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Monica UMPHLETT Obituary
Monica Faye Umphlett, 28, died at her home on Thursday, July 3, 2008, following a courageous battle with cancer.
A native of Gates County, N.C., she graduated in 2002 from East Carolina University with a degree in marketing and was a member of Phi Sigma Pi National Honor Fraternity. Monica moved to Lynchburg in 2003. After a brief career in outside sales, she decided to return to school to pursue her true calling and was attending Liberty University to obtain a master's degree in special education. Employed by the Campbell County schools as special education teacher at Rustburg High School, she also enjoyed serving as the junior varsity volleyball coach prior to her illness. A member of Middle Swamp Baptist Church in Gates County, she attended Brentwood Church in Lynchburg. Her church families were a big part of her life and her "Diddy" was always eager for her to come home for visits so they could attend church together.
Surviving are her fiance, Daniel Arthur of Lynchburg; her parents, M.Q. and Brenda Umphlett of Gates, N.C.; two sisters, Paula Wilder of Hertford, N.C., and Mary Broglin and husband, David, of Raleigh, N.C.; a niece, Lauren Wilder of Hertford; her grandmother, Florine Weeks of Elizabeth City, N.C.; many aunts, uncles and cousins who loved her very much; and by her beloved pet pooch, Mr. Jingles.
A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Sunday, July 6, 2008, in the Rustburg High School auditorium, 1671 Village Highway, Rustburg, VA 24588. Graveside services will be held at 2 p.m. Monday, July 7, 2008, in Middle Swamp Baptist Church Cemetery, Gates County, N.C. Friends may join the family in the social hall of the church following graveside rites.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to any chapter of the American Cancer Society.
Miller Funeral Home, 304 Main St., Gatesville, NC 27938, is assisting the family with arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for Monica UMPHLETT
Nikia Artis (formerly Jones)
July 25, 2008
Monica was such a sweet girl and will always be remembered. She was always so full of joy and energy and made everyone else appreciate life even more when she was around. My heart and prayers go out to her family and friends. She will be greatly missed. Always, Nikia (Phi Sigma Pi, Greenville, NC)
Angie Bryant
July 22, 2008
My heart goes out to everyone who was involved in Monica's life. May the comfort of God's love help heal the wound that has been created by her passing. Time will heal the pain, but the memories will remain for a lifetime. May God bless you all.
July 19, 2008
Daniel...I'm so sorry to hear of your precious loss. Old or young death is so painful. We have a hope that death, pain and suffering will soon be in the past (Revelation 21:3,4).
May you find the courage to continue on and strength in the memories.
Sincerely,
CMB - Baltimore, MD
Kelly Boone (Phi Sigma Pi)
July 17, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to Monica's family. She was a beautiful person inside and out. She will be missed by many.
Stacey Cudd
July 16, 2008
Monica was a great person. I told her on many occasions "Your such a better person than I am." She would laugh and tell me to shut up or something like that. But I was serious. She was amazing.
It's hard to believe we were playing softball just a few months ago. Well, she was playing softball. I was standing in the field.
The love she and Dan shared was wonderful to see. When I first met them I would watch them and think.... they have what everyone wants. I wish it had been for a lifetime. I think of and pray for the families daily. God bless.
Erin O'Brien
July 12, 2008
My heartfelt simpathy and prayers go out to Monica's family and friends. She was one of the kindest people I met and I feel so honored a blessed to have known her and shared memories with her at ECU.
Amber Stallings
July 10, 2008
As I have read through the many entries in this guest book, it is so heartwarming to see just how much Monica touched each and every one of us. I had the pleasure of knowing and being friends with her throughout middle and high school, as well as seeing her smiling face at ECU through our Phi Sigma Pi events. She was truly a special person who I feel blessed to have known. Please know that she will be remembered for her kind heart and warm smile~
Pastor Magnolia Moss (aka PTunia)
July 10, 2008
My heart was so saddened when I heard of Monica's passing. I send prayers of comfort to her family and loved ones. She always had a smile to share and a warm, sweet spirit. She was a wonderful person and will always be remembered as such.
Theresa Thomas
July 9, 2008
My memories of Monica was shopping at Maurices. She was always so funny and liked to get on her sister Mary's nerves! LOL! Just the way sisters at that age do. (They were teenagers) She was a very sweet, beautiful young lady. I know the world is less beautiful without her in it! My prayers are with you Mrs. Ump! God Bless you and your family. Theresa (Old Maurices Mgr.)
