose as a piece of Luke.I will call you once things settle down and we will get together. Nancy , Luke an Jen. You are a true inspiration to me. Much Love to you all. Patty Luke's Chemo nurse

Edward VonSauers

January 5, 2009

To the La Valle Family,
I hired Luke for The Bank of New York just about 10 years ago. It was one of my better management decisions. His intelligence, ethusiasm, and work ethic breathed a new life into our trading desk. He truly was one of a kind. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

William Rechter

January 5, 2009

Luke and Nancy: We worked together many years ago at U.S. Trust. I didn't know your son, but I was saddened to read of his recent passing. I wanted to convey my condolences to you and your entire family during this difficult time.

Esperanza de Jesus

January 5, 2009

To Jen, Abby Rose & La Valle Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Luke was indeed a very special man. His warmth, sense of humor and caring virtues will remain in the lives of all that he touched. He will always have an open door in my heart and memories. Jen I love you. Con mucho amor y carino, Ms. E.

The Brangans & McMahons

January 5, 2009

Jen & Abby Rose,

Though only a few members of your Texas family were able to meet Luke, we all heard so many wonderful things about him and know what an incredible father and husband he was to you both. We are so sorry for your loss. You have been in our thoughts and prayers throughout his battle, and will continue to be during this difficult time.

Timothy Hannigan (Regis '91)

January 4, 2009

LaValle family:
Although I did not know your son, its is with a heavy heart that I express my deepest sympathy for a fellow Regian who we have lost too soon. My prayers go out to his wife and child and to the entire LaValle family.

Perrier Mackell

January 4, 2009

To Jen and Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
You are 1 of the strongest women I know and Abby is so lucky to have you as a mother.
God Bless,
Perrier

Darcie Pfeifle

January 4, 2009

To all who are grieving I offer my tear filled condolences. Luke and I lost touch throughout the years yet when we reconnected we reminiced about the shenanigans of our summers at the yacht club. A thank you to our parents for such a wonderful place to be a kid. Luke and I had a fun friendship and remained friendly after going out for a year in sixth grade! Our greatest simalarity was our amazing closeness with our siblings. Mike and Dave I shall continue to hold you close to my heart. My thoughts are with all of you.

Jill Byrne

January 3, 2009

Dear Jen and Abby,
Although you don't know me, my heart goes out to you and your family. My sister, Grace, met you through the Lung Cancer site a few years ago, when my brother-in-law Bobby, suffered as your Luke did. She showed me photos of the baby and of you, Luke and Abby at Christmas. I felt I, too, had a special connection to you through your photos and letters. I know how Luke suffered, as Bobby did. They both fought hard. Don't worry now because God will take care of them and keep them safe.

Grace Greene

January 3, 2009

To dearest Jen,
Someday we will know why we were chosen to have our husbands pulled away from us by this dreadful disease. In the meantime we must accept going on with out them while on this earth. They left us the most precious gift, a child, who they will carry on in. We see so much of them in this beautiufl child, and draw comfort in knowing that they live on in this beautiful human being. As time goes on... somehow...,someway the pain lessens. We have to find ways to live our lives without them, although they are watching over us.
It does get less difficult, although right now that seems impossible.
Take comfort in knowing your beautiful, dear husband no longer has cancer. He is no longer in pain.
My heart is broken in half for you and Abby. My thoughts are with you always, and I'll always be here for you. I can honestly and truly say Jen, I know exactly how you feel.
With all my love to you and sweet little Abby Rose.
Grace

Pete LaFleur

January 3, 2009

To the LaValle family and friends of Luke:

I know that this is a time of great sadness for you all, but just wanted to make sure you were aware that - in a couple days - we will be posting a tribute feature on Luke on Notre Dame's official website (www.und.com). There also will be a similar tribute on www.collegefencing360.com, a new website that is set to launch in the next few days.

If you have any heartfelt stories or anecdotes about Luke that you would like to submit for possible inclusion in the tribute feature, please forward them to me at: [email protected].

I began working with the Notre Dame fencing program in 2000, shortly after Luke's college career had ended, but I know his loss is being felt greatly among the ND fencing community. I wish the best for all of you over the next few days and in the future.

Pete LaFleur
(former ND fencing sports info. director)

Margo Cook

January 3, 2009

Dear LaValle Family,

I worked alongside Luke at The Bank of New York and always admired the spirit, humor and intelligence he brought to our trading floor. My thoughts are with your family at this difficult time.

Susan and Larry JOHNSON

January 3, 2009

We fondly recall Luke as our son's classmate at St. Ignatius and Regis, where they had a lively "intellectual" competition for good grades. We are so saddened at the loss for all of you and will keep you in our prayers. Abby Rose has a special angel watching over her, for sure.

