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Donald Cotthaus Obituary
Donald R. Cotthaus of Clintondale, NY, formerly of Palisades, NY and a longtime resident of the area, died Sunday, September 14, 2008, at home with his family at his side. He was 67.
The son of the late Harry and Helen Harris Cotthaus, he was born February 8, 1941 in Nyack, NY.
He served in the Army during Vietnam Era. He was the former Owner/Operator of Don's Mobil Station in Pearl River, former Owner/Operator of Don's Service Center in Maybrook, and worked for over 10 years with his son at Automotive Audio in Newburgh. Don also worked for Amthor's in Walden, drove for Halick Lumber, R.C. Hermans, and Don enjoyed traveling throughout the country with Orange County Choppers and welding and fabricating.
Survivors include his longtime companion, Lillian E. Schoonmaker, at home; son, Clayton Cotthaus and his wife, Julianna; Melyssa and their son, Chase of Walden; brother, Harry "Ward" Cotthaus of Florida; sister, Sharon Hansen of Warwick; and three nephews: Harry & Glenn Cotthaus, and Billy Hansen.
Visitation will be Friday, September 19, from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. at the Millspaugh Funeral home, 22 Bank St., Walden, NY.
Funeral services will be Saturday, September 20, at 10 a.m. at the funeral home. Pastor John Vandenoever will officiate. Burial will be in Wallkill Valley Cemetery in Walden, NY.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Hospice of Orange & Sullivan Counties, 800 Stony Brook Ct., Newburgh, NY 12550.
Arrangements were made by Millspaugh Funeral Directors; 845-778-3200.
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Memories and Condolences
for Donald Cotthaus
Debbie Clack & Family
September 19, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Demarest Van Blarcom
September 18, 2008
Dear Clay, Sandy, Sharon & Ward:
We just heard your voice mail. So sorry to hear of Don's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Joy, Demmy, Joy, Adam, Hope, Meri, Bob, and Matthew
Debbie Boyd
September 18, 2008
Lillian,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May time heal your pain and may Don rest in peace.
Love, Debbie Boyd and Family
Pamela Smith
September 17, 2008
Dear Lillian,and family; I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you all. Don was a wonderful man and I know he will be missed. I only had the pleasure of knowing him for a short time from being his nurse but he left a lasting impression on me.
Lori Keator
September 17, 2008
Clay, Julie, Chase, Melyssa, and Sandy. Our thoughts and prayers are will you all. The Keator Family, Ed, Lori, Dan & Leanne
Christine DePasquale
September 17, 2008
Clay, we are so sorry for your loss. . If you need anything we are here for you,
Remember the good things. Your dad will always be in your heart and your memories.
Love, Johnny D and Christine
Paul Comeau
September 17, 2008
Clayton sorry about your loss. Your dad was a good man and will be missed . Paul Comeau
diane derosia
September 17, 2008
don was a lovely man and we will miss him at c.p. my sympathy to you lil and his family, i know don is goi
ng to watch over us
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