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JOHNSON - Matthew William, of Wantagh, suddenly on December 8, 2007 at the age of 40. He is survived by his loving parents Arthur and Lorraine. Cherished brother of Peter (Veronica). Adored by his niece Meredith. He is loved and missed by his very large family, including his 2 dogs and his cat. Matt enjoyed fishing and marathon running. His family will receive friends on Tuesday and Wednesday from 2-4 and 7-9:30PM at C.S. Bartholomew & Son, Inc. 302 Bedford Ave. Bellmore. Funeral Service Thursday 10AM at the Funeral Home. Interment to follow at Greenfield Cemetery. To make a memorial Contribution in Matt's Memory, please donate to the Ankloysing Spondylitis Association, P.O. Box 5872 Sherman Oaks, CA 91413 (www.spondylitis.org)

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Published by Newsday on Dec. 11, 2007.

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John Miller

January 1, 2008

First I just want to say I am so sorry for the loss of one of the greatest guys I have even met as well as one of the best friends I have ever had. I met Matt back in 1992 when we were both in Briarcliffe College. I helped him with some pain in the neck programming and he returned the favor by helping me get my first job in the IT field. We spent many hours working the night shift complaining about the job and the lack of women in our lives, little did we know that it was the start of a great friendship. Throughout the years we would get together to see a movie or our favorite thing to do together walking from Robert Moses to Ocean Beach, Fire Island. We would walk and talk for hours about everything from politics to the best type of running shoe. Like Matt I have run a few marathons but was never in the great shape he was once in. When we walked on the beach I would see women cheaking him out and I never thought he realized that they were. 8 years ago I got a job for the U.S. government and moved overseas but thought all that I would still call Matt from time to time to B.S. for a few hours. Evertime I was back on Long Island I would meet up with him and we would go to a diner and talk and laugh about current events ands how our lives were doing. It was so sad to see this disease he had, take this once strong man and turn him into a skinny shell of his former self. But anyone who knew Matt knew that he was as tough as nails and would fight back from it. I would say to him on the phone "come on this stuff slows down wimps not Matty J". He would laugh and tell me how much our talks meant to him. I am getting glassy eyed right now thinking about when he told me he loved me and I told him I loved him too. Its funny but I never thought guys should say that to one another until Matt told me that and I felt the same way. I love the man and know that heaven just got a little brighter. I choose to celebrate the life of this fantastic individual I used to call Matty J. and wish everyone does the same.

Carole Moran

December 29, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Peter Johnson

December 29, 2007

To my Dear Beloved Brother Matthew
Words cannot express the pain I am feeling. My heart has been ripped from my chest, never to mend again. I know I will never ever get over losing you in such an untimely fashion. This is not how it was suppose to happen. Me, the beer drinking, cigarette smoking, red meat eating dumb S.O.B. was suppose to go first. What little investments I had, you were beneficiary. My thinking was you were the youngest, the strongest and the most generous. I know you would have distributed it throughout the family, no questions ask.

I’ve have been spoiled these many past years. You being the one living with Mom and me in my relationships. All I needed to do was sit back, knowing full well Matt had it all under control and if he needed me all he had to do was call and I would come running. Just like so many times I needed Matt and he came running.

I will never forget throwing the baseball around on the front yard and telling you we were in the World Series. And you said “Yeah, we’re in the World Seize-eez” Well now that team is one man short, but for the sake of Mom and Dad, I don't plan on losing this game.

James Haynes

December 13, 2007

Mr and Mrs Johnson,

I wanted to take this opportunity to express my sorrow to you at Matt's passing. He was a friend in the truest sense of the word. I met him in 2002 when I began working at Manchester and we quickly formed a close relationship. I spent many good times over the years discussing politics, economics, and history with Matt in addition to our normal IT work. He was always in search of the truth and if he didn't know something offhand as a voracious reader he would quickly find it. His keen sense of what was the right path to take is something I will remember forever.

Donna Messenger

December 13, 2007

Dear Uncle Pete, Aunt Lorriane, and Peter,

I was deeply saddened by the news of Matt's passing. Many years have past since I have seen any of you, but that does not mean I have not thought of you. I hold dear childhood memories of a kind and sweet Matthew. I am so sorry for your loss.

Andrew Norotsky

December 13, 2007

Dear Johnson Family:
I was very saddened to hear of Matthews passing.Although we moved from the neighborhood many years ago you have continued to be in my thoughts.
Now again my thoughts and prayes are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Please

Billy Veraszto

December 12, 2007

Dear Johnson Family,
I had the pleasure of meeting Matt a few years ago and we just completed a project together over the summer. We immediately connected and stayed in touch long after our initial meeting. There are no words that can express my sympathy. I know that Matt will be missed on many different levels. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time and beyond. God Bless.

Rich Gallo

December 12, 2007

Dear Johnson Family,
I had the pleasure of working with Matt this past summer, and the short time I knew him, he was just a wonderful person. I was deeply saddened to learn of his passing. He will most definitely be missed and I am truly sorry for your loss.

Kevin Siegel

December 12, 2007

Dear Johnson Family,
I had the pleasure of working with Matt over the summer here in Freeport. I am shocked to hear of his passing. My deepest sympathies to your family.

Madeline Nowak

December 12, 2007

To My Dear Family Uncle Pete, Aunt Lorraine, Peter & Veronica

I can't express enough how deeply saddened and shocked I am of the loss of my favorite cousin Matthew. He not only was a cousin to me, but, he was like a brother, also. I will never forget the childhood memories and the converations we had and everything he has done for me and my family. He was always there for his Godmother (My Mom) and any family when you needed him. He was loyal to his family. I miss him greatly no words or facial expressions can show. I know he is in a better place free of his pain with his Godmother (My Mom), who loved him deeply as well. They say "Only The Good Die Young" and it is the truth. Matthew was the BEST and he was a TRUE GENTLEMAN and he will be with me in my heart forever.

GOD BLESS YOU MATTHEW

Although you will be missed GREATLY you are in some great company up there in Heaven.

Tim Wulle

December 11, 2007

Mr and Mrs Johnson, Peter and Veronica
Matthew was a very dear friend of mine, how we met I will never take as it being a coincidence. We met in training in Manhattan over 12 years ago and we found that we had a great deal in common with each other. Not only did we live in the same town but we shared the same struggles in life and also had the same friends and never seem to hook up until training in 1995. We would wind up working in the same company for over 7 years together in the same department. Matt will be deeply missed by me and many others. I will never forget the good times we spent together.

No words can express my sorrow for your loss as well as mine.

Lawrence Walsh

December 11, 2007

To the Johnson family.
Those of us who worked with Matt are deeply saddened by his sudden loss. I am still astonished by his passing only 48 hours after I last met with him. He will surely be missed.

Vicky Korner

December 11, 2007

My deepest sincerest sympathy goes out to Matthew's family. My husband, Joe Korner is very good friends w/ Peter. Through our times together, it was extremely apparent the love and devotion Matthew and Peter had for one another. Please stay strong, he will ALWAYS be with you!! Love, Vicky Korner.

Joe Korner

December 11, 2007

Dear Pete,Veronica & The Johnson Family,

Words can not express the deep sorrow I feel for you all at this most dificult of times.
Although the time I knew Matt was only a glimce, it was so obvious that he was the most loyal brother,friend and son anyone could be lucky enough to have known.
It was so clear to me after meeting Matt for the first time, that this is a guy you can trust.
I'm sure his spirit has touched many, I know he touched mine.
I wish for you to be strong, and smile when you think of Matt.

All My Best , Joe Korner

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