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Max Calehuff
January 3, 2011
The years go by and the memories remain strong for the ones we have loved. We love and miss you Tom.
Max Jr, Noreen, Max III & Kelsey
Mark Lovell
July 24, 2009
Dear Wanda,
Its been some years since I saw you and Tommy and I often do Internet searches for Browns Billiard news while here in England. But I have only just come across the sad news of Tommy's passing and I am devastated!
Tommy was truly one of the finest people I have ever met in my 52 years and I was honoured to call him my friend. He had a glow about him that touched anyone fortunate to be in his company.
I have many wonderful memories of the times we shared in Miami and Daytona and will treasure them forever.
My heartfelt condolences to you and the boys.
Charles Nickolas
April 24, 2009
Dear Wanda and Boys,
Tommy was a great friend of mine and I was truely saddened when I heard of his passing.He was the best pool player I ever saw and am very proud to be able to say that he was my teacher in pool but more than that,he was my friend.My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Max (Cousin "Butch") Calehuff
March 13, 2009
Dear Aunt Jane, Larissa, Wanda, Devin & Derek,
We are with you all in spirit. I remember the family times in Vineland, NJ, when the family would get together. There are so many good memories to help ease the pain of losing the ones we love. I wish for you the gift that good memories with Tommy will bring to you as time passes. Take care.
With much love,
Max Jr, Noreen, Max III & Kelsey
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Megan Cassidy
February 1, 2009
Dear Wanda,
The last time that I saw you and Tommy was approximately the summer of 1991 (I was in Central Florida with two male friends for Lollapalooza and you generously invited us over for a visit before we headed back to Miami). I originally met you and Tommy when Tommy was at Mr. C's in West Kendall, Florida. You were both incredibly kind to me and offered your friendship and trust (you entrusted me to house-sit Sammy, the cat). I don't know what made me google Tommy tonight, but my search led to great sadness.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, Tommy and your sons' loss and Tommy's Mom's loss. I was fortunate to know you and Tommy at the beginning of your beautiful marriage. I have thought often of the friendship that you and your husband extended to me (AND the impact of how I viewed your relationship), and regret not being able to see you again as the devoted partners that you have always been in my mind. Wanda, I don't think that I could ever fully express how much you changed my outlook on relationships; your advice has withstood two decades. I thank you.
Wanda, you taught me so much much about being a strong female. (Some of your wisdom still lingers with my life decisions to this day) I can only hope that you can feel the strength that you inspired in a 19-year-old girl. (Tommy taught me how to break a 9-ball rack that inspired fear in my hapless, male opponents -- he also was a kind ear and sounding board for my endless, teenage relationship troubles) I thank you and Tommy for what you added to my life during those years.
I will pray for you and your family tonight and in the upcoming months and years that you can overcome this devastating loss. Sometimes a relatively short friendship can have decades of consequences. I have truly benefited from the friendship that you and your husband extended to me. I don't know if you will ever read this, but if you do, feel free to contact me or just know that you are front and center in my thoughts and prayers.
My sincere love, support and gratitude of being able to know you both,
Megan (Miami, FL)
Bruce DIppolito
January 15, 2009
Dear Jane & family, Im very sad to hear about Tommy, Im Glad I got to talk to him before his passing. My prayers go out to you and his family
Love Bruce
tree podvarko
January 14, 2009
dear jane wanda and boys imso at a loss of words i just found out and i cant even express in words how sorry i am ive known tommy for 35 years and saw how he grew into a man husband and father im going to miss him dearly i hope he didnt suffer too bad the lord will take good care of him i cant say no more im crying too much
Dan Brewer
January 7, 2009
Dear Jane and Wanda: I was one of Tommy's best friends in Vineland, NJ. I am so sorry for your loss. He was a great friend. Dan Brewer, Vineland, NJ.
