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Jennifer Cakert Obituary
CAKERT, JENNIFER M., 26 - of Ventnor, died of an aneurysm at her home in Staten Island, NY. She attended Purdue University and Rutgers College and was a graduate of Atlantic City High School. Jennifer was an accomplished photographer and published poet. She was our bright, shining star whose light will never go out. She was passionate about everything and saw beauty everywhere; her camera was an extension of her heart. While Jennifer possessed a physical beauty, it was her inner glow that brought happiness into the hearts of everyone she touched. She was filled with a love of life and greeted everyday with zest. Jennifer's friends and family are comforted in knowing that she left this world at the happiest time of her life. She is survived by her parents, Cynthia and Robert Walker; brother Jonathan Cakert of Ventnor; and her maternal grandmother, "Grandmere" Edwige Folmer of Lawrenceville. She is predeceased by her father, Charles Cakert. She leaves behind her companion, soul mate and love of her life, Tim Boylan of Staten Island, NY. She will be missed by her uncles and aunts, Thomas Cakert (Jill), Dennis Cakert (Donna), Patricia Cakert Lax, Raymond Reganato (Nina), Jeffrey Folmer (Eileen) and Bernadette Bannister (Pat); her cousins, Julie Cakert, Douglas Cakert, Carly Cakert, Kelly Cakert, Denny Cakert, Jill Ann Reganato, Christopher S. Lax, Maura Folmer, and Shannon Folmer. She also leaves behind many loving friends, especially her "sister" Kylin. Friends and family are invited to join a celebration of Jennifer's life on Tuesday, June 27, 2006 at 1:00 p.m. at The George H. Wimberg Funeral Home, 1707 New Road, Linwood, where friends may call from 11:00 a.m. to time of service. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the "Jan-Ai Scholarship Fund", established to memorialize Jennifer's life through her writings and photographs. It will benefit struggling creative writers and photographers so that her spirit and dreams will live on in others. Donations for this fund can be sent to Robert Walker, PO Box 8068, Atlantic City, NJ 08404. [email protected].
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Memories and Condolences
for Jennifer Cakert
Iean
July 31, 2021
Jennifer and I dated in high school. Though our time together was brief, she had an impact on my life that I still feel today. As many high school relationships do, we eventually lost touch. It wasn't till recently that I found out about her passing. Reading this made me reflect on our relationship. We loved music and art. She shared her poetry with me. We would always laugh together. Jennifer was such a free spirit. I am in my 40s now and I regret that Jennifer and I didn't remain friends. She was such a wonderful young woman. She had the most loving heart. She was genuine. She was beautiful, outside and even more so inside. Though the world has lost one of it's true treasures, anyone who had the privilege of knowing Jennifer was truly blessed. We are all better people because of Jennifer... I know I am. My deepest condolences to her family and friends. And if you are looking down and reading this, I want to say "thank you Jen" for being a special part of my life. I will never forget you!
Carol Wendt
July 21, 2006
Dear Cynthia, Bob, Cioci Jadzia and family,
I met Jennifer last year at Matt's wedding in Colorado. She was a lovely young woman who seemed independent and loved life. We are so sorry for your loss, but that she was with you at all is a miracle.
Cousin,
Carol Debrocke Wendt and family
Dione Carroll
July 18, 2006
Peace be with you
Ken Folmer
July 18, 2006
No one can imagine how hard it must be for you. Jennifer's spirt will always be with you in your heart. Although I had only met Jennifer one time at the Wedding last year I saw such beauty and passion for life. That said, I wanted to share a poem that I wrote for her.
Our Lord to whom we pray,
Has called Jennifer to stay.
We trust you lord in all your wisdom,
To always make the right decision.
Although we are sad and miss her dearly,
She is serving the one that she loves, clearly.
To be with Angels who will sing,
An Angel she is and will always be.
Please O Lord help us hear,
Her voice to let us know she’s near.
