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george schmitt
May 30, 2025
May 30, 2025
It has been another cool and overcast and perhaps even drizzly day, YCHHY. It has not been the nicest Spring.
Masha came home last night after spending about a week with Al and his family. First for a there was a cousin’s wedding, a two day fancy affair in Manhattan. And then in mid week Al graduated from Seton Hall Law School. The Family party will be in June in Huntington. Exciting time for Masha. On the disappointing side, she has not found a good fit for a job in NJ for Mobile Pet Grooming.
ANYA IS COMING HOME! She is arriving from LA very early Saturday the 6th of June. We will have an at home celebration on Friday, June 13th. I’m not sure when she has to get on a plane back to LA, but it is soon after. She is so excited to come home, as is Masha and myself. It has already meant preparation and have to figure more prep this coming week including getting another bed in the house as hers made it out to California in January.
Talking about bed, your bed is finally going to be gone. I want a smaller bed then the Queen you had since I guess Huntington days. It will give me more moving around space in the bedroom. So the girls bought me box spring, mattress and frame for my birthday. This week comes. We’ll keep the mattress which is actually Anya’s from when she moved from a Queen to Full a few years ago.
That’s about it for now other than to say I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH!!!!!!
george schmitt
May 11, 2025
May 11, 2025
Dearest Diane,
HAPPY MOTHER´S DAY!!! Masha and Anya are both not home this weekend, Anya in LA for the year and every few weeks Masha goes to NJ to be with AL. This weekend had the addition of a couple of scheduled interviews for Mobile Pet Grooming in Northern Jersey. Besides not getting to be friends with folks, Anya is loving Calif. Basically, meaning the beauty of the Nature. She has been to a number of State and National Parks including last weekend. This one will be memorable because she was bit by a squirrel. Again, like mother, like daughter, she called a squirrel toward her with her finger and noises and when the squirrel got real close - he or she bit her finger!
The girls are certainly moving on with their lives and it is because of you they are here in America. They know that and love you more than I can say.
Love, George
Angela walsh- jecklin
February 10, 2025
Diane, I still think of you fondly and remember working with you at Southwoods like it was yesterday even though I left in 2001. This past week I found the farewell card you gave me. It made me smile. Miss you. XOXO- Angela Walsh-Jecklin
george schmitt
February 9, 2025
February 9, 2025
The entry I made yesterday did not make it into your Legacy Book, so re Posting it along with HAPPY BIRTHDAY with all my love.
February 8, 2024
Tonight is Birthday Eve for my Loving Honey!!!! How you loved your birthday, as long as your age was not mentioned!
It is also the Eve of the Super Bowl. Not that it ever meant a big deal to us except for the Giant Super Bowls, but it was always fun. This year Shawn and Catherine are hosting the festivities. I will do my normal routine for Super Bowl or any of the big event unless day time, I will stay until half time then get home for the second half in my bed. I remember how mad you would get at me when I fell asleep during a NY Yankees World Series game. Just not a big deal on my life. As for the girls, Anya is in Calif and without friends she will probably watch the game by herself. Masha will watch first half in NJ with Al and his friends, then drive home. I assume I will be asleep already!
Masha and Al are in NYC tonight, Broadway Show The Outsiders. Masha has already seen the movie and I think she read the book, so she is real excited to see the Broadway Show. She loves Broadway, how often she speaks of the Lion King and Annie andIf Tickets weren’t so expensive, she’d be a regular. These tickets for she and Al were from us.
Better put an end to this note or it will be not your Birthday Eve, but your Birthday!
Love you honey. Wish we were celebrating it together.
Liz
February 9, 2025
Happy 70th birthday, Deet Dee! I couldn't say the number if you were here, but in heaven, you will always be young. I love you, my sister-in-law and friend.
george schmitt
February 8, 2025
February 8, 2024
Tonight is Birthday Eve for my Loving Honey!!!! How you loved your birthday, as long as your age was not mentioned :) !
It is also the Eve of the Super Bowl. Not that it ever meant a big deal to us except for the Giant Super Bowls, but it was always fun. This year Shawn and Catherine are hosting the festivities. I will do my normal routine for Super Bowl or any of the big event unless day time, I will stay until half time then get home for the second half in my bed. I remember how mad you would get at me when I fell asleep during a NY Yankees World Series game. Just not a big deal on my life. As for the girls, Anya is in Calif and without friends she will probably watch the game by herself. Masha will watch first half in NJ with Al and his friends, then drive home. I assume I will be asleep already!
Masha and Al are in NYC tonight, Broadway Show The Outsiders. Masha has already seen the movie and I think she read the book, so she is real excited to see the Broadway Show. She loves Broadway, how often she speaks of the Lion King and Annie andIf Tickets weren’t so expensive, she’d be a regular. These tickets for she and Al were from us.
Better put an end to this note or it will be not your Birthday Eve, but your Birthday!
Love you honey. Wish we were celebrating it together.
George
January 7, 2025
January 7, 2025
Oh Honey, Our Baby Anya is moving to California tomorrow morning. She has been trying to get a Hardship Exemption in order to stay in NYC Office, but it didn’t happen. She will continue to work for it so her stay in Calif might be less than 5 years, but who knows. It was just a couple of weeks ago that she was crying not wanting to go, but now she feels happiness and excitement in addition to not wanting to leave the East Coast. Please join us in helping her to make this transition.
Love You, Please pray for Anya, having her safe in God’s Loving Arms.
George
November 3, 2024
November 3, 2024
I'll begin this entry with ~~~ I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!
Next will be admitting that I made a math mistake in my last entry. I moved your years since you died up a year. This year's anniversary is 16 years, not 17. I used to be so good at Math, but with my 72 years, this has begun to slip away.
All is going well here. Anya very much likes her job. Let´s all say a prayer that she gets to stay in NY. Perhaps you can get our family angels in Heaven to rally around Anya staying in NY. Except bites here and there, Masha is doing well with the pet grooming. She and Al are going strong in their relationship. Shawn and Catherine are off to Europe for 3 weeks. They are taking a cruise back from Europe! Ray and Lila were in Europe for a couple of weeks, a couple of weeks ago. I am not going to try and do the Math on that. I have begun Physical Training. I realized my balance was not good, so, heard I could get free PT through Medicare at home, I jumped at it. Donna my therapist is wonderful. Today, whenever Anya makes an appearance, she and I will go out to the Northfork to get her favorite pie - Blueberry Pie from Hallocks farm. No more Pumpkin Pickers so the drive should be delightful on this Sunshiny day.
I will end this entry as I began it ~~~ I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!
George
October 28, 2024
October 28, 2024
Another exciting weekend with the Roddin Family. This one surrounding your Godson Andrew and his wife Jane´s wedding. It all took place in Washington DC. Masha, Shawn, Catherine and myself chose to take Amtrak. Masha and Al drove and we all were there for a meet and greet in a restaurant. Next day the wedding and reception took place in the National Arboretum. Great to be with so much family. Next morning there was a brunch in a Penthouse restaurant. And then it was time to get back on to Amtrak to NYC. So much fun, so much talking over the Weekend in addition to witnessing Andrew and Jane´s Wedding. You were missed. You are always missed. Your Anniversary month begins in a few days, hard to believe 17 years have gone by.
Love You so much my Honey
An
July 9, 2024
Happy Tuesday mom,
Another early morning for me. It will be a long and hot day.
Started out the morning by making your favorite tea (Scottish tea) and bringing it out to the deck.
Just sitting here in silence, sipping the tea slowly and listening to all the frogs, birds and other creatures making noises. Very peaceful and soothing. I like to think you are out there making some noise as well.
I have PT this morning followed by DT and then firearms. Should be a very exciting and fun day.
Be with me like you always are. I miss you tons and tons.
I hope you have something fun going on today.
Say hello to everyone for me especially Ms.Rauh and aunt Eileen.
I LOVEEE YOU LOTS
Cousin Eileen
July 6, 2024
Hi Diane and family,
Mino and I visited your grave on July 3rd. We also visited your mom dad, sister and our grandparents. We were over there in Farmingdale as I am the one on the paperwork for my brother Ed's grave in St Charles Cemetery. He had requested St Charles, and we were glad that my sisters and I were able to arrange that for him. He will be buried on Wednesday, July 10th. We are having a private graveside service. His soul is already in heaven (he died June 3rd), and I picture you two "hanging out". It was a "happy death" and the end to his suffering. I think of you often and with Ed joining you I will have you both in my heart every day. We are looking forward to visiting with George in East Islip soon. XO,
An
July 5, 2024
Rarely write in here but I might start to do it more often.
0530 in the morning.
Came outside on the deck and decided to come and read through some of the posts.
