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August 2, 2010
Kev, thinking of you and Ellen today.
Your brother and brother in law.
Paul. will light a candle for you here
at St.Patrick's where your mother in law first went to church here. Have a good week.
joanna koinis
November 4, 2006
Hi all,
This is weird that I'm writing this but tonight the crew @ ACE got together at Dave and busters to wish Sheldon M. well wishes on his new job leaving ACE. And of course we thought of our good friend Kevin CAREY :) ..We all actually had a sweet moment of silence to pay respect for our great friend Kevin C!! This part is kinda strange but when i got home i was searching the net and my name happen to be in the search field for the internet and automatically it pulled up my little speech that i wrote in this guest book for Kevin Carey back in 2004. I felt compelled to send a shout out so his friends and family still know that Kevin still lives in all of our thoughts and that he will never ever be forgotten!
Kevin was a great guy that left us way too early and to you Ellen your love for him is evident and i hope your doing well and be strong ....Thru you his memory lives on!!! ceeeyaaa jojo
PAUL SONOSKY
August 8, 2006
thinking about you Kev, this week
especially when the Seinfeld episode when George was the real
estate agent and gets revenge on his boss for firing him, is on syndicated TV.
Thank you for being a huge part
of Ellen's life, and ours.
Your brother in law. Paul.
Ellen
August 2, 2006
Two years. Doesn't seem possible. I miss your laugh, your smile, your voice. You are with me always. I missed the deadline for an In Memoriam this year. So I'm late again as usual. I love you.
Paul Sonosky
September 16, 2005
Happy Birthday Kev. Your brother-in-law always.
Ellen
September 14, 2005
Happy Birthday Kevin. You should have turned 46 today. Not that you would have made any big deal about it. I miss you today just like every other day.
Ellen Carey
August 2, 2005
I dread tomorrow. It will be the first time I won't be able to look back over the past 365 days and remember a day with you in it. A day we talked, walked, ate, drank, slept, laughed, cried, yelled, fought, made up, held hands, watched TV, rode our bikes, played with Tilly. I miss you so much and think of you always. Tilly misses you of course but she's doing okay. We're both so lonely without you.
My life with you was not always easy, but it was the life I thought I was born to live. I'm trying to think about what to do next but I'm not in any rush. In the meantime, I cherish every memory and long for the time we'll be together again. I will find you, Kevbo. No matter how long. No matter how far.
Ellen Carey
December 24, 2004
I can't believe it's Christmas Eve and Kevin's not with me. Every year since we met, Christmas has been a day that we usually spent quietly - usually watching great movies - It's a Wonderful Life and A Christmas Story to name a few. I decorated the house, Kevin cooked the turkey and listened to TranSiberian Orchestra. The day was usually spent quietly with just the two of us. It's very hard for me now to see the TSO DVD case or the three monogrammed stockings he surprised me with last year.
It all began really on Christmas Day 1986. Kevin somehow tracked down the phone number to my parents beach house in North Carolina, where my family was spending Christmas and New Year's. He wished me a Merry Christmas and asked if I'd like to spend New Year's with him. He said he'd come south, I could come north or we could go to Jamaica. For some reason I picked north. Before the weekend was over, he told me he thought he was falling in love with me.
I would give anything for one more midnight walk with you, my Kevbo. I love you and miss you with all my heart. All I want for Christmas is you.
jim zieran
September 15, 2004
Dont worry kev, i will keep it short and sweet!. happy birthday my friend,"go yanks"!.
Mary McCullough
September 14, 2004
Today is Kevin's 45 birthday. As painful as it is that he is not here to celebrate this milestone, it is still his birthday and we will never forget that. Kevin did not like, or want us, to make a big deal about his birthday -- I think sometimes it drove him crazy that Ellen's family made such a big deal about birthdays, but he came to understand that was a "unique" feature of the other side. While we "tried" our best to honor his request to keep the celebrations and acknowledgements down to a dull roar, we did not like to let the day go by without calling him to say "Happy Birthday." So . . . happy birthday Kevin -- from Mary, David, John and Matthew. We miss you.
Ellen
September 13, 2004
I keep telling myself that Kevin never made a big fuss about his birthday so I shouldn't be that upset tomorrow. Maybe he thought differently when he was a kid but by the time I met him his birthday had become "just another day." I'd always tell him it was more than that to me.
