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Jeannine Stelmack-Schade Obituary
Jeannine Theresa Stelmack-Schade of Bloomingburg, NY, died July 31, 2008 at Orange Regional Medical Center, Horton Campus, after a courageous one-year battle with cancer. She was 37.
The daughter of John and Elisa Forestieri Stelmack, she was born January 27, 1971 in the Bronx.
Jeannine was an 18-year employee of Blue Cross Blue Shield in Middletown.
She was the devoted, loyal wife of Robert O. Schade, Jr.; loving and devoted mom to Hope Leanna and Robert John; daughter of Elisa and John Stelmack, and sister of John and Andrea Stelmack. She is also survived by her mother and father-in-law, Barbara and Robert Schade; sister-in-law, Sandi Schade and her partner, Terri Scribner; grandmother, Martha Schade and many cousins and friends.
Jeannine loved to be a part of her family's lives. She danced with Hope and taught at the Dance Diamond Dance School in Middletown, went to all of Rob's football practices and games and enjoyed cheering on her husband at O.C. Speedway (Go Slim Shady #91). She cheered her brother on in his rugby games and she sang in the folk choir at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church every Christmas with her Mom, sister, Andrea and Hope. Her smile lit up a room and she spread laughter and love everywhere she went.
Visitation hours are from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. on Sunday, August 3, at Applebee-McPhillips Funeral Home, Inc., 130 Highland Ave., Middletown, NY 10940.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, August 4, at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, 90 Euclid Ave., Middletown, NY. Burial will follow in Cemetery of the Highlands in Highland Mills, NY.
Jeannine's family wishes to thank Dr. Dinsmore, the Tucker Center staff and all the people who made Jeannine's hospitalization more comfortable.
Her family will accept donations for her children's future education. Contributions may be made to the Hope L. and Robert J. Schade Education Fund, PO Box 234, Middletown, NY 10940.
Arrangements by Applebee-McPhillips Funeral Home; 845-343-6309 or www.applebee-mcphillips.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jeannine Stelmack-Schade
Tara Klink
August 18, 2008
Hope and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Best Wishes,
Sarah sanchez
August 9, 2008
Sandi and family
We are all saddened buy your lost. Jeannine was always smiling and kind hearted to everyone. There for you will have a very special angel always with you all- her family has always been her life. " take one day at a time-- look for the butterflies.
your friends forever
Sarah,Gina,and Gang
chris worden
August 6, 2008
so sorry for your loss
Kelly Dolson
August 5, 2008
I am truly saddened to learn of Jeannine's passing. I danced with her growing up and reconnected again a few years ago. She was truly a special person and was genuinely caring and kind. She will be missed. My prayers go out to her family
August 4, 2008
Hope & Robert,
I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. May you find comfort in the precious memories and hold them close to your heart.
Mrs. Hansen (CVMS Nurses office)
tina rogers
August 4, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss Jeannine dearly. I will miss sharing football with our boys and our wonderful talks at work. She was a blessing in my life. I hope you find comfort in the lord during this very difficult time.
Sarah Carr
August 4, 2008
Though I didn't know Jeannine, I heard wonderful things about her and her courageous battle to the end; my heart goes out to her family and friends during this trying time. May you all find peace.
Ursula (Sherman) Allard
August 3, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. May Psalm 23 bring you comfort & strength during this time of mourning.
Veda Maurizzio
August 3, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Stelmack, Bobby & Children,
My deepest sympathy to your families at this difficult time. Jeannine was always so eager to talk about her children and glow when she did so. She was truly devoted to her family. I will miss her soft voice, gracious walk and bubbly personality. Jeannine will leave a void at Empire BCBS.
Bobby - I send my prayers to you and your children. Paul sends his sympathy to you as well.
Sincerely,
Veda Maurizzio
Vicki F
August 2, 2008
I am very sorry for your loss. I worked with Jeannine at BCBS, I will never forget the laughs and talks we used to have. She was a wonderful person who will be missed dearly.
Kimberly Knapp (Thomas)
August 2, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss.I grew up in Aspen w/jeannine and i was friends with her and Carre-Ann She was a wonderful person.She came from a great and strong family. My prayers go out to all of you.
Brenda Skrobanski (Lomnicki)
August 2, 2008
Carrie-Ann, Richard and I were devastated to hear the news about Jeannine's passing. We'll always remember her as the sweet girl who lived two doors down that loved to play Barbie's. Our deepest sympathies go out to her entire family.
Rick Cutting
August 2, 2008
I am deeply sorry and sadden for your loss. Growing up as kids in Tap class was always a joy. She was my first line mate and she will be missed. May she keep on Dancing in your hearts.
Laura Greener
August 1, 2008
Growing with Jeannine from preschool to being Mommies to our own children we dont realize how precious our memories will become. She will always be remembered. It was truly a blessing to know and grow with her. Many thoughts and prayers for all her family and friends.
Anita Bucci
August 1, 2008
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you in your time of grief. Jeannine will be watching over all of you.
Paula Kania (Valente)
August 1, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
Isabelle Davis (Vega)
August 1, 2008
I knew Jeannine back in Jr. High, and High school. I am so sorry to hear of her passing. My prayers are with her family.
mike and shannon sanchez
August 1, 2008
we are very sorry for your loss. our condolences go to the entire family
Roberta Perrego
August 1, 2008
My deepest sympathies are with you all.
wanda harris
August 1, 2008
i did not have the pleasure of knowing Jeannine but my daughter tina did and always had wonderful things to say about her....she among many others will miss Jeannine very much.. our prayers are with the family at this heartbreaking time in their lives... may the good lord bless you and watch over you always...
Wendy Cutting
August 1, 2008
John & Elisa,
Thank you for the joy of having Jeannine as one of my first born classes. I know she is teaching other little tapping skunks. She will always be a part of my most joyous memories. You were blessed.
Mrs. Halina Ewald (Vision Teacher)
August 1, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Melissa Lazaro
August 1, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jessie Ferrara
August 1, 2008
Jeannine was a sweet & kind person who always had the time to sit & chat with me & make me feel better when I needed a good chat.she could always make me smile.Her love & pride for her family was obvious to all who knew her.To her family my most sincere condolences .she will be missed.
Dorri Rose-Santos
August 1, 2008
I knew Jeannine from BCBS. She was always so pleasant to work with. I'll remember her for her beautiful smile, her soft voice and her funny giggle that I heard so often. She will be deeply missed by everyone that she knew.
Cheryl Stewart
August 1, 2008
God bless the Stelmack/Shade family at this time of sorrow. May you find strength in God during tis time.
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