Hanah Coughlin
July 9, 2008
For those of us that had the honor of knowing Monica, had the honor of knowing a beautiful, honest, selfless, big-hearted person who who could make someone's day better just by coming into contact with them.
I had the privilege of being Monica's little brother in our Fraternity. I knew from the moment that I met her that I got the best big, and that everyone else knew it too! She was the coolest, the sweetest, and so full of life. Monica kept in touch with me even after so many years away from school. She had the amazing ability of making others feel so special. She took the the time to see how I was doing even with everything going on in her life.
She was a beautiful spirit full of the kind strength that others could only read about in a book or see in a movie.
For those of us that got to meet Monica think of ourselves as lucky, and the ones that did not will surely know about her through us. She will be forever remembered, greatly missed, and always loved.
Our prayers and thoughts are with her, her family, her friends, and her loved ones.
Shahrhah Rogers
July 9, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Monica. She was a very good teacher and I enjoyed talking to her.
May God watch over her family during this time of grief.
Mandy Sparks Futrell
July 9, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Monica was great person who could get the saddest people to laugh. She was a huge asset to our glass in High School. She will be missed and remembered by everyone!!
Heather Zajac
July 8, 2008
As everyone has already said, Monica was an amazing young lady. She has touched so many lives in life and in death. I have so many fond memories that include Monica; sleep overs, going to Ahoskie and the teen club, the ball park, etc. She was like the little sister that I never had. We are all better people for having been blessed to be a part of her life. We can all take comfort in knowing she is in a better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Heather Smith
July 8, 2008
I had the pleasure of working with Monica for the past 3 years. I will never forget the first day I met her, it was my first day working at RHS and also her first year of teaching. I didn't have a clue what I was suppose to be doing. She made my first day and every day AWESOME! From that day we became close friends. She has taught me so much.She was so tough and never lost her spirit! School just isn't going to be the same without her smile and "Good Morning Girl" when I walk in the door. On the night Monica passed I dreamt of her. In my dream I had gone to visit her at home, when I walked in...there stood Monica talking, laughing and walking around. I said to her "Oh my goodness your all better" and she said "Yea girl, I feel great!" Whenever I feel sad I just think of my dream and I know that it was her way of telling me that she is okay now!
Jeep & Sue Jones
July 8, 2008
To Dan and Monica's family, our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you. Dan, let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
Tim & Tonya Pafford
July 8, 2008
Dan and The Umphlett family,
We are so very sorry for your great loss. Although we did not our get to know Monica personally, her courage is legendary. Dan, I hope you know that our prayers are with you. You have the love that Monica gave you to last a lifetime.
Will Devlin
July 8, 2008
As seems to often be the case, you don't truly appreciate how special someone is until they're gone. I feel privileged to have known Monica, and in the past week or so I've smiled at the many great memories I have of her. She's certainly going to be missed and is a true inspiration to us all.
Margaret, Mike and Kaitlynn Coussa
July 8, 2008
Monica was one of the most wonderful people I have ever had the privilege of knowing. She was a joy to be around and always brought a smile to those that came in contact with her. She was funny, kind, loving and strong. Daniel, the Umphlett family and the Arthur family, you are all in my prayers during the difficult time. Monica will be greatly missed by all those that love her, but I am thankful that I will see her again one day.
Jessica Stallings
July 8, 2008
I have so many memories of Monica and I when we were children, as teenagers, adults and throughout our college years. I remember we would write each other during the summer months when we were in grade school, even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other. There were many nights at the ballpark and school that I would watch her play and the teamwork she portrayed was indescribable. One year, on a school field trip to Busch Gardens, Monica, Christy and I made a music video to Whoomp(There it is)! :) We still kept in contact while we were in college and I think about how much fun we all had on Halloween our freshman year. There are so many more memories that I treasure, as do all of us. I have thought of her and the rest of her family and close friends so many times over the past year. She will be forever missed by so many, but her courageousness will be an inspiration to all! I will always think about the memories that we shared and how much she impacted other people's lives. What a beautiful angel God has received! Dan, MQ, "Miss" Brenda, Paula, Mary, and the rest of Monica's family, you will continue be in my thoughts and prayers.