I spend the weeks before my birthday dropping subtle - and not so subtle - hints to anyone willing to listen. But he'd get so mad at me if I "informed" anyone - despite my protest that it was a big day and worthy of celebration. I miss him so much I feel like I could split in two sometimes. But somehow the memories that start out so painful usually make me smile. I will always love you Kevbo - Happy Birthday.
JOANNA KOINIS
September 1, 2004
Obviously everyone reading this already knows what great guy Kevin is … a little bit a of a hard edge but I always knew that if I needed his helping hand he would always help advise .. Go the extra step make sure I completely understood the task @ hand... he is a unique special guy.. Completely irreplaceable I will always have a fond sadness in my heart when I think of him Not being here anymore … I can only imagine what a tremendous, sad loss his family and friends must feel even though I only worked w/Kevin I definitely will always consider him a friend of mine… who knows why tragedy’s like this happen but maybe if it’s at all a consolation knowing we got him up there on our side… love always joanna Koinis
Sean Kiernan
August 26, 2004
Kevin's approach to work included a philosophy that he expressed to me on more than one occasion. It was something very close to this, "If I ever get up in the morning and say, 'I'm not enjoying myself at work anymore', don't expect to see me here again. Life is too short to be unhappy about what you do every day."
It was always something of a joke between us that he had no personal effects at his desk. I would sometimes say to Kevin, "I guess if you decide to leave, you won't have much to pack-just your pen and you're on your way". He would just look at me and say, "It's not my pen."
This spoke volumes to me then and it does even more now. I count myself fortunate to have had Kevin as part of my life; fortunate that he chose to be part of what our work life entailed-ups and downs, intense pressure and times of stress-all the while managing to shed his unique, sarcastic humor on it all. No matter how things got, we could always share a laugh and ease through it. I was fortunate to have counted him as a friend.
Kevin's approachable demeanor and his incredible common sense and general knowledge made him both an advisor and a confidant to many of us here. There was a sense of trust infused in many conversations I had with Kevin and I know many other people felt the same.
I can say that Kevin would be satisfied to know how well liked and respected he was by all of us and how much he was loved by those of us who do.
Ellen
August 22, 2004
I just wanted to say thank you to everyone. It helps me so much to remember - I can't help but laugh and Kevin was the only one who could make me laugh no matter what. It made staying mad at him impossible.
I justed wanted to share that I met Kevin 18 years ago today. If he were here, he would roll his eyes and pretend to remember. But I remember the day as if it were yesterday. And he did too though he didn't admit it very often.
I was working in DC for the Communications Company - at that time headed by Bob Squier and Carter Eskew - I was the office scheduler and personal assistant to Bob and Carter...but I digress. Please also note that at this point of the story Kevin would be paying more attention to the Yankee game so feel free to go about your business 'cause this could take me a while.
The political director - a guy named Tom - said to me Friday afternoon that a bunch of friends from high school were meeting at the Circle Bar at the newly renovated Willard Hotel - this is 1986 - and that they were moving a friend of his named Mike down from New York over the weekend. I remember thinking I was going to pass - the Circle Bar was the yuppie place to go and I was not into it - but for some reason decided to go anyway.
I walk into the lobby of the Willard and see Tom sitting there. Sitting next to him -- on an antique desk of all things -- was a tall, slim guy with long feet and most of the hair on top of his head missing. But he had amazing eyes and a cocky, great smile. Now I'm not sure I noticed all of this in the first few seconds -- I remember mainly thinking "who the hell does this guy think he is that he can sit on a 200-year old desk?" So I say hello to Tom and Tom introduced me to Kevin.
We didn't stay long at the bar and everyone headed over to Dupont Circle to a relatively new restaurant called the Odeon Cafe. Kevin ended up sitting next to me at dinner and I remember he sat like he was in his living room - or the Smith's living room ;o) -his arm slung over the back of my chair and his long legs stretched out to the side, crossed at the ankles. I don't remember what we talked about but I do remember walking to my car - I was giving him and his friends a ride to the Bottom Line for a nightcap - and I turned and looked at him and said "has anyone ever told you you look a lot like William Hurt?" I don't remember his answer. But I do remember his smile - and I turned and walked ahead and I knew he was watching me. The rest is history, as he'd say. How I miss him.
