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Wallace Wesson Obituary
Wallace Jr. was a native of Petersburg, Va. He was born to Wallace (Sr.) and Denise Wesson. Wallace Jr. attended the Petersburg Public Schools and was employed by Hill Phoenix. He was well loved by the Blandford community.
He was preceded in death by his grandparents, William and Ruth Thomas, Kay Wesson and Richard Chatman.
He leaves to cherish his undying love and memories his parents, Wallace (Sr.) and Denise Wesson; one devoted sister, Ashley Wesson; two devoted brothers, Corey Wesson and Christopher Taylor, all of Petersburg, Va.; devoted aunts, Leslie Moss, Lisa Thomas, Laverne and Wanda Wesson, and Denise Thomas, all of Petersburg, Va.; devoted uncles, Gregory and Randy Thomas, Lanier Wesson and Willie Moss, all of Petersburg, Va.; nieces, Donajah Wesson and Rahkera Lyons; great-aunts, devoted Shirley Gray, Janette Jones and Lela Gordon, all of Petersburg, Va., Carolyn Coleman of Philadelphia, Victoria and Francis Thomas, and Shirley Christian, all of Lawrence, Mass.; great-uncles, devoted, Kelvin Gordon of Petersburg, Va., and Aubrey Thomas of Lawrence, Mass.; great-great-aunts, Eunice Coleman and Ellen McLeod, both of Petersburg, Va.; one great-great-uncle, Charles Wesson of Petersburg, Va.; a host of devoted nieces and nephews, cousins, Dante and Demond Thomas, Janel Gray, Jamar, Latoya, Christine and Lanika Wesson, Shenita Coleman, Tazhia Thomas, Aunya and Lawanda Power, Beverly and Dawayne Thomas, and Horace Jones, all of Petersburg, Va.; and many, many friends of Petersburg, among them, two very special and devoted friends, Kara Drew and Chayilika Edmunds, DJ Various, Davon and Dawonta Harris, Christopher "Moon" Davis, Willie Nelson, Preston McCray, Kendrick Bonner, Kenny Buck, Mario Fisher, Ebony Dillard, Marty Claiborne, Jenea and Derrick Hughs.
A funeral discourse will be held at 1 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 6, 2008, at the chapel of J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment Inc., 102 South Ave., Petersburg, Va., with Brother Eric Harris of Kingdom Hall Jehovah Witness. Interment to follow in the Wilkerson Memorial Cemetery.
The family will receive friends at 1032 Sixth St., Petersburg, Va., and may be contacted by calling (804) 862-2779.
Family members and friends are invited to pay final tribute to Mr. Wesson online at www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com where you may view a video tribute online or at the establishment.
Funeral arrangements entrusted to the staff of the J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment Inc., 102 South Ave., Petersburg, Va., (804) 732-8911, www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Wallace Wesson
Patricia Jones
December 5, 2008
To Wallace, Denise, Ashley and Cory, our hearts were sadden when we heard of your loss. I know that God is with you today and will be with you for the days to come.
God Bless
From Calvin, Patricia, and Monique your neighbor and friend
December 5, 2008
To Wallace, Denise, Ashley, and Cory, our hearts were sadden when we heard of your lost. I know God is with you today and will be with you for the days to come.
God Bless!
From Calvin, Patricia, and Monique your neighbor and friend
Sophia Seaborn (PHS)
December 5, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Wesson and family:
Please accept my deepest sympathy. My coworkers and I on the first floor of the east wing at Petersburg High (Ms. Taylor, Ms. Wynn, and Mrs. Dawson) all remember Wallace fondly. He used to laugh and joke with us often. I will keep you and the family in my prayers.
Felicia Clanton
December 5, 2008
MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little--but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me--but let me go.
For this is a journey that we all must take
And each must go alone. It's all a part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss Me - But Let me Go!
~~ Author Unknown ~~
Regina Coleman
December 4, 2008
To the Wesson family
I was deeply saddened to hear about the death of Wallace Jr. I can’t believe that he is gone. I know how difficult this must be for you Denise, Wallace and family. My boys and I always got along with Wallace Jr. I remember the last time I came home; I ask him for some money and with no question, he gave it to me.
Wallace Jr was a kind, giving person. He would do anything to help someone in need. Wallace Jr will be truly missed and may God bless you and your family during this time and I will keep The Wesson Family in my prayers.
Love Gina, and the Boys
December 4, 2008
Denise and Wallace we our so sorry
for your loss .you all are in our prayers and thoughts and may with you thought this hard time
Herman and Cynthia from 6th street
RAY
December 4, 2008
After flying through the clouds, I was taken to a rainbow.
Not to either end, but to the top! What a show!
There an angel showed me all four corners of the earth.
The beauty of what God created. The place of His Son's birth.
I could see the manger so clear As the crowds all mulled around.
I could hear the first Baby cry. What a happy, joyous sound!
Mary, with the help of an angel-- And Joseph as he waited.
All were looking at Baby Jesus-- He was all they had anticipated!
From the arc of the rainbow We slid down to one end!
That was an exciting ride I'll tell you!
From the top of eternity, down in a spin!
I looked for a pot of gold but never did see one there.
It was a storybook tale been told and I looked around everywhere.
Then the angel took me back To the top of the arc in the sky.
To show me other amazing things, So beautiful, all I could do was cry.
"It's alright to read a fairy tale," The angel told me as we flew,
"But the real truth will always prevail; What God has written will come true."
Remember when you see a rainbow - The promise God gave to us.
How He will never destroy us with floods. He loves us all and delights in our trust.
GAYLA DEAN
December 4, 2008
You put a sweet melody down deep in my heart
I want to sing your praises from daylight to dark.
You lifted my spirits when they were low
Just want to tell you Lord, I love you so.
Was feelin' kinda' down and blue,
That is when your hand
Reached for me
And I saw you.
Your smile was as radiant
As the new morning sun,
Let me sing your praises
Every new day's dawn.
I want to sing a sweet melody
Only just for you,
You made my dark sky
Turn a crystal blue.
You filled my heart with love
Oh so sublime
I'll sing my song to you
Until the end of time.
Let my walk be your way,
my talk be pleasin' to you,
Let my song reflect
The love I have so true
Let my eyes shine bright
With your sweet love
And reflect the image
Of God above.
Thank you Lord
for giving me a song
I'll sing your praises
All the day long.
I want to be your disciple,
Draw others too
And someday when it¹s over,
I'll get to walk with you.
December 4, 2008
I glimpsed a little bit of heaven,
On a warm, sunny, summer day,
As I walked along a country lane,
And saw meadows in grand array.
High above the white clouds drifted,
In a sunwashed, blue, blue sky...
Over majestic purple mountains,
This old earth to beautify.
Yellow buttercups and white daisies,
And Queen Anne's delicate white lace,
Graceful, golden, butterflies hovering,
As I searched Mother Nature's dear face.
Weeping willows gently drooping
Along a rushing, narrow stream,
In all its awesome beauty
'Twas like a resplendent dream.
I lingered there much longer,
I could scarcely take it all in:
I thank you, Holy Father,
It's like a fine-tuned violin.
Sweet bird songs drift across the meadow,
Mild breezed ripple through the trees,
Life can be so appealing,
It puts tumultuous hearts at ease.
We've all heard about the garden,
Where Adam and Eve reposed:
Could it have been lovelier than this,
Where God's love continues to be exposed?
These are valuable gifts of nature
Created by our Sovereign Lord:
I bow down in thanksgiving,
With the angels, in one accord!
Eva May Young
LEIGH
December 4, 2008
In my garden of friendship
There are blooms of every kind
Some with smiles and hearts so big
Always with others in mind
Some are just passing, and in greeting nod
Some like to chat for a while
Others are there when I need them most
And with prayers - go that extra mile.
Some of them willing to share in my tears
Listening--and showing they care.
My path would be lonely without their blooms
How I thank GOD they are there
Some bring laughter to brighten my life.
They're sunshine to chase clouds away
While sharing together, we're sure to find
GOD's blessed us all - EVERYDAY
So please come visit my garden
Of colors and blossoms - some new
For though its filled with delight now
There will always be room - for you
December 4, 2008
Lord, I'm tired and so weary
And I must confess, a little bit blue
And I am counting on you
Lord to carry me thru
Life's storms and hard times
Often seem hard to bear
Ah, but so good to know
That you do care
Sometimes it's so hard Lord,
To feel Your presence near me
And again I find myself tossing
On life's turbulent sea
I've made so many mistakes
Lord Trying to find my way
Nothing is ever intentional
You know that to be true
And by faith I am living
And counting on You
There are decisions, difficult to make
I don¹t always know Lord
Which path I must take
I ask for your guidance
Lord, You know that I do
But sometimes Lord seems like
I can't hear from you
Grant me please Jesus,
A message from you
Help me Lord to hear your voice
Ring loudly and true
For you know Lord, as always
I'm counting on you
Down on my knees
Lord I will surely come
Yes, life hands us burdens
Often so hard to overcome
But I know Lord you're always so true
And once more sweet Jesus
I'm Counting on You
Gayle
December 4, 2008
I snuggled down in comfort
upon my nice warm bed,
and pulled the blanket 'round me,
touching the pillow with my head.
