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for Mark Hellings
Stephen Pelz
October 6, 2008
Dear Kathy and Ray, I was so shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. My family has been remembering him and you two and the good times we have shared. I hope we see you in the future! I hope you will find some way to learn to live with this saddness. I send you all my love.
Nate Menzano
September 28, 2008
Found out today brother, I'll keep you in my prayers, keep us all in yours. See you on the other side,
Nate
Angela Ferri
September 28, 2008
well it took me a long time to write something... im not very good with these kinds of things. kara pretty much talked about all the memories we had. hah ill try to spell everything right though. i cant really explain how much ill miss you uncle mark. i look back and remember how much fun we always had with you and it makes me immediately smile. ill always remember coming down the shore and riding a bike into the pool or collecting trash on the beach or having breakfast with you and listening to "you can have whatever you want as long as you eat it all" all morning. hah even though it scared the crap out of me i loved taking rides on the motorcycle..... when my mom would let me, and we all know that didnt happen very often. im so happy and lucky to have had you in my life for 20 years and i will miss you more than words can describe. I love you uncle mark and i always will. <3
nikki- we are here, all of us, and we always will be. Your strong just like your dad and you will get through this and you know you have your family to help you. your new house looks amazing and your dad was so proud of you and so is everyone else. if you need anything you know who to call and you know that we all love you.
Aunt chrissy: i cant imagine what you are going through and i am so sorry. Your definitly a strong person and i know i wouldnt be as concerned about those cheese baskets as you were and thats what i love about you. hah. But im sure this is tough and i know you will get through it. if you need anything, anything at all, you can call. i can even give you a creme brulee recipe but i cant guarentee it will be as good as guy's haha. i love you aunt chris and dont forget we are all here for you.
Angel Montgomery
September 25, 2008
Chris and Nikki,
I'm so sorry to hear about Mark. He was a great guy. I often think of all the good times we had on Broadway and wish we could go back to those days. Time goes by too quickly. Your both in my prayers.
Love,
Angel Montgomery
Kristin Hughes
September 25, 2008
Aunt Chrissy: You've always been like a second mother to me and I promise to do anything in my power to help you through this tough time. You know I'm here whenever you need me. I love you.
Nikki: I don't know what to say. I told you I wouldn't do this, but my heart got the best of me. You have been my best friend.....my cousin.....and my little sister my whole life. If there was anything in this world that I could do to take your pain away, I would, and I promise to try. I love you with all my heart and you know I'm here for you and always will be.....xoxoxo
Uncle Mark: Words cannot express how truely missed you will be. I will treasure every moment we spent together and hold it deep in my heart. You always made me laugh. You turned a bad day good with just a hug and a few kind words. I thank God everyday that I was blessed enough to have you in my life. The world was a better place with you in it. I know you will still be protecting and watching over me from heaven and that gives me peace. I love you!
Shannon Ferri
September 24, 2008
So much comes to mind when I think of Uncle Mark, my favorite Godfather. I know one memory only him and I shared. The night the power went out all over Cape May and at about 6am he took me driving along the bay with a strawberry milk and we watched the lightening hit the bay. He was truly one person who did what he wanted to, anything fun and was always down for anything. Jumpin into the pool with the bikes is probably one of the greatest ideas he ever came up with, just one more thing for Mom-Mom to yell at us for! Ill never look at another motorcyle, muscle car, pool table or bottle of Jack the same way again. If I ever wanted to do something stupid he was the one I could count on to get in trouble with. I know he'll be standing on the roof of the garage watchin over us.
Aunt Chrissy, my favorite godmother. If you ever need anything we are always here for you. We've been through so much together as a family and leaning on each other is what we do best.
Nikki, you've helped me through alot and Ill never forget it. Uncle Mark was my second father down the shore. We drove him nuts making funnel cake and setting the fire alarms off in the house and when we'd make him drag the tent down from the attic so we could have a camp-out... in your living room so we could still watch tv and not have to worry about bugs. If you ever need anything you know Im just a care ride or a phone call away, you know I always have my phone close by.
joe nelson
September 24, 2008
aunt Chrissy and nicole,
Its been a while since i last saw you guys,but i still consider myself part of the family and my deepest condolences go out o everybody. I don't think thaat i can make it to his viewing but i just wanted yous to know that i am very sorry to hear what happened. Also i hope that we will get to see everybody really soon.
-yours truely,
baby dumpling
Maureen And Judy Connelly
September 24, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both during this difficult time. Our Thanksgiving dinner will not be the same without Mark.
