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Francis DeStefano Obituary



DESTEFANO, FRANCIS SR., 89, - of Erma, died July 24, 2008 at Cape Regional Medical Center after a lengthy illness. Well known bartender in Wildwood for over 50 years. "Big Fran" was a lifelong resident of Wildwood after moving from Wilmington, Delaware in 1958. He also worked at Abbott's Dairies & Wildwood Bowling Lanes. An avid Yankees fan, Fran enjoyed watching sports and being with his family. A veteran of World War II he spent three years in the Italian Campaign with the Fifth Army. Predeceased by his wife of 58 years Ellen (Figliola), parents Carlo and Theresa DeStefano and brother Carl DeStefano. Survived by sister Anna Zampini (Dee) of Wilmington, Delaware, daughters Ann Young (Tony) of Northfield, Louise DiMauro (Vincent) of Marathon, FL and son Fran Jr. (Susan) of Ocean View, ten grandchildren and fourteen great-grandchildren. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Monday, July 28th at 12 noon at St. Ann's Church, 2900 Atlantic Ave., Wildwood. There will be a viewing Monday from 9:30 to 11:30 am at the Ingersoll-Greenwood Funeral Home, 1201 Central Ave. North Wildwood. Interment will be in the Cape May County Veterans Cemetery, Middle Township. Donations in his memory to the Brendan Borek High Tides Memorial Fund, P.O. Box 41, Avalon, N.J. 08202 would be appreciated.

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Published by The Press of Atlantic City from Jul. 26 to Jul. 27, 2008.

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Adrienne Willson

July 29, 2008

Pop-pop you were such a huge part of my life, I can't even believe you aren't here with us anymore. I know you are in a better place, I also know that I now have another angel watching over me. I am so proud that you were there to dance with me on my wedding day. I will never forget you....I love you.

Charlie and Debbie Keeler

July 28, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Nancy Armstrong

July 27, 2008

What can I say about "The Old Man" except we had plenty of good times together. Even with those bumb knees I could still get him to dance when David Christopher was playing. Wildwood Nights wouldn't have been the same without him.

I believe I was served my 1st drink from him at the London Ale House.

And Fran, Mario and myself had quite a few dinners at his favorite spot "Alfie's".

He has and always will, be one of my favorite people. I will miss you Fran.

Andre (Rap) Rapattoni

July 26, 2008

Family,Sorry to hear about big fran. he was a great man,we had a lot of laughs together.I'll never forget when we work together at the london ale house.and the phrase,(YOU HAD A GOOD TIME? NOW GET OUT)..I'll miss him,even shopping in shop-rite....YO PAL (Rest in Peace)

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