I closed my eyes in peacefulness
and waited patiently,
for the sound of angels' fluttering wings
as they surrounded me.
I felt the Lord as He drew near
to wrap me in His care,
and my lips uttered my praises
as I approached my Lord in prayer.
When I gave to Him my worries,
and all the turmoil of today,
I felt His gentle touch on me
as He wiped tears and fears away.
When stardust floated downward,
my worries lay in a heap,
as the Lord discarded each one
before filling my eyes with sleep.
Oh, the joy of knowing nightly
that Jesus would be there,
because the blanket that I pulled up
was a covering of prayer.
Isaiah 51:15-16
But I am the LORD thy God. And I have put my words in thy mouth,
and I have covered thee in the shadow of mine hand ...
May the covering of prayer be your blanket of comfort each night as
God extends His hand and heals you.
With blessings and prayers,
Dotty
This Prayer was sent to me by the author, as a prayer for my healing.
It touched my heart so, and was reflective of all the many prayers that
have been sent to me since my wonderful online friends, brothers and
sisters in the Lord heard of my need. I've put this page together to serve
a two-fold purpose. One, as a way to express my heartfelt gratitude to all!
And another ... to remind us all of the precious gift that God has given us
in our true and precious friendships with those we may never see or meet,
but will forever be in our hearts and a cherished part of our lives!
In His Very Precious Love,
Thank you to all who have prayed for me!
Genelle
TAMIKA RONEY
December 4, 2008
I've Learned
that we don't have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.
I've Learned
that no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a
while and you must forgive them for that.
I've Learned
that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
The same goes for true love.
I've Learned.
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life
I've Learned.
that it's taking me a long time to
become the person I want to be.
I've Learned
that you should always leave
loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.
I've Learned.
That you can keep going long after you can't,
especially when a loved one needs you to.
I've Learned.
That either you control your attitude
or it controls you. So speak softly
to your friend even when you disagree.
I've Learned
that heroes are the people who do what has
to be done when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.
I've Learned
that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.
I've Learned
that sometimes the people you expect to
kick you when you're down, will be the
ones to help you get backup.
I've Learned
that sometimes when I'm angry with my
friend I have the right to be angry, but
that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've Learned
that just because someone doesn't love you
the way you want them to doesn't mean
they don't love you with all they have.
I've Learned
that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've Learned
that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do.
I've Learned
that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.
I've Learned
that two people can look at the exact same
thing and see something totally...different.
I've Learned
that your life can be changed in a matter of hours
by people who don't even know you.
I've Learned
when a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.
I've Learned
that credentials on the wall do not
make you a good friend to others.
I've Learned
that the people you care about most in life
can be taken from you too soon.
I've Learned
that a rebuke from a friend may hurt at first,
but it's better than flattery from a stranger.
I've Learned
that to have a friend, I must be one!
I've Learned
that a friend is faithful and true
in good weather and in bad.
I've Learned
that a true friend laughs with you
and then cries with you.
I've Learned
that friendship, like a rose, must
be tended to, nurtured and pruned
in order for it to grow healthy.
I've Learned
that if one cannot forgive
then one was not a friend.
I've Learned
that your family members aren't always
your best friends, but they can and should be!
I've Learned
that God gives special friends just
like He gives special gifts to you.
I've Learned
that I can find a friend on the Internet
just because God is with us and in us
and we don't need to see each other
face to face. We just need to love.
I've Learned
that to be truly thankful for my friends
I must never forget the times I've been alone.
So, my online friends,
I thank God for sending you my way.
Not a special day or any holiday today.
Just a time to say
I love you in a very special kind of way!
"I LOVE YOU"
Suppose one morning you never wake up,
do all your friends know you love them?
I was thinking...I could die today, tomorrow
or next week and I wondered if I had any wounds
needing to be healed, friendships that needed
rekindling or three words needing to be said.
Sometimes, "I love you" can heal and bless.
Let every one of your friends know you love them.
Even if you think they don't love you back,
you would be amazed at what those three little words
and a smile can do. God forbid I die tomorrow
I LOVE YOU!
~Live today to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised~
MORGAN BANKS
December 4, 2008
The Shepherd loved His little lamb,
And gave it His tender care...
And followed it with His loving eyes
As it wandered here and there.
And as He sat by His grazing flock
Who so meekly His voice obeyed,
He pondered sadly His little lamb
As again and again it strayed.
The little lamb had a loving heart,
And adored His Shepherd, true,
But turned aside to seek his own way
As lambs will so often do.
With His gentle voice the Shepherd called,
To His loved and straying lamb,
"Come back, little one, for you are not safe
Unless you are where I am."
But still the lamb would soon forget,
And unthinkingly wander away,
And not really noticing what he did,
From the Shepherd's side would stray.
Until one day, the Shepherd kind,
Took His rod in His gentle hand,
And what He then did seemed so cruel,
That the lamb could not understand.
For with one sharp and well-aimed blow,
Down the rod so swiftly came,
That it broke the leg of the little lamb,
And left it crippled, and lame.
Then the little lamb, with a cry of pain,
Fell down upon his knees...
And looked up at his Shepherd, as though to say,
"Won't you explain this, please?"
Then he saw the love in the Shepherd's eyes,
As the tears ran down His face,
As He tenderly set the broken bone,
And bound it back in it's place.
Now he was utterly helpless,
He could not even stand!
He must trust himself completely,
To his Shepherd's loving hand.
Then day by day, 'till the lamb was healed,
From the flock he was kept apart...
And carried about in the Shepherd's arms,
And cradled near to His heart.
And the Shepherd would whisper gentle words,
Into his now listening ear...
Thus he heard sweet words of love,
That the other sheep could not hear.
He felt the warmth of the Shepherd's arms,
And the beat of His faithful heart...
Until it came a blessing to seem,
By his weakness to be set apart.
Every need of the little lamb,
By his Shepherd so fully was met,
That through his brokenness he learned,
What he never again would forget.
And as the broken bone was healed,
And once more became whole and strong...
Wherever the Shepherd's path would lead,
The lamb would follow along.
Thus at the Shepherd's side he walked,
So closely, day by day,
For once a lamb has a broken leg,
It will never again go astray.
For the cords of love had bound it so,
In its hour of weakness and need...
That it had no desire to wander away,
When once again it was freed.
Could it be you are broken today,
And you cannot understand,
The painful blow of the Shepherd's rod,
Nor believe it came from His hand?
He only seeks, by this painful thing,
For a time to call you apart...
To cradle you close in His loving arms,
And draw you near to His heart.
So look up into your Shepherd's eyes,
And earnestly seek His face...
And prove in the hour of your weakness and need,
The sufficiency of His grace.
For as you are borne in His loving arms,
And carried there, day by day...
He will bind you so close with, the cords of His love,
That never again will you stray!
~ Author Unknown ~
CORY
December 4, 2008
It was announced today that there has been, is and always will be a leader of leaders, King of Kings, Lord of Lords whose home is not in this world, but in Heaven above. He is greater than all strengths, all powers, all nations, all creation, and all the universe. He owns all of it; He made all of it; He watches over all of it continually; He listens to the cries of His people, His dear ones, not just every once in a while, not just once a year, once a week, once a day, once an hour, but every single moment of every day of all of their lives!
It was also announced that there should be no fear, for He is with us even to the ends of the earth. And, it was said that He is not only watching over everything, but is also preparing a place for all those who believe in Him. There will be no tears, fears or burdens to carry in that place, but eternal rejoicing and worship of He who died for us. God our Heavenly Father will speak to us and we will be able to see Him as He really is.
To conclude the announcement, it was said that yes, there are enemies here; and there will not be a day that something does not happen that tears at our heart strings, but the difference between we who believe, and those who do not, is that by our faith in Jesus Christ, we have the power of prayer and the eternal protection of the Heavenly Father under the blood of Jesus Christ our Lord who died for us. Thereby we shall overcome this world and the evil that is growing and thriving here. Indeed, if we could only believe every moment and not waver, we could experience obeying His directive: "Let not your heart be troubled...".