Jack & Carol Smith
August 20, 2004
Dear Ellen, "K",as we often called him, was a good friend of our son Kevin."K" spent a lot of time at our home.... he was very much "family" to us . We have many fond memories of him and his wonderful sense of humor. When our family gets together, "K" has often been the topic of our conversation. We loved him and will miss him. May God bless you !! Our love to you !! Jack & Carol
Jack Boyles
August 18, 2004
I had the pleasure and great fortune of having Kevin as my Real Estate Appraisal mentor for the past two years. He was one of the most patient persons that I had ever met. We would always mix in some Yankees talk with resolving the latest appraisal issue. Kevin will be missed by all on a professional and friendship level. May he rest in peace...
Kevin Smith
August 17, 2004
I’m not really sure how to go about doing this. My family and I were on vacation in Mexico. I did not hear about Kevin’s passing until I came home nearly two weeks later. I’ve only had a few days to try to process this.
Kevin and I had lost touch through the years. Occasionally, I heard little things about him, and how he was doing through mutual friends. My parents received a Christmas Card every year and they’d keep me updated on how “K” was doing. It never came as a surprise to learn that he was doing very well. He had a wonderful wife, a good job, and still kept in touch with some of the friends we had grown up with.
I’d always had it in the back of my mind that, eventually I would call Kevin and rekindle our friendship.
Kevin Carey was one of those few people you meet in your life that leave an indelible impression. My earliest memory of Kevin was on the Basketball court at a C.Y.O. tryout. I was in fifth grade. Kevin was this tall skinny kid with a mop of straight blonde hair. I vividly remember him strutting across the court with his long gangly body dripping in “cockiness”. I quickly learned he had the charm, brains and skill to back that cocky strut.
Things I remember most about Kevin, besides his kind gentle manner, was his sense of humor and athleticism. He was one of the most fun people to be around. He had the innate gift of making everyone around him feel good. He had a great laugh. It was just fun to be with him. Anyone who knew Kevin in High School must remember him holding court in the lobby with the likes of Tom and Peter Ochs, Andy Patapas, Rick Madia, Paul Friedman, Paul Santoli, Gary McTaigue, Chris Smith, Mike McGuckin,…etc.
My favorite image of Kevin goes back to CYO baseball. I was a pitcher and as a kid I was pretty good. I made the All-star team every year and not too many people could hit me. Kevin was one the few that could. I will never forget the way he stood at the plate when he hit against me. He stood straight up with that “Willie Stargell wind mill” swinging thing he did and would point to center field with his bat, as if he were Babe Ruth all the time smiling, almost laughing. More often than not, he would launch one over the center fielders head, never once removing that smile from his face as he rounded the bases.
My parents have pictures of Kevin in some of our family albums which have always been and will always be special to me. My wonderful memories of Kevin are even more important and I will have them forever.
Kevin…the world is less without you. Ellen, my prayers are with you and your family.
Kevin Smith
PAUL SONOSKY
August 16, 2004
Dear Ellen: I just wanted to send you
an email saying how much I will
treasure the times you Kevin and I
spent together. I remember the time
you and Keven, with the help of Mom
and Dad took me to the On Top of the World Restaraunt at the World Trade
Center for my 30th birthday for one of my Wagner Ring festivities. I remember the time, I think it was the 1992 matinee Kevin saw me go into the Metropolitan Opera House. I further remember you listened to some of the broadcast on WQXR on the way home. I am sure by then he knew how much going to the opera or even the symphony meant to me. I also remember his dry sense of humor. I mentioned how good the hot dog on the train was and he said: good ol' AM food huh Paul? Remember him always Ellen, I hope that will sustain you throughout your life. I love you and am proud of you always.Your brother Paul.
Kevin Eyerman
August 11, 2004
I consider myself lucky to have been able to work with Kevin over the past three years and to have been able to get to know him during that time. Kevin was a fine person, generous with his time and willingness to help others. He quietly led by example and his unique wit always brought a smile to our faces.