William Chappell
July 8, 2008
My deepest condolences go out to Daniel, Mary Kay, David, Paula, Brenda, MQ, and family for the loss of you sister, daughter, and best friend. Like others have already said she was full of life, laughter and made friends where ever she went. May you all take comfort in knowing that she is in a better place and will forever have a smile on her face. Monica, we love you and will miss you greatly . . . may God take you into his arms and welcome you home.
Ruby Crews
July 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know there are so many wonderful memories that will keep Monica in your hearts.
Marie, Chad, Todd and Grant Achilles
July 7, 2008
To Daniel and family and Monica's friends and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. May God bless you and wrap His loving arms of peace and comfort around each of you! Love to all!
Cheryl Underwood
July 7, 2008
Dear Daniel and Umphlett Family,
I just wanted to express my condolences for your loss. I was always impressed by Monica's attitude and stamina while fighting the cancer. I remember her making a point to walk with you all and the dogs in the evening. And I remember chatting with you all during those walks last summer. Monica approached her treatment plan with spunk and a willingness to fight. I sincerely believe that God has a special plan and place for Monica. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sincerely, Cheryl
Selena Campbell
July 7, 2008
As I struggle for the "right" thing to say, I finally decided to say the obvious..........I will miss Monica very much. For the last year and a half I have found myself thinking of Monica on a daily basis, wondering how she's feeling, how she manages to be so strong and positive, wondering how her family and Daniel and closest friends are doing. Over the last few days, my thoughts and feelings are stronger than ever. I met Monica through my sister and I have great memories of times spent with she and Daniel. I do wish that our time together hadn't been cut so short, but I am glad that she is in heaven with our creator and no longer suffering. I feel blessed to have met and shared memories with Monica. To Daniel, family and closest friends, you are all in my thoughts and prayers......
Max, Linda, Carl and Paul
July 7, 2008
We are thinking of you and your family during this time. Monica will greatly be missed by all. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Christie (Batts) Kern
July 7, 2008
When I heard the news I went back over my fraternity scrapbook and there wasn't a picture in there where she wasn't laughing,wasn't smiling, or wasn't dancing. That is the Monica I'll always remember and cherish.
Kristi & Alex Dalton
July 7, 2008
Our prayers are with the Umphlett and Arthur families. We feel truly blessed to have known Monica and are glad that she is finally home with the Lord. We pray that God will give you peace in the coming days. We love you.
Buffy, Robert, and Alexandra Pitchford
July 7, 2008
It's hard not to imagine the world without Mo~ in it. She had such a vivacious personality with a soulful spirit. I can only imagine that only the special ones light the way for us when we cross over, and I feel as though she'll be a lightkeeper for all eternity.Mo~ loved life, and she will be missed by those who loved her.
Jill Hargett
July 7, 2008
I speak for my family when I say that we will all miss monica. I can remember seeing her playing in the dirt at many ballgames - with my little brother DJ. Growing up and becoming a beautiful young woman. Monica and I are both brothers in Phi Sigma Pi and I was so proud of her when I learned she had pledged. Monica exudes those three qualities of fellowship, leadership and scholarship. On behalf of the fraternity and my family - we will miss you monica. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Amy Lowery (Everett)
July 7, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My God bless you all.
Christy Casper Stevens
July 7, 2008
What an impact you have made on so many people's lives in so many places. You definitely had a purpose in your short lifetime and one was to always put a smile on people's faces. I am sure God has a purpose for you now-your memory will continue to shine bright and work for him. I am glad your suffering is over. You will never be forgotten.
Justin Blanchard
July 7, 2008
Monica has left a beautiful legacy on this earth. I am sure her students will always keep her in their hearts. God bless.
Thurman Hobbs
July 7, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Taylor-Cross
July 7, 2008
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Christy, James, Ashlyn & Emma Bailey
July 7, 2008
Aunt Brenda, Uncle Q, Paula, Mary & David and Daniel--My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you go through this very tough time. We will all miss Monica so much!!! We will miss her smiling face and wonderful hugs at all of the family get togethers. She was truly a fighter and her pain has ended!! She is in heaven smiling down and watching over us all each day! We love you and Miss you Monica!!
