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SPILLER, MARTIN 'MARTY' G., 50 of Taunton, Somerset, United Kingdom, beloved husband of Raelyn (Bennett) Spiller for 23 years died suddenly September 10, 2002 in Ipswich, England. Born in Hartford, CT, August 6, 1952, he was the son of Maxine (Huey) Spiller and the late Harry E. Spiller. He was a former resident of Windsor Locks, and Enfield, CT. He was a Vietnam Veteran having served with the 84th Combat engineers. He was employed by Lockheed-Martin as a Staff Engineer in a UK facility in Taunton, Somerset, UK. His company recognized him as one of the top 100 employees in 2001. His employment brought him former residences in Orlando, FL, DeRidder, LA and Fresno, CA prior to his assignment in the UK. He was an avid Red Sox fan, an animal lover and sports enthusiast. He enjoyed traveling and was able to tour many of the European countries while residing abroad. His hobby was genealogy, and he established a web-site and was active communicating with hundreds of visitors to the site. He was an active member of the NSSAR (National Society of the Sons of the American Revolution) and a former member of the Smalley Bros. Post #6123-VFW in Windsor Locks. His greatest love was his family and he felt especially blessed in June having seen his only grandson for the first time. Besides his wife, and mother, he leaves two sons, Gregory P. Spiller and his partner, Leslie Wall of Simi Valley, CA; and Eric D. Spiller of Austin, TX; a daughter, Tina E. Cox and her husband, C. Michael Cox of Taunton, UK; three sisters, and their husbands, Linda and Paul Formanek of Suffield, CT; Margaret 'Mickey' and Steven Sabat and Pamela and Michael Agey of Windsor Locks, CT; a grandson, Adam Spiller of Simi Valley, CA; his mother and father-in-law, Francis and Jeanette Bennett of Enfield, many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. Marty was a loving and compassionate and giving man who also leaves behind countless friends and co-workers, who will miss him dearly. Besides his father, Harry Spiller, he was predeceased by his stepdaughter, Lisa Cocchi and a nephew, Patrick Formanek. Relatives and friends are invited to gather Saturday at 10AM at the Congregational Church of Windsor Locks 8 Main St., Windsor Locks, CT where funeral services will be held with the Rev. Kevin Flannery officiating. Interment will be in Grove cemetery with military honors. His family will receive friends Friday from 2-4 and 7-9PM at the Windsor Locks Funeral Home 441 Spring St., Windsor Locks, CT. Memorial donations in Marty's name are suggested to the Make a Wish Foundation 940 White Plains Rd., Trumbull, CT 06611.

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Published by Orlando Sentinel on Sep. 19, 2002.

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brenda and Bill Trowbridge

September 12, 2021

Gone but never forgotten. xxx

brenda and Bill

September 12, 2020

Gone before your time . Gone but never forgotten xxxx

Mickey Sabat

September 12, 2020

18 years gone but never ever forgotten. Steve and I miss you every single day. Love you baby brother always.

September 12, 2019

Miss you so much little brother. Been like forever. Love Mickey

mickey sabat

October 6, 2016

Missing you everyday baby brother. Now you have Dennis with you to join your hunting team. Love you
Mickey

Cliff Jones

February 23, 2016

I was thinking of you today friend. Time passes quickly. A lifetime ago.

tina cox

December 6, 2013

I am happy we kept this book. For the last few days I have missed you so much. I just want to talk to you and see you smile. You're always in my heart daddy,

Brenda and Bill Trowbridge

August 6, 2010

Forever in our Thoughts. Dear Marty.

August 6, 2010

Happy Birthday little bro.
Miss you so much
love always your big sis.

tina cox

August 5, 2010

Daddy,

Tomorrow is your birthday and it always hits me so hard.

So much is going on in my life that I want to share with you and I miss you so much.

I still think I see you sometimes in a passing car or in line at a store. You're always in the back of my mind smiling and joking.

I just miss you so much. I keep telling myself I was lucky to have you as long as I did and the reason it hurts so much is because we loved each other so much.

Forever your little girl,
tt

Brenda and Bill Trowbridge

August 9, 2009

We will never forget you Marty and even now talk about you.
7 years since you was taken way,
Although I am sure we will meet again,some day.!
Brenda and Bill

August 7, 2009

Happy Birthday Marty, I miss you so much.
I LOVE YOU ALWAYS LITTLE BRO.
Mickey

August 5, 2009

Tomorrow is your birthday. Another year. I love and miss you everyday and wish I could play catch in the back yard.