May we blow away all the evil, fears, horrible happenings and look to that manger in Bethlehem and follow that life to the Cross of Calvary and in our hearts, mind and soul grasp the peace and hope within that journey.
God bless you my friends during this wonderful time of year. Our world may be filled with more hatred and fear than at any time in our memory, but Jesus and what he did for us is the same - yesterday, today and forevermore.
MEREL
December 4, 2008
These times we share are given
For all the life we're living
So we give you special power
To get you through each waking hour
With love and deep affection
To all of love's expressions
That you will find the glory
In everyone's own story
For life as it is written
Upon our hearts be smitten
Words will ease all the sorrow
It's your pain we will borrow
We stand here to surround you
By all the love astound you
Through life and all it's lessons
The joy of each expression
To know that you'll be able
To feel the love so stable
That reaches out to hold you
That constantly enfolds you
Though we walk the path of sorrow
Sun shall brighten all tomorrow's
Yes this life may seem so shattered
Dreams we share they always mattered
Butterflies will always meet you
Birds will fly to sweetly greet you
Mommy's wings are always near
To chase away all life's fears
These times will be remembered
With the love that we've surrendered
With miracles of love descending
Our fight for life is never ending.
The Munford Family
December 3, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Rita Bibbins
December 3, 2008
Denise, Wallace & family,
My heart was saddened and shocked by this tragedy. I can only imagine what you all are going through. Please know that our thoughts, prayers and hearts are with you as you mourn this loss. I knew Wallace all of his life and watched him grow into adulthood. I know that he will be sorely missed. May God bless you with strength and love.
Rita Bibbins & family
LEE BONNER
December 3, 2008
There will be a brighter tomorrow someday
I'll look up and the clouds will move away
And when I hear that trumpet's loud blast
I will know that Jesus has returned at last.
There will be a brighter tomorrow someday
When I'll see Jesus in His glorified array
All God's children will be taken up in the air
Others will be confessing and saying prayers
There will be a brighter tomorrow someday
I'll be watching, waiting; I won't be afraid
It will be a great Heaven going home time
And I pray to Jesus no one gets left behind.
There is a heavenly city built beyond the skies
It is a wonderful place, worthy of a prize
Someone is there now, preparing a place for you
It is a place to go, when your life here is through
It is a city of brotherly love and everlasting peace
Where all your pains and sufferings will finally cease
It is a city of abundance, with streets made of gold
It is a land of milk and honey, or so I have been told
You will not be alone in that heavenly place
You will be welcomed by a warm embrace
You will meet old friends and some love ones too
For they are there now, waiting just for you
We know not the time to say our last goodbyes
So prepare now for that city in the skies
Get right with Jesus before your life ends
So they will open the gates and let you in
I carry a cross in my pocket
A simple reminder to me
Of the fact that I am a Christian
No matter where I may be.
This little cross is not magic,
Nor is it a good luck charm
It isn't meant to protect me
From every physical harm.
It's not for identification
For all the world to see
It's simply an understanding
Between my Savior and me.
When I put my hand in my pocket
To bring out a coin or a key
The cross is there to remind me
Of the price He paid for me.
It reminds me, too, to be thankful
For my blessings day by day
And to strive to serve Him better
In all that I do and say.
It's also a daily reminder
Of the peace and comfort I share
With all who know my Master
And give themselves to His care.
So, I carry a cross in my pocket
Reminding no one but me
That Jesus Christ is the Lord of my life
If only I'll let Him be.
Hello God, I called tonight
To talk a little while...
I need a friend who'll listen,
To my anxieties and trials...
You see, I can't quite make it
Through a day just on my own...
I need your love to guide me,
So I'll never feel alone.
I want to ask you please to keep
My family safe and sound.
Come and fill their lives with confidence,
For whatever fate they're bound.
Give me faith, dear God, to face
Each hour throughout the day,
And not to worry over things,
I can't change in any way.
I thank you God, for being home,
And listening to my call,
For giving me such good advice,
When I stumble and fall.
Your number, God, is the only one
That answers every time.
I never get a busy signal,
Never had to pay a dime.
So thank you, God, for listening,
To my troubles and my sorrow.
Good night, God, I love You, too,
And I'll call again tomorrow!
When you feel a gentle breeze
Caress you when you sigh
It's a hug sent from Heaven
From a loved one way up high
If a soft and tender raindrop
Lands upon your nose
They've added a small kiss
As fragile as a rose
If a song you hear fills you
With a feeling of sweet love
It's a hug sent from Heaven
From someone special up above
If you awaken in the morning
To a bluebird's chirping song
It's music sent from Heaven
To cheer you all day long
If tiny little snowflakes
Land upon your face
It's a hug sent from Heaven
Trimmed with Angel lace
So keep the joy in your heart
If you're lonely my dear friend
Hugs that are sent from Heaven
A broken heart will mend
When we lift up our eyes and see the Lord
We won't be needing this old world anymore
He will have come to gather His flock
Heaven's doors He will have unlocked
He will have come for the chosen few
He will have come for me and you
His coming will be a beautiful sight
We will be going on a Heavenly flight
We will walk upon Heaven's shores
And visit a place where Angels soar
We will travel streets of gold
For the Bible tells us so
Only the righteous will be enshrined
All others will be left behind
Let us fill our hearts and souls with Grace
And be prepared to meet Him face to face
Life is but a stopping place,
a pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
for some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
we'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
together with the Lord
Until I learned to trust the Lord,
I never learned to pray;
And never learned to fully trust,
Til sorrow came my way.
Until I felt my weakness,
His strength I never knew,
Nor dreamed, til I was stricken,
that He could see me through.
He who drinks deepest sorrow
Drinks deepest too of grace,
God sends the storm so He, himself,
Can be our resting place.
His heart, who seeks our deepest good,
Knows well when things annoy;
We would not yearn for Heaven
If earth held only joy!
December 3, 2008
I'll see you when the sun goes down
And all the stars go crazy,
And Christ returns to claim His throne
Upon this erring earth.
And you and I will be amazed
At all that now seems hazy;
For now is faith, but then will be
The glory of rebirth.
Death will die, and we will sing
With angels at our ears,
And all my love for you will pour
Like rivers from my song.
And joy will never end, for we
Will be beyond the years,
And time before the end of time
Will not seem very long.
How beautiful Creation will
Then be! Much more than now,
When visible to faith alone
As we endure our pain.
How wonderful the gift of grace
From Christ that will allow
Me well to bear my grief until
I see you once again.
December 3, 2008
Dear son, I cannot speak, and yet
I have so much to say to you,
Too much for time and will to net.
Life goes with just this last adieu.
I have so much to say to you,
Far more than I can now convey.
Life goes with just this last adieu
To serve as what I want to say.
Far more than I can now convey,
I love you with a love that yearns
To serve as what I want to say,
Ablaze with joy that bleeds and burns.
I love you with a love that yearns
Too much for time and will to net.
Ablaze with joy that bleeds and burns,
Dear son, I cannot speak, and yet . . .
HARRIS FAMILY
December 3, 2008
didn't get a chance to say goodbye
To you, to tell you that I loved you, to say
What now must be one long, unbroken cry
Of pain, now that at last you've gone away.
I cannot tell you what a joy it was
To be the one to tend you in your need.
The burden was a gift, for giving does
Not burden one who loves, though loving bleed.
I wish I could have been with you when you,
Perhaps aware, perhaps not, turned towards death
Alone, with no one there to wonder to,
To share your fear, your hand, your one last breath.
I wish, I wish, I wish . . . but it is done,
And now I must surrender what is gone.
ELLIS FAMILY
December 3, 2008
Sometimes I sense a little flutter.
Like a shadow swiftly slipping by.
Or I hear a silent, gentle murmur.
Like a soft whisper from out the sky.
Sometimes... I hear you call my name,
Or clearly see your face before me.
And I feel that you are with me still.
Then peacefully... I come to know
As I am thinking happy thoughts of you
You, my son, are thinking of me too.
Loving memories fill my aching heart.
As dreaming dreams of what could be.
Or might have been, if you were here.
Until the piercing pain of losing you
Comes tumbling down on trembling fear.
And clearly once again I hear you say,
"But Mom…What if I had never been.
You could not then in LOVE remember me."
POLLY AND FLOYD GRAHAM
December 3, 2008
Do you wonder if the tears will ever stop? They steadily fall, unpredictably and unexpectedly. Like spring floods, these human raindrops pool into streams then seemingly flow into rivers. Like spring showers, they pop up, beat us down for a time, then just as suddenly, they dry up.
Often inconvenient and unwanted, these signs of mourning, sadness and pain also signify caring, love, joy and even relief. At times, we clearly understand their meaning in our day. Other times, nothing is clear. Everything is jumbled, confusing and meaningless.
