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T.J. McNamee Obituary

McNAMEE - T.J. (Terence Joseph, aka Taylor J. Marris), formerly of Hempstead, on Oct. 8, 2007 in Colorado. Beloved son of Sally Taylor and Francis J. McNamee, Sr. Stepson of Stefan Cukierski. Brother of Kathleen, Chris, Frank, Tim, Kelly, Dan and Colleen. Brother-in-law, nephew, uncle, cousin, and friend to many. Cremation private. Memorial service and interment of ashes, Sunday, Oct. 28, 12 noon at St. James Church, 220 West Penn Street, Long Beach, NY 11561.

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Published by Newsday on Oct. 25, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for T.J. McNamee

Sponsored by his mother, Sally Taylor.

31 Entries

Kevin

June 4, 2021

I just came across this notice when I was wondering what TJ was up to. I am sad that TJ is gone and has been gone so long. I worked with him in the mid-1990s. I remember his smile. A good man.

October 9, 2014

Yesterday marked 7 years since you left. I think of you every day my son. I love you. Mom

Angelo D'Esposito

September 22, 2014

Was going through some photos and found one of us from our days at St Martha's and wanted to tell you I was thinking about you and your family. Til we meet again TJ....

Barbara Stamatia

April 9, 2014

Was T.J. a pilot?

July 22, 2011

February 9, 2009

Still think of you every day.

November 13, 2008

TJ, it's sad knowing you're not out there somewhere, being happy, working, enjoying life. I think of you often.
Kathleen

Baby TJ

June 4, 2008

Please View Photo Album - IN MEMORY OF TJ

Rita Olivas

June 2, 2008

I've posted these pictures
IN MEMORY OF TJ - It's been almost 8 months since you left us. I think of you daily and I miss you so very much! Even though you couldn't free yourself from your burden's, I want you to know that you won Tim's freedom after 10 years. He is forever grateful to you. Keep an eye on us Buddy.

Looking good TJ!

June 2, 2008

TJ before shedding his baby fat

June 2, 2008

TJ - The filmaker at Rocky Mountain National Park

June 2, 2008

TJ with God Daughter in Lakewood, CO.

June 2, 2008

TJ- Handsome and Charming

June 2, 2008

Early years in Colorado with Godson

June 2, 2008

TJ celebrating a birthday

June 2, 2008

The perfect picture of the TJ we knew and loved.

June 2, 2008

TJ with his Godson in Colorado

June 2, 2008

Debbie Cernuto (Lutz)

January 23, 2008

I was close to TJ when we were little on Lincoln Rd in Hempstead. He was alot of fun and always made me laugh. My prayers go out to his family

Theresa Beavers

November 7, 2007

I had the pleasure of knowing Taylor,(TJ) for seven years as he lived at the community I manage.
Taylor was always pleasant, and made a point to stop by and visit with myself and our staff.
He loved spending time at the pool, and made friends easily.
I would like to offer my heartfelt sympathies to his family and friends.
I will miss his smile and our visits.

Julio Alvarado

November 5, 2007

To His Family: I offer my support and prayers in this time. I was blessed to have TJ as a friend over twenty years ago and I will never forget his warmth and attention. My prayers to all.

Sally Taylor

November 3, 2007

To all who sign the guest book for TJ. Please know that the family appreciates all your messages. As his mother, I'm happy TJ is remembered with such affection.

Eileen Stein (O'Neil)

November 3, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Thomas Approbato

November 2, 2007

My deepest condolences go to TJ's family. I am sorry for your loss and although no words may bring you comfort at this time please know that your loss is shared by many others.

Take care and God Bless

Scott Levine

October 28, 2007

My condolences to the McNamee family, I'm sorry to learn of your loss. T.J. will be missed.

Peter Morley

October 28, 2007

To the McNamee family:

Please accept my condolences. I'm glad that I knew him.

Michael Rohdin

October 28, 2007

Ah, T.J., I will miss you. You mattered to me.

Rita Olivas

October 28, 2007

To my best friend TJ.
For the first time in my life I'm speechless. I remember all the talks and laughs we had over the years. Your laugh and big smile will always be embedded in my memories of you. There are so many wonderful memories that I will hold dear to my heart. For as long as I knew you I remember you HAD to get a haircut every 10 days without fail! I'm sure your barber misses you dearly. I smile when I think of the first time you were in the hospital and I didn't recognize you because you hadn't had your 10 day haircut. I told you- OH TJ you would just die if you could see your hair right now! Even though it hurt you to laugh, you laughed your butt off! That was the first time I seen you laugh in months.
I remember staying up all night talking to you too. You cried on my shoulders so many many times. I still feel the pain. Although there are so many questions left unanswered I will always have fond memories of you.
You can finally rest in peace My Friend...
Love always,

Rita Olivas

P.S. Save us a spot in Heaven!

Mitchekl Bridgford

October 25, 2007

The story I remember about T.J. is a funny one. He used to tell us that he didn't "come out" to his parents, but that his mother told him, "T.J., you're gay." Seems to me like a mother always knows her child, but in this case, no one could know what he was thinking. You will be missed, and will always be remembered. For that matter, You are eternal.

Mitchell

TJ and Jesse, 1993

October 25, 2007

Andrew Martin

October 25, 2007

Oh, TJ. I am so, so sorry that this is what had to reunite us. I know we'll always feel the glory of your boundless spirit beside us, and when we remember your glorious face it will be with happiness and not sorrow. Go with God, my dear old friend.

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