Remember why I don´t come here often. Just makes me want to cry (in a good way)
DEA academy is going super well. I have to learn to go easy on myself at times. Thank you for always giving me the strength, and power. Keep looking down and watching over me.
I will always continue to talk to you.
I miss you mom. Tons and tons!
I hope you enjoy your day
George
July 3, 2024
July 3, 2024
I was just reminded by Eileen Baldassare that its been a long time since I wrote in your Legacy web page. It´s been since your birthday in Feb, and Anya´s acceptance into the DEA. Ouch!
This time I will start with Masha. The birthmark on her stomach and bottom of her foot turned out to be problematic. Moles or Molds??? The surgeon took off the one on her stomach and will remove the one on the bottom of the foot in another month. That will be a long recouperation because she won´t be able to walk for quite a while. And in between these two surgeries she had two cysts removed. Thank God neither had CA, but prayers please.
As for Anya, so far so good with the DEA. We had a surprise visit from her this past weekend. She did not know it, but it coincided with a gathering Masha and I were hosting for the Roddin family. And Anya being such a big family person was overjoyed as we all were.
Reason I am in contact with Eileen B is because her brother Eddie died. Sh,e and Mino are on LI for the week and I plan to spend time with them on Monday.
Love You Honey
George
July 3, 2024
April 12, 2024
Yes it is April, my birthday month but that is not what this entry is about. NOOOOOOO this morning Anya received an email from the DEA, she will be entering one of the Spring 2024 Academy classes. She doesn´t know if it will be May or June because she is trying to get an assignment here in NY. So happy for her and I am sure you are also.
Send her some loving vibes, Love You Honey
Cousin Eileen
February 7, 2024
Diane, Happy Birthday in heaven on the 9th. The love you showered on your friends and family has grown; never has it diminished. That's because of how awesome you were here on earth. Thanks for making such good use of the time you had here on earth. Miss you as always. I have a friend Tammy and I tell her she reminds me of you and that she would have liked you a lot. So those of us left behind with good memories look to connect with people like you. Thanks for being my very first friend outside of my immediate family. You, only 10 months younger than I. Lots of cousin love and get-togethers back then. Many fond memories that I cherish. Love, Cousin Eileen
me
February 7, 2024
February 7, 2024
Tonight is the Eve of the Eve of your Birthday!!!!
Which means we are not only in the midst of your birthday month, but also in the midst of your birthday week.
We have a cat by the name of Oliver. He hangs around me when neither girl is home. So of course, as he tends to do, he just walked across the keyboard!
Hope you are enjoying up there as much as you used to enjoy down here during these festive days.
Love you sooooooo much.
Cousin Eileen
November 1, 2023
Diane and family, Thinking all of you today, Nov 1st. Sad memories; happy memories. This past July, my brother-in-law, Gary, went to heaven. I know Diane and Gary loved each other as family. Both of them a bit quirky too. I picture them together in heaven; both of them there too soon. My prayers are always said for those who loved them fiercely and are left behind. I am very grateful for their lives. They brought immense happiness to their friends and families. Diane, as always, I pray to you to "look out" for the welfare of the family and friends left behind. You always had your "prayer list" in hand on earth. Diane, you were a treasure on earth, and I believe you are a "star" in heaven. Still miss you. XO, Cousin Eileen
Liz R
October 30, 2023
Dear Deets,
I miss you -- sitting and having tea, going shopping or to retreats, and just laughing over your silly antics. On one retreat, you taped a sign up on your door when you knew I would be coming to get you: "Confessions heard here. Bare your soul." When I started laughing, you just smiled so slightly, as if it wasn't really a joke. You were so much fun to be with and always knew the right thing to say. And you were always willing to listen. So many things remind me of you, and I know I will miss you as long as I live. Sending peace your way.
Love you,
Liz
George
October 29, 2023
October 29,2023
In a couple of days we will be recognizing the 15th anniversary of your death. Crazy.
Today, the Sunday before your anniversary, I will be going down to the Hall for a Jet/Giant game on TV with a nice dinner. Girls are both away this weekend, Anya in Buffalo visiting friends. She has had such a streak of bad luck both finding a job and getting her leg in shape. And since Maddie is now living in NJ, she no longer has her best friend to hang around with. Masha is in NJ with Al this weekend. Last weekend he was on LI, they seem to get together a couple of times a month. They seem to be a "match made in heaven". Our nephew (I think your Godson) Andrew and Jane announced their engagement a week or so ago. Everyone is happy.
Oh, my honey, yup it was 15 years ago this Wednesday, Nov 1 that you died. Sometimes it seems like forever ago and at times as if it were yesterday. Both girls are home by Wednesday so hopefully we will have a nice dinner together. Love You Honey, 15 years is a long time without you by my side. I wrote last year, and it is still good today >>> It sounds weird to say this, but Happy Anniversary to you. Weird because of the occasion being death, but I really wish you Happiness in Heaven with so many of your family and friends.
Love You so Much XOXOXOXO
George
September 23, 2023
September 23, 2023
A terribly ycchhy day. Not a hurricane but High gusty winds and raining all day.
While Masha is in NJ with Al, Anya and I decided to make chicken noodle soup. She is not in the best of moods, but hopefully we will have a nice warm dinner together.
Her leg has acted up badly again. She went to a doc in the box the other day and the doctor feels it may be broken in two places. But will need an MRI to tell for sure. She has an appointment early next week. Why not earlier, no insurance until then. UGHHHH. Anya still looking for a job until she gets one in law enforcement.
Masha is moving along nicely in life. Anytime she can get a couple of days off in a row she goes to northern Jersey to be with Al. She was bit again this past week, not as bad as the pit bull in May still the same, another bite. We have been having a lot of dinner company as if late and she comes up strong.
Me, I´m the same in retirement. Wish you were here to share the kids and retirement with me. Both would be so much more rewarding.
Love You, Your George
george schmitt
June 10, 2023
Hi Honey,
Your Baby, Our Baby Anya ~~~~ not so much a baby. Today she became a 27-year-old!
She is still in Buffalo; she has internship until end of June. But she will be home next weekend to take the Suffolk County Police Test. Keep her in mind, it would be terrific if she could get on the SCPD and we will celebrate Fathers Day and Her Birthday next weekend.
But as for now, Let Her Know that You are Wishing Her a VERRRRRYYYYY HAPPPPYYYYYY Birthday!
George
May 21, 2023
May 21, 2023
Yes, somehow I missed writing for Mother´s Day. I remember the time before finishing all the paperwork for Masha and I was talking with Stu before Mother´s Day. He assured me in no uncertain terms that I needed to get you a card and a gift for Mother´s Day. I took our brother-in-law´s advice and was happy I did. It would have been a notable day to say the least. Hope 2023 Mother´s Day did not put me in the Mishna House. Then there is Masha, our pet groomer. She got bitten by Pitbull on her thumb a few weeks ago. After some scares about long- and short-term effects, she seems to be ok. She is still a bit wary about dogs that are basically vicious, but she is accepting help from other Ruff Life folks when it comes to vicious dogs.
Then there was Friday, Brian Maher died. He had a heart attack mid-week I did not hear about it until Friday at the Rosary. Happens he died probably during the Rosary which he normally attended with us at an Adult Home in Babylon each Friday morning. Don´t have to tell you, such a good man. Did so many good things for so many. When I was thinking of him, I said to myself, certainly a lifelong teacher, but not just in the traditional classroom sense, but in living his life. He never stopped giving all who knew him the example of how to be a strong Christian.
Love You Honey
George
February 10, 2023
February 10, 2023,
Went to your graveside today, such a peaceful place to go. Except on awful weather days, love going there. Nasty weather today, not the case, it was a beautiful day and made the visit all the nicer.
I would have gone yesterday, but there was a policeman´s burial at Pinelawn and I did not want to get caught in that traffic mess. So went today to Pinelawn and also to St. Charles and National. Nice peaceful morning after the Rosary in Babylon.
Love You Honey
Lila Schmitt
February 9, 2023
Happy birthday in heaven, sweet Diane. As always, I miss sharing our big Schmitt birthday month with you ( and Michael, Kerri, Colleen, Brendan and more I think) but we just share it differently now: you in heaven, the rest of us down here. Thank you for all the graces and help I know you send and continue to feel pride in your amazing daughters. Anya befriended Ray big time this past year, helping him with all sorts of outside projects and even becoming his YMCA buddy while she was home in Dec and Jan. As always, we miss and love you! Happy birthday Diane!
George
February 9, 2023
Birthday Day, 2023
Happy Birthday Sweet Heart. Love You Tons and Tons!
