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Jordan White
July 1, 2008
I had guitar class in high school with Tonia, and I remember we had to play a song together for our final test, she was very talented and very sweet.
Kathy Brundage
May 27, 2008
To Katelyn Amato,
This is Tonia's mom. I remember you from the wedding and Tonia talked about you alot. She loved you and was so happy to have more special people in her life. I have her puppy and she is so much fun and she reminds me of how much Tonia loved all of her pets. Know that Tonia will always be close by to you. I am praying for all of your family! A big Hug from Tonia through me!!
Katelyn Amato
March 29, 2008
I'm so sorry for the loss of Tonia. I still consider her my family. She was always there for me when I needed someone to talk too. Especially when I lost my grandmother (JC's grandma) and my cousin (JC's brother.) She gave me a hug and told me everything was going to be OK.
I have some great memories with Tonia I would love to share, and they just show how generous and thoughtful she was to everyone.
Memory #1:
I remember going to a birthday party for my younger cousin (Tonia's neice,) and Tonia and I had to chase the small children around the room. It was great and Tonia's smile brightened the room, just like always.
As everyone was leaving, Tonia and I found a Karaoke (sp?) Machine in the back of the room. We turned on an old Christina Agulara (sp?) song, (I remember it was "What A Girl Wants") and we started singing together. It was so much fun.
Memory #2:
Tonia's wedding! :] It really was a day to remember. The reception is mainly what I think of though. I remember sending my mom home to get some of my cds. Tonia put in an old Toby Keith CD and sang her heart out and it was so beautiful. I had never heard her sing before.
Memory #3:
The June before Tonia's passing was my 8th Grade Dance. It's basically like a middle school prom. My mom and I were still in the process of finding a dress. Tonia, again wanted to help. She put me in her van, and took me down to her house. She ran inside and left me in the car because her dog "Happy" would jump all over me. She came outside with a huge bag and put it in the backseat. We then drove back out to my uncle's where she took me up to one of the bedroom's and showed me a beautiful lavender dress. It was so pretty! It was her prom dress!!!! She was going to let me where her prom dress! I ended up finding a dress I liked a little bit better, but she told me it was always there if I changed my mind.
I love and miss Tonia so much.
Karla Dewey
March 14, 2008
It is almost a year and I still don't know what to say. You are my inspiration and will always remain my dearest friend. I love you and I love your family. You will never be forgotten by all who know you. I will miss you always but know that you are always watching over me. Love always my best friend.
Karla
Joshua Gabriel
December 30, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Brundage
I found out of Tonia's passing from Wade S. back in November 3rd at Pat C.'s wedding. I have not written anything concerning what happened until now. I had tried to tell myself that it didn't happen and Wade had never told me anything. Like I had imagined it in some horrible nightmare. I keep trying to push the event to the back of my mind, yet it seems to haunt me every day.
The times in High School we hung out is what I really remember most. More so with Daphne and Julie and Wade. I remeber on our senior year when we were going to the Prom, Wade and Tonia were in the back bickering and joking with each other like two married couples. Daphne and I were in the front. I was driving. I also remember when you guys had a picnic at your house back in lower Nazareth. We were playing either volleyball or badmitten ( i am not sure which). I was the one who fell over the bird bath. I am not sure where I am going with this. I write how I talk.
Just so you are aware. I informed Daphne C. and Edda, as well as Julie L. (from Germany) and Austin W. I will continue to pray for you and your family. If you need anything at all, please feel free to contact me. I believe I have some photos somewhere.
"For everything there is a season and a time for every purpose under heaven"
A friend from the past,
Joshua A Gabriel JAG
[email protected]
Fred & Doris Harlan
December 12, 2007
Kathy, Rick & Sean -
We can't think of what to say. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Doris remembers running through Cantigny with Tonia at the TM's picnic there. We are so sorry to hear of your loss, but elated to hear that she is with our Lord and Savior. Thank you for your card.
Laurie Hostetler
December 10, 2007
Dear Kathy...To my sweet forever friend,
You have been in my heart and prayers lately...even before I got your Christmas card and letter.
When Jack and I read your letter...our hearts where broken for you and your family over the loss of your Tonia! We saw the picture of you and Rick and Sean...and Jack wondered where and how your daughter was...never in a million years would we believe what we were about to read.We are so sorry and share in your loss!
We are so grateful that you are leaning on our Precious Lord and Savior to get you through each day! We don't always understand...but we know the one who is in control and he has all the answers...and comfort, mercy, grace and love!
So, Dance my friend...even as tears fall...dance and know that your precious daughter is in the presence of our Dear Heavenly Father...and Yes...one day you will see her again and sing and rejoice! No more tears, no more sorrow...just worshipping our Heavenly Father!
I love you Kathy so very much...I always have...I wish I could hug you right now and cry with you...my tears are falling as I share your love for your angel...your precious daughter Tonia!
You are one in a million dear friend...know that someone in Tennessee is praying for you...and my small group from church and my church family.
When you feel down...remember to spread your love to other's...hold on to your faith and don't let the enemy steal it....Remember...I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me!
Tonia was very Blessed to have a Mother (father and brother) like you...you have always been a great Mom!
Hold on.. lean not on your own understanding ...but in all your ways acknowledge him...
Love, Prayers and Hugs always,
Laurie (Kucik) Hostetler
Five hearts forever joined
September 10, 2007
Mike Lyden
September 5, 2007
Kathy, Rick, and Sean,
Not sure if you remember me...I dated your daughter/sister for a few months, while I lived in PA. My mom just told me of Tonia's passing the other day. I am so very sorry. If there is anything that I can do, please let me know.
