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Sylvie
July 11, 2025
Just sitting out here, remembering you , grateful for the memories and how much I loved you . You were a sweet , sweet , special little boy . You sure stole my heart , a piece will always be with you. Love and remembered every day
Sylvie
Kari Kirzner
February 21, 2025
Its that sad day of remembering such a wonderful guy....................
Never forgotten, always loved and missed!
Love,
The Kirzner family
Ken McPherson
February 19, 2025
I know that you and my Scott are creating havoc up in heaven. Rest easy until we meet again.
Julianne irizarry
December 29, 2024
Shane another year and another birthday you´re not here. Happy heavenly birthday. You are always in my thoughts and your family in my prayers. You are still missed by everyone whose lives you touched. Until we meet again my friend. Love u always
Ken McPherson
February 19, 2024
Missing you Shane
You are together in heaven with my Scott
Watch over your parents..always
Fred Barschdorf
December 31, 2023
Happy Birthday in Heaven, Shane!
I know how much your family loves you!
Austin Lambert
December 30, 2023
Happy birthday my friend. What a party it would have been on your 40th! I was thinking about the fireworks show there would have been yesterday, and my neighbor started shooting some off at the same time.
Julianne irizarry
December 29, 2023
Thinking about you so much this time of year
kari
December 27, 2023
The happy/sad time of the year.
You will never be forgotten.
Always loved and missed.
Love,
Kari
Austin Lambert
October 21, 2023
I miss you Shane - thinking of you a lot lately.
Sylvie
October 19, 2023
Just want you to know I think of you and your family so often Shane .
You are always missed, always loved ,always remembered
Forever in my heart
Sylvie
Carol Vella
February 21, 2023
Remembering and honoring Shane on this day, 19 years ago the World lost a precious soul. Love , Jerry & Carol
Kari Kirzner
February 21, 2023
Feb 21............such a sad day.
Always remembered, forever loved and missed.
Kari and family
Mike Mayor
February 20, 2023
Still thinking of you bro . Gone much too soon. Miss you.
kari
December 12, 2022
Its been a while since I wrote but we think about you all the time.
December..................your favourite time of the year. Christmas and your birthday.
I always call it the happy/sad time for your family.
Love and miss you always.
Kari and family.
Kari Kirzner
February 21, 2022
Eighteen years without you........
Always remembered, always loved and always missed.
Much love.
Phebe Jones Reardon/MOM
January 5, 2022
I miss you so much Shane!! I am never going to get over losing you!! You are forever a part of me... I love you
Mom
Austin Lambert
December 30, 2021
I miss you Shane
Julie irizarry
December 29, 2021
Happy birthday in heaven sweet Shane. Love and miss you always
Phebe Jones Reardon
December 29, 2021
I love you so much Shane. We still miss you everyday. You are forever in our hearts!! Happy Birthday!!
Kari Kirzner
December 29, 2021
Extra special thoughts of you on your birthday. Much loved and very missed.
Kari and family. XXX000
Kari Kirzner
November 30, 2021
I don't write often but that doesn't mean we don't love and miss you all the time.
We talk about you very often, always a " fun " memory.
The holidays and your birthday are coming up, extra special thoughts of you from all of us.
Much love,
The Kirzners
Mom
October 15, 2021
It´s been so long, I still miss you everyday. My heart will never be whole with you gone. I love you forever Shane.
Love, Mom
Kari Kirzner
February 21, 2021
17 years of missing you. Thought of all the time with much love.
Kari
Kari Kirzner
December 29, 2020
Dec 29th................your special day. Extra thoughts of you today. Love and miss you always. Kari and family.
Fred Barschdorf
December 9, 2020
Shane,
I know how much your family misses you, especially on the holidays!
Take care & God Bless you all!
Fred Barschdorf
December 8, 2020
I know how much your family misses you, Shane! I can’t imagine how they all must feel?!
You hold a special place in all their hearts!
God bless you and your family! ❤
Kari
December 7, 2020
Its getting to be that time of year again, I call it the happy/sad time. You are missed so much every day, this month being extra " missing " time. I just have to remember that gorgeous smile full of love. We think of you often and love you always. The Kirzner family.