Always in my heart...

tt

Juan Mafnas

June 23, 2009

Although we never met, we shared the same memories of Viet Nam and our Army organization, the 84th Engr. Battalion. Rest in peace my brother in arms. See in in later life.

mickey Sabat

September 12, 2008

Always on my mind!
I miss you still.
Luv u little bro.

tina cox

September 11, 2008

Another year.... I can't believe it's 6 years ago that we lost you.

I thought about you all day yesterday. I miss you so much Daddy.

tt

Brenda Trowbridge

August 7, 2008

Happy Birthday Marty,Another year and it is still hard to accept you are not here. Think of you often. God Bless, sleep tight our thoughts are with you every night.
Brenda,Bill and family ( Wellington, Somerset .UK

mickey sabat

August 6, 2008

Happy Birthday Marty, Still miss you terribly. When I think of you I always smile
Give Mom and Dad a hug for me.
I love you Bro,
Mickey

Tina Cox

November 14, 2007

Time goes by so quickly.... With everyday that passes I miss you more and more. They say it is supposed to get easier as time passes. They were wrong. I love you Daddy.

TT (pinching my cheek just for you!)

This is the smile I'll always remember!!!

margaret Sabat

June 4, 2007

Dear Marty the smile says it all....
Luv you,,,you sis,Mickey

Tina Cox

April 11, 2007

Daddy, for some reason today I cant stop thinking about your smile.

Miss you.

Erik Spiller

November 17, 2006

Hey Pop,
Thinking about you today. Wish you were around to hang out with. Miss your advice on how to make the right decisions although I feel you close by helping along the way.
Love, E

Sharon Guss

September 11, 2006

Dear Marty, how time goes by. You will always have a place in my heart for the wonderful person you were and the memories you left behind.



Co-Worker From Fresno Site,

Sharon K. Guss

brenda trowbridge

September 11, 2006

Another year has been and gone,The world without you just seems so wrong.You are forever in our thoughts dear Marty. Love Brenda and Bill Trowbridge, Wellington,Somerset,England.

mickey sabat

September 10, 2006

Hey little brother, it is now 4 years since you left us. Still have not found my sea legs without you!

Miss you as much today as the first day you left.

I love you, Mickey

Stevie Sabat

August 10, 2006

Happy Belated Birthday Uncle Marty. We will always miss you.

mickey sabat

August 6, 2006

Another year gone,but not forgotten. You would be so proud of Erik and all he has accomplished in one year's time.

Still missing you everyday. Happy 54th birthday little brother

I love you

Mickey

mickey sabat

August 6, 2005

Happy 53rd Birthday little brother.

I still miss you as much as the day you left.

You are ALWAYS with me.

I love you

Michelene Culmone

August 6, 2004

Happy Birthday Uncle Marty! We all miss you! Love, Michy

mickey sabat

August 6, 2004

Dear little brother another year and another of your birthday's has come and gone. I love you and still miss you with all my heart.

Your sis, Mickey

Tina Cox

September 25, 2003

Daddy,

It has been over a year since you left this world. Everyday you are in my thoughts and I cannot wait to see you again. You brought so much joy and happiness to our entire family and for that we are forever grateful. I miss your smile, laugh and...how you made me feel so special, everyday.



Forever in my heart,

TT

Chickie(Michelle) Virkler

August 12, 2003

Happy Birthday dear Marty!! I am sure the angels are rejoicing in heaven having you there to spread your smile and joy to all who have gone on before. Our love and prayers -- Wayne and Chickie

Gary Han Hovem

August 9, 2003

I wish i could have met Marty .

Cuss Gary Van Hoven.

Brenda Trowbridge

August 8, 2003

A year has passed,we still cannot believe you are gone. Only a year ago you was with us at our daughter Carole's wedding. 10th August. So pleased we could share a few hours with you on that happy day. Happy Birthday and God Bless.From Bill,Brenda and family.x

Terry & Carol Gray

August 8, 2003

Hope you're having a good time Marty.We think of you a lot. The TIF isn't the same without you. We miss the Birthday cake you used to bring in. Wish you were still doing it. God Bless.

