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WHEATON, RICHARD JAMES, 45 - of Fairmont, WV, passed away on Tuesday, September 23, 2008 as a result of an automobile accident. He was born in Cape May County Court House, on March 11, 1963 a son of James Edward and Lorraine Changlin Wheaton of North Wildwood. He is also survived by his wife of 22 years, Johnna Louise Fariss Wheaton, Pastor of the Boothsville United Methodist Charge near Fairmont, West Virginia. Mr. Wheaton was currently employed at Prologic Inc. of Morgantown and Fairmont, West Virginia contracted out to S M Stoller of Morgantown as a software engineer. He earned a Bachelor of Science in Computer Science from Virginia Tech and a Masters of Science from Purdue University. Richard was the happiest at home with his family. In addition to his parents and wife, Richard is survived by two special daughters, Victoria Wheaton and Patricia Wheaton both of Fairmont; two brothers, Mark Wheaton and his wife Mimi of West Chester, Pennsylvania and Edward Wheaton and his wife Anne of Coraopolis, Pennsylvania. Also surviving are his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Don and Loretta Fariss of Allisonia, Virginia ; a sister-in-law, Dena Fariss of Raleigh, North Carolina and a brother-in-law, Don Fariss of Allisonia, Virginia. In keeping with the wishes of the deceased, his body will be cremated. The Wheaton Family will receive friends at the Carpenter & Ford Funeral Home, 209 Merchant Street, Fairmont, WV on Sunday from 5pm to 8pm. A Memorial Service will be held at the Central United Methodist Church, 301 Fairmont Avenue, Fairmont, West Virginia on Monday, September 29, 2008 at 11am with Rev. Myrna Bethke, Rev. David Jasper, and Rev. Luana Cook Scott officiating. In lieu of flowers, Mr. Wheaton's family request donations be made to the Boothsville United Methodist Charge, Parsonage Fund, c/o Charlotte Mauller, RR 7, Box 306-C, Fairmont, WV 26554. Online condolences may be sent to the Wheaton family at [email protected].

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Published by The Press of Atlantic City on Sep. 27, 2008.

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George Schmidt

October 6, 2008

On behalf of 1st Presbyterian Church, Wildwood, NJ. place accept our deepest sympathies. Our prayers have been with you Johanna and your family. Our only Comforter both in life and in death is that we belong not to ourselves but our Lord Jesus Christ.... a partial quote from the 1st Answer of the Heidelberg Catechism - I share this with you.
In Christ's Service
Rev. George H. Schmidt, Jr.

George and Leah Gower

October 2, 2008

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Brian Blake

October 2, 2008

I currently worked with Rich and will have to say he was a great guy. He spoke about his girls quite often as well as Va Tech. It is so hard to believe he is gone...I guess God works in mysterious ways...it is not for us to understand. Rich and his smile will be missed greatly. Rich's family can definitely be proud of the person he was.

Scott Rose and Elizabeth Bailey

October 1, 2008

Dear Johnna, Victoria and Patricia,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. My brothers and I spent many happy weeks at the beach with Richie, Mark and Ed, and all the other cousins. I have very fond memories of the softball games our extended family always played in Wildwood. We will all miss Rich and we are very sorry for your loss.

Judie Rose

October 1, 2008

Our thoughts are filled with sorrow for your heavy burden. May your hearts find hope within the promise of tomorrow.
Aunt Judie and Alan

Scott Wahl

September 30, 2008

Johnna, Victoria, Patricia..
I just returned from a long trip and got the news. I love Rich more than a brother, and he was truly a best friend any guy in high school could have. Our prayers are with you all. Heaven just got one of the very, very best...ever.
Barbara and Scott Wahl (WHS '81)

Terri (Hutchinson) Bartleson

September 30, 2008

Wheaton Family my heart and soul go out to you'all. I attended Wildwood High with Rich, and enjoyed his friendship. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers

Chris Lambert

September 30, 2008

I was privileged to share an office with Rich. He was the glue that bound everyone together here. We shared many interesting conversations. I will miss his wit, wisdom and mischevious sense of humor.

David, Randy, Lauren, Eric & Melissa Rose

September 30, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to Rich's immediate and extended family. The Rose boys were the same ages as the Wheaton boys and spent many summers in Wildwood together growing up. I'll always remember Rich "walking on his toes".

Michelle (Carty) Sheeran

September 29, 2008

To the entire Wheaton Family - we are so very sorry for your loss. The Wheaton Boys and the Carty Kids grew up together on Third and Surf and the memories are so fond - especially of Richie who was the youngest of the bunch. May your heart and soul find peace and comfort.