I´ll be having lunch with Fritz in a little while, sort of a weekly event. Masha is working and we will be meeting for dinner at Catherine and Shawn´s house. Her idea. I know Anya misses being with us because it is only 10:00 and she already has called and texted!
Love You Tons and Tons! ~~ Miss You Tons and Tons!
XXXXXOOOOOOOOXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOXXOOO
George
February 8, 2023
For some reason the Feb 5 entry did not make it in the book. It can now be found right below today's Feb 8 Entry
February 8, 2023
Happy Birthday Eve to the Fairest Lassie in the Land!
Do hope it is a good one for you. Love You
Your Irish George
February 5, 2023
Oh My, we are living in Diane´s Birthday Week!!!! Excitement abounds.
How did your birthday creep up again on me this year. I have thought and smiled when we reached January saying, this is my honey´s birthday month. But I turn around and it is just four days before your birthday, can hardly believe it.
All is well with the girls and I and our families. Masha is in the Family Room watching Chopped (no Jeopardy on Sunday) and Anya is in Buffalo with her housemates and friends. Miss You so much, you are the best!!!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WEEK AND MONTH!
XXXOOO
LOVE YOU ALWAYS
George
January 29, 2023
January 29, 2023
My Dearest Diane,
In another week and a half, it will be your birthday, which means we are in YOUR BIRTHDAY MONTH! You loved your birthday so much that somehow you managed to spread it from the beginning of January thru the end of March! Masha has arranged with Catherine to have dinner together that night. Masha has a coworker who she will be driving with that day and she lives diagonally across the street to our old home.
All well here. Masha still dating Al and she spends many a weekend in northern Jersey. He goes to Law School at Seton Hall. Masha still doing well with the grooming business. When she moved back into our house in Mid-December, she brought her cat. A mutt by then name of Ollie. He still not two so he acts too kittenish for my taste. Anya went back to Buffalo two weeks ago and will be starting class next week. She did lots of stuff to get ready for this school year. And she is still somewhat recuperating from her surgery last spring. She is doing an Internship at a VA Hosp in Buffalo. It will last through the summer semester. And I´m fine. Missing you each day.
Love You!
Eileen Baldassarre
November 3, 2022
Remembering Diane with love for her and her family and friends. I too pray to Diane for petitions. Nice to remember Diane's time here on earth with gratitude for her life. And to Diane, Happy Anniversary in Heaven. XO.
Lila Schmitt
November 1, 2022
Dear Diane, we are thinking of you as always at this time of All Souls and All Saints. For us you truly are both and we know you are with dear Grandma Emma who also passed this time of year, on her favorite holiday of Halloween. Keep us all in you prayers as I know you have in the past. I credit you and Grandma Emma both and ofcourse my Mom, Nana Nancy, and the Mother of us all, the Blessed Virgin Mary, for the gorgeous weather and wonderful time everyone had at Elizabeth and Dennis' wedding and also for the marvelous weather we had on our most recent and exciting vacation to Iceland. We are down with Covid right now, but as far as we are concerned, nothing could be better than getting through the wedding and our trip, without catching Covid, so thank you for any influence you yielded. Continue to watch over your family who misses you, especially Anya as she recovers from her surgery and Catherine, your dear sister. We love and miss you always.
George
November 1, 2022
November 1, 2022
Oh, my honey, yup it was 14 years ago that you died in our home. Your sister Catherine had just left and so the two girls and I were alone with you, it was not picturesque with the girls not really understanding how or why this was happening.
Like last year, Masha texted and asked to go to the cemetery. She should be home any minute now and we will go to your grave site. Then she wants to go to Stew Leonard´s, a fun hangout for us during the last few years. Catherine and Shawn will be coming over for pizza tonight. Masha made those arrangements also. Anya being in Buffalo can only be with us in spirit.
Love You Honey, 14 years is a long time without you by my side. It sounds weird to say this, but Happy Anniversary to you. Weird because of the occasion being death, but I really wish you Happiness in Heaven with so many of your family and friends.
Love You so Much, your hubby!
george
October 28, 2022
October 28, 2022
Hello Again. I'm in Buffalo since yesterday with our baby Anya. Of course, at 26, the girls are not babies, but they are our babies! So, Anya is doing well per surgeon two days ago. But she is in lots of pain and yesterday maybe we overdid it. By the end of the day she was in pain and exhausted. Please keep her in your prayers. Masha finishes up work for two weeks straight without a day off. Her choice due to Elizabeth's wedding and wanting to be with Al this weekend in NJ for Halloween. So she too is exhausted, keep her in your thoughts and prayers. As for me, I'm just getting older. The 7.5-hour drive here was very difficult. No more just jumping into the car and taking off. Now it is like a large effort. Not sure how much more I can do the long-distance driving. Oh my, I sound like a Grumpperpus :-).
Your anniversary is 4 days away, miss you so much, wish we were together for fun, but also to help with our "babies". Love You So Much!
George
October 12, 2022
October 12, 2022
Hi Honey,
Need Prayers. Niece Elizabeth is getting married on Friday the 14th. The wedding is in Maryland where she has been living and teaching for quite a while now. So, prayers that not just the wedding day goes well, but also her marriage is loving and fulfilling and happy!
Then prayers surrounding Anya. She is to fly home tomorrow from Buffalo so she can do a Pre-Exam for surgery she is having Oct 20 on her knee. Surgery will take place in Buffalo which will cause a few problems in her after care. BTW she drove back to Buffalo from EI yesterday because her Supervised Internship commitment. Problem with flying home tomorrow (beside a large rainstorm tomorrow evening into the night) is getting her home from JFK. You see Masha, Al, Fritz and I are driving down together to Maryland together tomorrow for Elizabeth´s wedding on Friday. Extended family has difficulties with tomorrow afternoon...So that´s Thurs to Friday for Anya. Saturday, she has to drive to NJ for testing for the DEA, physical fitness sort of testing, which she would normally blow away, but with a bum knee, who knows. She is back here on Saturday; we will be back here from Wedding on Saturday. I have to help her with grammar and spelling on a 10-15 page paper that she still needs to finish. Tonight (Wednesday) she is working on a couple of other reports. What a convoluted weekend it has become.
Thus, lots of prayers needed for this weekend for Dennis and Elizabeth and for Anya. And for all of us wrapped into this wild weekend.
Love You, Miss You
George
August 7, 2022
August 7, 2022
Love You Diane,
These last few years, normally I have a specific reason to write in your Legacy book, not so much today. Things have been moving fast this summer. Anya has been having troubles with what is being labelled Long Term Covid Affects. Been to lots of doctors but all that is now on hold because of Insurance difficulties with changing carriers... Masha is doing well. She has been at her boy friend´s sister´s wedding this weekend. Through texts it sounds like it went well though I haven´t spoken to her yet. Except for the worries about Anya, I´m fine and Dandy.
XXXOOO, George
George
July 30, 2022
July 30, 2022
Hi My Honey,
July flew by and Monday starts August. Half the summer is gone!
This past Wednesday night I went to the Met/Yankee game at Citifield as a gift for my 70th Birthday from Stu. Stu, Stephanie, Mike G and I went and we sat behind Homeplate in the Upper Deck. I could not stop thinking of the first Yankee game that we went to as a couple. So much fun, so delightful. As I did one of our favorite activities, people watching, there were so many young couples ~ honestly felt envious. So much good fun with that someone special.
Love You and Miss You each and every day.
PS, extra prayers for Masha and Anya as they are having difficulties this summer.
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George
June 10, 2022
Today is June 10th. 26 years ago our daughter Anya Rose was born in Kazakhstan. And she spent her first 7+ years in Almaty. It wasn't until you stepped up to the plate and spent 1+ years of toil and worry that she became our daughter and Masha's little sister. And to look back and see all she has accomplished is absolutely amazing. She is currently going into her second year at University of Buffalo graduate school for Social Work. Today she learned that she is an NCAA Student Athlete something or other, just know it is a well deserved reward. She is a very good person, always looking to help others. This last semester she had all A's and an A-! Could go on and on but she has been an exemplary person and daughter for these last 18 years.
She loves you, Masha loves you, I love you.
George
May 8, 2022
Mother´s Day, 2022
Happy Mother´s Day!!!!!
Woke this morning thinking of Mother´s Day and most especially thinking of you. Where or What or Who or...would I be today if you didn´t push me into agreeing to embrace adopting Masha. And then you had to push even harder, but you won out and we adopted Anya. Where or What or Who or...would George be? Where or What or Who or...would Masha be? ...would Anya be? Without you these two marvelous young women enriching my life and the lives of so many others, I don´t know what to say. And it all goes back to you and what a great mother you were to them even before you were "officially" Mom to Masha and Anya. And brought me into the world of first being Papa, then Daddy and now Dad. As the girls may read this entry, that´s fine. It is no secret to them that you were the reason they became our family. I was thinking this morning what a great Mother you were to these two girls before we even brought them home. Every day we miss you Diane, Mom. But we are sooooo thankful that you brought us together as family.