Perhaps we just cry for no acknowledgeable reason. Is that so bad? After all, we've suffered a loss. Perhaps the death of a person or the death of dreams, hopes and plans leaves us feeling hopeless and powerless. Maybe we pity ourselves. Maybe we're frustrated and powerless right now.
We know of others who haven't cried, which may make us angry, worried or even jealous. Does it mean they don't care, or didn't care as much as we? Does it mean we cared too much, that we are too soft and sentimental? There are no simple answers to why some of us cry and others don't.
We remind ourselves that tears are not the only signs of grieving. There are so many others. Humans are all different. our closest friends and relatives will grieve in their own ways, with their own time frames, rhythms and patterns. Just as we grieve uniquely, so will they.
Others may tell us to stop crying, as though we can command nature to change course. How burdensome this is. We must, and will, cry as long as we need to cry, as often as we feel the dampness of moisture, as many raindrops as our body produces. Not to cry when our very nature demands release is to deny our humanness.
What we, and those around us, may not know is the healing physical nature of our tears. Our body produces tears for biological reasons. Chemically, the composition of tears of emotional pain differ from tears of laughter and joy or tears of physical pain. Tears help wash out negative chemicals building up when our body experiences pain or stress. Tears cleanse.
How many tears doe it take? Why, just as many as are needed. Just remembering that there is a physical as well as emotional benefit to crying may help us accept our unique patterns of crying - or not crying.
Nowhere does it say a person must cry to be healed. Or that we must cry in front of others. Some sob, others wail and keen; some remain silent, tears flowing inside. Some select the time and place where they will release the flood. Others find themselves incapable of controlling the tide.
Many have wanted to cry and just felt they couldn't open the ducts. They might substitute a healthy scream for the effort. Screaming can release the emotions blocking the tears, suppressing the buds of healing from surfacing.
So can journaling, or writing about our grief journeys. Sitting quietly, allowing ourselves to focus, relaxing into our pain may stimulate the tears. But if it doesn't, perhaps we simply aren't ready to cry. Be assured, humans cry. And, like grief ebbs and flows, so will our need to cry.
And, what if we suddenly find ourselves enjoying something, actually laughing until tears flow again? Shocked to think we might be forgetting our pain, forgetting our loved one and moving forward, we may suck our breath inward, gasp our tears back, feel guilt and remorse instead of gladness. Is this the way it is to be forever? How long before we allow ourselves to anticipate good things even while succumbing to periods of grief and longing? The answer seems repetitive ... as long as we need..
Life is full of sorrow, from birth to death. Life is also full of wonder and joy. We experience so much in this world. Tears are small miracles of life, for tears of joy and tears of pain both heal.
This spring we will watch bulbs blossom, trees turn green and grass peek through. perhaps hidden in our grief, almost without our acknowledgment or our awareness, we will sense our own growth, too. We will celebrate our humanness by honoring our need to cry or not to cry. We will laugh when we can, cry if we feel it, and allow others to do what they find healing, too.
Spring is about deluges of raindrops, sunny days pushing past huge, gray clouds, impatiently waiting for the weather to get better. So, too, is grief. Out of great pain and sorrow comes learning, possibilities and growth. Maybe even a deeper knowledge of eternal spring.
BRENDA AND SHANNA BROWN
December 3, 2008
When you feel a gentle breeze
Caress you when you sigh
It's a hug sent from Heaven
From a loved one way up high.
If a soft and tender raindrop
Lands upon your nose
They've added a small kiss
As fragile as a rose.
If a song you hear fills you
With a feeling of sweet love
It's a hug sent from Heaven
From someone special up above.
If you awaken in the morning
To a bluebird's chirping song
It's music sent from Heaven
To cheer you all day long.
If tiny little snowflakes
Land upon your face
It's a hug sent from Heaven
Trimmed with Angel lace.
So keep the joy in your heart
If you're lonely my dear friend
Hugs that are sent from Heaven
A broken heart will mend.
ROSA BANKS PETERSBURG VA
December 3, 2008
Sorry I didn't get to stay.
To laugh and run and play.
To be there by your side.
I'm sorry that I had to die.
God sent me down to be with you,
to make your loving heart anew.
To help you look up and see
Both God and little me.
Mommy, I wish I could stay.
Just like I heard you pray.
But, all the angels did cry
when they told little me goodbye.
God didn't take me cause He's mad.
He didn't send me to make you sad.
But to give us both a chance to be
a love so precious .. don't you see?
Up here no trouble do I see
and the pretty angels sing to me.
The streets of gold is where I play
you'll come here too, mommy, someday.
Until the day you join me here,
I'll love you mommy, dear.
Each breeze you feel and see,
brings love and a kiss from me.
JO JO
December 3, 2008
They do not go alone
cause when friends go to heaven
part of us goes along.
When friends go to heaven,
our memories here remain
when friends go to heaven,
its our plan to meet again.
When friends go to heaven,
silently our hearts and souls do cry
for when friends go to heaven
there isn't an answer to why.
They never really leave us
they are in are hearts to stay
when our friends go to heaven,
they never really go away.
KIKA
December 3, 2008
On that day,
our nightmares
came true.
As we held our breath and listened,
we watched as the world stopped and time stood still.
On that day,
we lost loved ones
and clung to our families.
Our faith was questioned.
Some passed while
others failed.
On that day,
we gained heroes
and amongst the smoke,
we came together.
We opened our eyes
and saw the best
in ourselves.
We have only
grown stronger.
We have dried our tears and lived
our lives.
But we will never
forget that
devastating day.
FLORIA
December 3, 2008
never feel the sun…
I never feel the rain…
All I feel is pain…
Since you’ve gone.
My son I miss you so…
I never thought you’d go…
Before me.
You are so loved…
You are so missed.
KIM WALKER
December 3, 2008
God, I know you gave your precious Son
To give us life with You.
But I didn’t want my son to leave,
Cause he was precious too.
We all are precious in your eyes
And all to you return.
I know my son will not come back,
And I still have much to learn.
Our time on earth is for learning,
And when our lessons are through,
Our spirit chooses the time we leave,
And we come back to you.
My precious son is with you,
And there will be a day,
That I too will leave this earthly place,
And you will light my way.
I know your arms will be open,
And I will have a smile,
To see my God and precious son,
I will then become Your child.
LINDA SHORT
December 3, 2008
My love…my life, we’ve been partners in this game for so long.
We are one player.
We have tolerated so many quirks in one another for so long…
Can we even name the quirks now?
We’ve laughed together, wept together, fought together, parented together,
as husband and wife.
Now I see the life ebbing slowly from your being.
My heart is breaking…I can’t lose you.
How can I go on without you?
Yet I must take care of you now. You are tired and you are hurting.
My love gives me endless energy so that I can be at your side
to cherish every remaining moment that God gives us.
Let me serve you, my love,
as you have so gently tended to me in times of need.
God will support me now while I support you.
And when God quietly takes you from me, I will weep.
I will know that your pain is over.
I will know you are waiting for me.
We will again be united in love with our Father in heaven.
BRENDA POPE
December 3, 2008
Don’t think I do not feel;
because you see no tears.
A river rages deep inside
of grief, and loss, and fears.
Just because I do not cry now,
don’t think my heart’s not broken.
I keep inside the misery
of words not to be spoken.
Sometimes I smile, or crack a joke,
so you won’t see the pain;
or notice how my hands will shake,
or how I’ve gone insane.
Each time I chance to think of her,
my heart is ripped asunder.
The loss I feel is mine alone.
you will not see my thunder.
coby street
December 3, 2008
Darkness has come
I'm alone in the night
Hiding my feelings
Out of everyone's sight
Despair fills my soul
Which as a fact is quite strange
Cause inside feels empty
My feelings have changed
When you left I felt good
Like you wanted me to
I looked deep inside
And there I found you
It felt like you were here
Living in me
Giving me strength
To live life and just be
I felt honored and proud
That you were my dad
That I was there your last days
All the time that you had
Brave and determined
To get through this with pride
To keep the promise
That I made as you died
Forgive me if I fall though
I know there will be bad days
Cause I loved you so much
In so many ways
As a father and friend
Counselor and adviser
There never lived a man
Who could have possibly been wiser
I'm so sad and confused
Like a lost little girl
I feel like an oyster
Without its precious pearl
Cause that's what you were
All shinny and bright
Who brightened each day
And chased away night
I'll never forget
And I'll always miss you
But we'll meet again
This just has to be true
With a love as strong as we had
Not even death can keep us apart
Where are you?
anthony jones
December 3, 2008
MISS ME - BUT LET ME GO
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little--but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me--but let me go.
For this is a journey that we all must take
And each must go alone. It's all a part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss Me - But Let me Go!