Elaine Callahan-Nicoletti
September 24, 2008
Dear Chrissy & Nicole,
Although not officially a Ferri, I feel very much a part of the family. Mark's passing has left many stunned & shaken. The void will be felt by many. So many good qualities-caring, concerned, loving, helpful and fun-loving. A joy to be around. And so many memories-Easter egg hunts, parties for all occasions, shooting pool and card games long into the night and of course Irish weekend with hot rods & Tuckers. I'll especially miss the big hug, a smile and a "better now" whenever I saw Mark.
Please know that there are many family and friends to help you through this difficult time. Whatever I can do help...I'll always be there.
To Mark, I'm sure that where you are there's a big bar with lots of JD, big screen TV's for all those games & races, Harley's and good buddies. You'll be missed....until we meet again
Elaine
Joan Hellings
September 24, 2008
Crissy, Nicole, Kathy, Ray, Beth Ann, Brian, Richie Hellings & the Ferri Family.
Althought I never met Mark I heard lots of good things about him. I sympathise with all of you during this difficult time.
Love Joan Hellings Lyons
(Jim's daughter)
JIM & LIZ HELLINGS
September 24, 2008
Crissy, Nicole, Kathy,Ray, Beth Ann, Brian, Richie Hellings & the Ferri Family.
Our deepest sympathy to all. It was a great shock to Liz & I when we heard of Mark departure.
He will always be with us. The good memories will make us smile. It was a great honour and pleasure to know him from a small child to a grown man, always full of love and laughter.
Where ever Mark went he brought light to darkness and joy and laughter to all around.
So as Liz and I say our farewell to you Mark we will remember.
Those we love can never be more than a thought apart for as long as there is a memory they'll live on in our hearts.
Love Uncle Jim & Aunt Liz
2 Glendara, Dromod, Co. Leitrim, IRL.
Kara Ruzzi
September 24, 2008
Words do not come easy at a time like this, so I will share some memories: boardwalk bike rides, waffles and ice cream, our walks on the beach with our walking sticks, "Oh you can’t get to heaven...." (you know you are singing it in your head right now), riding bikes in the pool, jumping off latter’s into the pool, the “Tim the Tool man Taylor” grunt, biker t-shirts, leather jeff caps, cowboy boats, oh the cowboy boats! chocolate milk Sundays, McDonalds if we were lucky, Uncle Mark having to carry me through the mud because my jellies kept getting stuck, jokes, jokes and more jokes, he loved to make people laugh and the list goes on and on. Uncle Mark lived and loved life to the fullest. He loved his family and friends with everything he had. He would do anything for you, even when he didn't so much feel up to it. He was a great, genuine person who will never be forgotten and we are all lucky to have known and shared so many memories with him. Things will not be the same without you, but we will keep your memory alive, anyone up for a boardwalk bike ride?
Nikki-cole, I am here, always here, no matter what time it is, no matter where I am, I am here. Whenever you need to talk, cry, vent, laugh, scream, remember I am here. I will be the one, this time, who sleeps half on the mattress and half off. You will never know how much that meant to me that you were there for me. I want you to know that I am here for you the way you were for me.
Aunt Chrissy, your favorite goddaughter is here, whatever you need let me know. You are stronger than you think and memories will help you get through our difficult time. Don't be afraid to cry or call someone for help, we want to help.
I just want to also say that our family is great, I do not know how we would get through life without each other. The bond we have, words can not even describe, we are all so lucky to have each other. I love you all <3 xoxoxo
Frank Nicoletti
September 24, 2008
Dear Crissy & Nicole, So sorry to hear of Marks passing, he was a special person to me and welcomed me into a large family that is so close, a man that really cared about family values. He enjoyed his bike and his buddy harlee, but of course his greatest love Crissy & Nicole. Mark loved party's, whatever the occasion, with poolstick in one hand and Jack & Coke in the other and I enjoyed opur conversations about Nascar & my 68 Firebird. And did he have a sense of humor always telling jokes wether off color or not, but to be sure he was funny. I will miss you my friend. Rest in peace.