I Love You Honey and so do our beautiful daughters!
George
May 3, 2022
May 3, 2022
Well your hubby is now over 70 Years Old !!!!
I remember speaking to you when I was in my late 20s about whether I´d make it into my 40s, or even 30s. Now 70s. The day itself (Saturday) was very good. Family and a few friends gathered for hotdogs and hamburgers, all the trimmings and of course bday cake. I kept it somewhat quiet from Anya because I did bit want to tempt her with the long ride down from Buffalo. OH, BTW, siblings´ gift was a statue of the Blessed Mother, just like the one I got for you as a gift for one of our Weddings. Of Course, WISH YOU WERE THERE TO CELEBRATE MY 70TH!!
Love You
george schmitt
April 20, 2022
April 20, 2022
Dearest Diane,
Easter has come and gone, and it was a nice day for the most part. Negative, no Anya as she is in Buffalo. She very badly wanted to come to LI, as it is her favorite holiday, but she was running in the middle of Pennsylvania on Holy Saturday. Have to tell you, maybe 10 years ago I would have done the traveling, but I´m too old now adays. It has worked out OK, as Masha and I are driving to Buffalo on Friday morning, will watch her run on Saturday in Buffalo, spend the day in Canada on Sunday and drive back on Monday. Masha and I went to Marys Easter Sunday late morning for a Brunch. Then she left to go to Al´s in Melville and I followed her a few hours later. Al´s family is very nice. His parents and grandparents and sister and her fiancé are all pleasant folks. And that was that. Love You! Watch over our 7 hours of driving both ways this weekend.
George
February 15, 2022
February 15, 2022
Hi Honey,
I realized before that today is the last day of our birthday week, so decided to wish you a very Happy Birthday Week!
But we´re still in the midst of your birthday month, so Happy Birthday Monty!
Love You, Miss You.
Lila Schmitt
February 10, 2022
Wishing you a happy birthday in heaven, Diane. Knowing you and how you loved a good celebration and were always the life of the party, I can only imagine the happy times you are sharing with so many of your loved ones that are there with you. We miss you so much but find real solace in the thought that you and Eileen, Theresa, John and so many other dear family and friends are together enjoying your eternal reward. You are with us always!
george
February 9, 2022
February 9, 2022
Happy Happy Happy birthday to the Love of My Life!
When I was with Goddaughter Liz this morning, I told her of your special day today. She spoke of how much you meant to her. Then she sent a text wishing a "Happy Birthday to Dear Diane". I texted back what I expect is true - "I´m sure she´s having a festivity of some sort for her birthday in heaven". I hope you are. We had a number of festivities all the years of your life, with the kids and before they were a part of our lives.
Woke at four this morning thinking of you. All good things! You had such a positive impact on so many people´s lives.
Love You So Very Much
Liz R
February 9, 2022
Happy birthday, Deets. Sending love and thanks for your beautiful life - and friendship.
xo xo
george
February 8, 2022
February 8, 2022
Tomorrow is the big day. I am speaking with Anya on the phone and she told me so!
Tomorrow your Goddaughter Liz will be giving me a haircut. She started doing that about half a year ago, but she has always come this way. Tomorrow she could not find someone to sit for her two kids, so I am going to her place to get it cut. After that I will be going out to lunch with Fritz. We meet up and have lunch most Wednesdays.
Love You Tons and Tons. Miss you more and more.
Happy Birthday tomorrow.
George
February 7, 2022
Hi Honey,
The excitement is growing. Another day closer to February 9th!
It's a different year in that Masha now lives across the street and Anya across the state in Buffalo. I get to see Masha nearly everyday so its not the complete feeling of an empty nest. Anya loves to call, especially when she is in her truck going to or from class, internship or practice.
And then there is you, missing now since Nov 1, 2008. Maybe I shouldn't use the word missing as your presence is very much a part of my life, but your presence is also missing from the walking in the house and having a kiss sort of missing.
But let's not get maudlin on this your birthday week.
Love You
Happy Birthday Week.
George
February 6, 2022
Getting closer to that very special day!
How old will you be, I thought to myself.
Looked back to the original memorial that would have been published back in 2008, and your birth year is not mentioned. You really drilled in my head that you loved your birthday, but not your age :-) Love You Honey
George
February 5, 2022
February 5, 2022
How did your birthday creep up on me this year. I have thought and smiled when we reached Jan 9 saying, this my honey´s birthday month. But I turn around and it is just four days before your birthday, can hardly believe it.
All is well with the girls and I and our families.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WEEK AND MONTH!
XXXOOO
LOVE YOU ALWAYS
George
January 2, 2022
January 2, 2022 and a Happy New Year!!
When I woke New Year´s morning I looked out my bedroom window to see the beginning of 2022!. Turns out it was a grey dreary morning, but that is not the point of today´s entry.
For some reason as I looked out the window I thought of New Years Day 22 years ago. We were in Phoenix, at the end of a trip that took us to your family in Phoenix and Mel and Sue in Vegas. It was really terrific to meet your cousins, aunts and uncles. And though neither of us are gamblers, we both enjoyed the excitement of Las Vegas. And of course, enjoyed being with Sue and Mel. We were in Phoenix for New Year´s Eve, had dinner with Sue and Mel and we watched the excitement of the new Millennium on TV through so many time zones.
A word about this year - We "celebrated" with Catherine, Shawn and Maddie at our old house. It was over before the Times Square Ball dropped. Then last night, Anya went back to Buffalo due to her internship. She probably won´t be home until May, so it was a sad parting.
Love You, Miss You as we enter into another calendar year without you.
Lila Schmitt
November 1, 2021
Hi Diane, on this anniversary of your going home to heaven, you have been in our minds more than ever. Last night Ray and I were facetiming with Michael and Brittany( who I know you would have loved and had so much fun with) and Brittany asked about the Schmitt Family connection to Halloween that she´s heard hinted at. We told her that we lost two of our dear members on Oct 31 and Nov. 1: Mary and you. We explained how you and Grandma Emma were such Halloween fans, how you both always got into the spirit of the holiday. Earlier Brittany told us that Halloween was her favorite holiday but we knew that by the elaborate and creative costumes she makes every year. Anyway just thinking about how much fun you and Brittany would have had together made me sad but also made me smile. Brittany has a big laugh, a lot like yours. So sweet Diane, we continue to spread your story, to make sure that our newest family members know how important you have been to us all. And we continue to remember you often and in so many ways. We miss you and love you and appreciate your presence watching over us.
Cousin Eileen
November 1, 2021
Just wanted to share: Mino and I were out walking Saturday afternoon and I picked up a shiny dime stuck in a crack in the sidewalk....This was the day after my last Legacy post.....hmm......maybe a Roddin thing. The Roddins were very frugal, even washing out plastic storage bags to re-use, as I remember. We made our own greetings cards for birthdays, etc. I sometimes glued coins to them, I picked up pennies when I was a kid. Mino asked me if the dime was "heads up". "It doesn't matter" was my reply. Yes, Diane still means "love". I have her and my pic together inside my bathroom medicine cabinet and often say "hi" to her late evening. Happy Anniversary in heaven.
George
November 1, 2021
November 1, 2021
Hi Honey, it´s the 13th Anniversary of your death. Hope this is not an unlucky year!
Every year seems different and of course that is natural. What stays the same is that I know you are always with us, always watching over us.
Since I don't have to wake at any time in the morning, I tend to sleep in. Today when I wake I have a text from Masha wanting to go to the cemetery ~ she hates the cemetery! Anya had a wonderful race on Saturday, and she told me she thought of you just before the race and knew you were with her. That is not unusual, that is what she does before every race. As for me, it does not matter what I am doing, I want you with me. You have been with us these 13 years and we need; we want that to continue.
Anya is going to love the dimes sentence in Liz's remembrance just above. She too picks up dimes and she saves every one of them. I'll have to ask her and / or Mike, does that come from you?
Love You and wish we could do more than virtual hugs.
Liz Roddin
October 31, 2021
Dear Deets,
I have been reminded of you so many times in the past few weeks. We went to Massachusetts this week and passed the Newsboy where you and George were married and then traveled to Long Island that same day for my surprise party. We thought about all our camping trips up there, and laughed when we passed the store where you said the lady didn't know how to make tea. I thought of you when I went to the doctor across the street from St. John's and Good Sam and remembered coming to see you on your lunch hour and visiting you when you were sick. I thought of you when I needed someone to listen a couple of weeks ago and wished it could've been you. Mike even got a hair brush, which coincidentally, has the brand name Diane stamped on the handle! He sees your face as he falls asleep, thinks of you as he picks up stray dimes, and we just remember you in so many things and so many places. We miss you, Deets and love you still. xo xo
Cousin Eileen
October 29, 2021
Hello to Diane and family and friends!