~~ Author Unknown ~~
anthony jones
December 3, 2008
A POEM FOR THE GRIEVING...
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die...
GERALDINE GREENE
December 3, 2008
Sad occasions can bring families together. Sad times, such as death, sickness and loss in the family, or a family member who is going through a particularly trying time, call for family members to come together and support one another. In this way they can comfort each other and help make a sad and difficult time that much easier. If they do not come together, not only have they left a family member unsupported, but they have also lost out on an opportunity for closeness.
HARVEY
December 3, 2008
Final Note
ALL THAT PASS THROUGH THOSE DOORS
HAVE MET ONE REQUEIREMENT
ACCEPTING IN FAITH LORD JESUS CHRIST
THE KEYS THAT OPEN IT.
THE DOOR IS STILL OPEN
WHERE LOVED ONE NOW WAIT
MAKE YOUR RESERVATIONS NOW
BEFORE THE HOUR GROWS TO LATE.
December 3, 2008
The Door to Heaven was Left Open
So she walked on through
With a wave and a sweet smile
For me~ and ~for you.
As my heart was breaking
She would be well again
The doors were open
To heavenly portals, so she went in
She heard angels singing
And seen Jesus in a storm
Though it was a winter chill in that moment
She was in heavenly arms ~ kept warm.
The door was left open
She seen a glowing light
As I sat in tears for the knowing
Her room would be empty tonight.
I tried to call her back
Please dont go~I will miss you so
Letting go of my hand
Through the door ~ she now would go.
The door was open
so far from us right here
She took the unseen hands of Jesus
She left without a fear
Wait for me my Dear one
Just inside the open door
I'll be there when God so deems
we shall be together once more.
sandy griffin
RAYLENE HICKS
December 3, 2008
Psa 3:1 Lord, how are they increased that trouble me!
Many are they that rise up against me.
Psa 3:2 Many there be which say of my soul,,
There is no help for him in God. Selah.
Psa 3:3 But thou, O LORD, art a shield for me;
my glory, and the lifter up of mine head.
Psa 3:4 I cried unto the LORD with my voice,
and he heard me out of his holy hill.
Selah. Psa 3:5 I laid me down and slept;
I awaked; for the LORD sustained me.
Psa 3:6 I will not be afraid of ten thousands of people,
that have set themselves against me round about.
Wonderful Jesus
Wonderful Jesus God's Dearest Lamb
My Blessed Lord and the Great I AM
Many more titles may be for you
But to me you're my Savior in my heart so true
When I am going through a trial I call on you
Sometimes life gets trying but you bring me through
No mountain too high no river too wide
The Great Holy Spirit is right by my side
You are my constant companion my all in all
I'll be coming Home when I hear the call
Maybe by death or meet you in the air
I'll be pleased with either just so I get there
Oh, sinner take heed don't deny our God
His precious arms are open to hold you so dear
He'll take you and shelter you away from all pain
He'll save your soul and sweet Heaven you'll gain
Oh what Beauty in Heaven no man's ever seen
Fields of wildflowers and grass that's so green
Each of us will have a mansion no more will we cry
We'll just begin living when others say we die
Juanita Jennings
December 2, 2008
Dear Denise, Wallace and Family,
Our hearts were deeply saddened to hear of Wallace, Jr.'s passing. We are praying for your comfort and strength during this difficult time. Trust in the Master and know that He never puts more on us than we can stand.
LaShanda Griffin
December 2, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Percenie Rich
December 2, 2008
May the peace of God be with you at this time. You are in our prayers.
Percenie Rich & Family
Lucille Coleman
December 2, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Cathee&Terry Taylor
December 2, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Bubba and Ebony
December 2, 2008
Wallace we mill miss how you always made us laugh and smile your last visit with us will never be forgotten but will be cherished forever. (R.I.P. Wallace) Our prayers and thoughts go out to the Wesson Family.
ROBERTA SPIKES
December 2, 2008
How Do I Miss Thee?
How do I miss thee?
Let me count the ways...
I miss the way you made me mad
I miss the way you made me glad
I miss the way you made me smile
And loving me all the while.
I miss the way you used to care
I miss the way you were so fair
I miss the way we used to chat
About this and about that.
I miss the way we stuck together
Through thick and thin, in any weather
I miss the way you made me feel
Like my life was so unreal.
But most of all I miss your love
That, surely was sent from God above.
December 2, 2008
What Can Comfort You?
What can comfort you
When a loved one is lost,
When the pain is so great
And your world?s been tossed?
What can calm you
When no words know how,
When the load is hard to bear
And you need relief right now?
What can guide you
When you?re not sure which way to go,
When the mountain seems too steep
And you?re in the valley so low?
What can uplift you
When you can?t see this trial?s end?
Only the arms of the Lord
And the prayers of a friend.
Denise Campbell
myrtle pack
December 2, 2008
What Is A Friend?
A friend is one
who never seems too busy
to lend an ear or do
a thoughtful deed...
to give advice,
to help you solve a problem,
or speak the words
of caring that you need...
A friend is one
who never seems
too settled or complacent
to understand when
changes come along...
but accepts you,
strengths and weakness together,
whether you are right
or you are wrong.
A friend is one
who knows you as you are,
yet sees within you
all that you can do
or be someday...
who inspires and encourages your efforts
with praise for every step
along the way
A friend is one who's there
in good and bad times...
whether your paths run close
or far apart
A friend is always there
in mind and spirit...
and most of all,
a friend is there in heart.
***Thank you***
*For being my friend*
charlie seymour
December 2, 2008
Oh, how happy I shall be
When my journey here is run
When I see my Savior's face
And I hear Him say, "Well done".
"You have fought the faithful fight
And my child you've kept the faith.
Enter now my joy; our joy.
Won't you step inside the gate?"
Inside the gate, inside the gate
It's our home, sweet home.
No more to cry, no more to die.
A crown of life you've won.
"Your favorite band, your father's hand.
Your mansion near forever more.
It's all up here, I'll hear Him say,
When I step inside the gate
Inside the gate, inside the gate
It's our home, sweet home
No more to cry, no more to die
A crown of life you've won
Your favorite band, your father's hand.
Your mansion near forever more.
It's all up here, I'll hear Him say,
When I step inside the gate.
Inside the gate, inside the gate
It's our home, sweet home
No more to cry, no more to die
A crown of life you've won
Your favorite band, your father's hand.
Your mansion near forever more.
It's all up here, I'll hear Him say,
When I step inside the gate.
aaron and babrbara
December 2, 2008
God must have known there would be times
We'd need a word of cheer
Someone to praise a triumph
Or brush away a tear.
He must have known we'd need to share
The joy of "little things"
In order to appreciate
The happiness life brings.
I think he knew our troubled hearts
Would sometimes throb with pain
At trials and misfortunes
Or some goals we can't attain.
He knew we'd need the comfort
Of an understanding heart
To give us strength and courage
To make a fresh, new start.
He knew we'd need companionship
Unselfish ... lasting ... true,
And so God answered the hearts great need
With a Cherished Friend like you.
Fennel Woods
December 2, 2008
Pain passes over time,
Good memories last for a lifetime."
Cassandra / Rally Weaver
December 2, 2008
GOOD GRACE
It seems in laughter our hearts are sad and the end of joy brings grief,
For when the night fell your life was halted and you were taken by a thief.
But God is no thief and your life did not stop,
For your body went down but your spirits rose up.
The human mind may plan the steps but God directs the way,
And he needed you in heaven with him on that fateful day.
We can cry all we want and we can be miserable inside,
We can look at all those terrible events the day that you died.
But God took you for a reason that we may never understand,
He led the way to heaven's gates and took you by the hand.
He said it's time and you looked back at us waiting for a sign,
You needed us to let you go and you told us not to cry.
We bowed our heads and prayed to the lord to keep you in his grace,
We knew as life went on we'd never forget your face.
Up in heaven, now you're an angel all the way through,
And we'll never forget the times we had with you.
So watch over us and help to keep us safe,
And we pray dear Lord keep him in your good grace.
Never let the pain of loss run deeper than the remembrance of love. For if it does, cherished memories will be lost and eternal purpose will be forgotten."
ma
December 2, 2008
Embrace a time of death as an opportunity to say your good-byes.
Embrace each moment forth as a time to say your hello's."
LIL ***ONE
December 2, 2008
Every night when I lie awake in bed,
I have all these memories running through my head.
Especially this one that I can't get rid of;
The call that said
"He died"
I will never forget that day and I will never forget you.
It makes me wonder how your doing up above.
I pray to God every night asking him, why?
Why, oh Lord, why'd he have to die?
