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James R. Hoey

James Hoey Obituary

HOEY - James R., of Fairport, suddenly on August 22, 2008. Survived by his mother Ruth Hoey of Great Neck, NY; his wife Kathleen J. Hoey; daughter Carrie Jayne Hoey; siblings: his twin sister, Jayne (Andrew) Nykolyn of Smithtown, NY, sisters Deborah (Gerry) Mooney of East Hampton, Long Island, NY, Cynthia (Richard) Sharpe of Youngstown, NY, Ellen (Jacques) Steffen of Roslyn, NY, Christine (Kevin) Tharp of Rolla, MO; brothers, Robert E. of Great Neck, NY, Daniel (Jennifer) Hoey of Erie, PA. Predeceased by his father Robert Francis Hoey and younger brother Chief Raymond J. Hoey both of Great Neck, NY. Semi-retired from a 25 year career dedicated to early childhood education, Jim was a role model and mentor to many educators. It was his joy to be a friend to hundreds of children over the years. Though unexpected, Jim Bob is mercifully released from the insurmountable challenges of his disease. Memorials may be made to the American Diabetes Association. Friends may attend his memorial service on Wednesday evening 7:00pm at Prince of Peace Ev. Lutheran Church, 6020 Pittsford-Palmyra Rd. Memorial Mass to be held at St. Aloysius Church in Great Neck, NY. David A. Doser Funeral Home & Cremation Service, 233-9144

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Published by Newsday on Aug. 26, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for James Hoey

24 Entries

kathy hoey

August 22, 2025

The memories you left behind are shared and continue to be a part of our daily lives. You had a big heart, even temper and acceptance of whatever life brought your way. Carrie is very much her father's daughter sharing your outgoing love of others. You would be very proud. We miss you so much and we always will. I am so very thankful for all the Hoey's and their spouses who also keep your spirit alive.

KATHLEEN J HOEY

November 23, 2023

Thanksgiving again today ... the holiday season comes around again. Missing you every minute of every day. The passing years have not eased my sorrow. Wishing you to always RIP.

Your wife in this life, Kathleen Hoey

April 13, 2009

Easter is more important than ever for the hope that your death has brought you a new life in Christ's home with God. Today we acknowledge that Jesus gave us life over death. I know you have a best friend in Jesus as was always the case. I struggle to understand why you had to go on to that new life without me, so suddenly and so early. I love you in death as in life although my heart will always be broken and I suffer without you. I miss you so much. Happy Easter, Jim Bob. We will never forget the happy man you were and the love of life you showed to all. Carrie truly is the embodiment of your philosophy perpetuating the happiness and positive way you always saw the world. You do live on through her.

James R. Hoey

September 21, 2008

Penny Milsted

September 9, 2008

I am truly saddened by the news of Jim's passing. I worked with him at RGIS Inventory Specialists. I found him to be a great team-member and an all around great person.
Though it may be difficult now, but rest assured that each day will be less sorrowful and his memory will endure for years to come.

Charles Jenkins

September 4, 2008

To Kathy and the entire Hoey family, Jimmy was a great person and he will be truly missed. I am very sad today, and although I haven't see him in a long time there is a hole in my heart. Thank God for the memories.

Kerry Smith

September 3, 2008

I was saddened t hear of Jim's passing. I grew up with him and he was one of my childhood playmates. We spent many years playing baseball in his Aunt's yard and trick or treating on Halloween.

May he rest in the hands of the lord for all of the good work he did in life deserves nothing less.

Rest in peace my childhood buddy.

Kerry Smith

Jaenle Moreland

September 1, 2008

Jim will be sadly miss he helped me alot with my cda, I really had fun working with him at ST. Pauls,all the jokes he had and laughter,a great person , my kids liked him also miss you my friend

CHARLES SMITH

August 30, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Alicia Rouse

August 28, 2008

I'am so very sorry for your loss. Jim was truly a wonderful mentor. He loved working with children and taught me some very valuable lessons. God Bless you all.

John Radford

August 28, 2008

Dear Kathy and Carrie,
I am so sorry to hear you loss and our friend Jim. I have enjoyed spending to with you and Jim and will miss future opportunities to spend time with Jim. Please, let Mary and I know if there is anything we can do to help you out in the coming months.

God bless Jim and I wish you and Carrie all the best in the future.

