A suburban Boca Raton woman and her 8-year-old daughter were found dead in their idling car early Thursday, apparently killed during a robbery at the Town Center mall.
Police found Nancy Bochicchio, 47, and Joey Bochicchio-Hauser inside a black 2007 Chrysler Aspen SUV, parked in a merchandise pick-up area on the south side of Sears, after mall security workers saw the occupied car with its engine running in an otherwise empty lot shortly after midnight.
Money had been taken, according to police, who spoke of a possible link to a robbery at the mall in August.
Investigators said they were looking for witnesses and surveillance video from the mall. Police did not say how much money was taken and have not said how the mother and daughter were killed.
At 9 a.m. Thursday, shoppers began to fill the mall, which was crowded throughout the day. Several people strolling out of Sears had no idea two bodies had been found nearby just hours earlier.
But on Buttonwood Lake Drive in the Hidden Lake community, where the mother and daughter had lived in a four-bedroom home for the past seven years, holiday festivities stopped Thursday night.
On most nights, the family's well-tended lawn displayed brightly lit white reindeer, penguins and a plastic Santa Claus.
On Thursday night, the house was dark. A welcome mat greeted visitors below the front door, where red plastic flowers and a shiny gold ribbon were tied to the knob.
Neighbor Mini deQuesada, an emergency room nurse at West Boca Medical Center, said that when she left for her night shift at the hospital, the holiday decorations in Bochicchio's front yard had been dark for two nights.
Not many in the neighborhood knew the family well. A neighbor said Nancy Bochicchio was always with her daughter. Wearing her Catholic school uniform, Joey Bochicchio often played in the front yard.
Her toys were piled high in the garage, so her mother parked the SUV in the driveway. They walked their dog, which resembled the one in the musical Annie, together most mornings, and Nancy was known for her annual garage sales.
Bochicchio, a stock analyst, had run her own business in recent years, according to state records.
Originally from New York, where she had lived in the Bensonhurst area of Brooklyn and on Long Island, she first moved into the house with then-husband Phillip Hauser, daughter Joey and her elderly mother more than seven years ago. The couple were divorced in September 2006.
Bochicchio's mother, who had been placed in a nearby assisted-living center, died on Easter Sunday in 2004. Bochicchio stopped putting up Christmas decorations for two years while she grieved her mother's death.
On Thursday, neighbors mourned the mother and daughter the same way.
One by one, the red, green and white lights twinkling in bushes and trees disappeared as neighbors remembered the family.
"I can't believe it," one neighbor said. "I don't feel like doing anything."
The neighborhood is devastated, said Staci Keller, president of the Hidden Lake Homeowners Association.
"Everybody is in such shock," Keller said. "Our prayers are with their entire family."
At St. Jude Catholic School in Boca Raton, Joey's classmates prepared for their annual Christmas pageant Thursday night. Students wore red Santa hats and filed onto the stage to tell their favorite Christmas memories.
As they faced the audience of more than 200, Principal Debbie Armstrong asked for a moment of silence to remember a mother and her little girl.
"We are going to dedicate the ceremony to Joey, her mother, her family, her friends and to all of those who knew and loved her," she said. "We're hurt. We're saddened. We're missing part of our family. We know Joey and her mother are with Christ."
After Thanksgiving, police had stepped up patrols in public areas and shopping centers, including Town Center, in an effort to combat crime. Police have been using uniformed officers in marked patrol cars, plainclothes officers in unmarked vehicles, bicycle patrol officers and other forms of surveillance.
Police reminded the public to be vigilant while shopping and to report suspicious activity. Anyone with information about the crime is asked to call (561) 338-1352.
The mall offers a shuttle service that starts two hours before the mall opens and ends an hour after it closes. Drivers who don't want to walk to or from the parking lot can call the service at (561) 368-6817.
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Chuck Strigl
December 11, 2020
Another year passes and your killer has not been found. I wish I could find him for you both. Miss your calls and always think of you two.