When I saw you lying there in peace
I knew you went to heaven
Whenever I go past your final resting place,
I have all these flashbacks of your smiling face.
Hoping that someday I'll see you again my friend,
But in the meantime, I have my whole life to spend.
shea
December 2, 2008
A life lost too young
A young life lost, to heaven above
Flying away like a beautiful dove.
A caring guy, with a thousand friends,
None of whose hearts will ever mend.
You were supposed to be fine, and come home soon,
But instead you died, many years too soon.
You were only 21, still a senior in high school,
But now you're 21, and an angel in heaven.
Now your safe, away from harm,
But we all still miss your amazing charm.
Our hearts all ache and forever will, because its true,
The good die young.
Rob
December 2, 2008
Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal."
frannie taylor
December 2, 2008
looked out at the sky today and at the sun's rays
They were shining down and touching the earth
To carry you away.
I felt the coolness on my cheek from my grieving tears,
As I thought of every memory we've made
Throughout the years.
It started back in second grade, you lived just down the street,
I drive past the spot everyday
Where we used to meet.
I remember riding bikes with you nearly everyday,
Then we'd giggle all night long
No matter where we'd stay.
Throughout elementary school we remained the best of friends.
I know true friendship like ours
Never really ends.
When we started middle school you were always there for me.
You helped me be who I am, and my dreams
You helped me see.
As we entered high school we began to drift apart,
But no matter what we went through,
You were always in my heart.
Every time I talked to you, we laughed about the past.
I know these are the memories
That will always last.
We talked about riding bikes and wrecking in the road,
And the time you wet your pants on me,
We never got too old.
And one day you rode your bike into your neighbor's tree,
I used to laugh so hard at that,
You'd get so mad at me.
Then the time we wrecked our bikes and Josh ran over your leg,
And we'd dress up my cats
Every time you stayed.
When we started college we found our classes together.
I was so scared that I'd get lost
But you made me feel better.
Looking now, it's amazing to me how you've touched so many lives,
It's just so hard to believe
We're telling you goodbye.
But I know now that God has given you your wings.
And I know you will be watching over me
No matter what life brings.
Until the day we meet again
I will hold you close to my heart.
For as long as you are there, we will never be apart.
rosa
December 2, 2008
When I came and saw you, you didn't look that bad. You had a certain glow, but still everyone was sad. You talked as if, you'd last forever, even though we knew, your days were becoming brief, and your breaths were shorter too. But I knew, in my heart, everything would be all right; I knew you were tired of the never-ending fight. So, I gave you one last hug and kiss, then cried my one last cry, as I thanked myself for coming, because at least I said good-bye.
Jocelyn Burke
December 2, 2008
Those we love remain with us, for love itself lives on,
And cherished memories never fade because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be more than a thought apart,
For as long as there is a memory, they'll live on in the heart."
EVA ROSS
December 2, 2008
thought that I had nothing, but I had ev'rything.
For it didn't mean a thing to me,
Until that day, when I was told, that the only life, of you,
I might, ever see again,
Was on photographs, that captured still, the light in your eyes.
I realized, that I had seen it every day, and not given it much thought.
Until I missed, in my life,
YOURS...
sherman
December 2, 2008
Today you have become free by death as no one can be free in life.
Take that gift and fly."
WILLARK
December 2, 2008
God looked around his garden, and he saw an empty place.
He then looked down upon the earth and saw your tired face.
He put his arms around you and he lifted you to rest-
God's garden must be beautiful-he always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering-he knew you were in pain.
He knew that you would never get well on this earth again.
He saw the road was getting rough-the hills were hard to climb.
So he closed your weary eyes and whispered, "Peace Be Thine."
It broke my heart to lose you, but you did not go alone.
For part of me went with you the day God called you home.
December 2, 2008
If angels can speak great words from above
And fly with wings of God's given love
If chariots can ride over dark clouds
And instruments can sing praises out loud
If sparrows can stand on the housetop alone
Then God still comforts His own
May God reach down and love you in His own special way.
May you know you're loved, each and every day.
May you see, from God's dear eyes, the value of your worth.
May His love show you the most precious things on this earth.
As much as it hurts;
As much as we agree with our religion
And try to understand GOD's Master Plan;
Or perhaps we already know
That GOD has a Master Plan;
But don't quite understand it;
In either case GOD understands
That we are "imperfect human beings"
And knows that, no matter how much we try
To understand His Master Plan,
Losing a loved-one hurts!
As much as it hurts;
We have to be strong enough to carry on,
As our dearly departed would expect us to;
We need to have faith that we will someday
See each other again;
But only this time, it'll be for all Eternity,
Living in true peace without the hurt.
As much as it hurts;
Think about this:
One minute in Heaven
Is equal to 100 years on Earth;
For us, the next 10, 20, 50 or even 75 years,
Living without a loved-one hurts;
But for them, it'll be like you dropped them off at a restaurant
And parked the car.
They'll turn and spot you and say:
"OH! There you are!"
As much as it hurts;
Think about this:
As you pray for the faithful departed loved-one(s) of your life;
End your prayers and,
As you used to answer your Mom or Dad
As they called you to the dinner table,
Gently whisper: "Be with you in a MINUTE!"
Joseph
Aroha Patterson
December 2, 2008
THE MASTER'S WAY
Not ours to know the reason why,
Unanswered is our prayer,
But ours to wait for God's own time
To lift the cross we bear;
Not ours to know the reason why
From loved ones we must part,
But ours to live in faith and hope,
Though bleeding to the heart;
Not ours to know the reason
Why this anguish, strife and pain
But ours to know a crown of thorns
Sweet graces for us gain,
A cross, a bleeding heart and crown -
What greater gifts are given?
Be still, my heart, and murmur not;
These are the Keys of Heaven.
December 2, 2008
Does Jesus care when I said goodbye to the dearest on earth to me,
When my sad heart aches till it nearly breaks
Does He care enough to be there?
Yes He cares. I know he cares.
His heart is touched with my grief.
When the days are weary, the long nights dreary,
I know my Savior cares.
KARI THOMPSON
December 2, 2008
FOREVER IS MEANT TO BE
The smile on her face and the tone of his voice
It was clear they had to be together, there was no choice
The first big date, it didn't seem real
There were roses and a card, a car, the whole deal
Her parents loved him; he was practically a son
And like a perfect big brother to the younger ones
He did all that he could to treat her right and boy, did it pay off;
You should have seen her eyes during the calls late at night.
He told her he loved her, forever they would be
If only forever were longer, but he didn't lie you see
Being best friends and lovers, it was pure happiness
From the first day they met, to the very last kiss.
The day the phone call came a part of her died
At first there was the scream and shock, and then she just cried
The viewing and funeral... her final goodbyes
Number 44, she had won his love, the grandest prize.
For the last time she kissed him and whispered "I love you" in his ear
Praying he could hear her, knowing his spirit was near
Now he watches from above and waits for her patiently
Knowing they are destined, forever is meant to be.
Kendra
December 2, 2008
million times, I'll need you;
A million times I've cried;
If love alone could have saved you;
You never would have died;
If all the world was mine to give;
I would give it yes, and more;
To see you coming up the steps,
And walking through the door;
To hear your voice, to see your smile;
To sit and talk with you awhile;
To be with you the same old way;
Would be my fondest wish today;
A heart of gold stop beating;
Two smiling eyes laid to rest;
God broke my heart to prove to me;
He only takes the best.
think about how much I miss him, and start to feel sorry for myself.....but then I think about all the people who never got the chance to meet him, and I start to feel sorry for them."
CALVIN AND DORA WALKER
December 2, 2008
If tears could build a stairway,
And memories a lane,
I'd walk right up to Heaven,
And bring you home again.
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye.
You were gone before I knew it,
And only God knows why.
My heart aches so in sadness,
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you,
No one will ever know.
My heart goes out to you my friend,
I was with you until the very end.
For us there are no goodbyes,
We will meet again in the heavenly skies.
December 2, 2008
The days you were here I took for granted. Now, the days without you, my heart can not stand it. The morning I got the call that you, my cousin, were gone; your life, my life and the memories all flashed before me. That very moment my heart got heavy and I fell to my knees I asked God, "Why? Why did you take him from me? Now who will watch over me?"
I felt your touch and you helped me to my feet. It was like walking on clouds, then I knew you would forever be beside me. I was hurt, I was scared and I was mad. I didn't want you to go. But I realized that God has a plan, you were part of it, so he took your hand.
I often wonder if you were afraid, if you had time to pray on that faithful day. Knowing you like I do, you are always prepared, so I knew you had prayed Your heart has always been in the right place, so I know you are safe. The day we laid you down for eternal sleep, I knew you would be okay, you just went ahead of me to make sure everything is okay.
