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Phyllis Frutiger Obituary

FRUTIGER, PHYLLIS A., 64, - of Townbank, died Friday July 18, 2008 at the Cape Regional Med. Center, Cape May Court House. Born in Delaware Co., PA, she previously resided in Aldan, PA and resided in the Cape May area the past 4 years. Life partner of Jay Flager, cousin of Peg and Roland Batchelor. She also leaves many friends in the Delaware Co, PA and the Cape May area. Daughter of the late Nelson and Dorothy Frutiger. A Memorial Service will be held 12 noon on Monday, July 28, 2008 at the Evoy Funeral Home, 3218 Bayshore Road, N. Cape May. Friends may call after 11 am on Monday. Contributions may be made to: American Cancer Society, 626 N. Shore Road, Absecon, NJ 08201.

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Published by The Press of Atlantic City on Jul. 22, 2008.

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Dottie Weigand

July 28, 2008

I was very sorry to hear about Phyllis. My sympathy to Jay and her loved ones. I worked with Phyllis for many years and have lots of memories of those times. My husband and I enjoyed spending some time with Phyllis and Jay at the work Christmas parties and other social functions.

Lucille Rokosz

July 24, 2008

Phyllis and I were great friends and shared many, many good times together. She, Mary and I went on weekend trips to the Poconos, Jersey shore, shopping, dinners, bar hopping and worked together through many changes at BAR/TNS for about 37 years! She was also a bridesmaid in my wedding in 1971. She will be dearly missed by all her friends and family. My sympathy to all.

Ginger (Starke) Vasquez

July 24, 2008

I am so sorry to hear this! I think of Phyllis and her smile and dance, dance, dance! Take comfort she is with the Lord and not suffering.My love and thoughts to Jay.

Deb Woolson

July 24, 2008

My sympathy goes out to Jay, her family and all her many friends. I met Phyllis in 1973 at BAR where we shared happy and sad times. Last month we had such a nice phone conversation and I will cherish it always.
I'll always remember Phyl's laughter and her strength in pushing forward no matter what life handed her. She fought the good fight until the angels came and no doubt made her an offer she couldn't refuse and they escorted her home.
I have a great picture in my heart of Phyl, Mary, Irene, Julie and Mary Ann sitting at the bar having a few beers and laughing. Why? Because they know something we don't - how free they are now. And best part of that is - they are holding stools for us.
God Bless you Phyllis- thanks for being a wonderful part of all our lives!

Margaret Tillman

July 23, 2008

You are in my thoughts.

Pat & Joyce Cubler

July 23, 2008

Phyllis, Thanks for the blessing of your friendship. I can't tell you all the reasons that we liked you from the start, but I can tell you at least one-your friendship ment so much to Pat & I. The time spent with you.. always left us with speical memories.
I will never forget you... and all the time we spend on the beach talking..

MIKE AND ARLEEN FERGUSON

July 22, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

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