I enjoy reading everyone's messages. Very sad to hear about the loss of loved ones. I will keep them in my prayers. Happy News: please keep our son Joe and his wife in your prayers. They are expecting a baby boy in February 2022. Diane, times like this I wish you were here. Joe and you were very fond of each other and he very much enjoyed his last visit with you right after his H.S. graduation. He is now a deputy chief auditor at a bank. The young ones are quickly growing up! I hold you in my heart and hope you can feel that happiness in heaven! It is 13 years ago, Nov 1st you left this earth. I am always grateful for your life. XXOO.
george schmitt
October 27, 2021
October 27, 2021
Hi Honey
All is moving along withs the girls and me.
For some reason I recently had two or so days of feeling sorry for myself. It was like, everyone has another person in their lives to spend time with, to talk about important things with, to goof off with...It might have been an attack of empty nest syndrome, but have to say, I didn´t like the feeling! Thank goodness it ended as quickly as it began. But have to say, miss you always and during those days, missed you terribly.
Masha is in her apartment for almost two months, and she likes it. I do see her nearly every day and we try to sit down for a meal once a week to catch up with one another. She got a kitten by the name of Oliver. Unfortunately, she has already gotten fleas and Masha is in the middle of battling them since the weekend. Hopefully, she wins the battle and no flea infestation again, because she claims that will it, that she and Oliver will part ways.
Anya is having a very good Cross Country Season at UB. Tis weekend she is going to Michigan for the MAAC Championship. I think after that she has one more meet. We talk nearly everyday and text multiple times a day. Sounds like she is doing fine and likes the academic and sports programs and is also having a good time with her housemates. She does miss home, she especially misses it when we have a family gathering and of course she can´t make it. .
Love You Honey, Miss You Tons and Tons
george schmitt
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
So much has happened in the last month.
I´ll start with me - I went on vacation. Started in Buffalo to visit Anya as she begins her two years in pursuit of her Masters in Socialwork. Then to the 1000 Islands to visit the Ingersons which now includes a bunch of Grand Children. Finished in Rome to visit Cathy - I lost $20 in the Casino, she won $60!
Masha did make the move across the street while I was away. The move is still happening as she left "schtuff" here at 15 Robinhood instead of moving ALL to 20 Robinhood. Her apartment is very nice, well better than most people´s first apartments. You had a couple of not the best apartments until you had the house in Huntington.
Anya is Anya. Seems to be settling into Buffalo life but has begun to feel the difficult busyness of Grad School, Running Division 1 and trying to have a social life. She seems to be keeping up with school work but is feeling the pressure and her running is going well. Getting along real well with her housemate.
Now the real YCHINESSSS - last week between Wednesday going to sleep and Thursday waking up time, Jamie died. Devastating on Kathleen, Joe and Joey. She went to sleep and next morning Kathleen went to wake her, and that was it. I´ve only had contact with Catherine and Shawn - Honey, it is Horrible. Nobody can make any sense of it. A 34 year old in apparently good health, a good kid for sure dies in her sleep. Tomorrow family and friends are gathering at Manganos and honestly cannot imagine what it will be like. Pleeeeeaassse keep the family in your prayers.
I love You, wish you were here.
george schmitt
August 20, 2021
August 20, 2021
Lots happening, probably all of it surrounding the girls.
As I´m keyboarding Anya is searching the house to make sure that she has not left anything behind. Before I finish this entry, she will probably be pulling out of the driveway to head to Buffalo. Masha is moving out of the house in another two and a half weeks or so. Don´t expect that to be as hard since she is taking an apartment directly across the street at Laurie Ann and Gary´s house. And because of the dog grooming business she will be in the driveway with the van cleaning it and in the house for laundry each day she is working.
So it has been a busy time with getting Anya out the door, Masha has already started filling boxes and a few gatherings of folks coming by to say so long to Anya.
Be with Anya as she begins this new venture, be with Masha as she moves into an apartment. Be with me as I am moving from an active home to a quiet home.
Love You
George
July 27, 2021
July 27, 2021
Oh My God My Honey. Today is our 25th Wedding Anniversary!!!!
Hard to imagine that all these years have passed since we committed our lives to one another in Great Barrington.
You are the BEST and I LOVE YOU SO!
Me
June 13, 2021
Me
June 13, 2021
Me
June 13, 2021
Have a new Van and a new Truck in our Driveway. Girls are really moving along in their life roads.
george schmitt
June 8, 2021
Dearest Diane,
Masha has so much excitement about her, she is "getting her own Van". That means the job with Ruff Life is giving her her own truck to drive around and groom pets. Naturally this is good for her in many ways but for her it is, dad I can´t believe I have my own truck, I thought it would never happen. So happy for her. At one point she said to me that Mom would be so excited for her and she´d probably want to drive around with me. She is very very very proud of this accomplishment. I´m sure you are also.
Talking about vehicles, Anya went out and bought herself a 2019 Chevrolet Silverado Truck that is HUGE. Not sure that she needed such a large one, but she needed something to go to Buffalo for the next two school years. 10 Months of Winter, 2 Months of Summer. Lots of snow. She has been freaking out and she wants you to watch over her. She will be 25 years old this Wednesday! In many ways she is still our baby.
OK, honey, have to go speak to Anya about her latest catastrophe, and then to bed.
Love You and Miss You Soooooo Much.
George
April 30, 2021
April 30, 2021
Hi Honey,
Today’s my 69th Birthday. Didn’t think I’d make it this far. You used to get mad at me when I’d say something like that. But here I am with just one more year to make it 70.
Masha is still in Hawaii and having a wonderful time. Anya took the day off to spend with me. We did some minor errands and then she took me shopping for birthday gifts. I don’t think she gets it, when you get older the less you need. I know it was frustrating for her, but I am fine with the things I have. She did get me a wallet as the one I have has begun to fall apart. I know Masha has gotten me some things and we will wait until she gets home to open her and Anya’s.
Tonight we are going to Ray and Lila’s for dinner. I think all my siblings will be there.
So that’s that, another birthday gone by. I wish you were here for it.
Love You Tons and Tons.
For some reason my April 26 entry was not uploaded, good thing I saved it, here it is:
April 26, 2021
Dear Diane,
Your Baby Daughter, Our Baby Daughter is flying to Hawaii today. She is going with Vicky, Barbara and family. When I brought her over this morning I asked Barbara if I could see Vicky to ask her to keep Masha safe and Barbara laughed. She is with me and Vicky, she will be good. She said this as she was pointing to her stomach and said, Masha is like here for me, another daughter. So she takes off this morning at 10:00 and after a six hour time difference she lands in Honolulu at 3 PM Hawaii time! Long non-stop Flight. I know that Barbara and Vicky are watching after her, but please you too look after her and not just her, keep everyone safe. May they all Enjoy This Wonderful Trip.
BTW, Masha said this morning that she is taking after you, seeing the world! Love You.
george Schmitt
April 17, 2021
April 17, 2021
Hi Honey. It is now my Birthday Month. Actually, less than two weeks away. I will be 69, very hard to believe. I remember having serious yappings with you and my insistence that there was a good chance I would not be leaving my forties! You’d get so upset that I could harbor such thoughts. As it turns out, as with most things, you were right.
Your baby Masha is going to Hawaii in just a week and a half with Vicky and her family. As she should be, she’s so excited. Anya is living with a dilemma of making a decision. Go into cops if she gets accepted by the Delaware State Troopers or go to Graduate school for a Masters in Social Work. Not an easy decision as each has their positives.
After having undergone a successful Liver Transplant, this past week Catherine had a kidney Transplant. So far so good and he expects to be home in two days.
Love You Honey and Miss You Continually.
George
March 25, 2021
March 25, 2021
Hi, Big mistake in yesterday's posting. It is not your eldest daughter but your youngest daughter, the athlete, Anya who broke her ankle. Also, so far she has been a good patient. Though like all of us is getting frustrated by the medical / insurance world.
Love You
George
March 24, 2021
March 24, 2021
Hey Honey,
Your eldest daughter did something new today. She didn’t sprain her ankle, she broke it! She was running the hills of Sunken Meadow Park all by herself. Typical Anya she was glad she was by herself so nobody could see her. Of course, I had the opposite reaction, nobody was there to help her. Sunken Meadow has poor telephone reception, but wherever she was in the park she got a call to us. A few Urgent Cares later looking for someone to take her insurance, she finally had the tell tale x-ray. She is the worst of patients. Within the first hour of being home she ate dinner and then was bored. Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow should keep getting worse. And of course, she is demanding. Oh well, she is our 24 year old baby child.