May 24, 2016
God bless you sweet angels
Brian Lukow
April 3, 2015
Nancy and Joey,
Happy Easter in Heaven,, It never gets easier, I know how you loved the Holidays NB, Thinking about you.. as allways.
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December 19, 2014
We have never met, but yet you remain in my thoughts and prayers.. each and every day. My thoughts turn to your dear loved ones. May they find the strength to move forward. There are no words enough to express my heartfelt emotion.
December 11, 2014
I can't believe another year has past without you. Time does not heal these wounds. We all love and miss you more than words can even begin to express.
Peter R
October 8, 2014
I have never met Nancy and Joey, but am deeply touched by their tragic loss. Hoping that justice will win! Best wishes from friends in Sweden!
June 17, 2014
I knew Nancy very well from our Bronx days and only learned of this tragedy today. Nancy was a sweet, fun-loving, always smiling individual and my prayers are with her, Joey and their family. Rest in peace, Angels.
Tom Mirra
Eileen Laine
November 12, 2013
Nancy left a everlasting impression on me, She was an incredible young women. After reading a few post, I remember her being called "Titsi" and the extreme close Italian family that she was part of. There are now two guardian angels watching over your family. My thoughts and prayers will always be with you and your family.
December 26, 2012
Five years later, still remembering you Joey... with love, cousins Jacqi & Dave
Robert Spreitzer
December 13, 2012
Nancy and Joey, you are always loved and never forgotten.
April 27, 2012
It is my birthday today and it is not the same without you calling me 1st thing in the morning. It has been 4 years and a few months. The family has never been the same. You and Joey are not there. The family is just not the same without you. Our lives are not the same and there are two empty spaces at the table that echo the feelings of our hearts. The only solace is that we know you are in heaven with Bea and Papa Joe. In a couple of weeks we will be having the communion. Joey's picture in her veil, that she never got to use, will be on the table. Nina will be wearing it in her honor. It is not true that it gets easier over time. You are both missed as much now as then. That will never change. A gaping whole has been left behind. XOXO
December 12, 2011
I have never met Nancy and Joey, but am deeply touched by their tragic loss. Praying for justice, and that you are both happy in God's hands.
December 12, 2011
4 years, not a day goes by that i dont think about the two of you, miss you my friend.
xo
Lauren
December 12, 2011
4 Years and I still cannot believe it is true. I will love and miss you forever my friend!
Love,
Zina
Jo-Ann
September 10, 2011
I forgot that 8/20 was your birthday...God we had so many birthday parties in the Bronx.Your mom use to carry you over the chain linked fense so we could go in my pool and my mom did the same...I can remember your dad and Doreen having singing competitions on Saturday mornings.LOVELY!!! What great memories and I still feel bad when Joanne fell in front of your house when she was pregnant with Claudine...Stanley always a good laugh...Absolutely broken hearted to hear how you left this earth.It should never of happened to you and your daughter. I have a daughter and I look at her quite differently now. I think of you and my eyes just swell up with tears.SSSo SSSo sad....there are no words of comfort....I know that you and Joey are held close in your mom and dad's arms and I can only pray that Joanne,Stanley and others left behind find peace in their hearts.I loved you and you were my BEST childhood friend...you will be terribly missed.
August 20, 2011
Thinking of you n Joey on your Birthday, your always in my thoughts.
LY
Lauren
December 13, 2009
May you both R.I.P. on this 2nd anniversary Robert (birdie)Filiberti
December 13, 2009
May you both R.I.P on this 2nd anniversary
December 13, 2009
nancy & joey you are always in my thoughts an prays, i mss you both so much. xoxo
love lauren
Adam Greig
December 12, 2009
Its been already two years since, and its still fresh in my mind when I heard about the murders, and I was heart broken. It was too close to the holidays. Rest in peace Nancy!
August 21, 2009
Dear Nancy
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUBBLES I LOVE YOYU AND WILL ALLWAYS MISS YOU
LOVE
PHIL
August 21, 2009
Dear Nancy
Happy Birthday to You always in our thoughts.... Justice will be served....
