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Benny Abbatiello Obituary

ABBATIELLO - Benny, 56, of Wading River, NY on November 20, 2007. Beloved husband of Patricia. Loving father of Benjamin and his wife Kristen and Joseph. Devoted son of Rose and the late Anthony Abbatiello, and dear brother of Anthony Abbatiello, Martha Guerra, Rose Bruswitz and Carol DeLaurentis. Reposing 7-9PM Wednesday, 2-4 and 7-9PM Friday, Alexander-Tuthill Funeral Home, 6447 Rt. 25A, Wading River. www.alexandertuthillfuneralhome.com Funeral Mass 9:45AM Saturday, St. Brigid's RC Church, Westbury. Interment Holy Rood Cemetery. Memorial donations requested to the American Cancer Society.

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Published by Newsday on Nov. 21, 2007.

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Pamela Brodhead Kimbell

December 29, 2007

My deepest sympathy to you, Patty, and your family. I would have written sooner, but I just found out. I, too, remember Benny with a smile. God bless you all. My prayers are with you.

Jason Hoeft

November 30, 2007

Our deepest symapthy's from the entire team here at King-Hughes Fasteners. Benny was a truely great man, and he will be greatly missed here. Even in the height of his battle, he always brought a ray of sunshine to my day. He remained positive and made sure no one felt any sorrow for him when he was really hurting. We wish the best for the family and offer our prayers in these troubled times.

Tom Flamino

November 29, 2007

My deepest condolences go out to Benny's family. I remember him from high school as one of the nicest guys, always friendly and smiling. He will always be remembered in our hearts and will be watching over his family from above.

ANDERSON WARNER

November 27, 2007

I NEW OF YOU SUCH A LITTLE TIME, YOU WERE A BIG TEDDY BEAR. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAIMLY.

Marie Rother

November 26, 2007

I was so sad to hear about Bennys' passing.Carey Finn was gracious enough to pass this site on to me .As I told him ,Although I had not seen Benny since Newfield days I remember him as a sweetheart,Handson with dark hair and always a quick smile .My condolences to his dear wife and his Family .Marie Rother

Joy Sepe Wurm

November 26, 2007

My heartfelt and deepest sympathies to Patty and her children and Benny's family. I will always remember Benny's adorable smile, He was always a friendly, sweet guy in High School and I know he was a wonderful family man and friend as an adult.
I hope happy memories will carry Patty and his family through this most difficult and sad time.

Judy Wise

November 26, 2007

I will remember the sweetness that was Benny for a very long time. He was always a good listener! My deepest sympathies to Patty and their children.

Stu and Kathy Silberman

November 25, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Patty. Benny will always have a special place in our hearts. God Bless.

Benny. One last time together, if only in spirit, we salute you. R. I. P., friend.

November 24, 2007

Rosemary Farina Ekvall

November 24, 2007

My thoughts are with you Patty and your children at this very sad time. I will always remember Benny's cute little chuckle and his smile. I pray that your wonderful memories of Benny will help you thru your grief. Sincerely, Rosemary Farina Ekvall

Joe Seiberlich

November 24, 2007

I remember Benny from our high school days as always having a smile. I hadn't seen him since high school, and I'll bet he still always had a smile. My sympathy and thoughts go out to his family.

Carey Finn

November 23, 2007

Benny had a presence that lit up a room. He always had a smile and one would always expect a friendly or funny comment when Benny spoke. I regret that I couldn't spend time in Benny's company as a grown man. Life and circumstances separated us since our high school days together.
Those days are cherished because of people like Benny that were brief and happy parts of my life. I was thrilled to know that he married Patty Tangel and together they had children and a wonderful life together. To Patty, her children, and to Benny's extended family, my deepest sympathies. I will remember Benny, as will others who met him, as a special and wonderful guy.
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Rita Brusca Schmidt

November 23, 2007

My deepest condolences to Benny's family and friends. We will all miss him. There are many good memories of him that we will all treasure.

Fran La Torre

November 23, 2007

Benny was a wonderful and caring person. I am so sorry to hear that he has passed away. My sympathy goes out to his family.

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