Love You
George
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
Dearest Diane,
If you were still here on earth you would tell us that this is still your Birthday Month, that you get March! So Happy Birthday Month!!!XXOO
This has not been a good week for us emotionally.
First Mrs. Manzione died. She was 95 when she died. She had been living with Mary and Kevin for a very long time, can’t say how long. Lovely lady who laughed and smiled with the best of them. She loved seeing people come into the house, it was obvious to all, she loved people. Her Church Service was this past Sunday.
Then Eileen died. Her Funeral was yesterday. She was in good health until Thanksgiving, began going down the slope around Thanksgiving and then took the express sled in the last couple of weeks. This is a difficult time for us all and of course most especially on Fritz. Masha and Anya are also taking it extremely hard in their own way. They are both hurting. As their mom you know that, please give them your “Mother’s Blessing.” Masha wrote this reflection:
Heaven has another beautiful angel. I can’t believe this is real. Aunt Eileen, you were and still are a best/special aunt. But you’re more than just that you were a best friend and our world to my sister and me. We shared so many memories, things only we could know. You have touched my life in many ways by being a wonderful aunt/best friend. I still remember the first day I met you. I knew that day you were going to be my best friend/aunt. The aunt that would go outside play soccer or basketball. The aunt would stay long hours to help with homework or just to have a girl's day out. I have so many memories that I will cherish forever. I’m going to miss those days where I would pick up the phone every week to call you asking you what day want to come over for dinner. I’ll miss your beautiful smile and hugs.
George Schmitt
February 14, 2021
Valentines Day, 2021
Dearest Diane,
Just couldn't let Valentine's Day go by without telling you How Much I LOVE You!
The world is a lovelier place to be because of you and all the love you shared with your family, friends, students, fellow teachers, kids in camp...
There are some people who have a way of genuinely adding happiness to each and every day. That's you!
Sometimes its been a little smile, or by holding hands. Sometimes by the way you have listened or understood so fully and compassionately. Diane, always there with your beautiful heart.
Happy Valentines Day, Love You my Honey
Lila Schmitt
February 9, 2021
Happy birthday Diane! I hope you are having as amazing a birthday in heaven as I was lucky enough to have here on earth last week. Of course I was celebrating a very big number! But I´m sure you are, because if heaven is as I imagine it, a place of joy and peace in the presence of God and our other loved ones who have passed, you are leading the celebration with them. How you loved a party and we did share some great birthdays!
Diane, we need your intercession so much right now. So many losses this year, please help those who are grieving. And please send your special blessings and help down to those struggling here on earth right now, most especially Eileen and Fritz , Patty and Christy.
We love and miss you and everyday we try our best to live your "attitude of gratitude" which you taught us!
Happy birthday!! Love you always,
Lila
Eileen Baldassarre
February 9, 2021
George said it all! You were an incredible cousin/friend and my life was made better by you. You infused me with confidence at a very young age. When I ventured out to try new things, like going away to college at age 18, I always thought about how you said "Go For It"! Our brave sweet Diane. I was thinking about your bd when I was in the dentist chair this morning. I was having a tooth drilled to prep for a crown. I was inconvenienced a simple 1 1/2 hours. I thought about everything you went through and endured. It puts life and its ups and downs in perspective. So, you inspire me to be brave about this "growing old" that is a mighty privilege I have. Miss you. Thankful for the time we did have together.
George Schmitt
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
I know its your Birthday, hope you’re having a good time!
Even before I got out of bed this morning, I must have received half a dozen texts from folks remembering your birthday. You are certainly one incredibly special person in so many lives.
Often in mopey times I think how my life would be different if you had not died 12 and a quarter years ago. But I’m very glad it’s your birthday! For if you did not have a birthday, I never would have known you at all. Talk about how different things would be for myself, the girls and all the people who remember you / love you to this very day, your ## Birthday. Our lives have been greatly enriched because of your life and love in ours.
Love You Tons and Tons, Happy Birthday my Birthday Girl.
George
February 8, 2021
February 8, 2021
Happy Birthday Eve to the Fairest Lassie in the Land!
Masha just asked your sister Catherine how old you will be tomorrow, amazing all these years have passed. No concern, I will not put down your age
I do have some important prayer requests for you. Karen´s husband Danny died a week or so ago, please pray for her, she needs it. My friend Mary Langhauser´s daughter Lisa is fighting cancer once again. Last time was two years ago. Of course Eileen and Fritz need your prayers during this difficult time. Continued recuperation of your sister Catherine.
Love You, Enjoy the last night of this past birthday year!
George
December 26, 2020
December 26, 2020
The Day after Christmas, Boxing Day, the Feast of St. Stephen!.
The girls and I had a mish mosh day. Relaxing, cleaning up AND as is our tradition still opening gifts from Christmas. Again, we did not finish with the Stockings until tonight! Wish you were here, and in so many ways you have been.
This is the second year that Masha has been Santa Clause and Anya became her elf this year. A tradition that we continue all these years later, we buy a Mishnah Calendar. Christmas early afternoon we visited with Shawn and Catherine in our old home. Gotta say honey, she looks great. I’m sure you are as happy as we are to see the great progress she has made.
Love You
George
December 23, 2020
December 23, 2020
Up until this past weekend, I was feeling good in relation to the Christmas Season. Then lots what I mentioned in the last entry is happening and I don’t feel so Jolly and Bright. Wish you were here, love you.
George
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
It is but a couple of days before Christmas and it is so different than any other Christmas. Not just for me but for everyone that I know.
Covid 19 has taken its toll in so many horrendous ways in our world. The girls and I have been fine, but its always on our minds. Karen’s husband Danny is in very bad shape at Winthrop Hosp; he is iffy at this time. A friend Alicia’s two brothers are in the midst and a real fear is her father who has been in contact with them. Not Covid, but Steve Shatinsky’s brother Jack died yesterday. Sadness and hurt all over ~~~ Please Honey, lots of prayers.
Covid has greatly changed how we will spend Christmas Eve and Christmas. But Christmas will be here and we will rejoice in the Miracle that Our Savior has been born to us.
Love You
George Schmitt
December 14, 2020
Hi Honey, It is now winter, a week and a half before Christmas. We decorated the tree tonight, mostly the girls (while I sat and relaxed).
Anya the bossy boss made the proclamation that the red and gold balls needed to stay separate. I knew she would not listen to me, so I told the truth ~ Your Mother wanted the red and gold balls to be together.
That worked. Your word carries lots of weight these 12 years later.
Tomorrow we are planning on going to the cemetery to put down greenery on your grave site.
Love You
George
December 14, 2020
This was supposed to be posted in the spring, but...
My Dearest,
These last couple of days have been big days in our family’s life.
Anya went down to Ocean City Maryland to join their Seasonal Police Force and hopefully through the year. Friday she drove down there to be fitted for her uniform (see picture, doesn’t she look happy!)
This morning she began the Academy. 13-hour days with an hour off for lunch. During that break she texted that it is busy, crazy and scary too. Yesterday I went to your graveside and took a picture of your plaque and sent it to her with the message that you and Marge (lady across the street) are with her. Please be there for her now and throughout her career as a police officer.
Wish you were here.
Lila Schmitt
November 12, 2020
Hi Diane,
Sorry I am so late with these end of Oct, early Nov thoughts that I usually send you!Halloween was a beautiful sunny day and while it is tied to the sadness of losing you and losing Mary (Grandma Emma) Schmitt, it was a happy day for us. With this pandemic going on interminably, it gave us some joyful respite to set a big table out front, put candy on it and watch the kids come and take it. Since the weather was mild and it was a Sat. a lot of little ones got to come around. I know you and Grandma Emma would have been delighting in the children if you were here with us (she would demand they do a trick beofre getting a treat), but most likely you both had something to do with the lovely weather and were together smiling down at us !!
Your girls are so grown and you should be so proud of what responsible, caring young women they are! George is so generous and good about getting the family together often for meals. Again, you have much to be proud of! We all miss you and think of you often. I trust you are sharing some good chats with Cousin Theresa who joined you this year. Please watch over us Diane! You have deeply affected so many of us and your attitude of gratitude is something that has helped us all get through some of the challenges of these times.
Love you so much!
Lila
Eileen Baldassarre
October 30, 2020
Diane, I am thankful for your life lived. Miss you always! Happy Anniversary in heaven this Nov 1st,
October 28, 2020
Dear Deets,
I think of you so often and remember all the time we spent laughing, praying, and loving nature. You had so much wisdom, and you shared it so freely -- with wit and sensitivity. I love you, Deets, and miss you so.