August 21, 2009
Dear Nancy,
your always on my mind i just cant get over your loss wish you were here to celebrate your birthday. thinking about you and Joey today & always.
xoxo
Lauren
May 10, 2009
dear Nancy
hapy mother day to you, you are a missed very deeply. always in are thoughts and hearts... till we meet again.... rip
Marie Fioccola-Gaby
March 2, 2009
I knew Nancy when she was still in her Mother's womb. I was a very good friend of her sister JoAnn's. I just read about this tradegy today in an old People Magazine at a doctor's office. I feel terrible pain and sympathy for this family. I truly know Nancy and her daughter are in a better place and they are being embraced by the Light. My prayers to the faimly that time helps ease the pain but enriches the memories.
Kellie
March 2, 2009
I never had the pleasure of meeting Nancy or Joey but hearing of their tragedy hurts me deeply. I pray for the family - may god be with you.
Rocco Trombetta
February 8, 2009
we are from yonker's new york and we have an aunt who is buried in the same cemetery that Nancy and Joey are buried in and when we visit her we always pray for thier souls.Our deepest sympathies go out to their family especially to the husband and father of these two beautiful souls that we've become to feel like family when we visit them in their place of rest........many hugs to all of you who new and loved them dearly.
Eileen Laine
February 2, 2009
I was devastated to hear about this tragedy happening to someone from my past. I saw the story on T.V. the other night and recognized the name(especially the name) and that beautiful women. I worked with Nancy back in the early 80's at National Hanger in NY. During the subway strike in 1980, Nancy drove from Ronkonkoma and picked up other people from the office, me included.. At a young age, Nancy was very caring and reaching out to help others. She was always a memorable person. I remember how close she was to her family. Nancy actually taught me a few Italian words..good ones, that whenever I have the opportunity to use them, I think of her. My sincerest sympathy to her family. No words can express how I feel that this happen to her family.
Marie
January 30, 2009
So sorry to hear about this tragedy. I saw the story on T.V. tonight and recognized the name and face. I grew up in the Bronx neighborhood with Nancy, lived on Bruner Avenue in the Bronx and went to SFR with Nancy. She was always a memorable person even in grammar school. Rest in peace
ron scott
January 30, 2009
words cannot describe how shocked and horrified i am after hearing of this tragedy. i had the pleasure of working with nancy at ladenburg thalmann in the early '90's. i remember her as no nonsense, funny, trustworth and just a gem. about 3 years ago, i saw her downtown nyc on a crowded broadway and did yell out to say hi but she did not hear me. i now wish i would have yelled louder.
Robert(Birdie) Filiberti
December 29, 2008
I cant believe its been a year since u left this earth,I think of you often,,,Great times we had at the track(when u picked winners for me) And the fun we had riding the trains to work...I pray for u and Joey daily..May god bless you and your family on this 1 year annivesary
With Love, Cousins Jacqi & Dave
December 16, 2008
Remembering you and Joey...
Adam Greig
December 14, 2008
Sorry to hear, I feel horrible for her family and what theyre going through, and I found out that it was 1 year from friday, the 12.
December 13, 2008
We think of you often.
Donna (Dave, Danielle and Delaney)
December 12, 2008
today was the one year =/, i cant believe that, i miss you and joey so much it cant even be put into any words. you were a wonderful person nancy and thanks for everything you did for me. i wish you could be here for christmas in new york because you always came down and for joeys birthday. i love you
December 12, 2008
Nancy and Joey, I believe in Heaven and know you are there. Joey, your school Christmas Concert took place last evening and was dedicated to you and your mommy. A little schoolmate played a solo guitar - Silent Night - just for you. I don't think there was a dry eye in the Gathering Place. May you always be at peace together in Heaven.
Sandy
December 12, 2008
Such a senseless tragedy. You are in my prayers.
December 12, 2008
you are greatly missed you are always thought about, your warm smiles and kindness are always in my thoughts.
Lauren
Ginny S.
December 12, 2008
We know your family due to this tragedy, this is true. I try to remember also, that the MOST extraordinary part of Nancy and Joey's life is the bond and happiness that was theirs. We will never forget them or rest until they have justice.