Mike Lyden
September 5, 2007
I only knew Tonia for a short time. We dated for a while, and we then parted ways. I still thought of her often. Wondering how she was doing. When I heard of what happened, I was stunned. I am still taken aback when I think about what happened. Though we had not seen eachother in a couple of years, I still am hurt, and angered by the loss of Tonia. As I am sure everyone else would like, I wish that I could just say goodbye. God Bless.
Karla Dewey
August 31, 2007
My Best Friend Tonia was always there for me.
She always made me laugh and always showed her friendship to me.
But when you were taken from this beautiful place,
All I could do is keep imaging your face.
You were so beautiful, both inside and out,
The only thing I don't understand Is the way it all came about.
I will always love you now and forever,
You will never leave my heart, never.
I will keep you in my prayers along with your loved ones,
Now I have to go because now I am done.
But one last ting before I say goodbye, I know that you are with your father in heaven,
but I still will always cry.
I LOVE YOU TONIA!!!!
August 29, 2007
Today would have been your 26th birthday my sweet Nay. I would have called or emailed the Beatles Birthday song to you. It was kind of our ritual. You would laugh at this and tell me how crazy I am.
I miss you. I miss our conversations and your infectious laugh but mostly I miss your amazing smile. It is very hard for me to know I will not see that smile again.
You were loved by so many...many more than I think you ever realized.
I cannot see a horse on a farm or on tv and not think of you and wonder who will help me pick the Derby winners from now on. You had such a knack and enthusiasm for horses. I was always impressed by that.
Your passing has left a large hole in so many hearts--it has left a large hole in my heart. You were an amazing young lady and finally starting to realize who you were and what potential you had in life. I am saddened by the thoughts that I will not be able to witness what should have been the rest of your life.
I think of you often and although it is mostly with sadness and tears right now I am also comforted with the many memories I have of you. You were a true one of a kind and I am sure we will meet again. Just promise me this...when we do meet again you will run to me squealing with delight the whole way, your arms open wide with that wonderful smile on your face and give me a great big hug....just like you used to do.
With all of my love to you, Nay.
Auntie I
M. K.
August 15, 2007
To Tonia,
We shared fun and laughter, but our moments were too few.
You chose to see the best in us. And you remained true to your faith. You lived your faith. You were your faith. It was the only thing you would consider. The only way you would look at the world. The only way you would look at us. There was no other possibility. It was from your heart.
You believed in everyone. Whatever anyone did, you believed they needed friendship. And you embraced them. Whatever else they did, you embraced them again. And whenever we parted, you embraced each of us, embracing every one of us, hoping to see all of us soon.
You shared with us your puppy who typed on your keyboard. Your fence which kept in the bunnies. Your famous cinnamon burrito. Your songs from musicals, songs from movies, christmas carols, and dreams of a room with forest-green carpet and sky-blue ceiling. And, in many crazy silly moments, we shared true tears of laughter.
After vanities and contentions fall away, whatever we may attain, whatever we may achieve, we realize there is a higher value and a nobler strength. A truth without artifice, without contrivance, without pretension. And not only is it possible, we find it within ourselves, if we so choose, if we believe.
And when we weary, light will shimmer on the waters, your laughter will smile upon us, we rededicate ourselves, summoning that which lives forever, exerting every part of our spirit until we reach that distant shore.
And in the morning, over mists upon golden fields, geese fly towards the sun. The horizon reaches east and west. The sun will forever rise.
May we always be true to our beliefs.
We will remember you always.
.
Mary Stockman-Smith
July 11, 2007
Dear Kathy, Rick & Sean.
How terribly shocked and sorry we are to hear of your loss. Words cannot express our feelings. You are in our prayers and thoughts.
Mary, Dave, Garrett & Tara Smith
Gina and David Hurst
July 11, 2007
Dear Kathy, Rick and Sean,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you. May the Lord continue to give you strength, peace and comfort.
Love, Gina and David
Kody Jones (Cristy & Boe Jones' daughter)
July 9, 2007
Kathy, Rick, and Sean;
I'm so very sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved daughter and sister, Tonia. My condolences to your family. Even though I have little memories of Tonia because I was so young, I still remember her and remember being there for your wedding. Our prayers are with your family during this time.
Carey Stotler
July 6, 2007
I am sorry to hear of Tonia's sudden passing. I had the pleasure of knowing her through Allegheny Valley School since 2003, where we worked together. Through this we became good friends and our friendship flourished after we both left AVS. Tonia was an extremely caring, compassionate woman who constantly cared for those around her. She was always willing to help those in need. I remember Tonia always signing and smiling, happy to be caring for those she loved. She had a beautiful voice and an even more beautiful heart. My prayers are with you during this time, please accept my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Carol Jones
July 5, 2007
I just want to express my sympathy to you all. I am so glad that you know Tonia is in Heaven. It truly helps to know that she is there. I knew Tonia from working with her at Allegheny Valley School. Tonia was a very caring person, she cared greatly for the clients in her care. And she had a very beautiful voice. I remember she used to always be singing. Please know that I am praying for you all and also for the Amato family. May the Grace and Peace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you at this time. Sincerely,
Carol Jones
Cristy and Boe Jones
July 5, 2007
Kathy, Rick, Sean, Mrs. Lucas, Mr. Lucas,
Our hearts are breaking upon learning of Tonia's passing. She was a very sweet, beautiful young lady. You will be kept in our thoughts and hearts during this sorrowful time. Kathy and Rick, if you need anything, please let us know. We love you all dearly. Our sincerest condolences to everyone.
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