It's comforting to know you are getting it right for when I take that journey to the other side, I won't be alone. I will see your open arms and smiling face at the end of the light to welcome me to God's paradise. I'm letting you go for now, but not forever. We will meet again and when we do, I know it will be for eternal life.
When it rains, I know you are no longer in pain When it snows, I know it's you my angel watching over me. When the sun shines bright, I know it's your warm smile keeping me safe. For the nights I wake up and see your face, I know you are there to tuck me in and to let me know you are okay.
When I look to the sky and see the birds flying high, I know it's you enjoying your part of the pie. I'm no longer scared, and I'm no longer mad. I can't promise I will no longer cry. I know if you were here you would tell me "be a big girl, big girls don't cry".
I can't promise that. I can just promise to abide my time.
lavatrone
December 2, 2008
One thing I have noticed is that when the leaves fall off the trees in the autumn, the new buds are already there, waiting for spring. Perhaps this is God's way of reminding us that there is always something beautiful to look for when something has been lost."
MARVA AND RALPH
December 2, 2008
A shining star from up above
Reminds us of those we've loved.
Here today, gone tomorrow
Lonesome hearts filled with sorrow.
The pain of missing you never fades
But I cherish the friendship that we've made.
Though we can't talk day by day
I remember you in every way.
The laughs, the smiles, held so dear
Memories of you bring me cheer.
Holding you close in my heart-
With you forever, we'll never part.
A TRUE FRIEND
I found a true friend.
That friend was you.
You came into my life
Right out of the blue.
We knew each other
For quite some time.
Who would of thought,
One day you would be mine?
We shared so much laughter and tears,
And we had so much fun.
Who would of thought
you would be the one?
But I should've known
For our friendship was too perfect.
I knew I couldn't have you
Forever to protect.
Protect me from my fears
And insecurities
I had to one day stand
On my own two feet.
You taught me so much
In this short time that we've had
Losing you hurt me deep inside
I don't ever want a soul to feel this bad.
I want you to know
I will never ever forget you
For everything you've taught me
I will try to be true to.
Now it's my turn to share
My love and take someone else's hand
And teach her how
To be a true friend.
This will be the hardest thing
I'll ever do
But I know I need
To let go of you.
For if I don't,
I will never move on.
There's nothing I can do
To change the fact that you're gone.
But until the day we will be together again,
Remember you will always be
My one and only true and special friend.
JESSICA SPENCER
December 2, 2008
A shining star from up above
Reminds us of those we've loved.
Here today, gone tomorrow
Lonesome hearts filled with sorrow.
The pain of missing you never fades
But I cherish the friendship that we've made.
Though we can't talk day by day
I remember you in every way.
The laughs, the smiles, held so dear
Memories of you bring me cheer.
Holding you close in my heart-
With you forever, we'll never part.
Lorie White
December 2, 2008
HIS JOURNEY'S JUST BEGUN
Don't think of him as gone away-
his journey's just begun
life hold so many facets-
this earth is only one.
Just think of him as resting
from the sorrows and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of him as living
in the hearts of those he touched...
for nothing loved is ever lost-
and he was loved so much.
Lorie White
December 2, 2008
Some things I'd like to say ... but first of all to let you know that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from Heaven where I dwell with God above where there's no more tears or sadness, there is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on Earth was through God picked me up and hugged me and He said "I welcome you.
It's good to have you back again you were missed while you were gone as for your dearest family they'll be here later on. I need you here so badly as part of My big plan, there's so much that we have to do to help our mortal man".
Then God gave me a list of things He wished for me to do and foremost on that list of mine is to watch and care for you. And I will be beside you every day and week and year and when you're sad I'm standing there to wipe away the tear. When you lie in bed at night, the days chores put to flight, God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on Earth and all those loving years, because you're only human they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you of all that God has planned but if I were to tell you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain though my life on Earth is over. I am closer to you now than I ever was before.
And to my very many friends, trust God knows what is best. I'm still not far away from you I'm just beyond the crest. There are rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb, but together we can do it taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too, that as you give unto the World so the World will give to you. If you can help somebody who is in sorrow or in pain, then you can say to God at night my day was not in vain.
And now I am contented that my life it was worthwhile, knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile. So if you meet somebody who is down and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up as on your way you go.
When you are walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind, I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when you feel the gentle breeze or the wind upon your face, that's me giving you a great big hug or just a soft embrace.
And when it's time for you to go from that body to be free, remember you're not going, you are coming here to me. And I will always love you from that land way up above, we'll be in touch again soon.
P.S. God sends His Love
Andrea
December 2, 2008
Dear God, please bless us Lord, make us strong, help us to overcome these times of sorrow and grief and despair and hopelessness. Lord, we give our hearts to you, our fears, our anger. Fill us with joy that the people we love so dearly are now in a life free of greed, pride, hatred, impurity...and let us walk straight in your will so that we too will be rescued and reunited with them and with you.
Let these losses find their transformations to gained knowledge, that we may learn how to love even more deeply the people still walking this earth with us. Let us show kindness to every person, every creed, every race. Help us understand no matter how great the difference in lives, no matter how quick or how drawn out the death... it comes upon every creature...let us respect that and to make our time and the time of others as pleasant as possible, Lord.
Help us to stay strong and make a safe way for everyone...the young, the old, and all in between. Lord, teach us love even in our pain. Lean into us when we are too weak to lean into you. Lift us and hold us in your arms like little babies, and give us the love of a father that we so desperately need. Lord, lift this sinful world, and kiss it with hope, hope that we will be with you soon. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.
Andrea
December 2, 2008
THE PLAN OF THE MASTER WEAVER
Our lives are but fine weavings,
That God and we prepare,
Each life becomes a fabric planned,
And fashioned in His care,
We may not always see just how,
The weavings intertwine,
But we must trust the master's hand,
And follow His design,
For He can view the pattern
Upon the upper side,
While we must look from underneath
And trust in Him to guide.
Sometimes a strand of sorrow
Is added to His plan,
And though it's difficult for us,
We still must understand,
That it's He who fills the shuttle,
It's He who knows what's best,
So we must weave in patience,
And leave to Him the rest.
Not till the loom is silent,
And the shuttles cease to fly,
Shall God unroll the canvas,
And explain the reason why--
The dark threads are as needed,
In the weaver's skillful hand,
As the threads of gold and silver,
In the pattern He has planned.
Niecy
December 2, 2008
We seem to give them back to you, O God,
who gave them to us.
Yet as you did not lose them in giving,
so do we not lose them by their return.
Not as the world gives,
do you give, O Lover of Souls.
What you give, you take not away,
for what is yours is ours also if we are yours.
Life is eternal, love is immortal,
and death is only a horizon
and horizon is nothing, save the limit of our sight.
Lift us up, strong Son of God,
that we may see further.
Cleanse our eyes that we may see more clearly,
draw us closer to yourself,
that we may know ourselves to be nearer to our loved ones
who are with You.
And while you prepare a place for us,
prepare us also for that happy place,
that where You are,
we may be also, for evermore."
the hawkins family
December 2, 2008
Once upon a sunrise
Life seemed oh so bright
Once upon a sunset
Life changed into night
Life was filled with darkness
That only you could see
The happiness you gave to others
I will take with me
To hear your voice, just one more time
Would mean the world to me
To laugh with you, just one more time
How happy I would be
But I know that we will meet again
And on that special day
We'll come together with wings of gold
And never fall astray
Marc
December 2, 2008
am home in heaven dear ones
Oh, so peaceful and so bright
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed
I am now at peace forever
Safely home in heaven at last
Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade
Oh but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade
And he came himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread
And with Jesus arm to lean on
Could I have one doubt or dread
Then you must not grieve so sorely
For I love you dearly still
Try to look beyond earth's shadows
Pray to trust our Father's will
There is work still waiting for you
So you must not idly stand
Do it now while life remaineth
You shall rest in Jesus' land
When the work is all completed
He will gently call you home
Oh the rapture of that meeting
Oh the joy to see you come
CHARLIE WRIGHT
December 2, 2008
If I go on ahead, and you can't keep up,
And you lose sight of me for a while
Don't stop, or slow, or lose the pace,
Run on for another mile.
Finish the race we began together,
And smile along the way
I'm just in front,
You'll catch me up,
And we'll run together again one day.
SHEDRA
December 2, 2008
EVEN THOUGH
Even though the pain of losing you runs deep,
I'm now beginning to feel
A sweet, serene peace
Even though my heart is broken,
And I still feel sad,
I'm grateful to the Lord
For all the love that we shared
There are times I feel
No longer can I cope,
But I hear the voice of God say,
Child, don't grieve like those with no hope.
