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Michael Arpey Obituary

Porter Corners Michael A. Arpey, 44, of Ballou Road, died Wednesday, June 4, 2008, as a result of an automobile accident. Born on May 14, 1964 in Glens Falls, he was the son of the late Mary Lee (Dickinson) Hatfield and her husband Bill "Pop" Hatfield of Bonita Springs, Fla., and Louis Arpey and his wife Kim of Leesburg, Fla. Michael was a 1982 graduate of Saratoga Springs High School. While in school he won the New York State Wrestling Championships for the 155-pound-weight class giving the school its first and only wrestling championship. After high school Michael enlisted in the U.S. Army and was a member of the 82 Airborne where he served during the Grenada conflict. After the Army, Mike became a self-employed carpenter. He was a member of the Bonita Springs American Legion post and recently moved his membership to the Saratoga Springs American Legion Adirondack Post No. 70. He was also a member of the Italian American club of Saratoga Springs. Mike loved music, especially the Grateful Dead and Frank Zappa. He also loved the outdoors, skiing, fishing, golfing, kayaking, hiking and gardening, but most of all his baby boy Myles, family and friends. On Aug. 17, 2004, he married Melissa (Madeira) Arpey at Barefoot Beach in Bonita Springs, Fla. Survivors besides his wife, include his 7-month-old son, Myles Joaquim Arpey; his brothers, V. James Arpey and his wife, Cheryl, of Underhill, Vt. and Stephen A. Arpey and his wife, Lori, of Scotia; his sister, Jodi Dake and her husband, Fred, of Fort Edward; his nieces and nephews, Hayley, Mollie, Jay, Jack, Alicia, Nicholas, Elizabeth, Rebecca, Emily Kryssa, Kaylie and Michael; his grandmothers, Angela Dickinson of South Glens Falls and Katherine Arpey of Ballston Spa; his mother and father-in-law, Jack Madeira of Brazil and Rosa Maderia of Mass.; his brother-in-law, Rui Madeira and his son, Nathan of Mass. and several aunts, uncles, cousins and all of his wonderful friends he met along the way - RYE BREAD! There will be no calling hours. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated 6 p.m. Monday, June 9, 2008, at St. Michael the Archangel Church, 80 Saratoga Ave., South Glens Falls. Following the Mass a reception will be held at the Saratoga Springs American Legion Adirondack Post No. 70, West Avenue, Saratoga. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Trust for Myles J. Arpey at the First N.Y. Credit Union, 424 Maple Ave., Saratoga Springs, NY 12866. Arrangements are under the direction of the M.B. Kilmer Funeral Home, 136 Main St., South Glens Falls.

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Published by Post-Star on Jun. 8, 2008.

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Pher

June 24, 2008

Zappa was my a good friend of mine and I will miss him dearly, been thinking about him quite a bit lately. Hope all is well Mellissa.

The Broadus Family

June 23, 2008

We knew Mike all through high school. Our thoughts are with his family.

Lisa Wander

June 18, 2008

Melissa...I can hardly type this...just this minute found out about Mike. I am heartbroken...You and Myles...for as short a time as I have known you...I need you to know how sorry I am and how much I care for you. This breaks my heart...All my love goes out to you. Anything you need....anytime...

Deana Snider

June 17, 2008

Michael touched the spirt and soul of all he meet. I know he is still out there careing.
Michael i know our paths will cross again untill then you will always be a part of me.
Melissa if there is anything i can do for you or Myles please ask. I wish i could have been there for you and Grandma D and the rest of the family.
Deana,Carlie and Sierra

Donna Dwyer-Dickson

June 16, 2008

Jodi,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I did not hear of your brothers passing until yesterday. In you sadness, I am sure you have wonderful memories of Mike, embrace those memories. Cry, laugh and grieve, dance when you think of the good times you had with Mike. I pray you will find solace knowing that Mike is watching over you, resting in peace with God, and that you will be reunited someday in God's house.
May God Bless you and your family.
Donna Dwyer-Dickson
(Jodi, We worked together at Price Chopper, Wilton in the Mid 90's.)

John Capone

June 14, 2008

our deepest sympathy to the whole family!! our thoughts and prayers are with you all!!! John and family!

Brian Gardner

June 13, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Joe Giuliano

June 11, 2008

Melissa, you are in my heart and my thoughts. I am very sorry, we lost a great guy and a good friend.
--Joey G

Lorraine Butironi

June 10, 2008

Melissa, so sorry, Jodi and Jim sorry for the loss of your brother and Angie on the loss of your Grandson.
May he rest in peace.
Lorraine Butironi [ Bill's sister ]

Marty & Traci Edwards

June 9, 2008

Our deep condolances to the Arpey family....this has been a rough year and our hearts go out to all the family, especially Melissa and Myles. Our prayers are with you all.