Craig Ferri
September 24, 2008
Crissy, my big sister and Nikki-Cole, my goddaughter, I know how hard this is on you but I know that Mark is watching over you and everything will be ok. Crissy you have always stood by me and now it is my turn...I will always do my very best to be there for you and Nicole. I LOVE YOU BOTH, Craig
Yo Mark, I've known since I was 10 years old..thats 38 years and very long time. Thats alot of Eagles and Flyers games. I'm gonna miss all our sports conversations during the games. You were my brother-in-law but, in my eyes you were an older brother and even more important...my friend. We've been through alot together. I always think about the roadtrip me, you, Scott and Mike took to Pleastanville(when you gave Mike a driving lesson I'm sure he has never forgotten!) and all the fun and laughs we had....you always knew how to make us laugh.
You were always one to put others before yourself and your famous saying of "strong like bull" proved true the day I cut my foot on the beach and was unable to walk home. Even with your asthma you carried me up the beach and up the hill back to the house and then drove me to the hospital. That day and many, many days after..you were "strong like bull." I'm gonna miss you Markus,Markus Meadowlarkus!! Love you brother, Craig
Karen Ruzzi
September 24, 2008
Some people may think that this is weird.
But I got inspired and drew a pen near.
This is written from my heart don't you know.
As we all experience the pain and how fast times goes.
Just a little rhyme for you to ponder.
When your days are long and your mind wonders.
Our hearts are torn and our faces worn.
Remembering all the little things from the time they were born.
I know we sit and will wonder why.
At the oddiest times we will start to cry.
Take comfort in the many memories we knew.
They may be old but they will feel like new.
They all save places for you and me.
Because when we meet again it will be heavenly.
Brian, Kevin, and Nick Ward
September 24, 2008
Our condolences to Chrissy, Nicole, the Ferri and Hellings families, and everyone else who was lucky enough to know Mark. He was truly a great guy who would do anything for you. We will never forget the great times at the shore and on the boardwalk, Mark teaching us to play cards and shoot pool, and the times spent just talking about the Flyers. Whenever there was a family get-together, we always asked our parents if Mark would be there because we enjoyed being around him so much. Rest in peace, you will be missed!
Tina and Kevin Hughes
September 24, 2008
Aunt Chrissy and Nikki,
Uncle Mark will be sadly missed.He was a great person to know. Always had a smile. If we can do anything to help, please let us know.We love you both!
Pat Gallagher
September 24, 2008
Ray and Kathy, Your tears are my tears. Both our sons born to close together. Our longtime friendship since the 40's. May God give you all the strength you need to move on. May the Lord be with us while we are absent one from the other. Pat
Ed Ward Jr.
September 23, 2008
Chrissy,Nicole,all the Ferri's and Hellings, Words can not explain how I feel for your lose. Mark was someone I truly will never forget and always looked up to! Anyone who knew Mark knows in there heart of hearts what a special person he was to everyone he came in contact with. He will be sorely missed but never forgotten.
Ellen Kelly
September 23, 2008
Dear Chrissy & Nicole,,, Please know how saddened we are over the loss of your husband and father. He was such a fun guy. Last time I saw him he finally got me back on a bike for a ride,,,and boy what a ride!! I will never forget it or him. Love Jim & Ellen Kelly
Jenna Ferri
September 23, 2008
Dear uncle Mark, you will never be forgotten. You are the best uncle. I remember the fun times we had together like the time you took me for a ride on your motorcycle even though my mom said No. Thank you for coming to my soccer games whenever you could.
P.S. I will miss you and you will always be in my heart.
Mary-Kate Devlin (Callahan)
September 23, 2008
Dear Chrissy & Nicole,
We were so sad to hear of your tremendous loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you both as well as the entire Ferri family....stick together, now is the time to be grateful your family is so close.
God Bless you Mark
Love, Mary-Kate
Lisa Webb
September 23, 2008
To The Ferri & Helling's Families...Our thoughts and prayers are with you Chrissy & Nicole...Mark was a funny & great guy...and not to bad at pool either....He will be missed at the Christmas party @ the Callahan's(Nicoletti) household.....
Sincerly,
Lisa & Steve Webb
Elaine's Niece
Desiree' Caldwell
September 23, 2008
Nikki and family...I am soooo sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through and I cant even imagine you being sad because you are always so bubbly and happy. Please know that I am here for you if you need me and I hope to see you soon. Please extend my condolences to your family. Love you!
Kathy Wilson
September 23, 2008
Chrissy,
We've lost touch in recent years, but friendship is beyond spending time together. Mark was a fun and loving (and fun-loving) special person, and whenever I think of him a smile quickly follows. Jim and I are truly saddened by your loss and wish you, Niclole and your family comfort in the many memories of his antics you must have. If you need anything, or just to fill the time reminiscing or chatting, please don't ever hesitate to call or stop by.