Sylvie
July 11, 2020
everyday seems like a little something always makes me think of you and your family xox
Today was the radio by the power of grey skull!
I cherish every moment I had you in my life I was truly blessed to have shared such a loving bond with you
You brought so much love and joy to my life xox
Phebe Reardon
March 14, 2020
Thinking of you Shane! I love you!
March 7, 2020
I may not write you often Shane ,
But I still think of you everyday .
You will always have a piece of my heart.
I loved you so so much, you were such a sweet, goofy, loveable little boy . I smile so much when I picture you in my mind and go over the memories . such a sweet sweet soul
Xoxo
Love you always
Doodie !
Kari Kirzner
February 21, 2020
16 years today....
A beautiful soul is never forgotten.
Love,
Kari
Julianne Irizarry
February 21, 2020
Shane, there are no words that can describe how much your absence is still felt in the lives of those that loved you. I cant believe it's been this long. I miss talking to u kid! I really do!!! Miss ur smile too! Just really miss u. I will be by to see you at your resting place. Keep watching over us. Love ya always,
Phebe Reardon
January 11, 2020
Thinking of you Shane!!!
With great love....
Mom
Phebe Reardon
December 31, 2019
Your birthday was hard, its always a challenge. I wasn't up to writing you a note. Had a nice note from Robert. I love knowing your friends still think of you! I love you and think of you everyday. Forever in my heart...
Love, Mom
December 29, 2019
Always on our minds forever in our heart!
Kari Kirzner
December 29, 2019
Extra special loving thoughts of you on your birthday.
Love,
Kari
Julianne Irizarry
December 28, 2019
Happy birthday my friend. How we miss you so. I think of u often. Will be up to visit your place of rest soon. Watch over us. Love always jewels
Kari Kirzner
December 15, 2019
Shaner,
Its coming up to that time of the year for your family. I call it the happy/sad time.
All the wonderful moments at Xmas time and you're SO missed and of course, your birthday right after.
You're always remembered, always loved and always missed.
Love,
Kari
Kari Kirzner
September 8, 2019
Sept 8th 2019
Your parents are heading to Dalton this week to honor your father.
It got me thinking of all the fun times we had there.
Just wanted to write a little note, its been a while since I did.
Always thinking of you.
Love,
Kari
Kari Kirzner
May 12, 2019
Its Mother's Day. A happy/sad day for your Mom. I'm sure she can feel your hug!
Love,
Kari
Julianne Irizarry
February 23, 2019
On the 15 year anniversary that we all lost you, the very last table I waited on paid me with a credit card. The last name was Reardon! THIS NEVER HAPPENS!!! I teared up and smiled because were the chances that this would happen on that day of all days. I see it as it being your subtle way of saying your still with us. I asked the guests if they had any relation knowing well enough they didnt but missing u kid. Just know that. I went to see you yesterday with sarah.. she had never been there and was pleased she finally was able to go. We all still love u...
February 22, 2019
You were and are still so special to me . You will always hold a piece of my heart . You brought so much love into my life.
I continue to cherish all the memories of you and think of you everyday
I truly do
You are missed and never forgotten
Love you always
Sylvie
Xox
Kari Kirzner
February 21, 2019
Fifteen years today.
Always in our hearts.
Love,
Kari
Julianne Irizarry
February 21, 2019
Shane, today is the day we lost you way too soon. This is such a painful day for all of us that love n miss u dearly but sure for your family today is even worse. We love u and your family so much. They are CONSTANTLY in my prayers. OUR SPORTS TEAMS HAD A GREAT RUN THIS YEAR!!!! GO SOX. xoxo until we meet again Shane keep Smiling on us....
Mike Mayor
February 21, 2019
Shane,
15 years. It still seems like yesterday. Subtle things throughout the day songs, movies, places shows you're watching over us. I still ask myself why, what if. Like we'all wake up from this nightmare. I know your still here with us. I miss you bro! You'll never be forgotten. See you at the crossroads.
Phebe Reardon
January 1, 2019
Shane, 2 specials days have come and gone. You are missed so very much! Christmas and your birthday were spent with you in my mind and heart! I love you forever. ❤
Julianne Irizarry
December 29, 2018
Happy birthday Shane! MISSING U ALWAYS N FOREVER. LOVE U!!!