December 11, 2008
I can't believe tomorrow is one year...your smiles are missed! May you be at peace looking down on us from heaven.

My Peaceful Spot
Seth P
November 29, 2008
I never heard of this tragedy until a few moments ago...I am simply stunned. G-d rest your souls.
K K
October 29, 2008
I think about you and your
daughter from time to time. I can't get your pictures out of my head. I don't think I ever will. I didn't know you personally. I shall never forget that day. A very very sad day.
Groovin'Gramma
October 24, 2008
This is a heart breaking loss of life. How long will we stand for abusers of any sort to walk free? It makes me want to change things.
Amanda
September 26, 2008
Reading this story still brigs tears to my eyes. I will hold them in my heart and in prayers. And pray for justice for the family so it may one day bring them peace.
adrian johnson
September 26, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Tee
September 12, 2008
I just read about this tragedy on a TV series. My heart was moved so deeply. A child was taken and her mother all at once. Such lovely faces. I heard the grandma say that she prayed that they went quick without suffering, I pray that same thing. That God took their soul before they could suffer. I pray that God blesses the whole family/friends and restore peace back into their lives.
With Love, Cousins Jacqi & Dave
August 21, 2008
Remembering you today on your birthday.
August 21, 2008
Happy Birthday Nancy! I hope you and Bea enjoy your birthdays together. We miss you!
Love Zina, Jeff, Jonathan & Taylor
JoAnn Vitucci
August 3, 2008
I grew up with Nancy in the Bronx .. she was my best friend ... our mothers use to pass us over the fence so we could play together..I just heard from Ginny about this terrible tragedy and I am truly heart broken over this lost....You were a very special person and you will always be in my heart.... I will never forget how your dad and my sister use to compete who could sing the loudest out the windows, I always enveyed that your mom and dad would let you stay up late to see Johnny Carson and JoAnne and Stanely would take us for icecream..... I remember when Joann was pregnant with Claudine..... we use to laught at her walk.... God, so many memories, I feel I could write forever... I loved you iLove JoAnn no "e"
Farra Korshin
July 7, 2008
My heart goes out to the family.
K W
July 6, 2008
I didn't know you but your tragedy has profoundly affected me. I pass by the mall everyday and pray for your family.
CHASITY CAIL
July 1, 2008
i am so sorry 4 your lost......may god bless u and ur fAMILLLY
carmen buerkle
June 2, 2008
I saw your story in the news last night and it broke my heart.
These are the mysteries and the questions we will never have answers for. Why do bad things happen to good people.
Two angels took away from us so soon.
Richard "Bulldog" Head
June 2, 2008
The Palm Beach County Guardian Angels are so sorry for your loss.
Tammy
May 30, 2008
Nancy,
We miss you. I think of you and Joey everyday. Our hearts will never stop aching.
Zina
May 20, 2008
Nancy
I finally found the strength to write to you. I just want to tell you that tommorrow Taylor will make her confirmation and she chose Joey as her confirmation name. Taylor and all of us wanted this so that your beautiful daughter can be honored. You and Joey live in our hearts everyday. I miss you so much...Please kiss and hug Joey and Bea for us.
Friends forever
I love and miss you with alll my heart
Zina
Cintia Garvin
May 19, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Sherrie Brackney
May 19, 2008
Sadie Cherichetti
May 15, 2008
We just found out about Nancy and her beautiful daughter.My heart is bleeding for your family .My family is just shocked. We send our love and prayers.
Jennifer Kennedy
May 15, 2008
From the first day I heard this story on the news, I have felt pain and fear. Im so sorry for the family. Our condolences. I didn't know the family, but my father is the owner of West Boca Karate, and I know one of your family members attend there. This has truly opened up my eyes....anything can happen at anytime. I am so careful now when I go out. I have an 8,7, and 3 year old and I always, no matter where I am, think of their safety and what I would do in a similar situation. This is such a horrific story, and I cannot wait until that man is found!