Robert Calehuff
January 7, 2009
Aunt Jane, Larissa, Wanda, Derek & Devin,
We are so sorry for your loss. It`s been a long time since we saw Tommy and you together with us. We have very fond memories that will always be remembered. You are in our hearts and in our prayers. We love and miss you.
Robert, Linda, Robert Jr. and Lindsay Calehuff
Lou Calehuff
January 6, 2009
Dear Aunt Jane, Larissa, Wanda and children, So sorry for the loss of a great guy. It seems like only yesterday that our families would visit each other in New Jersey and have great times. From Aunt Jane's homemade icecream, to the beginning of Tommy's pool run. When someone mentions the game of pool to me, I always think of Tommy and tell them that my cousin was the best in the world in his time.He will be missed but always remembered.
Jimmie Greene
January 6, 2009
My prayers and thoughts are with the Brown family. Even though I hadn't seen Tommy in quite a few years, I will always remember his tremendous gracefulness and skill around the green baize of the pool table. But most of all I will remember his kindness and willingness to help others.
William(STAC) Barbour
January 6, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family. Tommy was very good friend he tought me a thing or 2 about pool and the hustle that goes along with the game. My friend you will be missed but never forgotten
debra snyder
January 6, 2009
dearest family my prayers are with each and every one of you at thiis sad time may we all rest with peace knowing tommy is today in the arms of the angels and is suffering no more. i will always be forever grateful for the friendship with all the browns in christ love debra snyder echo and bryan pinkleys mother and mother inlaw
Cliff & Barb Halper Halper
January 6, 2009
Aunt Jane, Larissa, Wanda, Derek & Devin,
You are in our hearts and prayers. Tommy was a very special person who will always be remembered for his generosity, love and talent. We are thinking of you. Love Cliff & Barb Halper
Barbara Halper
January 6, 2009
Dear Aunt Jane, Larissa, Wanda, Devin & Derek,
Our hearts are broken. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I think of the "dapper" young Tommy visiting during the holidays at my Dad's and then the gentleman he became..we still have the Billiard magazine with Tommy on the front cover in our den and his pool sticks grace our pool table. May his love and laughter help all of you at this very, very sad time. He will be terribly missed, but never forgotten. Love, Barb & Cliff Halper and Family
Steve Wonder
January 6, 2009
Tommy will be sorely missed. His passion for life and compassion for those in need was surpassed only by the love he held in high regard for his wife, his sons, and his mother & sister. It was an honor to be considered part of his family. May the pain of his passing be overshadowed by all of the wonderful memories we have of him, which we all keep in our hearts.
Deborah & Patrick Rossi
January 6, 2009
Aunt Jane and Larissa,
What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose. For all that we love deeply becomes a part of us. May the love and memories you hold in your heart always sustain you and bring you comfort.
Deborah Rossi
January 6, 2009
Even though we have not seen you in recent years, our memories of you are warm and loving. We will miss you and remember the wonderful person that you were. You gave great joy to your family and friends.
Lovingly,
Deborah, Patrick, Brooke and Ashley
Rayya Stevens
January 5, 2009
Even across the miles, you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Words can't express what I want to say.I was so sorry to hear. Love you.
Jeff Calehuff
January 5, 2009
Aunt Janie, Wanda and kids.
We send our sincere condolences. Tom was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed by all. Stay strong.
with love
Nilcole Ferguson, Jeff, Max, and Mitch Calehuff
Tom and Debbie Atkinson
January 5, 2009
Ma, Wanda, and boys, our thoughts are with you all. Tom was a wonderful person. God Bless you all
Ben and Ginny Calehuff
January 4, 2009
Tommy, we will greatly miss you. We have a lot of memories of you when you were growing up and when you were first starting to play billiards.
We are glad we were part of your life. God bless you. We will see you in heaven.
Bob Elger
January 4, 2009
"Ma" and Wanda I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. It was a great shock when I heard . Please accept my heartfelt condolances .
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