Kathy (and Jahala) Collier

June 9, 2008

I spent today looking at old pictures of mike and remembering so many good times. distance keeps me from his service tonight- but my thoughts are with all who knew and loved him.
he was a gentle and kind spirit.
Mike, sleep in the stars and rest in peace. you are very loved. RFB

Cindy Flynn

June 9, 2008

Melissa, Myles, Louie and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Michael only as a little boy when I babysat for him, Jimmy and Stephen when they lived on Nelson Avenue back in the 1960's. He was so full of energy and funny like his own Dad. Louie was a friend of my big brother all though school and later I worked with Louie at Central Market. My prayers are with you all.

Margot Lynch

June 9, 2008

Love and strength to the Arpey family and friends. I am very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful spirit, I'm sorry I never knew him in person.

Juan Calzada

June 9, 2008

We are deeply saddened at the loss of our fellow Rye-breader, music lover, friend and brother. Our prayers are with Melissa and Miles

Brian Miller

June 9, 2008

Mike was one of the greatest and kindest people I ever met -- nobody finer! This is a heartbreaking loss for all of us, though especially Melissa and Myles. RIP Mike, and God bless all of his survivors. RFB!

Phyllis BILLINGS

June 9, 2008

So sorry to hear about your brother Jody and I'm sorry for your loss and I am. get MY recards to your parents for me.

Mike and Jo Ann Stoyka

June 9, 2008

Mike was a good friend of our children Mike and Denise. We have many good memories of visits at our home on Kaydeross Ave. and fishing trips with the guys. We are very saddened at this loss to his family and friends.

Denise LaNuez (Stoyka)

June 9, 2008

Today i received word of your loss. I celebrate fond childhood memories with Mike: summers spent at SPAC, frisbee throwing, bike riding, and swimming endlessly at Kaydeross Creek. Mike has a special place forever in my heart. Sincere prayers to the Arpey family

TINA CAPONE

June 8, 2008

I TOO WENT TO SCHOOL WITH MICHAEL, I REMEMBER HIM AS BEING A REALLY NICE PERSON, A REALLY GOOD SPIRIT!... TO MICHAEL: REST IN PEACE AND WATCH OVER THOSE WHO LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU GUIDE THAT BABY BOY AS IF YOU WERE HERE! FLY,FLY, PRECIOUS ONE YOUR ENDLESS JOURNEY HAS BEGUN ! TO THE FAMILY... HOLD MICHAELS MEMORY REALLY CLOSE TO YOUR HEART! WHILE HE JOURNEYS HOME WHERE HE WILL REUNITE WITH HIS MOM! MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME.

Katrina Dancz

June 8, 2008

Lay down my dear brother, lay down and take your rest,
Won't you lay your head upon your savior's chest,
I love you all, but Jesus loves you the best
And we bid you goodnight, goodnight, goodnight....

People were lucky to call you a friend

Jack Lynch

June 8, 2008

I am extremely sorry for your loss Melissa & Miles.

I also send condolences to my high school pal, Michael's dad Lou. God bless you all.

Jack and Mary Ann Lynch

Andrea Costanzo

June 8, 2008

I'm so sad, a life ended so soon, so sadly.
I'll remember a bright smile in the hall during high school, a long time ago, a happy-go-lucky guy. Always in my thoughts and prayers

MELANIE THOMAS-SMITH

June 8, 2008

ZIPPY WAS MY FAVORIT NAME FOR MIKE .HE WAS ALWAYS SO HAPPY GO LUCKY, WELL MOST OF THE TIME.I WILL MISS HIM DEARLY.MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU MELISSA,I'M SURE YOU WILL HAVE LOTS OF GREAT THINGS TO TELL MYLES.

Bruce & Julie McDonough

June 8, 2008

Mike was one of those special people you meet along the way who a laugh is shared easily with. It won't be long before we all will see you again.

Linehan

June 8, 2008

Melissa and Myles,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Mike is and always will be deeply missed. Words can't say how sorry we are for the loss of his life.
Colin, Niffie, Sammy Sophia and Sara

Bob & Pat Cohan & Woodruff

June 8, 2008

Michael was a wonderful, loving guy and we will miss him very much.

eric bryant

June 8, 2008

as a member of the 82 wrestling team,ill never forget watching mike go all the way to the state title.mike was a great guy who always had a smile.rest in peace champ.

Michael Giammatteo

June 8, 2008

Mike and I became friends in the 8th grade , graduated together and worked together in the 90's doing construction. Mike loved the outdoors and we spent many a summer day in the mountains collecting crystals. Mike was always energetic , like a tornado . Always fun , cheerfull , kind and loving .
My condolance to Mikes friends and family . Words cannot express how much Mike is loved , or how he will be missed .

Foster

June 8, 2008

Rest In Peace

Joann & Tim Maloney

June 8, 2008

We are very sorry for your loss, Mike was a great guy.

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