December 29, 2018
Time flies, but memories last forever!!! Thinking of you and missing you on your birthday. Love, Aunt Carol & Uncle Jerry
December 24, 2018
Once again Christmas time has come around, it's where the sweetest memories and thoughts of you are found. Love, Aunt Carol and Uncle Jerry.
Kari Kirzner
December 21, 2018
Shaner,
Very special times coming up.....Christmas and your birthday.
Extra thoughts of love.
Kari
Kari Kirzner
November 28, 2018
Loved and very missed.
Kari and family.
Phebe Reardon
November 9, 2018
Shane, I don't write to you often, it's too hard and it breaks my heart. I love you so very much. I think of you many times a day. Sometimes I hurt so much I can't do anything but cry for hours. I wish you were here, married with kids, living a full life. Loving your friends and family as you always did.... you are so missed by all of us. Sending you a big bear hug...I love you forever....Mom
Kari Kirzner
August 29, 2018
Its been a while since I wrote, doesn't mean we don't think of you all the time.
Love,
Kari
Joanne Pelkey
June 22, 2018
Shane ~
I had a Beautiful Yellow Butterfly Fly Past
Me Today And Thought It was A Sign From You Which Then I said " Hello Shane We Love You "
I Think Of You So Much And Think Of The Fun
At Your Lake House Which We Miss You & The Lake
I Sat With A Friend Up At The Lake Last Weekend
As I Watched The Pontoon Boat Go By ~ It Brought Me Back To The Good Old Days When We All Had Fun
On Your Dad's ~ A Beautiful Place
Love Always,
Auntie
Austin Lambert
May 14, 2018
No matter how good things get, something will always be missing. I miss you kid
Phebe Reardon
May 14, 2018
Shane,
I missed you so much on mother's Day! It's always bittersweet. You are forever my beloved child. Losing you will will always be my great sadness. I love you forever!
Mom
Kari Kirzner
May 13, 2018
Shaner,
Its Mother's Day today. I know its one of the happy/sad days for your Mom.
Love,
Kari
joanne pelkey
April 10, 2018
Shane,
You Will Always Live In Our Hearts
Still Missing You
Love, Aunt Joanne
Phebe Reardon
February 21, 2018
It's been 14 years my beloved Shane. I miss you more each day, wondering who you would have married, whether you would have children....I miss you so very much and will love you forever. Mom
Kari Kirzner
February 21, 2018
After 14 years still dearly loved and missed by family and friends.
Love,
The Kirzners
Phebe Reardon
December 31, 2017
Shane, I miss you so very much! I love you....Mom
Julianne Irizarry
December 29, 2017
Happy birthday Shane! YOU have left such an impact on this world and those of us whose lives you have touched are so blessed. We miss u and think of you always. I hope you have a amazing day with Jesus my friend. Until we meet again!
December 29, 2017
Thinking of Shane on his 33rd birthday, always on our mind forever in our hearts.
Kari Kirzner
December 29, 2017
Shaner............
Thinking of you today on your birthday and everyday, with love.
Kari
Joanne Pelkey
December 5, 2017
Sweet Boy ~
Another Christmas Without You ~
Somehow We Get Through ~
Remembering All The Fun Times Is Hard But It's All We Have Left Of You ~
I Remember Watching How Great You Could
Water Ski
How You Where The Only Cousin The Kids Would Count On To Build A Campfire To Cook Marshmallow's, As The Parents Enjoyed Each Others Company Looking At All Of The Cousins Being Together
Each Morning When We Awake ~ We Feel Your Absence As We Carry On In Life Without You ~
No One Can Fill Your Place Here On Earth
You Will Always Be Our Precious Memory ~
Until We Meet Again
Love ~ Auntie
Kari Kirzner
November 22, 2017
Just thinking of your family on this Thanksgiving holiday and knowing how much you're missed.
Love,
Kari
October 3, 2017
Shane - Watching the Yankees vs Twins made me think of you and your family. I miss you and think of you often.
joanne pelkey
September 17, 2017
Dear Sweet Boy,
I had a Dream about Us going to 6 Flags which my Last Memory Of you was of how Happy You where when we went for real.