Love,
John

Gabriella Kaecher

August 28, 2008

Dear Kathy Jo and Carrie,
I am at such a loss for words to comfort you both. I was shocked and in disbelief to learn of Jim's accident. May the memories of your husband and father somehow bring you comfort in the days to come, and may you know the love and support of your family and friends are with you now and always! Please if there is anything at all we can do let us know. We love you both!
Love,
Gabriella (Gaye) and Larry Kaecher

Janet Fagan (Hoey)

August 27, 2008

Dear Kathy & Carrie

My entire family here in Great Neck are truly saddened by the news of Jimmy's untimely passing. Our hearts go out to you and the entire Hoey family in your time of sorrow. If there is any thing we can do please do not hesitate to ask.

peter hoey

August 27, 2008

Dear Kathy & Carrie
I am so sorry for hearing of the passing of Jimmy. Words cannot express my feelings. My prayers go out to you and the family.
With Deepest sympathy
Peter

Jim Nashburn

August 27, 2008

Dear Kathy & Carrie:

Words can't describe the heaviness of heart that Judy, Stevie, Laura, and I have at hearing of the loss of Jim; I can't get over the disbelief and shock at first hearing. We'd like to do so much during this difficult time to help, but know that what is needed the most, we cannot give.

Jesus gives us comforting words when He said in John 14 "1Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. 2In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. 3And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also."

We rest in the blessed assurance of knowing that Jim is in eternal glory, at peace, with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; and we rest in the assurance of knowing that one day, we too will join Jim in God's Kingdom.

Through the struggles our families have faced and the many prayers over the years, you have become dear to my family and loved by us all; for that I will forever be greatful, to you, to Carrie, and especially to Jim.

May you hold fast and find comfort in the peace of Jesus; the peace that passes all understanding.

In His service,

-Jim & Judy

Doris Moran

August 27, 2008

My heart is heavy upon hearing of Jim’s passing. He and I worked together over the years in the ECE field. I always found himto be a staunch advocate for children and for professional development of employees in the field. I personally benefited from his enthusiasm and encouragement as I pursued career credentials. He was a joy to be around and had wit and humor that would make the most trying days easier. May God’s grace be with you all and may you find comfort in knowing that Jim is now in the loving arms of the Father.

Lantz & Jennifer DeRomanis

August 26, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Jim was a very kindhearted person who always had a smile on his face and a kind thing to say. He will be missed. It was a pleasure to work with him at Friendly's.

Maria wheeler

August 26, 2008

We at Friendlys are so sorry to hear about your loss. If there is anything we can do for you or anything that you need, please don't hesitate

Tamika Johnson

August 26, 2008

Kathy and Carrie,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Know that the two of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Jim was a wonderful mentor for me. The early childhood community will not be the same without him.

Chris and Stacey Stralka

August 26, 2008

To the Hoey Family, Chris and I send out deepest condolences at this sorrowful time. Take comfort in knowing that Jimmy is watching over all of you along with Ray and Coogan.

Susan Neel

August 25, 2008

Dear Kathy, Carrie and Family: We are saddened to hear of your loss of Jim/Dad. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers at this most difficult time. We pray for you and we feel your loss. May you find strength and guidance in Gods Love and enternal blessings. With our deepest sympathy.

Peace Be With You~
Sue, Dan, Alyssa and Steven Neel

Lori (Bogden) Mann and Family

August 25, 2008

It is hard to imagine a world without my cousin Jimmy's bright smile and gentle spirit in it. We will all miss him very much. We're so sorry....

Carole & Janelle Snow

August 25, 2008

Kathy & Carrie & Family:
I am so very, very sad for you in your loss. I have been there myself, and my heart goes out to you. May it be some type of consolation to you, that you had the best of the best for the times that you had with him. Some go through life without ever having a good husband and/or a good dad - but you did have the best for as long as he was with you. All of my sympathy, love and prayers.
Carole & Janelle Snow

Jo Rieley Mentz

August 25, 2008

Dear Kathy and Carrie,
It's 12:09 a.m. and I find myself here due to my profound disbelief of the loss of Jim. I know you both know how much he meant to me,my family,all those who were blessed by knowing him. I was out today alone clearing my head and remembering,as I drove I saw a sea gull in the sky up high but not too high going the same direction as me. I knew it was him or his spirit. I watched as it flew for a few blocks and then slowly turned to the North. I felt a peace as if he were saying, go home to your family I going home to my family with God. I'll never forget those few moments and the happiness I knew being Jim's friend.

All my love and prayers,

Jo Rieley Mentz

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