Tonya Taylor Parks
July 7, 2008
The last time I saw Monica was at Heather Hinton wedding and that last memory of her is what I want to remember of her. She was so beautiful as usual and so full of life and so happy she told me that day that her boyfried was playing golf that day and that is why he was not there so I never got to meet him but I know that he has to be a special man to go through what he has been through. I have thought of her many times over the weekend and it just seems so unfair to me but I have to keep reminding myself that things happen for a reason. I have known Monican since I was a little girl we played softball together and we went to school together. I will miss her more than I could ever imagine and my heart goes out to her family especially, MQ, Brenda, Paula and Mary Kay. You are in my prayers and my continous thought daily because you still have a strugle to go through.
Patricia Wagner
July 7, 2008
Mr and Mrs Umphlett, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you in the loss of your daughter, Monica. I cannot imagine having to lay to rest a child. The only comfort is knowing she was a fighter, a wonderful warm and loving woman. I know you have been through alot with her and she is definitely in a better place with the suffering over. God bless you, your family and Dan.
Courtney Mitchell
July 7, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Please know that Monica is in a wonderful place and looking down on all of you.
Gwen Lassiter
July 7, 2008
My heart and prayers go out of all of Monica's family and loved ones. Monica was a beautiful person inside and out. She was always a great joy to be around. She was an amazing person with a very big heart. Monica, you will be dearly missed!!
Kelly (Parker) Weymouth
July 7, 2008
I remember Monica's sense of humor back in high school. She could make anyone laugh. I am very sad to hear of her passing. My deepest feelings of sympathy go to her family and friends. It seems only yesterday we were in high school and she was playing volleyball with my sister. Time goes by too quickly. God Bless.
Chris Arthur
July 7, 2008
Monica was truly a wonderful person. To my parents she was a daughter, to my wife and I a sister and friend, and to my son a playmate and aunt. We will miss her greatly and take comfort knowing we will see her again one day!!
Lisa Mitchell- Bus 29
July 7, 2008
I had the pleasure of taking Ms. Umphlett and her class on a field trip to the bowling center. We had a blast. That was the first time I met her and she was just so wonderful with her kids. She sat and talk to me for a while, and her smile just brighten the whole center. She will be missed dearly here. I know God had a wonderful plan for her and she saw it thru. God bless you all and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Amanda Ramirez
July 7, 2008
Monica was truly the kind of person who makes you thankful for each and every moment! She had an electric personality that drew people close to her! The few times I was able to see Monica with her students it was evident that she had a genuine love for people!! Despite their varying needs and disabilities (abilities!) Monica loved each of them and treated them with the respect and care they truly deserved! She was so full of life and energy regardless of the many trials and battles her body was going through! I remember going to visit Monica at her house once she had gotten sick and feeling scared as I rang the door bell, like I was going to take one look at her and be broken because of how sick the cancer had made her, and then I remember taking one look at her face and seeing her big smile! And hearing her joke about how happy she was despite her circumstances! She was so alive when so many of other people would have been broken down and defeated, she was truly a survivor! She fought such a good fight! The last time I spoke to her on the phone I remember feeling so amazed by how she would ask me how I was feeling? Or how I was doing?? I just felt so honored and amazed that someone with some many things going on would care about me or wonder about my minor day to day “problems”… but that is exactly who Monica was to so many people! She worried about people when truly she was the one who needed everyone else the most! I didn’t get a chance to say goodbye to Monica. There were so many times in mid-June when I just wanted to stop by her home but so often I felt like Monica (and especially her family) had so many other people visiting and I never wanted to be in the way … so it goes without saying that there is one thing I truly wanted to say to Monica that I never got to say…….. On July 3rd 2007 our son was born and had a great deal of difficulties … after our weeks in and out of the hospital I remember feeling so broken and then Monica came by the house to see us and Orion (our son) and to bring us a gift from her and Daniel and I remember feeling like ‘who am I to complain??’ Monica showed me that regardless of circumstances every single day is a gift, being able to have a child regardless of trials involved was a gift (one Monica couldn’t know) and I just remember seeing her with Orion and feeling so blessed to know a person who posses so much strength and courage. We all say not to take life for granted but most of us do… Monica you showed me in a very real and life changing way that every moment is gift from God and that we should never take any of it for granted or complain or worry because we are just fortunate to be here... I wish I could have told Monica that through her ultimate trial she taught me (and so many others) how to not give up! To Monica’s friends, and family and so many others who knew her better than I can even imagine especially Daniel, her parents, siblings, and close friends YOU ARE TRULY IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS! As I am sure you know Monica is truly in a better place, and although that will never change how much it hurts to not have her in this place she will never be far from anyone hearts and memories! She was and will remain a beautiful and exceptional person who we are all better to have known!