I saw you with that Huge Smile huggin it
Up with Your Lit'l Sis
I miss You Soooo and those Great times !
Love Always,
Aunt Joanne
Kari Kirzner
August 25, 2017
Just thinking of you with love.
Kari
Phebe Reardon
July 5, 2017
Shane I missed you so much yesterday! I had a major breakdown, I was in such pain. I love you forever my child...
Kari Kirzner
July 4, 2017
Best memories...........one of your favorite days. Thinking of you today as everyday.
Love ya.
Kari
Joanne Pelkey
June 4, 2017
Shane,
I watched the Fireworks with Your cousin Todd and his kids wishing you where here to watch them too.
I always wonder if you can see us Looking up at each one with Loving Memories
I feel your presence with each and every one that goes off. Our special times will never fade away. Our love for You is always felt deeply Now and Forever Love,
Aunt Joanne
Phebe Reardon
May 15, 2017
Missing you on Mother's Day Shane! I love you forever! I spent Mother's Day with Jay, Erica, Kristi and your niece Emma. How I wish I had a grandchild from you! Love you so very much!
Kari Kirzner
May 14, 2017
Happy/sad day for your Mom today...........I'm sure she'll feel your extra big hug.
Love and miss you.
Kari
Joanne Pelkey
April 20, 2017
Dear Sweet Boy,
As I get out in the Fresh Warm Air for my walk, I always think more of you as I look up at the pretty clouds and say We All Love You and Miss You So but I know that you hear us All telling You this all the time.
I hope You and Gram have united and are keeping each other company. I know Aunt Barb has to be there too making the Both of you Crack Up as she did us for to short of a time. Missing You Still
Love, Auntie
M V
February 21, 2017
Shane, one thing is for certain as You and the Lord are looking down, you have many Family and Friends who Truly Love and Miss You very deeply. I think your departure has really opened up a Faith in God and People like never seen before. You are an inspiration to us all. You are Loved and always will be remembered. Hope to see you someday!
Phebe Reardon
February 21, 2017
Missing you with a heavy heart today. I love you so very much my beloved son! Always in my heart!
Love you, Mom
February 21, 2017
Dear Shaner,
Thirteen years is a long time but it still hurts like the day you left us.Everyone misses you so much. You are an uncle now and I'm sure that you've seen how beautiful Emma is. She is now six moths old and is a great kid.You would've been great to her just like you were to everyone you came across
Remember you are loved and missed by everyone that knew you. i think about you every day and miss you a bunch
Love ya,
DAD
Julie Irizarry
February 21, 2017
As I sit here at your resting place it's hard to imagine that it's already been 13 years. I think of all the good times and memories we all made and it hurts so much to know you aren't here with us. I wonder where or what you would be doing now if we never lost you. As I see all of our friends and families grow and new memories made with out you here it breaks my heart to know your not here to enjoy it all. I know that you are here with us and get the best view from heaven but what all of us would do to see that smile again and get that hug just one more time!!! We live you Shane always and forever
Kari Kirzner
February 21, 2017
A special smile
A special face
And in our hearts
A special place.
Always loved and missed.
Kari and the kids
joanne pelkey
February 21, 2017
With every boy I see your age I think of All the joy you would have brought the family. To be an Uncle for the Very first time and pursue your music.
We All Miss You So Very Much
Love Aunt Joanne
February 20, 2017
It's been 13 years now since Shane left us, but he lives on in our hearts and the hearts of all his family and friends forever.
Love, Carol & Jerry
Fred Barschdorf
January 1, 2017
Dear Shaner,
With your birthday just going by and the New Year coming in, I was thinking about you and your family. I see you're an Uncle and Mom & Dad are grandparents for the first time. That is great! I hope you're taking good care of Gram Cavanaugh. I know she is deeply missed too!
Take Care & God Bless!
Julie Irizarry
December 29, 2016
Happy birthday old friend. I think and dream of you often. I pray for peace for your family during these times. I miss n love u always until we meet again.