Love,
Liz
George Schmitt
October 28, 2020
Love You Honey. Life moves on, but so much is missing almost 12 years later.
Eileen Baldassarre
May 2, 2020
Dear Cousin Diane: May 2020 is a very strange time for All. Somehow, I have missed you more this year than most years. You always cheered everyone up!! So, I have been thinking about your "talks" and 'stories". Gee, I think we knew even back then, that "these were the good old days". I'm glad you showed me how to be positive and adventurous. And you were always thankful for all the good things. I like to remember you back in our childhood days with your "singing" anywhere you felt the urge. We all wish you were physically here!!! But you left great memories. And when I think of you, it really does cheer me up! I keep your soul in my prayers. I know you always kept me in your prayers. Thank-you. XXOOO.
George
April 9, 2020
April 9, 2020
Hi my Honey,
It is Holy Thursday. A Holy Thursday unlike any other I have celebrated. I have received some invitations to Masses that are being streamed and I chose one at 5:30 this evening. Have to say, I had no feeling of being at a Religious gathering, no less a Holy Thursday Mass. It was blahhhhh. They didnt even do the washing of the feet, guess afraid of the contact. Corona has caused all Church Holy Week Service Gatherings to be cancelled. For the last X amount of years, I have gone to OLMM in Wyandanch with Mary Franzese. Youd love it. A low key and prayerful celebration of the Lords Last Supper. And then today, no feeling at all. I know I have nothing to complain about with the Corona Virus in relation to the people and the families who have contracted it, but its there. As noted in my last Legacy entry Hope the community of All Saints including you are pulling hard for us to get through this as safely as possible.
Anya officially heard from the Ocean City Police that she has been accepted as a Seasonal Police. She is a very happy person.
Love You Honey. Best of Easter Celebration!
March 19, 2020
March 19, 2020
My Dearest Diane,
I wrote this on the Eve of St. Patrick's Day, but forgot to post it.
Ah yes, St. Patricks Day. But its just not the same, not just because you are not here to celebrate it with us and make Soda Bread, but the Corona Virus has changed everything. At our Division of the AOH, it was a whole day of festivities. Mass to start the day, bus trip to the City Parade. Marching in the Parade and the bus back. Corned Beef Dinner awaiting followed by a full night of Irish entertainment. 2020 St. Particks day has none of this. The Hall is actually closed until the day after Easter at minimum.
This virus has changed so very much. In our family, Anya has lost her senior year at Siena and she has lost her last season of collegiate track. She was so looking forward to doing excellent in the Steeple Chase. Mashas job and schooling have been suspended. Not to do with Corona, but added to Anyas difficulties, Anyas girlfriend broke up with her. Shes hurting, please be with her in a special way.
Even Churches have closed and with no weekday or Sunday masses. They are already saying no Masses on Easter. Flights have been grounded. Bars, Restaurants and even gyms have been forced to close.
Most importantly the elderly and those who have compromised respiratory difficulties are in grave danger. Its been a horrible couple of weeks and it promises to continue to who knows when.
Hope the community of All Saints including you are pulling hard for us to get through this as safely as possible.
Love You, George
PS on the good side. Anya has successfully completed all of her tests with the Ocean City Police Department. So as long as the city does not closedown due to the Corona Virus, she will have achieved her goal of following her uncles in being a police officer!
George
February 20, 2020
February 20, 2020
Dearest Diane,
Masha and I had dinner with Peg, John and Mrs. Murph last night. It was a very pleasant evening. Lots of good food, talk, catching up and rememberances. Naturally you were high on the list of rememberances.
They are empty-nesters. I remember youre speaking to Peggy and trying to show her all the good that could come out of their making an apartment in the basement. Discussion is alive and strong in their home.
Mrs. Murph is doing real well. She looks well and is still filled with spark. She is living in Matts house in Oakdale.
Love you, Miss you!
George
February 16, 2020
Hi Honey,
Last day of your birthday week so celebrating birthday week and month with you!
I read Lila's below and have to admit, been remiss about asking your prayers in your Legacy page. So along with Lila I ask your presence with God to assist Theresa and Colleen. Keep in prayer the kids I teach in Whyandanch, pray that they remember this year as a good experience of God and Church, even if they don't remember any of the lessons :-). Also, a friend had a granddaughter born yesterday, be with all.
As for Masha, she has a new boy friend Jamie and she continues moving toward a dog grooming, be with her.
As for Anya, she is very close to having a job in law enforcement for this summer in Ocean City Maryland. And she is having difficulties with her girl friend at this time. And she is in the middle of her thesis. Be with her.
Me, I am fine and dandy and I know you are always with me.
Love you
Lila Schmitt
February 15, 2020
Hey Diane, I wrote you a message on your birthday but I guess I didn't hit submit because I don't see it! We were in Md with your birthday partner, Colleen and I asked you to be with her as she struggles with some health issues. She's so spiritual, I'm sorry you didn't have the time here to get to know that side of her. Please Diane be with so many of our family members especially Cousin Theresa. Your intercession in our lives here on earth gives us strength and keeps you with us in so many ways. As always our birthday month wasn't as good without you here physically, but you are truly felt and remembered at your birthday and always! Miss you but know you have found your eternal reward for all your goodness! Happy birthday!
February 14, 2020
XXX HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!!! OOO
Happy Birthday Week!!
Happy Birthday Month!!
Love You Soooooo Much
George
February 9, 2020
February 9, 2020
Oh my gosh, your Birthday month is halfway over because your birthday is today. Wont say how many years. You would not be happy if I did.
Your baby Masha spent the weekend by herself in our home. Studying for her dog grooming course and seeing her current boyfriend, Jamie.
Reason she was alone, Anya and I went to Ocean City, Maryland for the weekend. Anya was taking testing for the OC Police Department and wanted me with her (cute, isnt it?). Bottomline, she is in! It is a seasonal position, but so proud of her. And all who know you ~ we all know you are so Proud of her and Happy for her.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, LOVE YOU
Cousin Eileen Baldassarre
February 7, 2020
Happy Birthday Month in Heaven! Sweet Cuz,I wish you were here. We all miss you very much! The memory of you and the example you set of enjoying life still stays with me. When I am feeling down, I remember your great outlook and how you had such positive energy. I am feeling down as a friend, Katherine, age 71, has recently gone to heaven. As with your passing too, heaven is richer, the earth is poorer! Remember your family and friends hold you in their hearts forever. Remembering Diane,
George
December 23, 2019
December 23, 2019
Hi Honey, here we are but a couple of days from Christmas.
It has been an interesting season so far. Roles have begun to flip. Masha and Anya moving up to taking over and Im given less responsibilities. It is rather interesting to feel this going on. It feels a bit awkward, but I have to tell you, I like it! Im saying awkward because I have to let go of things. Perhaps it is letting go of how I have done it in the past, or making sure it gets done, or not having the same traditions or just taking the back seat.
Both the outside and inside of the house were decorated by Masha and Anya. I hardly did a thing. The inside was done on a day that I went upstairs to take a nap and I came downstairs to the Christmas Wonderland! Only thing not done was the decorating of the tree because at least as of this year, the tradition has continued where we invite folks over to trim the tree. But we no longer tell the story of each ornament . I have attached a picture that Shawn took as we were finishing up and see how he got you in the picture. It is the picture that goes on our tree every year since Masha and her teacher created it. The outdoor was basically Anya. Eventually I needed to tell her to come in because it was cold and dark, and of course she did not. She just goes and goes and goes.
Though there have been changes, somethings remain the same. We received a gift box filled with treats from Eileen and Mino to enjoy at Christmas time. Last year we hosted Christmas for the first time and Masha liked it so much she/we volunteered to do it again. Our full Christmas tree on Christmas morning might be getting a little thinner but not much. Talking about Christmas morning, the big Birthday Breakfast and celebrating Mashas Birthday will be enjoyed. Santa gives us a Mishna Calendar every year that has a place where all of our engagements will go on throughout the year!
It really has been a funny sort of year as we get ready for December 25! And of course, we miss you and we love you so much.
Lila Schmitt
November 1, 2019
Diane it's so unbelievable to think that you left us 11 years ago. I always think of you and of my mother-in-law, Mary Schmitt, together, as you both left us at Halloween time. I think it's fitting; you both had the wide open hearts of children, enjoying all the fun of Halloween, and truly we celebrate you both on All Saints Day today! You are the true saints, the real people we know who lived lives of great holiness and compassion, and you have gone before us to your heavenly reward. We miss you and love you and pray to you, please watch over us and be with us in our hearts always.