Tim and Sue McKay

January 3, 2009

Dear Jen, Luke, Nancy, Mike and Dave,
Heard the news of Luke's passing from our son Matt via email. Sue and I are out of the country and are unable to make it to New York for the Mass of Christian Burial. Please accept our deepest sympathy and heart felt prayers for all the LaValle's. Luke was truly admired, respected, and loved by all who knew him as a friend, client, fellow competitor and classmate. His courageous attitude and spirited fight with cancer further evidenced his heroism to all. While his life here on earth was much too short, it was filled with zest, fun, accomplishment and glowing inspiration to many. So many fond memories and great stories of Luke's life will live on thru his many friends, and he even left us with a part of himself with a beautiful daughter named Abbey Rose. But in the end, Luke peacefully surrendered to God's will in returning to the Father in Heaven. Finding faith in God's promise of eternal life is the ultimate goal of us all, and Luke not only met that goal, but his life serves as a great example of this faith to us all. May Luke rest in eternal peace, and may God give all the LaValle's the strengh and hope in knowing that your spouse, son, and brother is now in a better place prepared especially for him in Heaven.
Our condolences, prayers and love to you all,
Tim and Sue McKay

Andrea Ryker

January 3, 2009

Mr. & Mrs. LaValle, Michael, David, Jen and Abby,

My heart is forever extended for your loss. It amazes me that I think back so far like it was yesterday and then have to realize a goodbye came too soon.

However, a little one (yes you Abby Rose) will forever make the footprints of a wonderful son, brother, friend, husband, and father.

Love always, Andrea (Trotta) Ryker & Doug Ryker

Eileen Singleton

January 3, 2009

All our thoughts and prayers are with you Jen.

Eileen
"Texas"

Colleen Bright

January 2, 2009

Luke's laughter, the spark in his eyes, and his non stop energy are what I remember most from fencing with him at Notre Dame. It takes my breath away that he is no longer with us. I know it was one of his greatest 'victories' to be a father. My support and love goes out to Jen...

Colleen Bright (Smerek)

Bill and Mim Borden

January 2, 2009

Jen, Abby, and family -
Words do not seem adequate to express our heartfelt sympathy at this time. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers way up here in Huletts Landing. Jen, we know that your entire family is surrounding you and supporting you through this difficult time. Also know that the Huletts community/family is sending loads of love and positive energy your way. We will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda, Michael, Melanie Takagi

January 2, 2009

Luke, Nancy, Michael, and David,

Our hearts are so saddened by the news of Luke's passing. We remember you all so fondly from fencing. Your family is the focus of our prayers. May God grant you comfort during this time.

Ted Bills

January 2, 2009

My wife and I offer you our deepest sympathies.

Luke and I lived in the same section during his freshman (my junior) year at Notre Dame. I will never forget Luke's zest for life!

May our thoughts and prayers comfort you during this difficult time.

Love, Ted and Kristan Bills

Nadine Blackburn Tulloch

January 2, 2009

My condolence to you and your family in this difficult time...May God bless and keep you all and give you the strength you need...
Nadine Blackburn Tulloch.

NORMA FORD

January 2, 2009

Luke was my special Baby watching his life has been a awesome and progressive life HE was one of Gods chosen child I love him with all my Heart but God love Him best and I am sure he has recieved his Crown of honour and Love on that Crown of Everlasting Love HIS Precious Jen ABIGAIL MOM DAD Mike DAVID and all HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS LOVE FOREVER

Jackie James

January 2, 2009

I met Luke and his brothers when they were babies. My mom was their caregiver and I often helped out. I remember babysitting and changing Luke's diapers and it feels like I have lost a family member. He was a wonderful child and grew to be a wonderful man. I am not surprised because he is from a Wonderful family. I am sure Life won't be the same without him but THANK God is was Wonderful with him and he has left much to remember. My sincere Sympathies to his Mom,Dad, Brothers, Wife and daughter.

Mrs. Shawn Blackburn Matel

January 2, 2009

To the family:

You all are in my thoughts and prayers. May god and the precious memories you hold dear bring you comfort at this time.

Susan & Matt Thorne

January 2, 2009

Luke, Nancy, Jen & Abby Rose, Michael and David,

Our Hearts ache for you as you struggle to live life here on Earth without your son, husband & father, and brother...While we will not be able to attend Luke's memorial please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Trust in The One who will never leave you.... "And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." Matthew 28:20

Jennifer Conlin

January 2, 2009

It broke my heart to hear about Luke's passing. Though the prognosis was bleak, I still held on to hope that things would turn around for him. My condolences to his family - the one he had his whole life and the one that he was building with his wife. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Jennifer Conlin (formerly Coleman, ND class of 1999)

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