Terry & Carol Gray.

mickey sabat

August 6, 2003

Dearest little brother,Happy Birthday in Heaven! I miss you so! It still seems you are going to show up any day now. I know you are celebrating with Dad and all the others who went before. I'll continue to miss you everyday of my life, my pesty little brother who grew up to be such a wonderful man taken from us far to young.

Sending you hugs and much love.

Love, Mickey

Pamela Agey

August 6, 2003

Happy Birthday Marty,

Hey Bro, You know I never forget to wish you a Happy Birthday. I miss you and love you so much. Hope you know that you're always with me, in my thoughts and heart and mind. Keep on shining down on us from up above.



Miss You and Love You,

Pam

Maxine Spiller

August 6, 2003

My Marty,

Happy 51st Birthday. You are loved and missed so much, but I know you are watching over me and the loved one's you left behind from above.



Love Always Your Mom

Steve Sabat

October 10, 2002

Brother-in-law by marriage, Brother in heart. You were a brother to me in every respect. Your thoughts were kind, your words comforting and your actions legendary.

Memories of you linger in my mind and will forever dwell in my heart.

With deepest admiration, love and respect, Love your Brother,Steve

See you later Bro

Maxine Spiller

October 8, 2002

My Marty, You left us so suddenly we didn't even get a chance to say good-bye. So I'll say to you that you are still with us. I see your smiles and hear your laughter that lights up the world for me, and Ill always hear the "hi Ma what's up?"

I think of all the little boy things, the husband that you were the good father and the pappa and son. You have made me proud to be called your Mother and you will NEVER leave me.

I love you always

Ma

Michelle Virkler

October 7, 2002

This was read by my sister-in-law Pamela at her brother Marty's funeral. The accolades mentioned in this guest book are such a tribute to his loving wife Rae and their wonderful life together and Marty's mom, Maxine for bringing such a wonderful person into this world who is loved by so many:

WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME:

When tomorrow starts without me; and I'm not there to see; If the sun should rise and find your eyes; All filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry; The way you did today; While thinking of the many things; We didn't get to say; I know how much you love me; As much as I love you; And each time that you think of me; I know you'll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me; Please try to understand; That an angel came and called my name; And took me by the hand; And said my place was ready in heaven far above; And that I'd have to leave behind; All those I dearly love; But when I walked through heaven's gates I felt so much at home; When God looked down and smiled at me; From His great golden throne; He said "This is eternity And all I've promised you; Today for life on earth is past; But here it starts anew; I promise no tomorrow; For today will always last; And since each day's the same way; there's no longing for the past; So when tomorrow starts without me; Don't think we're far apart; For every time you think of me; I'm right here in your heart. MARTY'S SPIRIT TRULY LIVES ON IN EVERY HEART!!

BINET Pascal

October 7, 2002

Why resume the life so early of a good man? We are on the other side of the Atlantic Ocean and we think very souvant to you and to those that suffer from your departure. Our most sincere best regards. Pascal Cathie and Philippe Binet

Zelda Dubel

October 6, 2002

Raelyn, I never met Marty but I know he must have been a wonderful person because you are. Remember how we met? We were corresponding by e-mail about Waite/Wayte genealogy and finally I asked where you lived, then when I found out you were only about 5 miles away, I said would you like to come over for a cup of tea? I am so grateful for our visits. Shortly after that you transferred to U.K. Thanks for keeping in touch with me. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. I am sure you can build a new life in the area where you have lots of family and friends who will no doubt be a great deal of support for you.

GARY VAN HOVEN

October 6, 2002

We are so sorry that Marty is gone

we were looking forward to meeting him ,May his soul rest in haeven

forever. Love cousins Gary and Joan

Amanda Marino

October 6, 2002

You were more of a father to me than my own father. I will miss you greatly.

Forever your adopted daughter,

Amanda Brooke Marino

Mickey Sabat

October 6, 2002

Dearest little brother, There are so many things I want to say. I thank you for being there for me always through the years, I always felt so cared for by you. Even though you were my little brother you became my father figure when Dad passed. I could always count on you and trust you completely. So many memories of you I'll keep so close to my heart. You who always had a joke and made me laugh oh how I will miss that in my life. Your complete laughter and your smile will always ring in my ears. How you loved to tease. We will all watch over your family just like you are doing now.

I know you are smiling down on us all now, loving you in absense until we can all be together again.

Did you grease the knobs to the pearly gates yet?