With much sincerity and sympathy,
Amanda Ramirez (and Brian Myers and Orion!)
…Orion turned 1 on July 3rd …I truly feel like Monica is his special angel!!
Brooks White
July 6, 2008
As many have already said Monica was a wonderful, caring, and loving person. She will be missed by all but not forgotten. Monica was a wonderful friend to all she came in contact with. It seems like it was just yesterday that we graduated from high school and would see each other on campus at ECU. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family! We love you Monica!
April Griffin
July 6, 2008
Dear Umphlett family and Daniel:
I got the pleasure to meet Miss Monica at Lynchburg Oncology where I work. She was a very sweet woman with alot of hopes and dreams. I am very sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can ever do, please don't hesitate to contact me. Take care.
Kenneth & Sandra Bryant
July 6, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family of Monica. We are neighbors of Daniel and Monica and were praying for Monica through our choir prayer group before we knew she was the same young lady who lived down from us. She always had such a positive attitude and for that we were so blessed.
Crystal Legg Helmkamp
July 6, 2008
Monica, you brought so much joy and happiness to everyone that you came into contact with. You certainly brought that same happiness to me. I will forever cherish the memories and impact you made on my heart. Your strength has given me courage when I needed it, even when you didn't know it. I will continue to pray for Daniel and your family.
Cindy Blevins
July 6, 2008
I was so blessed to know Monica and her wonderful work with her kids.
She had a special place in her heart for those kids and a big smile for them each day. Her children will always have a special place in their heart for Ms. Umphlett. I would look forward to seeing her myself everyday. Monica was a very strong , couragious woman with a heart of gold and a smile to light up the world. She did not let this illness get her down. She was a fighter. To the family and to each one of us that new Monica, it is comforting to know that she is no longer in pain. My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone that has been touched by Monica's wonderful spirit. I will miss her greatly. The Lord just recieved a beautiful Angel.
Crystal Rountree
July 5, 2008
Monica was a blessing to all who met her! She was beautiful person inside and out. I have the upmost respect for her because no matter what she was going through she always managed to stay positive. I will miss her beautiful smile and her since of humor. Through myspace I was able to catch up with her after 5 years. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. God know best.
Arlette Lambert
July 5, 2008
I remember Monica being the little sister that I never had. It seems like only yesterday I was riding the bus to Mary Kay and Monica's house where we would play kickball in the front yard, ride bikes, or play monkey in the middle in the living room. I also recall an early morning trip to Richmond to see Santa Claus come down the chimney at Miller & Rhodes Department Store. Awww, the good ol' days...what I wouldn't give to see those days again. But time marches on and so must we. I only hate that we all have to march through the rest of our time here without Monica.
I know she fought the good fight and now it is time for Monica to rest. I hope the family finds comfort in knowing that she is at peace now.
My deepest sympathy to the family. May God touch and bless your family the way Monica blessed our lives.
Jessica Negri
July 5, 2008
What more can I say about Monica that hasn't already been said? I am so sad that I will never see her smile again, but at least I have the wonderful memories that we created over the years. I will truly miss my friend, but I am at truly relieved that she is suffering no more. I send my deepest condolences to her family and my heart aches for your loss. I will always love you Monica.
Shelley Andrews
July 5, 2008
Monica was a very special friend to me. She always impressed me because she was real. Monica was proud of who she was and where she came from. I am proud of her! She accomplished sooo much in such a short time. I am so thankful to have been a part of her life. She made me a better person and she will be greatly missed by my entire family.
Jessica Hannell
July 5, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to Monica's family, Daniel & "mr jingles" She always had a smile on her face when she would come into the clinic for her pup- she will be missed.
July 5, 2008
My God comfort you all. She is now a beautiful angel looking down on all of you.
Terri McPaters
Lynchburg General
4th fl Oncology
Carrie Norman
July 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers with all of Monica's family. She was a very special woman who touched many lives. I enjoyed working with Monica while I worked at RHS. She will be greatly missed.
Becky Davis
July 5, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know she is in a better place. But, that doesn't ease the pain for all of you. She was a very special young lady and she seemed so happy everytime I saw her. She always had postive outlook. It's so hard to believe she is gone.She will always be in everyone thoughts.Again, I am so sorry and I will still keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Travis, Stephanie & Savannah Riddick
July 5, 2008
As everyone has already wrote, it cannot be said enough. Monica was such a wonderful person. She was also a joyful and caring person. She is going to be greatly missed by so many. Our thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.
