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John Griffis Obituary

GRIFFIS - John D., 60, of Florida, formerly of Lindenhurst, died unexpectedly on Thursday, October 30, 2008. Beloved husband of Janet Griffis; father of, Julie and Jason Griffis, brother of Margaret Sweetser-Flynn, Sarah Drouin, Nancie Prisco and Mary Morlock. Funeral liturgy at 10am on Monday, at St. Vincent de Paul Church Cobleskill, NY. Visitation on Sunday from 4 to 7pm at Mereness-Putnam Funeral Home, 171 Elm St. Cobleskill. Visit www. merenessputnamfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Newsday on Nov. 1, 2008.

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The good times John and I DJ at the Fleet Party 2004

Mark Page

October 26, 2019

Here's a memory of John and I trying our best at being DJ's. We had a blast, you are missed my Friend.

October 28, 2009

D,
I miss you so. I can't wait until we are together again.

Sister dearest

margaret

October 27, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Jason Griffis

October 27, 2009

Pappy....
Its almost a year now. Never a day goes by that we dont think of you. So much has changed. You now have 3 grandsons who love hearing stories about you. You have a 4 month old grand daughter who is so adorable. Thanks for sending them to me. Love ya Dad! Jason

Jason Griffis

November 12, 2008

Pappy, You broadened my horizons. You showed me so many different things like ham radio and cars. Even though you are not here anymore, you are always in my heart. I'll always miss you.

Love Jason

Brian Solomon

November 7, 2008

John,
I enjoyed all of our interactions. My thoughts are with you. You are missed. Rest well.

margaret Flynn

November 6, 2008

D,
You had to be first at everything! Why wasn't I there to trip you like I always did? D, what am I to do? you are my beloved baby bro. Wait for me and don't mess up the room God has for me!(i know mine is better than yours!!!) Sleep well sweet prince.

I love you so,

Sister dearest

James Carson

November 3, 2008

Dave,
Your passing came as quite a shock. Although we drifted apart for a while I often have thought about you and all our antics.May God keep you in his grasp and rest in peace.
My sympathies to Janet and the kids.
I will always remember you.
Regards,
Jim and Helene Carson

Mark & Katherine Page

November 2, 2008

John, I have lost a great friend and coworker, our many time together at our houses and our fine dining expierences will never be forgotten. Your love for music and fast cars and just bout anything that had wheels is second to none. I will think of you often and the great times we had together, you will never be forgotten. Rest in peace my friend.

Jeffrey Phillips

November 2, 2008

John, We worked together for many years, and of course it wasn't nearly enough. Your exuberant personality was more than welcome, it was downright contagious.

Thank you for your service to our country and for making every night we worked together an unforgettable experience. You will be sorely missed, and I wish the best for your family in these trying times.

Steven Horton

November 2, 2008

John, thanks for all the fun times we had talking about cars, our family's and Life in General.....Peace be with you ... rest my friend....

Robert Stewart

November 1, 2008

John, Thanks for all the times you made me laugh till my sides hurt. You made 2nd shift at Fleet Bank a bit more bearable. Sorry to see you go, I'll miss you. We'll see you again before you know it.

Aimee Palombaro

November 1, 2008

We will miss you Uncle David...

Toby Seguin

November 1, 2008

You will be missed John, One of my best and only friends. One more sk... Warmest regards to your family, Your friend, Toby Seguin KC2JRF

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