Your sister

Mickey (Spiller) Sabat

Tina Cox (Spiller)

October 5, 2002

Daddy, What can I say besides 'I miss you' and would give anything to have you back. I will live the rest of my life happy knowing you are always with me, smiling. I love you dad, more then I can ever express.



Always your little girl,

Tina

Rae Spiller

October 5, 2002

There is not one thing that does not remind me of you and how much we loved each other. After a life time of the love we shared all else seem so pointless. I will complete the dreams we shared together to the best of my ability. Our children and grandchildren will remember and know you as if you were still with us.

Sweet Dreams,

Your Loving Wife

Steven J and Dawne Sabat

October 1, 2002

To have known Marty Spiller is to have known love. We were blessed with his life, and we will continue to be blessed with every memory we have of a loving, caring and honestly GOOD Uncle. We thank God for sharing Marty with us, to say he will be missed is an understatement.... And as our thoughts of him live within our hearts...He shall live forever. With eternal love Uncle Marty..Your Nephew Steve and his family Dawne, Adam, & Rebeccah

Sharon Kay Guss

September 27, 2002

Dear Rae, my heart goes out to you and your family. Marty will forever be in my heart. A good man, who loved you very much. His laughter, kindness and working with Marty at the Fresno Site in California will always be with me. Love & Prayers,

Sharon Guss

Pamela (Spiller) Agey

September 24, 2002

Dear Marty, I cannot express how much I will miss you, for you were the best brother and my best friend. You were everything that a sister could ever ask for in a brother. I'll always treasure in my heart, the memories of our special times we spent together, of all the adventures and places that we shared and visited together. You always made me feel so special, for you will forever be with me. I am so proud to be your little sister and am extremely proud of you, my Big Brother. I can feel your presence all around me and know that you are still there, looking out and watching over me as you always did. Marty I Love You.



Love Forever, Your Little Sister "Pam" Pamela

Sheila de'Scacchi

September 24, 2002

Rae,



I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss, and I must say our loss. Marty's memory always comes to me as his big smile and good nature. I will miss his friendship. Sheila

Tom Whiteway

September 23, 2002

Dear Rae, It will be some time before I accept the fact that we won't all be doing a Panama Canal cruise together after retiring. Marty and I had some good plans laid out - I will still do some of the things we talked about because I know he'll be there in my heart, and that won't ever change. I just really miss that rascal.

Michelene Culmone

September 23, 2002

Uncle Marty, I am going to miss you so much. Even though you are not here in person I know that you are still here in spirit. I felt you on friday when I watched the bright orange sunset as I walked out of the Skyline. I felt you on saturday when the acorns were raining down on us at the funeral service. And I felt you saturday night when I couldn't sleep because the light from the full moon was so bright. Just wanted to tell you Gramma,Auntie Rae,Tina,Greg,Eric and everybody else that he is all around us. Just look,listen and feel. I'm here if you need me. Love always,Michelene

Tom and Joni Krapf

September 23, 2002

Rae, Marty will always be with you in spirit and your love for each other will never fade. May God give you comfort and stength during this trying period. You, Marty and your family are remembered in our prayers. Tom and Joni

Cliff Jones

September 20, 2002

Raelyn - This doesn't seem real at all. We look through a glass darkly at times. I believe there's more...that the soul is imortal and that we will see your man again. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bill Trowbridge

September 19, 2002

I'm proud to have known and work with Marty at the Taunton T.I.F. He was a very generous and fair boss and friend.A dark cloud now hangs over us.Marty will always be remembered by our family.In fondest memory Bill,Brenda,Carole,Suzanne and Stuart.

Terry Gray

September 19, 2002

I worked with Marty in the UK at the Taunton Integration Facility. He wasn't just a good Boss, he was a true friend and was very good to all of us at the Facility. His sudden passing shocked and stunned all of us & we are still coming to terms with it. We will miss him terribly. My wife and I are so sorry for Raelyns loss and if she needs our help at anytime,she just has to ask. God bless you Marty. Rae, you are constantly in our thoughts.

(Chickie) Michelle & Wayne Virkler(Pam's sister-in-law)

September 19, 2002

I knew Marty when I was on the swimming team in Windsor Locks and we had a mutual admiration for each other. May God Bless all the family and enfold them with God's love.

Francis & Pamela Bennett

September 18, 2002

Marty was a the best brother in law, he allways was happy and smiling and We will miss him very much.

God Bless You My Brother.

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