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Joseph Gill Obituary
Joseph F. Gill of Washingtonville, a Ramp Agent with Federal Express, entered into rest on July 3, 2008 at home. He was 49.
The son of Joseph F. Gill and Helen O'Leary, he was born June 14, 1959 in Ridgewood, NJ.
He was a member of the Knights of Columbus St. Luke's Council 5257 of Waldwick, NJ and past coach in the Washingtonville Little League and the CBL Storm.
He was a loving husband and father who will be dearly missed.
Survivors include his wife, Wendy S. Gill of Washingtonville; son, Joseph W. Gill of Washingtonville; daughter, Abbey L. and her husband, Bryan M. Gilligan of Ossining, NY; mother-in-law, Jackie Mahoney of Kingston, NY; brothers, Gerald and wife, Kathy Gill of Princeton, NJ and Michael Gill of Washingtonville; sisters, Diane and husband, Craig Peterson of Overlook, KS and Christine Gill of Trenton, NJ; many nieces and nephews and also his dog, Muggs.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, July 8 from 5-8 p.m. at the David T. Ferguson Funeral Home, 20 North St., Washingtonville, NY.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday, July 9 at 10 a.m. at St. Mary's Church in Washingtonville. Burial will be in St. Mary's Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to NYU Cancer Institute Melanoma Research, 530 First Ave., New York, NY 10016.
Arrangements under the care of Thomas A. Murray of the David T. Ferguson Funeral Home; 845-496-9106.
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Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Gill
Mike Peterson
July 28, 2008
Aunt Wendy, Abbey and Joe- My thoughts and prayers are with you all in your time of loss. Based on my own memories, and the thoughts of others noted here, it is clear that Uncle Joe made such an incredible impact on all who knew him, and left a legacy that all can admire.
God Bless, Mike
Eric Peterson
July 28, 2008
Aunt Wendy and cousins Abbey and Joe,
I am at a loss for words other than to say that Uncle Joe will be missed terribly. We didn't speak as often as we should have, but my day was always brightened after the times we did. Uncle Joe is truly one of my inspirations in how to relate to people and approach life.
May the love and peace of our Lord surround and comfort you,
Eric
Diane Peterson
July 28, 2008
Dear Wendy, Abbey, and Joseph,
Writing about our Joe is a joyful task, he was such a character. You heard the stories straight from him how as a child he and his adolescent buddies plotted and schemed to trick me, his clueless big sister, into aiding them in their adventures. I have so many good memories of him that bring a smile and a chuckle of laughter. Those memories help me now to ease the terrible pain of losing him.
Honest and loving, my brother Joe was an uncomplicated man quick to forgive a wrong and never hold a grudge. His smile, his laugh, his wisdom graced my life. Our big sister-little brother relationship grew to include a deep and rewarding friendship. There are so many things about Joe that I am going to miss, but most of all I'm going to miss him just being in my world. I know he is watching over us all and praying that we will remember him and work to love one another as he loved us. Bless you, Diane
Amy O'Leary Schabot
July 17, 2008
Dearest Wendy, Joe and Abby,
I am one of Joe's many cousin. What a hugh impact Joe has made in our lives. He always seem to make you the center of his world when talking to him. Always positive, focus and with his smile. What a huge loss to his family, friends and our world. My Deepest Sympanthy to all who knew and Loved him, as we all know he Dearly Loved Us back. God Bless!
Brendan Gill
July 12, 2008
Dear Wendy, Abbey, and Joe,
Uncle Joe will forever remain in my heart and memories. I will remember his unyielding smile, that made me feel welcome anytime I stepped into the room. My thoughts and prayers have been and will continue to be with you.
Love,
Bren
Jerry & Kathy Gill
July 11, 2008
Memories of My Brother
Joseph F. Gill
For those of you who don't know me, I'm Jerry, Joseph's oldest brother by 13 years. My siblings and I were part of the O'Leary grandchildren. My father Joe and mother Helen contributed 5, Aunt Francis & Uncle Pete contributed 9, Uncle Tom & Aunt Marie contributed 8. We lost our cousin Kathleen OLeary as a newborn & our cousin Sean Patrick Timpone as a young man in his 20's.