Phebe Reardon
December 29, 2016
Happy Birthday my child! I love you and miss you so very much! Tim Brought you a birthday gift at your grave. You have many friends who love you! You are greatly missed. All my love,
Mom
Carol Vella
December 29, 2016
Happy Birthday in Heaven to Shane, watching the tribute to Gram's video that Beth and Paul made and listening to "Somewhere over the Rainbow" can't help thinking they are all together again. Shane, Gram, Dad, Larry, Ali , and all our deceased family and friends.
Kari Kirzner
December 29, 2016
Dec 29th..............
Remembering you on your birthday.
Love,
Kari
joanne pelkey
December 12, 2016
Shane~
I have been dreaming about Gram for a few weeks now every night and when I mentioned this to a friend she said... "did your Mom love Christmas?" my answer was OH yes." So I bet that is why, due to Gram loving the whole family back in the day of getting together at her house, I could see the Love in her eyes
How she loved to see her Family together at the same time of year and would always say I wish Jeff could be here too with his family but waited for his call on the day. Hushed us All
Now without the two of you we have to make New Memories with the Love of thinking of You and Gram.
Give her a Big Christmas Hug up there for us ALL and we will all hug both of you In Our Hearts
Missing You Both
Love, Aunt Joanne
Kari Kirzner
December 10, 2016
Shaner:
A beautiful soul for whom the world was a garden of treasures, who loved unconditionally and delighted in bringing joy and happiness to others.
I read this the other day and it described you exactly.
I know this is a happy/sad time for your family. You loved the Christmas season and of course your birthday right after.
We miss you and love you.
Kari, Kris and Jess
Phebe Reardon
October 8, 2016
Missing you Shane. You are an uncle now and we have a beautiful granddaughter, Emma Renee Reardon. She brings us great joy. You would have loved her. Dad, Jay and Kristi are my lifeline. You are in my heart forever. I love you...
Mom
Kari Kirzner
September 8, 2016
Been a while since I've written but that doesn't mean I don't think about you all the time.
Finally some happiness for your family but I know how much you are SO missed by them right now.
Love you.
Kari
July 4, 2016
Missing Shane on his favorite holiday, have such good memories at the Lake House and the family all being together and Shane being so excited to help with the beautiful fireworks display. Love, Carol & Jerry
Phebe Reardon
July 4, 2016
My beloved Shane, today is one of your favorite days, the 4th of July. We all have such great memories of our fireworks at the lake house. You were so happy helping Uncle Billy with them. I miss you everyday. You are going to be an uncle to a little girl thanks to Jay and Erica! We will tell her all about you! I wonder if you would have been a Dad today... I miss you and love you so much! Your Mom forever with love.....
Kari Kirzner
July 4, 2016
July 4th!
One of your favorite days.................family and fireworks.
Miss you always.
Kari
joanne pelkey
June 22, 2016
Still Missing You Shane
Love, Aunt Joanne
joanne pelkey
June 22, 2016
Shane,
I think of you daily as the whole Family does and I know you will forever be with us. A permanent piece of our Hearts!
If Only such Pain and Sorrow didn't exist. If Only we could go back and change the Past.
Since this is Not possible we pull ourselves together and try to find our way
Love,
Aunt Joanne
Julianne Irizarry
May 14, 2016
Hey there Shane,
I just had a dream that your were in and it was so real. I was sad when I woke up because you weren't there. I miss you always and forever. I'm going to visit your place of rest on monday. Sorry it's been a little while life's been crazy.
Keep watching over me.
Joanne Pelkey
May 9, 2016
Shane,
I thought of Your Mom yesterday with the Huge Love she has for you and how much she has to Miss You on Mothers Day and Everyday.
Todd misses you as a Best Friend would. Then again we All miss You so much.
Hope your together with Gram and making her laugh. Which she Always Loved to Do
Love, Auntie
Joanne
Phebe Reardon
May 9, 2016
It was Mothers Day yesterday, I missed you so much. Jay called and Kristi and I had a wonderful day together. They are all my lifeline, Jay and Erica and Kristi and Cassidy. You are going to be an uncle to a baby girl in August, the new life will be such a blessing for all of us. Erica is feeling good and the baby girl is moving around like crazy! Please watch over Erica and the baby. I missed your big hug. I love you! We have a new memorial garden in PBG, I am going to have a paver engraved with your name. You are in our hearts forever.
Love you forever,
Momma
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