Eileen Baldassarre
November 1, 2019
Diane, Forever in Our Hearts! The memory of Diane's wonderful kind deeds and words have not faded away. Her life had a lot of meaning for a lot of people. I hope all of the family and friends have comforting memories. God Bless Diane! Continue to Rest in Peace, Diane.
George
October 29, 2019
October 29, 2019
Quick aside as I start what promises will be a longer than normal entry. A week ago, Anya showed your Legacy book to one of her Professors. The paper that was being discussed is social media and grieving in this new Internet world of ours. They couldnt help noticing that the last entry was in May. When Anya told me, it left me with a big ughhhhh. Hope you know it is just letting days slip into weeks slipping into months. It is not that I dont think of you, love you and have you in my mind and heart always.
Yes, it is already merely 3 days before we recognize (I can't use the word celebrate) the 11th year Anniversary of your death. As I have been thinking of your dying 11 years ago, I shake my head. How can that be? How could you not be in our day in and day out lives for the last 11 years, it cannot be. How could we be living through all the regular and the spectacular events of our lives all this time without you? It makes no sense.
Just thinking of this past year, how much you were missed, how much your loving quirky, your kooky presence would have added to our happy celebrations. All of the formal family celebrations of Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving, Mashas graduation, birthdays Your Confirmation sponsoree Michael and Brittanys wedding in Mexico. Your Goddaughter Katherines Wedding to Travis. Does anyone who knew you think you would not have done something or said something that would have added to these celebrations! There may have been a lot of shaking of heads and muttering thats Diane, but we would have loved it and cherished these moments in our hearts. Because it was Diane being her loving self and making everyone feel special. All of the informal gatherings on our front porch, family room, our siblings homes, even nieces and nephews homes! To people who dont know you, it is hard to describe what fun and love you brought to such occasions, but to those who experienced you, it puts a smile on our faces and stories to our lips --- yes, even 11 years later.
Also miss your loving somberness. You had a wonderful way of sitting with us and work our troubling things. It could be something as simple as Math or English homework with the girls and so many others you generously gave of your time and talent. Also much greater issues, the ones that tear at us. Should we adopt, who should we adopt, how can we live with ourselves by leaving other children behind...? You did this not just with Masha, Anya and me but with all who needed your ear, heart and reasonableness. With the Wisdom of Solomon you would help us unravel the dire and complicated times of our lives. This past year I think of Masha and Anya breaking up with their beaus and how earth ending those situations seemed. You would have made it much easier on them. When I see a specific need that I dont understand what to do with, I think of what your heart and wisdom would bring to this situation.
And then there is my spiritual Diane. Such a beautiful relationship you had and continue to have with our God and Mary. You have full faith and confidence that our lives will work themselves out for the best because our God is always with us. Honey, how many people asked you to pray for their intentions and the intentions of their loved ones. You died on Thursday Nov 1, 2018. On that day you still had the prayer list in your hand that grew for a long time. It is why even today I know I can turn to you and youll intercede. Most especially now for our sister-in-law Liz and our friend Anne Marie who are recuperating from surgeries, Theresa who has a long way to go and Spanky, my friend Alicias dog who is currently sick. Please be with them, their families and their medical teams.
Oh BTW, I am teaching Religion School in St. Wyandanch once again. This year I have fifth graders, most of whom are preparing for First Communion. I must admit, I say over and again ~ these kids are missing the Diane and George act that we did the last few years before you died. They would have learned a helluva lot more, they would have had a better loving experience of Gods love and had a lot more fun. I get through the Thursday nights but know how better it could be for them and for me if we were teamed together.
Now before I sign off, back to some fun. The East Islip Schmitts got some of that Diane R. Travelling Bug in us. This year Masha went to Spain with her girlfriends (including Victoria across the street from our Brentwood home), Anya went on a Cruise with her girlfriend Gina, I went to Cuba with Don and Donna and some of their friends and we all went to Mexico for Michaels wedding. OMG such great trips. Honey I cannot even tell you how many times the travelling Diane came into our conversations both during and after the trips. You coulda, woulda, shoulda been with us. And in a sense, you were during the travels and every day, yes 11 years after your death.
Love You and wish you were with us. How much richer our lives would be every day.
George
May 23, 2019
May 23, 2019
Masha is a College Graduate!!!
BIGGGGDAAYYY today.
Class of 2019 Suffolk Community College
In todays world one can communicate with the graduate during the Commencement Ceremony through Texting. In one text Masha expressed ~ Im so emotional right now missing mom. After some back and forths I texted ~ What sort of silliness would your mom do today? You know shed do something. Masha responded ~ probably be dancing or screaming my name. Naturally I agreed and your cousin Dan whose daughter was also graduating agreed when I read him the texts. And all agreed you would not have been able to stay in your seat
BTW her Godmother took your place in the screaming realm and gave out a great big shout of Masha when her name was called as a graduate.
Some good teariness today but overall joy and pride for Masha. Im sure you too are so filled with pride and happiness for Masheeee.
Love You, Miss You
April 30, 2019
Hi Honey
It is early morning on my birthday. And though I have already received greetings and best wishes and many heartfelt words of Happy Birthday ~ I miss your making the day so special. Masha has gone way out of her way to put together family and meal tonight, I had lunch with Judy yesterday and Bill Moran today ~ I still miss you making my birthday special for me. Not being maudlin, I am going to enjoy this day but I do miss you. Love You!
George
April 18, 2019
We have moved from your Birthday Month to my Birthday Month!!!
And we are also in Holy Week. As is tradition, I will be going to Holy Thursday 8:00 Mass with Mary Franzese otherwise known as Mary O. We go to St. Wyandanch, otherwise known as Our Lady of Miraculous Medal. It is where we taught Religion School the last couple of years before you got too sick. Oh how those kids loved you. We taught the same group for a couple of years as they moved from grade to grade leading to Confirmation. They were attached to you for very good reasons. I went back there in the Fall and offered my services after Track with Bay Shore was finishing. The need this year were younger ones. Kinders who did not receive First Communion in second grade for various reasons. So I took them through First Reconciliation and First Communion preparation. First Communion is May 11. Have to tell you, it was fun. Much more enjoyable than I could have imagined.
And of course, in two days it will be the Easter Vigil and then Easter Sunday. Anya has a meet on Saturday so it is iffy whether she will be home in time to make the Vigil. This is the first Easter in the last decade that we are not hosting Easter Dinner. We had hosted Christmas and without Anya home to help in the preparation, Masha and I voted ~ not this year. Mary and Kevin will be having the Schmitts and extended Schmitts on Easter. Have to say, it has been a relaxing few days since Easter does not mean just Indoor clean and setup, but Outside too. We still havent finished the Autumn Outdoor Cleaning. Sad but true.
Have to head out for Holy Thursday Mass. Love You and Miss You Always.
George
February 14, 2019
OOOXXX HAPPY VALENTINES DAY MY LOVE XXXOOO
Yesterday I was reminiscing in my mind of the Valentines Day decades ago when you picked me up at Islip Airport and then out for dinner. After about half a dozen stops, we realized that everyone goes out for dinner on Valentines Night. Sowe had a nice evening driving around Suffolk and ending up at a nearby diner so we would not go hungry. Thanks so much for putting up with me throughout our lives together.
Love You
Lila Schmitt
February 10, 2019
Dear Diane,
I'm sorry I am a day late with these thoughts and wishes but we we have been away in Florida and I'm trying to catch up! Please know we thought of you yesterday ( as we do every day) but with special smiles, remembering how much you loved birthdays. Of course you loved all celebrations of every kind and found reasons to celebrate all the time. That attitude of gratitude that you had continues to influence me. I try in small ways to always remember how much pleasure and joy you took in everything, even when you were sick and suffering. Thank you for being such a profound influence on me and all the family. My Elizabeth thinks of you often and I know you have been an important presence in her life. You would be proud of the wonderful, caring teacher she has become and I think she emulates you in many ways. Yes, you have touched us all and continue to do so... so happy birthday in heaven, dear Diane. We love and miss you very much. We know you are watching over us. Keep us in your prayers. Thank you!
Lila
George
February 10, 2019
As my mom would say, Oh My Head. How did I let yesterday pass by me without adding a Happy Birthday to your legacy book? Thank goodness your cousin Eileen didn't let the 10th appear without writing to you. By the way, family and friends called to acknowledge your Birthday. I Love You Honey!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MONTH
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WEEK
Cousin Ei
February 9, 2019
Diane, you are always in her hearts. Your life was a blessing to me, your family and friends, your students, and to all who were fortunate with making your acquaintance. Rest in Peace "Dear One".
George
February 4, 2019
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MONTH
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WEEK
XXXOOOOOXXX
LOVE YOU
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