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Jerry Phelps Obituary
He was born June 13, in Norfolk, Va., to Carolyn Griffin, of Suffolk, and Robert Phelps, of Norfolk. Jerry was educated in the Norfolk Public Schools, and after graduation, he attended Virginia State University, where he majored in engineering. He was employed as an operations manager with the Food Lion Distribution Center.
Jerry was initiated into the Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc., through the Nu Psi Chapter and was #7 on the Spring 1988 Lineage. He was a faithful and dedicated member of the Mount Olivet Baptist Church, where he served faithfully on the Men's Usher Board and the Marriage Ministry.
Besides his parents, he leaves to cherish his memories: a loving and devoted wife of 13 years, Lisa Phelps; a devoted and cherished son, Jared "Lil Jerry" Phelps; one sister, Karen January, of Norfolk; three brothers, Robert Brown, Kobie Barnard and Secorie Thomas, all of Norfolk; a grandmother, Lillian Franklin, of New York; a loving and devoted mother and father-in-law, Alvin and Carolyn Doyle; and a host of other relatives and friends, to include two devoted friends, Anthony Barnes and Byron Howell, and all of his co-workers at the Food Lion Distribution Center, and QVC.
The family will receive friends at the chapel of the William N. Bland and Son Funeral Home, Petersburg, Friday evening from 7 to 9 p.m., during which time the Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc., will hold its memorial service.
A funeral service will be held at 11 a.m., Saturday, Aug. 1., at the Mount Olivet Baptist Church. The interment will be in the Sunset Memorial Park, Chester, Va.
Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the William N. Bland and Son Funeral Home, Petersburg. www.blandenterprisesinc.com, and the Metropolitan Funeral Service, Norfolk. www.metropolitanfueneralservice.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jerry Phelps
Beth Knight
August 5, 2009
Dearest Lisa,
My heart and prayers go out to you and Jared. We are on Martha's Vineyard right now and just learned of the dreadful news only a few days ago. I wish that I was there to offer you any support that you may need, please feel free to let me know if I can do anything.
With all my love,
Beth Knight
August 3, 2009
Lisa and Jared
Our prayers are with you doinig this time sorrow, please know that you will always be a part of the Shabazz Family
We love you both Karriem, Sharon Kam and Thysha Shabazz of Chesapeake VA
August 3, 2009
My heart goes out to the Phelps family, Jerry was a really down to earth dude and for the year that I worked for him he showed me that being yourself will take you a long way.He will truly be missed. Corey Johnson and all the trainers and Foodlion selectors
Tomeka Williams
August 3, 2009
Me and my husband worked with your husband at Ace Hardware.We send our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family.We are very sorry for your loss.Jerry was always a bright spirit and wonderful person to be around,he will be missed.
Jason Deckert
August 2, 2009
Dear Mrs. Phelps and Jared,
I just found out about your loss, today (8/2/09). Jared, your Dad was very devoted to you and your education. Know that he continues to watch over you and your Mom. You and your family will be in the thoughts and prayers of many families from Carver Middle School.
Garieth Carter
August 2, 2009
Dear Mrs. Phelps and Jared,
Words cannot express how sorry we are about your loss.
Please know you will be in our hearts and thoughts.
The Carter Family (Len, Susan, Alexander, Zachary and Wyatt)
Sr. Margaret Mary
August 1, 2009
Lisa and Jared, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have been praying for you since Mrs. Young called to let me know. I know that your strong faith will carry you through these hours of darkness. Lean on the support of your family and friends.
August 1, 2009
Phelps Family-
I met Jerry several years ago and over the years have always known him to be a first class guy. We talked alot over the years and he always spoke proudly of Jared- and was a devoted Husband to his wife. It hurts to know he is gone from this world so suddenly. May God bless those he left behind, find rest knowing he is with the Lord, and may we all strive to treat others with the kindness Jerry always showed us.
Tim Perry
Tracy Perry-Hudson
August 1, 2009
Lisa,
I had the pleasure to work with Jerry at WalMart and ACE Hardware and he was a wonderful person to know and work with. I send my condolences to you and your family. May the Lord's abiding love give you hope for each tomorrow.
August 1, 2009
Mrs. Phelps,
I had the opportunity to work with Jerry at Food Lion Distribution Center. Jerry was a wonderful person both inside and out.
Many thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know remembering special moments you and your husband shared will help you find peace each day.
Sorrowfully,
Lisa Briggs, Chester, Virginia
August 1, 2009
Mrs. Phelps and Jarad, we send you our condolences and we want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Cypress Family (Kaila)
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you asthe world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27
"The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the hornof my salvation, my stronghold." Psalm 18:2
James Melton
July 31, 2009
Jerry,
This is a true story, I was just thinking about you wednesday and got a call from my mother on Thursday that you had pass. You will be really miss because I haven't seen you in 20 years and now you are gone Forever. "PLUG" Your Child hood Friend from Youngs Park
Kenston Fields and Family
July 31, 2009
Mrs. Phelps,
We are sorry for your loss and hope that the years you shared will somehow ease the pain and grief.
July 31, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Teresa Fisher
July 31, 2009
Dear Lisa and Jarad, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May Our Lord heal your grief and bring you comfort. Treasure your wonderful memories. With Love, Twink Fisher
Rhonda Greene-Townes
July 31, 2009
Lisa, may you and your family find comfort in the LORD and each other as you deal with your loss.
Patterson Family
July 31, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Reginald Patterson
July 31, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Nicholas Mason
July 31, 2009
Mrs. Phelps,
With deepest sympathy during this difficult time, you and your family are in our prayers.
Your former student Nicholas Mason & family
Jean Martin
July 31, 2009
Lisa and Jared,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May the Lord comfort you and your family now and always.
Jean, Chris, David, and Nicholas
St. Joseph School PTO
July 31, 2009
Lisa and Jared, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God keep you in his embrace during this difficult time. We are here for you.
You have our deepest sympathy.
Megan McCullum
July 31, 2009
We send our condolences for you and your family and just want nothing more then for you to live and love.
Devon, Tatiana and Megan
Anne Hale
July 31, 2009
Dearest Mrs. Phelps and Jared, please know that you and your family are in our daily thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and that God and all of us are here for you in thought and deed.
Our deepest sympathy, Brad, Anne and Hannah Hale.
Dorothy Cale
July 31, 2009
You and your family are in my heart and in my Prayers. Continue to trust and lean on God, because He is your strength. In Jesus name with Love,
Dorothy L. Cale and family
Hopewell, VA
July 31, 2009
For we know not GOD's plan for our lives. But, we must TRUST and believe in His infinite wisdom. I am praying for your continued strength and comfort, during this time. You must thank GOD for the times that you shared, and the life that is here to carry on Jerry's legacy...Jared. To God be the Glory!!!
Angela D. Green, M.S.
and family
Angela Green, M.S.
July 31, 2009
For we know not GOD's plan for our lives. But, we must TRUST and believe in His infinite wisdom. I am praying for your continued strength and comfort, during this time. You must thank GOD for the times that you shared, and the life that is here to carry on Jerry's legacy...Jared. To God be the Glory!!!
Angela D. Green, M.S.
and family
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