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James O'Connor Obituary

O'CONNOR - James T., of Island Park, NY suddenly on October 3, 2008 in his 58th year. Beloved husband of Linda. Loving father of Loren, and Jaime Lind (Eric). Adored son of Margaret O'Connor and the late John. Loving brother of Jean Donovan (Michael), John (Kathy), Michael (Theresa), Timothy (Eileen), and Mary O'Connor. Also survived by numerous nieces, nephews, and friends. The family will receive friends Sunday and Monday 2-4 and 7-9pm at The Christopher T. Jordan Funeral Home, 302 Long Beach Rd., Island Park, NY. Funeral Mass Tuesday 10am at St. Ignatius Martyr RC Church, Long Beach, NY. Private Cremation. In lieu of flowers, donations to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital 501 St. Jude PL, Memphis, TN 38105-1942 are appreciated. www.JordanFH.com

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Published by Newsday on Oct. 4, 2008.

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Cathy Vasey

October 7, 2008

Dear Linda
I was so sorry to hear about Jimmy. One thing that stands out in my mind was the day of your surprise party. You looked up at him and then at me and said "Isn't he so handsome."
Yes, he was.
And although I was only in your company a handful of times, it was clear that you had a very wonderful relationship.
May God comfort and hold you during this very sad time. You and your girls will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love (Nancy's cousin) Cathy Vasey

Kelly Friedrich

October 6, 2008

Dear Linda, Jaime, Loren and the O'Connor family,
Words cannot express our deep sorrow, and our deepest sympathies to you all, our hearts are broken. Jimmy made the world a little brighter with each smile he smiled, Heaven is now a lot more fun. And although we only knew him a short time in comaprison to many, we feel like we have known him forever and like the minister said at the wake, he had a charm and a way that made everybody feel special. We have so many fond memories of Jimmy, too many to count, all happy ones and all filled with laughter and love. He lived life with passion, and I hope that people learn from his actions. Not only was he always ready with a one liner, he was constantly there for you, a great listener and a friend you can talk to. Telling stories of his youth and family, to his favorite movie, to his pride he felt about Jaime and Loren. Both Jimmy and Linda (on separate occassions) visited me in the hospital when I was sick, he and Linda both said it was no big deal, but it was and is. He was that kind of guy, with love, values and class. He will be missed, and we loved him and love your family.
Love, Kelly and Drew

Kevin Gilmartin

October 5, 2008

Linda and Family, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Even though I hadn't seen Jim in a while, when we would see each other, he had that way of making you feel like you were his best friend. He was warm, funny, and genuinely a good man. I am truly sorry.

Annie and Jimmy O'Neil

October 5, 2008

We are so very sorry for your loss. Jimmy was one of the nicest, funniest, most kind-hearted guys around. So many laughs together!! We just wish there was something we could do to ease the pain for you and the girls. We will always keep you in our paryers.

Mark Murray

October 4, 2008

I could not be more sorry for your loss. I will miss him dearly especialy the Yankee Redsox banter we had.I am just a call away if you need anything at all. I miss all of you very much. Love Mark

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