Dennis Bombardiere

September 29, 2008

Patricia and Victoria, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your Mother are in my thoughts and prayers.

Amy Russo

September 28, 2008

I never read my e-mail I am so bad about it, just delete all is usually my way .......But tonight I read one of the worst. I went to high school with Rich, what a guy....what a smile! I am so sorry for The entire family's loss!

David Ricer

September 28, 2008

Patricia, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

David & Diane Long

September 28, 2008

Dear Johnna & Family,
My wife and I are saddened to hear of the loss of Rich. I was a High School classmate and friend of his brother Ed. I pray God will give you comfort and relive your sorrow.

Linda L. Gandy

September 28, 2008

Johnna, I am so sorry and my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Words can not comfort you i am sure. Know i am keeping you and the girls in my prayers. LLGandy Mon valley Team

Rob Pizzala

September 28, 2008

Mark - I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the trying days to come.

Nancy Valentine

September 28, 2008

Johnna,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.I heard about you so often, before I finally met you two years ago, that I felt like I already knew you. My daughter, Debbie Cooper introduced us when she asked you to officiate my husband Jim's funeral. You were very kind to my family.My heart goes out to you and your family.

Robin Peabody ( Hoffnagle)

September 28, 2008

I am sorry for your lost. I do remember all of us growing up together. They were the old years. May you peace in your heart as time goes on. My heart goes out to everyone. God Bless

William Irwin

September 28, 2008

Dear Victoria,
I'm one of your fellow students in the engineering program. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Stay focused and let time heal the wounds. You, your father, and your family are all in my thoughts and prayers...

Sincerely,
William Irwin

Karolyn Johnson

September 27, 2008

We send our deepest sympathies to your family. We are so saddened by Richard's death. Steve and Richard were friends from their early school years through high school in North Wildwood. Our heart goes out to all of you.

Steve Jett

September 27, 2008

Dear Johnna and girls,
I am so sorry to hear of Rich's passing. I also grew up in North Wildwood and went to school with his brother Ed. Mom and Pop Wheaton have kept us up to date with your family each time we have been back to visit. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Bob and Andrea Rodgers

September 27, 2008

Johnna, Victoria, and Patricia: We are so saddened by the loss of your dear Rich and our hearts ache for you as you mourn. We are holding you in prayer and ask that God's love and peace enfold you and comfort you throughout these difficult days and that you be warmed by the wonderful memories of shared times and the knowlege of the joy and laughter Rich brought to so many of us who were fortunate enough to have known him. We love you and mourn with you. Bob and Andrea

lina cui

September 27, 2008

I am a graduate student of CEE, I feel so sorry that a father is lost in the car accident, bless him in the heaven.

DENNY & BETSY TOMLINSON

September 27, 2008

DEAR JOHNNA AND FAMILY, WE HAVE KNOW RICHARD SINCE HE WAS A SMALL CHILD PLAYING WITH OUR CHILDREN. I ALSO HAD THE PLEASURE OF WORKING WITH HIM AT A SUMMER RESTAURANT. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND HIS PARENTS

Carol Davison

September 26, 2008

Dear Johnna~
My heart breaks for you and your girls. There are no words to ease the pain of such a tragic loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as you face the difficult days ahead. I send you much love and many Davison hugs!!
Love & Prayers ~ Carol (Mom and Sue, too)

John Fluharty

September 26, 2008

Wow. I don't even know what to say. I knew Rich when he worked for TMC/GST on contract to Lockheed Martin in Fairmont. He was a good guy, worked hard. He had pics of his daughters on his desk and I think a wedding photo of himself and his wife- I don't remember clearly now. If Rich ever complained about a fellow that talked out loud to himself in a nearby cube that would be me. Wow. 45 is pretty young. Heaven's not a bad place to be, though- better than here on Earth, certainly.

Debby Carty-Campbell

September 26, 2008

My family and I pray that the Lord will hold you and guide you through this tragic time. Hold on tight to those memories they will help you through. We are so sorry.

Many Blessings and much sympathy from a former childhood neighbor of the Wheatons.

Arthur Woolley

September 26, 2008

My prayers are for all those who mourn. Richard was a class- mate our youngest daughter Jane Francis (Woolley) Baer through Margaret Mace and Wildwood High School. With sympathy and prayers - The Reverend Arthur E. Woolley, Jr.

Beth Carlson

September 26, 2008

Dear Johnna and family, I am so, so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the grief you are now experiencing. May your strength come from your love for him and for each other. I grew up with Richard in North Wildwood and my fondest memory of him is at the beach when we little. We'd build castles and he always had the best matchbox cars to drive around our sandy property. May your memories sustain you.