Katherine Evagelou
July 10, 2006
Dear Jennifer's Family, I went to VMS & ACHS with Jenn. I am really sad and sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. With deepest sympathy,
-Katie
Don McKim
July 7, 2006
I worked with Jen at the State Theatre for a short time, and was happy to know her. I feel great sorrow at her loss, but know that it can only be a fraction of what those who knew her better are feeling. My condolenses.
Olleke Rappe-Daniels
July 5, 2006
Dear Cynthia,
I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful daughter! Bernadette has shared so many wonderful memories about her over the years that I almost feel as though I knew her - just a little. Please know that there are people all over the country that are thinking about the pain you and your family must be feeling now and are hoping that time will help diminish the intensity. There will always be a hole in your heart that she once filled. My hope is that the focus will shift to the wonderful memories you have of her life. Please share my condolences with Edwige and the rest of your family......
Kerry & Danny Hodgson (Pat's Sister & husband)
July 5, 2006
Dear Cynthia & Bob:
I was waiting for Bernadette to get home and get your address. We are so sorry for your loss. I haven't seen you or Jennifer for years, but from what I have read she was a beautiful young woman who will be grealy missed by everyone she touched in life. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Timothy Debrocke
July 5, 2006
To the Cakert, Walker, and Folmer families:
I only got to meet Jennifer twice. Once just prior to her grandfather Stanley's passing and again last summer at her cousin Matt Kelley's wedding. A lovely girl that made an impression with her fiery yet gentle spirit. Her presence will be missed. On behalf of my family; our condolences for your loss.
Your Cousin "Timmy"
Laura (Sclafani) Mancuso
July 2, 2006
Dear Cakert family,
I went to high school with Jen and we were in English class together...my God, how talented she was; her poetry and unique writing skill was truly amazing...I remember rummaging through many of her black and white photos she had taken throughout her high school years, admiring her soulful designs...I can say this much, our family will keep her and your entire family in our prayers...God has enraptured her in His arms and she is happy...know this. God bless your family and our deepest sympathies are with you all.
Emily Van Duyne
July 1, 2006
Jenny was beautiful and brilliant and always my most challenging friend. I always felt that she understood me in a way that no one else ever has or ever would. I hope she felt the same; I like to think she did. I find it ridiculous to believe that she is gone. It seems like there has just been a terrible mistake made; I guess there has been. I loved her very much and thought the world of her. I wanted her to dance at my wedding, I wanted to dance at hers, I wanted our children to be friends and I wanted us to be old together and still arguing because our egos were too much alike for our own good, and still be laughing about it later. I wanted to know her as an adult, because now she was happy and so am I and I knew how long it had taken us both to get there. If there is an afterlife, I sincerely hope she is up there hitting James Joyce over the head with a copy of Ulysses and listening to the Moody Blues with her dad and arguing with everyone she meets over a glass of wine. I'll miss her everyday.
Jen and Emily
June 30, 2006
happy
June 30, 2006
Jen and Tim
June 30, 2006
Jen
June 30, 2006
Angelina (Michelle) Santangelo
June 28, 2006
I went to Ventonor Middle and ACHS with Jen and have not seen her in years. She was smart and sweet and so talented; she had the world at her fingertips. The news of her passing breaks my heart. The Cakert family will be in my prayers.
Jamie/Kylee Maisano
June 28, 2006
Dear Cynthia & Bob,
Our prayers are with you and your family. I went to grade school with Jen and she is a very beautiful person inside and out. I always remeber Jen with a book in her hand at all times. She is a very bright women and will always be remebered.
Linda Barone
June 27, 2006
Cindy & Bob,
Our thoughts are with your family. Jen, you will always be our shining star in the sky of life.
Barbara Martiniuk
June 27, 2006
Cindie, Bob & Jonathan,
There are no words to express our shock and sorrow in hearing of Jennifer's death; but please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May all your memories of Jennifer....bring you comfort in the days ahead.
With deepest sympathy,
Barbara, Jill & Tara
Josie Soho
June 27, 2006
My deepest condolences.