May 11, 2008
Happy Mothers Day Nancy, Rest in Peace.
donna cotsalas
May 1, 2008
NAncy all the years on the train together GOOD TIMES I will miss you but always have your spirit with me.
Will Levy
April 6, 2008
My Condolences and Sympathies to the Family of this Kind and Caring Woman. Always keep her in your hearts and Memories
Lissette Monzon
April 1, 2008
There is not a day that I don't wake up and think of this. It makes me appreciate my children, my life and my community. I am so sorry for your loss and am thankful that they made such a profound impact on so many lives. God Bless their souls...
Toni Bailey
March 24, 2008
Words cannot describe the sadness I feel when I think of these two innocents. This is awful. I hope whoever did this will be found soon.
samantha
March 23, 2008
happy easter nancy . i miss you .
Kathy
March 13, 2008
Though I did not have a chance to meet Nancy and Joey, my heart and prayers go out to them and their family. All of my love.
Shelly
March 13, 2008
This is so sad for the family that they leave behind. I am truly sorry for your loss. You must ache and my heart goes out to you.
Brenda Nyberg
March 12, 2008
God Bless Nancy and Joey. I did not have the priviledge to know them, but as a mother my heart breaks for Nancy.
I pray that the man that did this is caught and justice is served.
God Bless all of you that knew and loved Nancy and Joey
Kathy Fronte
February 29, 2008
We are so sorry that this happened. It is a terrible tragedy. Our prayers are with your family.
Frederick Ellis
February 27, 2008
I dont personally know the Mother and Daughter, but my heart truly feels pain and sorrow for what happened to them...and I pray to my Heavenly Father that He wraps them in His love...In Jesus Name, Amen.
Sharon B
February 24, 2008
To My Best Friend Nancy n Joey-Noel
I miss your daily phone calls, hanging out with u and most of all
Ur Loyal Friendship! There is not a day that goes by that I dont think of U! I have such Great Memories and Miss U Very Much Buddy. Luv U Always n Forever!

Janet Lemons
February 23, 2008
Sleep well lovely ones. You will be missed.
Patricia Differ
February 19, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Adam Levy
February 19, 2008
My Dearest Nan,
I love you and Joey and miss you so. I know you would have called me Saturday, like you always have so I wanted to say thank you. I feel you and Joey everywhere I go. Your friendship, loyalty, companionship and compassion will never be replaced. One could never have a friend such as you. I love you and miss you,
Adam
Cathy and Rob
February 19, 2008
Nancy and Joey,
As I write this I find part of my heart broken, There is not one day, in fact several times a day I grieve for you..you have to be in a better place. Your untimely death has affected our lives forever. I pray for you, and us all
Debbie and Beth
February 18, 2008
I am so very sorry to hear this tragic tale. I am a single mother of an 8 year old girl and I cannot imagine the grief that you must all be feeling. The only solace can be that they remain united now forever safe in Gods care.
My little girl and I will pray for all of you who have lost these two beautiful angels.
Megan VanGurp
February 18, 2008
we miss you nancc and joeyyy
my mom crys everydayy
i prayy you find the strength to forcee this case to come out and help them find him.
we all pray for you every dayy
wee lovee youu guyss and think about you ever day
rest peacfully angels<33
Daniel Bochicchio
February 16, 2008
All of our hearts go out to all of you. You will be missed by all.
Daniel & Janine Bochicchio
February 16, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
A Heartbroken Mother
February 15, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the family of this beautiful little girl and woman. My hurts breaks every single day for their family. Nancy worked in my building and although I did not know her, I feel affected by this as if I did. I pray to God to help the police and all involved in finding the person responsible for this. May the family find comfort and peace in all who love them and support them in this difficult time.
Barbra
February 11, 2008
To the Bochicchio Family, My prayers and thoughts are with you each and every day. As I pull into our neighborhood each night, and pass by your beautiful home, I think of all the happy times the two of you must have enjoyed there. You were taken from this wonderful world so early in life but you are at peace now together forever with the Lord.