Sarah Owens
July 5, 2008
Dearest Umphlett & Arthur Family,
My heart goes out to you all at this time of loss. Monica was what every person should strive to be. Beautiful, funny, warm hearted, patient, loving, tolerant, out~going, strong and vivacious. Her smile stuck with you whether you met her once or saw her every day. Just the thought of her grin warms my heart. I hope you all find peace and some of her strength. Daniel I am so sorry buddy.
Cheryl Davis
July 5, 2008
As I read all of these entries I wander what to say because everythig is all so true about Monica. Everyone who had the blessing of knowing her knew that she was special. I will always love her and cherish the many memories I have of her. My love and prayers for Daniel and all of her family. I know how close she was to her mom, dad and sisters and can only imagine their pain. God has chosen his angel and I feel comfort knowing that she is safe and happy again in his arms. I will never forget you Monica!
Ashley Edwards
July 5, 2008
Monica has touched and inspired so many people in her life it just does not seem fair that she won't continue to live out her dreams here on earth. I have no doubt that she is in a much better place and we will meet again someday. I will always remember her amazing personality, infectious laugh and carefree spirit and forever praise her courage and determination through her struggles. Monica will always be in our thoughts and forever in our hearts. All my prayers and love go out to all of the family.
Bill Taylor
July 5, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the family of Monica. I was one of Paula's classmates in high school. I have two sisters, and would be devestated if I was to lose one of them. My thoughts,prayers, and best wishes go out to the family. Love, Bill Taylor
Joanna Moore Oxendine
July 5, 2008
As a child, I always loved the days Miss Brenda took "the crew" to gymnastics because it meant I got to play with Monica. She was always so much fun, so lively, so funny...Growing up in Gates County, it's hard NOT to befriend everyone, but Moncia would've done that anywhere, and she DID. She was just that kind of person, the kind of person who lights up every heart in the room without even trying. She will be missed by every person who came into contact with that light...My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kelly Riddick Gold
July 5, 2008
I, too, had not seen Monica since high school and only learned two weeks ago that she was fighting for her life. I have incredibly vivid memories of riding the bus with Monica every day--she made me laugh so hard that my face hurt! She was so feisty and bright--just a lovely person to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Monica's family and friends at this difficult time. I am glad to know she is at peace.
Sarah Luvender
July 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers have been with your family constantly over the past year. Now, you are hopefully comforted to know Monica is finally healthy and smiling down on us. I have so many happy memories of Monica as a child, teenager, and adult....all including that big, beautiful smile and sunny personality. I enjoy reminiscing on all the fun ways Mary, Monica, my brother and I would entertain ourselves when we were kids. :) Monica was always so fun to be with! She has touched so many lives and will be greatly missed.
Robin Brown
July 5, 2008
Monica was a joy to everyone who knew her. She will be missed greatly by everyone. I will always remember all the great laughs and times shared with her. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Umphlett family, Daniel, and to Christy. Monica you are truely an angel who will never be forgotten!!!
Carol Dorsey
July 5, 2008
I only knew Monica through the few times that we encountered each other in high school or bypassed each other at ECU but when I did see her she was so vibrant and full of joy. I am so saddened to hear that she is gone but am relieved that she is pain free now and is in such a better place. She certainly will be missed by all her family and friends. I will keep you all in my prayers!
Molly Adams
July 5, 2008
Monica was truely an exceptional person. I had the privelege to watch her turn from a free-spirited teenager, to an exploring ECU student, into a remarkable and talented woman. Monica was like my second daughter and Christy's only sister. The bond between them and me will never be broken, even now. Monica's battle with cancer only showed what an exceptional woman she really was. Her strength, courage, and sacrifice seemed effortless, but we all knew it wasn't. She continued to live life to the fullest, even when she knew her time here would be shorten. That showed all of us what she was made of. Her time here was short, but will always be remembered and truly loved. She will always be my "Monicow" to me and deeply missed.
Shamika Houpe (Elliott)
July 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Monica. Monica was truly a wonderful, caring and amazing person. I am very blessed to have known Monica and to have her as a friend. If there is anything that I can do to assist the family during this time please let me know.