Dori Levari
June 27, 2006
Dear Cindy, Bob and the Cakert family. I cannot express in words how sad I am to hear about Jennifer. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. My love to you all.
Alex and Bette (Weinberg) Hochberger
June 27, 2006
I went to school with Jen through high school and just a few months ago reconnected with her through friendster.com. I was shocked when I heard word of her passing. Jen was always extremely intelligent and talented in so many ways. Our deepest condolences go out to the family.
Heather
June 27, 2006
I want to say that I am very sorry for your loss.
Jenn came into my life for such a short time, but in that short time she left an impression. I will miss her very much. Last night in a dream two angels said to me, "Fear not, Jenn is now with her dad..."
This brought me peace. Hope it brings you some peace as well.
Heather
Somewhere in the "C" wing...AC High...'98
June 26, 2006
Jen in Athens...I think...'96
June 26, 2006
Greece '96
June 26, 2006
Greece '96
June 26, 2006
Jen & Leah Horn in Greece '96
June 26, 2006
Daniel Heath
June 26, 2006
There are many of us around the world who knew Jenn only through her words and her photographs. We came to love her all the same, and you have our sincerest condolences. She has been, and remains, a personal inspiration to me, and she is missed.
I know your loss exceeds words. I wish you whatever comfort may be found, and I hope you find, someday, a measure of peace.
Jeff Kirlin
June 26, 2006
Dear Mr and Mrs Cakert and family,
Jenn has touched us profoundly and deeply. She always maintained a level of anonymity as a photographer and blogger which may make it difficult for others to respond in a way that you can see. But know that your daughter will be terribly missed and leaves a hole in a community where she has touched so many lives. Thank you.
Kathy and John Koslosky
June 26, 2006
Cindy and Bob,
My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. John and I will remember Jennifer and your family in our prayers.
With love and good memories,
Kathy & John
Cathy Van Duyne
June 26, 2006
We remember Jennifer as an intellligent and wonderful and beautifull young woman. We were so sad to hear of her passing. Please accept our most sincere condolences and prayers.
Ursula Patroni
June 26, 2006
I went to high school with Jen and was a close friend of hers for several of those years. The last time I saw her was freshman year at Rutgers. Even though we lost touch since then, the news of her death has shocked and shaken me. She inspired me in many ways through poetry and music and art, and during those confusing high school years helped shape and sculpt who I was then, and who I am now. I am deeply saddened that the world will no longer experience her extraordinary mind and passion and unique vision. I would like to extend my deepest sympathies to Jen's family and friends, past and present, and hope that the mulititude of ways in which she has touched our lives shine on in our memories of her.
Edward Stawicki
June 26, 2006
We are so sorry for your family's loss. Mrs. Edwige Folmer was always passionate in describing her grandchild. Jennifer's accomplishments illustrate the fulfilling life she led on earth. Now it's time to shine in heaven. With Deepest Sympathies -- The Stawicki Family
Tobey, Eric, Martin and Jenny Sopher
June 26, 2006
We are deeply saddened about your loss. Our Jenny's were friends and walked to Ventnor Middle School together.
June 26, 2006
Bob and Cynthia,
We are so sorry to hear of the death of your daughter Jennifer. We know that you'll remember the many happy times you've shared with her. Our thoughts are with you.
Suzanne Cronin and Joe Lertch
Andrea Reider
June 26, 2006
I hadn't seen you in years but saw your myspace through a friend and you are beautiful. You have accompilished so much. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Shannon Cella
June 25, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.Love,The Cella Family
John,Shannon(McGhee),Jack and Maggie
Walter & Lillian Salvadore
June 25, 2006
Bob & Cynthia,
Sorry for your loss. We did not know Jennifer, but will include her and all of your family in our prayers.
Walter & Lillian Salvadore
June 25, 2006
I don't know you, but may God bless you, your journey has just begun. You couldn't have captured a better picture as those gates open and you greet your father! Family hold on to the precious memories she is fine because you will still see her shell but her soul is already with God!!!!!
God bless you all
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