Susan
February 8, 2008
To My Cousins,
Nancy and Joey-Noel there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you and the sadness that is in my heart. Every Sunday I light a candle and ask God to take care of you in heaven and pray that you and Joey-Noel are with Uncle Joey and Aunt Bea all together looking down and giving my Cousins JoAnn, Stan and their families strenth to carry on. I ask God why this had to be part of the plan. I guess right now we will never know. I don't understand why bad things happen to kind, good-hearted people. I remember the good times and laughs we always had when we were all together. Cousin JoAnn and Stanley if you are reading this I light a candle for you and your families too and ask God to carry you through this time of great need. I love you and hope someday we will all be together again.
I love you,
Cousin Susie
alexandra Cisneros
February 7, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kim Smith
February 6, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Roxane Coletti
January 31, 2008
I just heard about what happened to Nancy & her daughter last week.I haven't been this upset since 9/11.This is a horrible thing,senseless & brutal.I've been crying every day.Nancy was one of my good childhood friends.We went to grammar school & junior high (SFR) together.Our sisters were & still are friends.We hung out for years with the same group of friends on Grace Ave.Lost touch in our late teenage years when the family left The Bronx & moved to Lake Ronkonkoma.But those memories are there we spent those early years in life growing up, those important years. We all walked daily to & from school together,went to church together,birthday parties & sleepovers,basketball games,shopping at cross county,hanging out at P.S.87,Orchard Beach & school dances. We had the same "crushes" on the same boys together.I'm in shock that this has happened.Joann my heart pours out to you & your family.
Mark Lorenz
January 31, 2008
Nancy used to hang out with us on Grace Av (has it really been 32 years ago) She was always full of energy. A group of us went to Orchid Beach one time and, while in knee deep water, I did something to make Nancy mad. She grabbed me by the hair and dunked me about 20 times. I tried not to make Nancy mad after that. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends.
linda borgia scarchilli
January 25, 2008
dear Nancy It has been almost 2 months since you & your lovely daughter were taken from this earth Iam sure the presents of both of you are felt ever day by your loved ones God has taken you both in His loving arms for comfort & protection I knew your sister Joann we went to ps87 & St Francis of Rome together. I think about you both at times it is very sad that you both are gone. you both will always be remembered by family & friends & all of whom you have touched their lives- even thoses who only knew you both because of this tragey will always remember you both may you both rest in peace- hopeful justice wiil be done soon to the person whom did this to you both. God bless you both always linda
Lynda Gonzalez
January 24, 2008
You should'nt have died it wasn't time for you to leave this world. This wasn't suppose to happen! I don't know Nancy and Joey at all but I think about you gals every single day. I just can not beleive that such a beautiful mother and a daughter is gone so soon! I have cried for you its just so sad. I have a girl thats 8yo as well and looks similiar to Joey with the long hair. I hope the family remembers all the good memories and not remember how you left this tragic world. May you and Joey rest in peace! I love you and don't even know you. Always in my heart forever!!

RIP ANGELS IN HEAVEN
January 23, 2008

your lways in our hearts
January 23, 2008
Elizabeth DeBlasio
January 22, 2008
we are so sorry for the loss of these two beautiful family members. to know nancy and joey always helping and doing for others. I know my grandaughter Nina speaks of Joey daily and it breaks my heart Joey and Nancy are not here with her but I know they are her angels in heaven watching out for her and the rest of the family. our prayers are with you. Betty & Bob Deblasio Mahopac, New York.
Ciara Nighswander
January 22, 2008
My condolences go out to the family.I don't understand what this world is coming to.
Valerie Weiler
January 9, 2008
There are no words to make the pain go away, my heart goes out to the family & friends. I am a mother of 2 little girls and it sickens me of the increasing, senseless danger of this world we live in. You are in my thoughts and prayers, may God be with you.
Tina Parks
January 8, 2008
Although I never meet Nancy or Joey, I pray that they at peace and know that many hearts are broken but not forgotten. May the Bochicchio family be given all the strength and guidance from God during this most difficult time.
Patrick Obannion
January 8, 2008
Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.
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