Terry Wright
July 5, 2008
What a beautiful write up and picture for a beautiful lady....inside and out. Monica was truly an angel who touched soooo many and I am blessed to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tiffany Clark
July 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are w/ Monica's family and fiance. Tiffany Clark RN-BSN-OCN 4 East Oncology LGH
joe king
July 5, 2008
I just wanted to say that i am sorry for your loss and my prayers for the family.I went to high school and graduated with her. She was nice and caring person loved life and fun to be around.She will be missed by everyone including me.I will miss u Monica
Joseph Umphlett
July 5, 2008
I'm glad your at peace now and I'm sure your watching over us all.
Jasmine Stallings Roach
July 5, 2008
Dear Umphlett Family and Daniel:
My heart breaks for you. I just do not have the words to express to you how sorry I am. I have so many childhood memories through being in Greenville with Monica that I will cherish forever. I know it must seem so unfair, but this was God's plan and she has gone to be an Angel. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. Mary, I would love to reconnect with you, please let me know if there is anything I can do for you in Raleigh. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Morgan McGuire
July 4, 2008
Monica was such a bright and vivacious person who touched so many lives and brought so much joy everywhere she went. Her courage and strength only grew every day and she was such a fighter. She will be missed every second of every day but she is smiling down at all of us, sharing her warmth and love.
Joan Hunter
July 4, 2008
Brenda, M.Q., Paula, Mary K and Dan. As I thinking of what to say, my God, so many memories, from coached pitch, through high school, softball, my left hander, that i could allways count on for that base hit, remember "shoot the moon" seems like yesterday. She was Megan's hero, and Meg sure wore all of her cloths. Then that smile, that laughter, thats what i will allways see when i think of her. Just know my thoughts and prayers are with you, and i love you all.
David Broglin
July 4, 2008
Monica was more than an in-law...she was my sister. She will be carried on in our memories, hearts, thoughts, and prayers. She was loved and will be missed by myself and many others. I can only hope and pray that we will meet again one day!
Mary Broglin
July 4, 2008
Missing my little sis and one of the best friends a girl could ask for. She was my hero, so strong, sweet, and smart. She followed her dreams and inspired me in so many ways. I will miss talking to her every night and catching up on each others' day; and knowing that she would be there for me no matter what if I called on her. I am so sad that this earth had to lose her so early, but glad that she is healthy and happy once again. I will just hold on to the fact that we will meet again someday.
Traci Pierce
July 4, 2008
To Monica's family...my heart goes out to all of you. I only knew Monica for short time but loved her from the first time I met her. I would love to tell her thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your sister with me. I have never had such a bestest friend. Monica was an inspiritation to all of us for the fight that she fought. Thank you for making such an impression on my heart that I will never forget. It was truly a blessing to know someone as dear as you. You touched more people than you will ever know and we are lucky to have been able to have known an angel on Earth. Love and prayers to Paula, My Squirrel, Mom and Dad Umphlett, Mary and David, and Dan. I love you all.
Cherylaine & Tyrone Butler
July 4, 2008
We share in your pain and sorrow that you feel for the loss of Monica. Her suffering is over now and her new eternal life with Christ begins. We will truly miss Monica but I know, one day we will see her again. Our prayers are with her fiance', her family, and all of her friends.
Kyleen Michael Burgess
July 4, 2008
Although I haven't seen Monica since we graduated high school, I have always had found memories of her. I enjoyed playing softball every summer with her family. She was a beautiful person who will be missed. She is in a better place now watching over all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with her family, friends and Dan.
Rick Templeton
July 4, 2008
Dan, I was so sorry to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and Monica's family. If there is anything at all we can do for you, please do not hesitate to call.
Demetria Jones (Eure)
July 4, 2008
My prayers are with the family and friends of Monica. She and I were good friends in High School and have continued to communicate though email since graduating. She will truly be missed. My best memories are hanging out with her after school, while waiting for our basketball games to begin. Monica is now in a better place! We all must continue to pray and trust God!
Donna Sills
July 4, 2008
Monica's life and death has affected so many people. I wonder if she realized how special she was or what an impact she had on every person that ever knew her. No matter how many miles or how long it's been since you saw her, you knew that love or bond with her hadn't changed a bit. That's just how genuine Monica was. You never had to question it. She more than lit up a room, she would light up your life when you were around her. My heart goes out to her family and to Daniel. She will be missed dearly and it doesn't seem fair, but she has a spot in Heaven and we should all be secure in that. We love you Monica. We will see you again one day and never have to let go of you again!