Our grandfather, Thomas O'Leary was delighted with us. On a cruise ship to Norway , he won the prize for the most grandchildren. Our Bestemor ( Grandmother in Norweigan) Torborg Lindefjell loved all of us but nevertheless was appalled that we were so many in number !
All of us from the 3 families, the Gill's, The Timpone's & the O'Leary's have wonderful memories of growing up with Joseph. All 3 homes were full of laughter & tears of lives added & lives lost.
For the Gill siblings, it is difficult to believe that for us the youngest has left our world first. Unfathomable.
Joseph lived his life with courage, determination, joy, friendship & love. If tears come, they will be tears of feeling the loss of his presence but not tears of sadness for his death - because we know he has gone to a better place & is waiting for us.
In the last year, Joseph was determined to live out his life with hope & with the love of his wife Wendy & his children Abbey & Joseph beside him. He told me many times how blessed he was & how much he loved Wendy & how lucky he was to have her & how very proud he was of Abbey & Joseph.
It was through his love, his generosity of spirit, his availability & his compassion that made him not just a good husband & father but a great husband & father.
All those traits transcended his immediate family & were the gifts he also gave to his siblings , to their families & to his friends.
Hopefully, we can be comforted by this in the presence of our painful loss.
For today & all the tomorrows to come, life wil go on -but - life will never be the same. As Robert Louis Stevenson so aptly said, " ... there falls along with him a whole wing of the palace of our life."
Joseph, we will miss you always !
Minnie edwards
July 9, 2008
Wendy and Family, It is with deep sorrow we express to you our saddness. May the fond memories you all have of Joe help ease the pain as the time goes on. Always, Minnie Edwards and Family
Glen Monturi
July 9, 2008
There are no words for me to say... I choose to celebrate the humble greatness of my friend... He is my "George Bailey"....He truly lived a wonderful life....His spirit lives....All you need is love .....Glen....
Jim Antoine
July 8, 2008
Wendy, Abby & Joseph,
We have shed some tears as we have lost a very humble & loving friend. Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you.
Love, Jim & Luisa Antoine
Waldwick, NJ
Linda & Shaye from Allstate Insurance
July 8, 2008
Dear Wendy & family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Joe was a very nice man. We are honored to have know him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find the strength to carry on and may he rest in peace.
Jana Munoz
July 8, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Jana Munoz and Family, Friend of Christine Gill
Manja Yirka
July 8, 2008
Dear Wendy, Abbey & Joey,
I remember you as the young family with the brand new baby when moved to Washingtonville in 1987. Always pleasant, smiling and kind words is the way I remember Joe. We move on, but the memories remain. Deeply sorry for the loss of your husband and dad. --Manja and family
Peter Belmonte
July 8, 2008
I Love You Joe you will always will be with me Peter Belmonte
Daniel Velazquez
July 8, 2008
God Bless Joe and his family on this great loss. I knew Joe growing up in Waldwick when we were early teenagers, as he was a true friend to the Ray Jimenez family whom I stayed with during the summer months. He was always a gentleman and a humble person, along with being a talented athlete . I always remember his smile and his determination...a true american spirit passed unto heaven.
John Gennardo
July 7, 2008
Joe, You were the best, You were always there to support me and my team at FedEx. I could always rest easy knowing you were looking out for my operation at SWF, and always got the job done, no matter what the situation. You were put in a difficult situation as my acting manager, but shined with flying colors and never said no. You will be missed, as a husband, father and employee...B.Z Joe, You were the best....I am glad I had time to spend with you a few months ago....Till we meet again......G-Man
Wendy and Family, my deepest sorrow for your loss.....
Frank Kennedy
July 7, 2008
To watch you and Joe walk out of St. Mary's after Mass, hand in hand, was always a true demonstration of your love for each other.
My deepest sympathy to you, your children and the entire Gill family.
Elizabeth Jimenez-Drexler
July 7, 2008
Dear Wendy and Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Joe was a very special and much loved old friend. We go way back to the wonderful days in Waldwick. His cute smile and kind manner always made me smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kim Harcher-Brown
July 7, 2008
To the family of Joe Gill.