Love, Kathy Wilson
Ed & Dot Ward
September 23, 2008
We send our condolences to Chirssy, Nicole and the Hellings and Ferri families. We know you have lost someone whose presence has become a mainstay in your hearts. Our memories of Mark are of someone who would tell it like it was, but at the same time be a truly caring (and emotional) person. A little side note (to Mark from Dot) - I will miss that whenever we greeted each other with a hug and I would say "How are you doing?", your resonse was always "Better now!" We will miss you!
Karen
September 23, 2008
M---Motorcycles, Nascar racing, football were some of your passions.
A---All around hell of a guy, not high on fashions. (T-shirts and jeans)
R---Rough and tough on the outside but a teddy bear on the inside. Truth be told.
K---Kind, supportive, fun, generous,etc. etc. with a giant heart of gold.
Put them all together and they spell MARK the best brother-in-law/brother, friend, etc. etc. ever. I LOVE YOU and I will miss you dearly. Love, Karen
Nancy Clay Fahy
September 23, 2008
Ray and Kathy:
It was very nice getting to know you both when you visited in Rochester this summer. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It's wonderful to read all your friends thoughts and wishes during this difficult time.
Jackie Ferri
September 23, 2008
Dear Chrissy and Nicole: Please know that we are and always will be here for you. We love you so much. We have so many wonderful memories of Mark that we will treasure forever. We will never forget all the Easters, Christmases, and halloween hayrides. He made sure we all had fun, even if we didn't want to. We are all so blessed to have had him in our lives. Nicole, you are his pride and joy and you really are "Daddy's little girl". He is so proud of you. Your father did so much for everyone. He was a good man and we will miss him dearly. Famous Mark quote: "Thaaaat's Great!"
Scott Ferri
September 23, 2008
Since I was 7 years old Mark & I have grown old and shared many memories together. Most of them good, some bad. It will be difficult for my family & I to replace his sence of humor & companionship. I am one of the few, who has been blessed with a close, tight knit family that enjoys spending time and having fun together as a family. Most will agree Mark had the most fun out of all of us !! He would not let his health get in the way. Over the last 38 years Mark was one of the key ingredients to ensure we all had fun, from the holidays,Easter & good Friday,hay rides,to every kind of party..their are just too many to list. His crazy antics and willingness to lend a helping hand will leave a void for many. Where ever you are Mark, I sure hope they have a pool table & cards, your wearing your Harley T-shirt, Have a tall Jack & coke, and your watching the Daytona 500,Eagles,Flyers,& Phillies. When ever I hear a Harley roar by I will think of you!! May you rest in peace. We will always Love and miss you....My friend, My brother.
Linda & Roy Schreib
September 23, 2008
Ray & Kathy: We are so sorry for your loss. I know the Lord will help comfort you during this very tough time. Trust in Him.....Lean on Him. I'm so glad we recently had that time to reminisce about when Mark & I were children. We used to hide behind Ethel's couch when it was time for him to go. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Lovingly, Linda & Roy
Ronald Louis Duca cape classics m/c treasurer
September 22, 2008
i'm so sorry i can't attend the services as i will out of town that morning, my family and i send our love and prayers to your family and friends.
Nancy Hellings
September 22, 2008
Dear Chrissy, Nicole, Beth, Brian, Richard and families:
Gary and I were so sorry to hear of Mark's passing. He was a wonderful person, truly. He really was one of those people who lit up a room when he entered it and always made you smile! We hope that in the coming months you will find peace in remembering all of the wonderful times you spent together. We were just talking about the picnics and the volleyball games and swimming at the Ferri's house so many years ago. Time passes so quickly. We hope that you will find comfort in each other to try the help one another through this terrible time. It's not said often enough, but we love you all!
Love, Nancy & Gary
Nancy Hellings
September 22, 2008
Dear Aunt Kathy & Uncle Ray:
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Mark truly was a very special person who always made everyone smile! I have a wonderful memory of him taking me out on my 1st and only motorcycle ride - I was so scared - and he just laughed the whole time! That is a memory I will keep with me forever.
The two of you have helped me through a terrible illness and I can never thank you enough. You both are very special to me. I will be here to help you in any way I can.
With Love, Nancy
Maureen Ferri
September 22, 2008
Mark I will always miss our EAGLES gameday phone calls and the race of who calls who first with "thats when he's dangerous!" Watching them now wont be quite the same without you. You've been a great brother in law and I will forever miss you. Love, Mo
Jim and Barb Aguilar
September 22, 2008
Ray and Kathy- Words cannot express the sympathy we feel for your loss. God Bless you both.
