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Mary Szubzda Obituary

SZUBZDA - Mary C., of Bethpage. Died tragically on August 7, 2008. Beloved wife of the late Henry. Adoring and loving mother of Joanne and Diane Sandler and mother-in-law of Steven. Cherished Gamma and Nana to Stephanie and Jonathan. Beloved daughter of Mildred and the late Abthony Papasidero. Adored sister of Angela Schweighardt, Barbara Sala and Anthony Papasidero Jr. and loved Godmother of Melissa and Sara Papasidero. Visitation at Arthur F. White Funeral Home Inc, 234 Broadway, Bethpage, Sunday and Monday 2-5 and 7-9:30pm. Funeral Mass Tuesday 10:45am at St. Martin of Tours R.C. Church. Interment at the Holy Road Cemetery, Westbury.

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Published by Newsday on Aug. 10, 2008.

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Diane Sandler

August 6, 2009

August 7, 2009

Oh mom, 1 year ago today. How could this be real? The grief and sorrow are felt as much today as they were a year ago. It still doesn't seem to be a reality. We miss you more than any words could ever say. You were the most precious and loving person ever to live. We miss your smile, laugh, hugs and love you showed us each and every day. The pain is unmeasurable. The only condolence we feel is that you are with daddy...your soulmate and true love. Never to be parted again. I know how much you suffered without him, but it still wasn't your time. You shouldn't have been taken so soon, so tragically. You will never be forgotten...you will forever be remembered and loved for eternity. Until we see you again, all our love comes to you and daddy today and everyday of our lives. All our love mommy, Diane, Joanne, Steve, Stephanie and Jonathan

Angela Schweighardt

September 25, 2008

We miss you every single day. We miss your kind and gentle way of making everything okay. You always shared your unique kindness with everyone who touched your life. Our only comfort is knowing with certainty that you are once again united with your soulmate - your wonderful and loving husband, Henry; and that you are at peace together in heaven. You have gone from this earth leaving a wonderful legacy - your two beautiful and sweet daughters and your two precious grandchildren. You will always be my big sister. With much love.

Joanne Baldorossi-McCann

August 13, 2008

We attended the viewing on Sunday. I was so sad for the family. I can't imagine Diane and Joanne losing both parents at such a young age. Aunt Mildred, my godmother, is so special to me. My heart breaks for her to have to bury her daughter. Mary was a beautiful person inside and out. I have many fond memories of visiting Aunt Mildred's house and Mary and Henry and the kids being there to greet us and making sure they put a big spread out for us. Mary was my first cousin, the oldest of the Yamond cousins. She will be missed sorely. One thing I know for sure is that she is in a good place with her husband and with Uncle Tony. God bless the family as they struggle through this difficult time. I love you all and you are in my heart, my thoughts and prayers.

Uncle Gus Yamond

August 13, 2008

Although over the years our personal contacts may have drifted, my fond memories of our childhood will never drift away. They will always be close to my heart. May God bless the entire Szubzda family for the sudden loss of Mary. May all your fond memories of her be held close to your heart forever.

Michelle McCann

August 13, 2008

My heart and prayers go out to Mary's family. She is my second cousin. Even though I didnt know her well I heard so many great things about her.

Caroline Zebrowski

August 11, 2008

Joanne -
My heart goes out to you and your family at this most trying time in your lives. My prays are with you, may God's love help ease the pain.

Barbara Sala

August 10, 2008

We lost you so tragically and senselessly. We would have given anything to have kept you here with us. The void in our hearts that your absence creates will never be filled again. What it has meant to lose you, God alone will ever know. We will love you always and forevermore.

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