Just over 7 years ago, my little brother was diagnosed with A-L-L Leukemia, and every morning at the ramp Joe would always ask how my brother was doing. Three years later my brother was given a clean bill of health. Joe was so happy my brother got better.
When Joe got sick it crushed my heart. Why did this have to happen to a wonderful person, who is a great co-worker????
Joe's smile will live on in my heart forever.
Plesae know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Take care,
Kim & Harold Brown
FedEx Express Newburgh.
Sean Gill
July 7, 2008
Uncle Joe,
We will miss you dearly but know that you are at peace & keeping Grandma and Grandpa company. I will treasure our conversations and your advice and insight on life, I will always keep those memories close to my heart.
Love your Nephew,
Sean
Tom Jacaruso
July 7, 2008
Wendy, Abby and Joe... I do not need to tell you how many lives your husband/father touched in his short time with us. I first met you guys back in 1987 when both of us worked at Fedex in NJ. He ALWAYS spoke about his family and how lucky he was. Wendy, just seeing you and Joe walking Mugs and holding hands made a trip down Toleman Rd a little better every day! He truly was a friend, husband, and father that we all wish to become.
Elwood M. Neener III
July 7, 2008
Joe was my friend, he was a good man, I liked him, and in the days ahead I will reminisce the fond memories Joe and I shared over the years. My heartfelt sympathy to Joe's loved ones, I rejoice in knowing that we will see him again in a loving, peaceful, and far better place.
Kim O'Melia
July 7, 2008
Dear Wendy+Joe+Abby,
My prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
I was honored to have worked with Joe over the last 9 years. He was a great person. To me he was like the dad for me at work. Always looked out for me and provided great advice as I grew.
He will be missed dearly. But the memories will live on in each of us.
Johnny & Colleen McManamon
July 6, 2008
Wendy, Abby & Joe:
Joe was a wonderful man and we are grateful to have been touched by such an awesome person. There is a hole in the world without Joe Gill. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the beautiful memories your shared embrace you, now and forever.
Karen Buchanan
July 6, 2008
Dear Wendy and family,
I can truly say that I know what you are now going through. Remember all the wonderful times you had and he will always be there with you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
John Bennison
July 6, 2008
Dear Wendy & Family, I haven't worked for Fedex for 14 years but I knew Joe and he was a wonderful person. I'll keep you in my prayers. Godbless.
Wayne Strelecki
July 5, 2008
Wendy and Family, Joe and I had a good working relationship. He always had a smile on his face and a positive outlook. I just can't fathom how this could have happened to such a nice guy. Joe will be surely missed. Be strong for your family amd especially yourself. Take care and God Bless.
Pat Higgins
July 5, 2008
Wendy, Abby and Joe,
I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope that the happy memories of your love and life with Joe bring you peace and comfort now and always
Pat Higgins
Charlie & Ruth Hoffstatter
July 5, 2008
Hi Wendy,
Our hearts go out to you and the family during this time of sorrow.
May the grace of the Lord give you strength over the coming weeks.
It was so good to see you in April.
Love,
Charlie & Ruth
Lori & Todd Geisel
July 5, 2008
Wendy,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Robin White
July 5, 2008
Wendy, Abby and Joseph-
Our hearts are breaking for you. Joe was a wonderful man whose love for his family was evident in his every word and deed. We continue to pray for you.
With love,
Mike & Robin White
Michael, Jaime, Nicholas, Jeremy and Christy.
Mark Hoffstatter
July 5, 2008
There are no words that can express our condolences. All of our thoughts and prayers are with Joe and with your family.
All our love,
Mark & Annie Hoffstatter
Jenna Paukovits
July 5, 2008
Wendy, Joseph, and Abby
I just want to extend my deepest condolences to you and your family. Joe was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed. Another angel got their wings. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask.
Love Jenna
JoLee Hagen
July 5, 2008
We will all miss you Joe... and you will always be in our hearts... Wendy, Abby, and Joseph we love you all.. you are in our prayers.. love, Randy & JoLee
Tom Murray and the Staff of Ferguson Funeral Home
July 5, 2008
Extending our sincerest condolences.
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