Walter & Mae Jean Adams/Albasi
September 22, 2008
To Ray, Kathy, Beth, Brian, Richard Christine and Nicole:
I can't imagine how difficult Mark's passing must be for all of you. I did not know Mark very well but I know that he is much loved by all of you and he will be sorely missed. Please know that Mae Jean and I are feeling your pain and our hearts go out to each of you. These passages have often comforted me in my moments of deepest despair and I hope they do the same for you today:
2 Cor 4:7-18
But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, so that the surpassing greatness of the power will be of God and not from ourselves;
But we are afflicted in every way, but not crushed
Perplexed, but not despairing;
Persecuted, but not forsaken;
Struck down, but not destroyed;
Always carrying about in the body the dying of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body.
For we who live are constantly being delivered over to death for Jesus' sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh.
So death works in us, but life in you.
But having the same spirit of faith, according to what is written, "I BELIEVED, THEREFORE I SPOKE," we also believe, therefore we also speak,
Knowing that He who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and will present us with you.
For all things are for your sakes, so that the grace which is spreading to more and more people may cause the giving of thanks to abound to the glory of God.
Therefore we do not lose heart, but though our outer man is decaying, yet our inner man is being renewed day by day.
For momentary, light affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory far beyond all comparison,
While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen; for the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal.
+Bob and Nancy Hibbs
September 22, 2008
May your faith in Christ's Resurrection be your strength and know of our continuing prayers for you all.
Joan Clay
September 22, 2008
Dear Ray and Kathy:
My heart is broken for you in your loss, but I know that our Lord is supplying strength for you to bear this tragedy. I will be in touch later.
The prayers of my entire family are with you. Lovingly, Joan
Patti Quinn
September 22, 2008
Dear Aunt Kathy, Uncle Ray, Chrissy, Nicole, Brian, Richard, Bethanne and families ...
My heart, mind and prayers are with you All ... sending you much Love from CA ...
Patti
Polly Story-Lebl
September 22, 2008
Aunt Kathy & Uncle Ray & all of you.... I was so sorry to hear about Mark. It has been years since I've been to NJ to stay with the Hellings, but I remember my cousin Mark's kindness very well.
Love & Prayers,
Polly, Michal & Ali
James Cassar
September 22, 2008
I'm not good at saying what i feel about a a person after their gone. But i will miss your sence of humor . you alway's were there to help people in time of need and now it is our turn to helf your family . My family's thought's & prayer's will be with use during your hard time's
Joseph Sims~Cape Classics M/C
September 22, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Ginny Jackson
September 22, 2008
Chrissy & Nicole: My heart goes out to both of you. Mark always made me laugh with his great sense of humor. He will be greatly missed by all whos lives he touched. May Gods loving hands be with you in your time of sorrow
Ginny Jackson
Morrisville, Pa
Theresa Appenzeller
September 22, 2008
Chrissy ~ My dearest friend ~ You and I go back a lifetime. Nicole you are my dear niece and my daughter's best friend. Mark was Uncle to my children. We will all be here for you both forever. Mark will never be forgotten, especially all our trips to Florida and every Christmas Eve. Phil will take him to his final resting place in Daytona during Bike Week 2009.
All our Love, Theresa & Phil
Kathy Fabrizio
September 22, 2008
It is impossible not to smile when I think of Mark. The past couple of days have been filled with tears followed by smiles as I think of the many memories I have to treasure. Chrissy, Nicole, the Hellings family and the entire Ferri clan, words cannot begin to express my sorrow for your loss. Mark will remain in your heart, and all of our hearts, forever. He is someone who truly made a difference in the lives of the people he loved. Love, Kathy Martin
Carol McBride
September 22, 2008
Words I cannot find. You will be greatly missed by friends & family. My heart & prayers go out to my dear friend.
Kevin and Linda Hughes
September 22, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Betsy Taylor
September 22, 2008
Chrissy & Nicole, my heart goes out to you...Mark was a great guy, always made us smile/laugh and was loved by everyone that knew him. Our memories of Mark will last forever. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Love Betsy.
Doug Dorman
September 22, 2008
My prayers are with you through your time of sorrow.
Doug Dorman
Lisa D'Amico
September 22, 2008
Mark will be sadly missed by the entire family of Cape Classics M/C.
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