Deborah Bobbitt
July 4, 2008
We would like to express our sympathy to the family of Monica. We only knew her a short time but she was a very important member of our Relay Family. We will surely miss her and continue to fight now even harder to see that cancer does not take another loved one from us too soon. May God Bless all her friends and family and feel free to contact us if we can do anything to help you.
Deborah Bobbitt and Relay For Life East
Shelley Clowdis
July 4, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Monica's family and friends.
Stevie and Billie Jo Flythe
July 4, 2008
our thoughts and prayers are with your family
Kelly Outland
July 4, 2008
Monica was a fun, wonderful, and caring person who loved life. I feel lucky to have known her. She was always a good friend to me through the years. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. She will be dearly missed, but never forgotten. She should be an inspiration to us all. Find peace in knowing that she is no longer suffering.
Beth Cutler
July 4, 2008
Monica brought so much joy to everyone that knew her. She had a way of bringing you up when you were down. Monica you are going to be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Stacy Horton
July 4, 2008
Monica aka Mo I will never forget the good times me, you, mary kay, mrs. brenda aka mom (best coach ever) and MQ had playing ball. They are memories I will never forget and I remember them like yesterday but now you are in a better place and we will meet again one day. Much love and prayers to the entire family.
Chantel & Terrance Holley
July 4, 2008
We are truely sorry for your loss. Monica was such a wonderful person that brought much love, joy, and happiness to everyone and everything that was lucky enough to be in her presence. Although we all will miss her greatly, it is reassuring to know that she is now at peace and watching over us. If there is anything that we can do to assist you during this time please do not hesistate to call upon us.
Debbie Martin
July 4, 2008
Our Prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this time. May our Lord and Savior bring you strength and with this strength, you will find PEACE. With our Love, Debbie Martin (Michael) and Mrs. Celia Eure Foutz
Nancy & Larry Hedgepeth
July 4, 2008
Our prayers and deep condolences goes out to the family and friends of Monica. May she rest peacefully in god's arms.
Picture from 1995. What a crew:)
Stacey Harris
July 4, 2008
Monica was a special and loving soul to say the least. She was so fun and happy all the time. I know she struggled through this battle and she is finally at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with MQ, Mrs. Brenda, Paula, Lauren, Mary Kay, David, and Daniel through this hard time. She will be sorely missed by everyone. Love, Stacey Harris and family.
Meegan Reynolds
July 4, 2008
My heart goes out to Daniel, the Umphlett family, and to all friends and family of Monica. She was such a wonderful person & I'm privileged to have gotten to know her and call her a friend. She was so brave and positive in the face of something so terrifying. I will never forget her or the love that I witnessed between her and the love of her life, Daniel. She impacted many lives and all of us will miss her terribly. She was a blessing to her kids she taught & I'm sure they will not soon forget the kindness and love she showed them. I am so very sorry for your loss, but she is not in any pain anymore & hopefully that will bring some much needed comfort. God Bless you all.
Korey Lawlis
July 4, 2008
Monica, you will be greatly missed. You were always smiling, laughing, courageous, helpful, kind, singing "froggy" songs to little children and always willing to listen. Anyone and everyone who ever had the privilege to meet you is a better person for it. I'm sending much love to your family and friends during this difficult time. We all know you are happy and in a better place, however, we still miss you. We love you and are glad you are at peace!
Cathy, Kenny, Caitlyn and Austin Coats
July 4, 2008
Our prays are with Monica's family and friends. Monica you will truly be missed and loved.
Paula Wilder
July 4, 2008
Monica was the best little sister to me and aunt to my little girl...she was a fighter and she loved life...she loved her family in Lynchburg as much as her biological family in North Carolina...we will all miss her and we love her dearly...
Raven Spence
July 4, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with your family and Daniel. You are very loved and will be missed greatly. You're in a better place now sweet angel!
Daniel and Wendy Harrell
July 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with Daniel, Mary, Paula, MQ, Brenda and all Monica's family and friends. Monica was such a great person! She will truely be missed!! We love you Monica!
Marvin and Geri Wise
July 4, 2008
We were very saddened to hear of your daughters passing. We know that this has been a very long and hard journey for your family. You are and will be in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
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