Melanie Bowen

September 26, 2008

Johnna, Victoria and Patricia, We were so sorry to hear of this tragedy. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ed, Melanie and Kathryn Bowen
Freehold, NJ

David Donathan, Christ Church UM

September 26, 2008

Dear Johnna & Family, Words simply can not express my deep sympathy over the loss of your husband and father. We were all together just last Saturday in Summersville when I met Richard for the first time during lunch. Please know you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

"In our end is our beginning; in our time, infinity; in our doubt there is believing, in our life, eternity; In our death a resurrection; at the last, a victory, unrevealed until its season, something God alone can see." ("Hymn of Promise"-written by Natalie Sleeth, 1986)

Gee Shiferaw

September 26, 2008

victoria, just want to send out my deepest symphathies to you and your family. may God be with you and your family. if there is anything i could to help please ask me anytime. Be strong! oky

Cathy, John, Gabrielle and Valarie Jasper

September 26, 2008

Johnna and Family, We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know the thoughts and prayers of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Verl & Joanne McKinney

September 26, 2008

We were so very sorry to hear about Rich. Please know you all are surrounded by our love, prayers, and thoughts.

JUDY COLANERO

September 26, 2008

PATRICIA AND FAMILY , MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

Laud Gifford, Jr.

September 26, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies to the Wheaton family at this time of sorrow. I pray that God will comfort and support you with his grace. The Wheaton family is in the prayers of the Gifford family and Gypsy Community United Methodist Church. Betty Hudkins Tonkery is my aunt.

Walter A. Schultz Jr.

September 26, 2008

I attended Wildwood High School with Rich and we graduated together in 1981 and I know these many years later as I enter my 19th year in the practice of law (4th as a Prosecutor with the Cumberland County New Jersey Prosecutor's Office), that his friendship throughout high school played a significant part of my success today and for that I am truly greatful. God bless you Rich. I will miss you.

Your Friend.

Walter A. Schultz, Jr., Esquire

Ed Terry

September 26, 2008

Johnna and Family,

So very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear Rich. I know that you and the girls will be surrounded and supported by your family and church at this time. I pray that you will be blessed by their love and fond memories of Rich as you deal with your loss. You will be in my prayers as well..

Jane (Woolley) Baer

September 26, 2008

I am so sorry about your loss! Richard and I attended Margaret Mace and Wildwood High School; we literally sat next to each other for 12 years. My heart goes out to your family. You are in our prayers.
Jane (Woolley) Baer
WHS Class of 1981

David Purkey

September 26, 2008

I am so sorry about your loss. Victoria was a student in my class in 2007 and I really appreciated having her at WVU. I really do pray God's blessing on you as you endure. May God Bless you all.

Joyce Bower

September 26, 2008

Johnna and Daughters: I'm so sorry. I called my Aunt, Betty Dowdell, to tell her about this tragedy. You're in our prayers.
In Christian love, Joyce Bower

Cindy, Alex, and Chelsie Davis

September 26, 2008

Johnna, Victoria, Patricia:

The kids and I couldn't believe the news. We are so very sorry for your loss. Rich was such a kind and funny person and one thing for certain, he adored his girls! He will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Leonel & Lola Medellin

September 26, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim Malloy

September 26, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Jim and Judy Malloy

Revs'. Steve & Patty Runnion

September 26, 2008

Johnna and Family, You are in our thoughts and in our prayers. May God grant unto all of you peace and comfort.

Kim Clayton (Office Adm., Civil & Env.Eng., WVU)

September 26, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mary Carlson

September 26, 2008

All my thoughts and prayers go out to the Wheaton family. I have known Richard since he was born and he was a terrific person.

renee stevens

September 26, 2008

with deepest sympathy to your family from our family. our prayers are with you always.
renee, robert, ken, and doris

Mary Loss

September 26, 2008

Johnna, Victoria, and Patricia,
Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers are with you. God bless you and all your family.
Mary, David, and Veronica Loss

Wallace Carty

September 26, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss, please accept my deepest sympathies and know that you will be in my prayers. Richard's family and my family were next door neighbors when we were growing up.

Kelly Webb

September 26, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you. My daughter, Brittany, always spoke of what a lovely man Mr. Wheaten was when she visited Victoria and Patricia. She always appreciated his kindness.
God Bless,
The Webb Family

Robert & Joan Krilowicz

September 26, 2008

Deepest sympathy. Joan & Bob

Pat, BETH, HALEY, AND HATTIE TUCKER

September 26, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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