There are endless days and nights
When tears run down my cheeks
But I hear you whisper gently,
As you remind me
The Lord is good, kind, merciful and meek.
Though I think of you
And miss you so
I hear you say
"Because I knew God, I was prepared
When he said," my child
It's time to go.
Even though
There are still endless days and nights
Of tears and pain
You yet remind me
Because of God's love,
We'll be together once again.
Now each day,
I feel your presence
I begin to imagine
The grand time
You're having in Heaven.
I'm thankful to the Man above,
For He's giving you
The kind of love
We, who are still here,
Can only dream of.
LIL SIS
December 2, 2008
GRIEF
Grief envelops me, holding me ever so tight
I don't know how I'll make it through this night.
Grief follows me each and everyday
No matter how I duck and dodge,
I can't seem to get out of its way.
Grief calls on me, knows me by name,
Never letting me forget that
Things will never be the same.
Grief speaks to me at unexpected times
It doesn't give me a forewarning, hint or sign.
It sends its friend called, Loneliness
To rob me of my sleep,
And gives me tears
That cause me to weep, and weep, and weep.
It sends along Hurt and Pain
As constant reminders that
Life without you will never be the same.
Grief robs, cheats and destroys
I don't think I can stand this Grief much more.
Grief leaves me with emptiness
Where love used to be
Reminding me that never again
Will I see you smiling at me.
Grief says to me
That you'll never again come home
I'm so unhappy and all alone.
Lord, help me,
For I'm going down fast
Show me that one day this too shall pass.
Show me once more, Lord
That love does transcend,
That even Grief
Can't bring love to an end.
Show me, Lord
Show me right away!
Because Grief is waiting to attack me
As I start a brand new day.
Marlene,
December 2, 2008
Tell me friend, why must you die?
Why must your loved ones stand with empty arms
And ask the question why?
Help me know, so I can go on,
How when your love and faith sustained me
Can the precious gift be gone?
From the depths of sorrow I cry,
The pains of grief within my soul arise,
the whispering of The Spirit still my cries.
Didn't he say he sent us to be tested?
Didn't he say the way would not be sure?
But, didn't he say we could live with him forever more,
Well and whole if we but patiently endure.
After the sorrow we will be blessed, but this life is the test.
Marjorie Frances
December 2, 2008
As long as I can I will look at this world for both of us. As long as I can I will laugh with the birds, I will sing with the flowers, I will pray to the stars, for both of us. As long as I can remember how many things on this earth were your joy. And I will live as well as you would want me to live As long as I can."
No further away than a picture,
A smile, or remembered phrase,
Our loved ones live in memory -
So close in so many ways.
For how often does a sunset
Bring nostalgic thoughts to mind
Of moments that our loved one shared
In days now left behind!
How often has a flower
Or a crystal autumn sky
Brought golden recollections
Of happy day gone by!
Yes, memory has a magic way
Of keeping loved ones near -
Ever close in mind and heart
Are the ones we hold most dear.
Daphne
December 2, 2008
In a harbor, two ships sailed- one setting forth on a voyage, the other coming home to port. Everyone cheered the ship going out, but the ship sailing in was scarcely noticed. To this, a wise man said, "Do not rejoice over a ship setting out to sea, for you cannot know what terrible storms it may encounter, Rejoice rather over the ship that had safely reached port and brings its passengers home in peace." And this is the way of the world: When a child id born, all rejoice; when someone dies, all weep. We should do the opposite. For no one can tell what trials await a newborn child; but when a mortal dies in peace, we should rejoice, for he has completed a long journey, and there is no greater boon than to leave this world with the imperishable crown of a good name.'
Matthew Brian Freeman
December 2, 2008
LETTING GO
When I am gone, release me, let me go,
I have so many things to see and do.
You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears,
Be happy that we had so many years.
I gave you my love,
You can only guess how much you gave me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you have shown,
But now it's time I traveled on alone.
So grieve a while for me, if you must,
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It's only for a while that we must part,
So bless the memories within your heart.
I won't be far away for life goes on,
So if you need me call, and I will come.
Though you can't see or touch me,
I'll be near and if you listen with your heart,
You'll hear all of my love around you soft and clear.
And then, when you must come this way alone
I'll greet you with a smile and say,
"Welcome Home."
December 2, 2008
REST IN PEACE
You are not forgotten loved one
Nor will you ever be
As long as life and memory last
We will miss thee.
We will miss you now
Our hearts are sore
As time goes by
We miss you more
Your loving smile
Your gentle face
No one can fill your vacant place.
Author Unknown
Marlene Blaszczyk
Laurel Tyler
December 2, 2008
Tell me friend, why must you die?
Why must your loved ones stand
With empty arms and ask the question why?
Help me know, so I can go on,
How when your love and faith sustained me
Can the precious gift be gone?
From the depths of sorrow I cry,
The pains of grief within my soul arise,
The whispering of The Spirit still my cries.
Didn't he say he sent us to be tested?
Didn't he say the way would not be sure?
But, didn't he say we could live with him forever more,
Well and whole if we but patiently endure.
After the sorrow we will be blessed,
But this life is the test.
BOBBY CARTER
December 2, 2008
Never complain about growing old because so many never get the chance!."
--- Unknown
" The loss of a friend is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired."
--- Southey
" Losing someone when you're young is the greatest pain anyone can face."
--- Amory Blaine
"Sometimes no matter how much faith we have,
We lose people.
But you never forget them.
And sometimes it's those memories
That give us faith to go on."
---
Well, hope some of this has been helpful.
December 2, 2008
UPHILL
Does the road wind uphill all the way?
Yes, to the very end.
Will the day's journey take the whole long day?
From mourn to night my friend.
But is there for the night a resting place?
A roof for when the slow dark hours begin.
May not the darkness hide it from my face?
You cannot miss that inn.
Shall I meet other wayfarers at night?
Those who have gone before.
Then must I knock, or call when just in sight?
They will not keep you standing at that door.
Shall I find comfort, travel-sore and weak?
Of labor you shall find the sum.
Will there be beds for me and all who seek?
Yea, beds for all who come.
Christina
CARTWRIGHT FAMILY
December 2, 2008
For everything there is a season,
And a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to throw away stones,
And a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace,
And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to seek, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to throw away;
A time to tear, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate,
A time for war, and a time for peace.
CHAY'LIKA
December 2, 2008
WALLACE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE .OUR TIME TOGETHER WAS CUT SHORT.BUT A PART OF YOU STILL LIVES ON WITH OUR TWO TWIN GIRLS. I FIND IT HARD TO MOVE ON FROM THE HURT . BUT I HAVE TO STAY STRONG FOR THE GIRLS AND KEEP YOUR MEMORIES ALIVE .SO THEY WILL KNOW ALL ABOUT THERE FATHER.SO MANY PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU ARE SO DEEPLY HURT BY YOUR PASSING AND ITS GOING TO BE HARD WITH OUT SEEING YOUR FACE.BUT I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART YOUR BABY'S MOTHER.
EVA GREEN
December 2, 2008
I have lost you, someone so special, someone more than a friend, someone whom I feel helpless without, someone whom I cared for, someone whom I loved and respected. I will always miss you Wallace."
Marlo James
December 2, 2008
When I Must Leave You
When I must leave you for a little while
Please do not grieve and shed wild tears
And hug your sorrow to you through the years
But start out bravely with a gallant smile
And for my sake and in my name
Live on and do all the things the same
Feed not your loneliness on empty days
But fill each waking hour in useful ways
Reach out your hand in comfort and cheer
And in turn I will comfort you
And hold you near
And never, never be afraid to die
For I am waiting for you in the sky.
davon willis
December 2, 2008
There is a difference between letting them go, and forgetting them. Letting them go, means accepting they are gone, but knowing they will always have a place in your heart. Forgetting them means to forget all the memories, the good times, and the bad times. So, don't forget them, just let them go."
Carolyn Mason
December 2, 2008
It is okay to grieve, it is a natural process...it is when we allow the grief to take us over that we are defeated. Grieve, but continue moving forward!"
NeNe
December 2, 2008
Losing a loved one is hard, but it's knowing that god gained an angel that makes the grief easier."
Kim
December 2, 2008
It's amazing the things you realize when you lose someone. You get mad at yourself for not saying the things you could've a million times, you take for granted the days you spent doing nothing when you could have been with them. Anyone can be taken at any time in our lives, but we always wait until they're gone to say the things we never had the courage to before."
Mo
December 2, 2008
Though it hurts to lose a loved one, it is most painful to grieve for what you didn't get to enjoy with them. Rather, remember the blessings they left behind, with so many wonderful memories. Treasure their essence, for it is still here with you."
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