I’ve learned that Kevin was quite the athlete over the years and I look back with fondness over our many conversations on sports, and about our respective trials and tribulations to become the next Tiger Woods! Another great athlete, Jackie Robinson, once said “A life is not important except in the impact it has on other lives”. With that in mind, no one can understate the importance of knowing Kevin. We are all thankful for having been blessed with that experience.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Kevin, his wife, and his family and loved ones.
(Father) Peter Paproski
August 11, 2004
Ellen,
I am so sorry for your loss. Kevin was very helpful to me when I started working for ACE as an Appraiser. He was a good and patient teacher. Also any time I needed guidance on a tough issue, he was always willing to help and gave me sensible advice.
On a more personal note, I admired him as he was always willing to relate on a personal level, not just business. When my father passed away last year, he was one of the first to offer his condolences. It was at that time that I had the opportunity to get a glimpse of his "soul" and his deep faith in God.
In addition to being an appraiser I am an Orthodox Christian Priest. Please know both you and Kevin are in our prayers at Church.
"May God Rest the soul of His Newly Departed and Ever-memorable Servant Kevin in a serene and peaceful place where there is neither sickness, sorrow or pain, but life everlasting." May His Memory Be Eternal!
Sincerely,
Kerry Smith
August 10, 2004
Ellen, my deepest sympathies to you and all of Kevin's family and friends. I knew Kevin as "K" for as long as I can remember, although I haven't seen him in over 25 years. He went to school with my older brother Kevin and I have too many fond memories and funny stories to recount here. I'll always remember him, circa 1977, sitting sideways in our family room recliner, long legs splayed over the armrest. From my spot on the floor, only his tube socks and sneakers visible, listening and laughing, as he cracked endless jokes, all the while eating Friendly's Buttercrunch ice cream straight out of the carton. He was always a very sweet man and a bright light; he'll be missed, but surely not forgotten.
Brian Ornstedt
August 9, 2004
Although I knew you for a short time, You left a mark on me. Your wisdom and patience in teaching are still an inspiration. God bless you.
Michele Calello
August 8, 2004
Almighty God, we remember this day before thee thy faithful servant Kevin; and we pray that, having opened to him the gates of larger life, thou wilt receive him more and more into thy joyful service, that, with all who have faithfully served thee in the past, he may share in the eternal victory of Jesus Christ our Lord; who liveth and reigneth with thee, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Our deepest sympathy for your untimely loss. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
Ron Cook
August 6, 2004
Kevin...Not having you around to share experiences, problems and just plain friendship with is a void that is shared by everyone in ACE and I'm sure anyone you ever decided to let into your circle of friends. You were one if a kind and will be missed by many......
Madonna Fusco
August 6, 2004
Kevin was extremely helpful to me when I first started at ACE. He seemed to always found time in his busy day to help me and others out. I will miss him dearly.
jim zieran
August 6, 2004
ellen,
I am deeply saddened for your loss, words cannot express the pain i feel as well. I have had the honor of knowing kevin for 3 plus years and the impact he had on my life will never be forgotten.No matter what the conversation was about, home chores, work, yankees or his cat tilly, he had always put great emphasis in everything he said and done.My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, god bless.
Robbie Simonson
August 6, 2004
I graduated Syosset HS 1977 with Kev. We first met at the age of 8, we both played on the same Little League team, K&S Transportation. Then attended Junior high and high school together.
What I remember most about Kev was he always had a smile on his face no matter the situation, and he always helped his friends. He will surely be missed. If there is anything our family can do to assist his family through this time please contact me, 631-859-0500. Our thoughts will be with you.
Tom Sullivan
August 6, 2004
Kevin was a fine individual who was instrumental in the development of many appraisers. His knowledge and skill at training contributed to the success of many others and for that he is owed a great debt by many. I will miss working with him and also discussing our shared enthusiasm for the Dallas Cowboys.
Kate VanDyke Dzierzanowski
August 6, 2004
Ellen, Words can not express the sadness I feel for you. I am very sorry for your loss. We will keep you and yours in our thoughts and prayers.
Jerry Sonosky
August 5, 2004
Kevin, may the road rise to meet you.
Ann Conforti
August 5, 2004
Kevin was an amazing person. He and I graduated from Syosset High School together and worked together for almost a year before either of us realized it! It was an honor working with Kevin. WE ALL MISS HIM SO MUCH!!!!!!!
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