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Paul Bertino Obituary

Matamoras, PA

Mr. Paul Bertino of Matamoras, PA, died Wednesday, October 1, 2008 at Chilton Memorial Hospital with his family by his side. He was 45.

He was born March 13, 1963 in Belleville, NJ, the youngest of three children. He proudly served our country in the U.S. Marine Corp from 1981-1985 in the Multi-National Peacekeeping forces for the Beriut and Lebanon Conflict. He also served a tour in Grenada. He worked as a proud truck driver for Eastern Concrete Materials out of Riverdale, NJ for 22 years.

A Family Statement read: "In loving memory of Paul Bertino a loving brother, uncle, son and father."

Surviving are a loving son, Paul Bertino at home; his loving mother, Abigail Bertino; his wife, Rosa Maria Bertino; two brothers, Joseph Bertino of Philadelphia, PA and Peter Bertino of Middletown, NY; one sister-in-law, Mary Leigh of Matamoras, PA; eight nieces and nephews: Anthony, Kimberlee, Peter, Jessie, Jorja, Joseph, Bernadette, Victoria and Wyatt; two great-nephews, Dante and Aydan; one great-niece, Ayla. He was predeceased by his father Joseph Bertino in 2001.

Friends may call at the Gray-Parker Funeral Home, Inc., 100 E. Main St., Port Jervis on Monday, October 6, from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. and Tuesday, October 7, 2-4 and 7-9 p.m.

Funeral services with Military Honors will be held on Tuesday, October 7, at 9 p.m. at the Gray-Parker Funeral Home, 100 E. Main St., Port Jervis, NY. Cremation will be at H.G. Smith Crematory, Stroudsburg, PA.

Funeral arrangements are by the Gray-Parker Funeral Home, 100 E. Main St., Port Jervis. For information, directions or to send a condolence note to the family please visit www.grayparkerfuneralhome.com or 845-856-5191.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald-Record on Oct. 5, 2008.

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Shelley Crisman

October 9, 2008

Paulie I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I just found out and am sitting here in disbelief. I had just spoken to him a day or so before his passing. I hope you know just how much he loves you and how proud he is of you. Every time we would talk, it was about what was going on with you or Tab & Eric. I am so happy I had met you and I will never forget what a wonderful man he is. I will always hold fond memories of him within my heart.Hold your head up high and be strong. My prayers are with you and all of the family.

John, Gina, Joe & Drew Purtill

October 8, 2008

Smallie - to my third son twice removed. The love Big Paul has for you has filled the hearts and souls of all those around you. Through us we will continue to give you his love. Please know that everybody is here for you.

Abby (AKA: G) - ditto for you.

Love you both.

Jennifer Ladouceur

October 7, 2008

Dearest Paul.
Our hearts are with you my friend. I will always cherish the time we spent together.
Love Jennifer, and Sorrelle..(Dolly)

kimberlee bertino

October 7, 2008

to my uncle paul, i love yu with all my heart yu were very special` to me,i miss yu i knw yur wit pop having the time of yur life with him looking down watchin us go crazy,i also miss the smacks on the back ov my head thank yu for leaving me with a heart full ov memories that could never be forgotten yu are truly loved i love yu...

Dianne, Shaun & Melissa Connelly

October 6, 2008

First to Paulie..know that you are your fathers greatest and most blessed accomplishment. Know he is loved beyond measure and to All of The Bertino family..you are all in all our thoughts and prayers.Paulie,try to believe that GOD really needed your dad to help Him. They say.."ONLY THE GOOD DIE YOUNG" and our Paulie "B" is as good as they come. When you possess a heart his size everybody wants a piece of it. Always know that you Paulie,(smallie)have the best and the biggest part of his heart. Always in our hearts....rest in peace.....Love,

Bob, Lynn, Cory, Erin & Casey Homer

October 6, 2008

Paul- Our thought and prayers are with you through this difficult time. I always got a kick the way your dad called me "Mrs Homer". We will miss him dearly.

Jane Ann (Cinn) and Bob (Lick) Romaker

October 6, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to Paul's family especially his son who clearly was the light of his life and a source of great pride. Paul was a warm and generous host; a dear friend. We will miss him.

Diana Smith

October 5, 2008

You made your mark on our hearts Paulie.....You left your greatest gift with Smallie.
He is so proud of the man you are becoming. My prayers are with you and your family (Smallie)Lil Paulie. Big Paulie already knows they are with him.
God bless and keep you in this hard time lil Paulie, May you find comfort knowing your Dad was well loved and loved well.

Carl Scimeca

October 5, 2008

Paulie was, is ,and will always be my friend So many good memories growing up in Lodi. My heart aches

Robin Fielder

October 5, 2008

May God Bless this family. I had the pleasure of getting to know Paul through a Yahoo chat room. I also got to meet him in person along with many other friends and spent a wonderful weekend with them all in Niagara Falls. I'll never forget that wonderful time. There was so much laughter and friendship. He was loved and will be missed by all that knew him.

Brenda Pytlik

October 5, 2008

Paulie, I am so very sorry to hear about your Dad. Your dad was one of the best! The sweetest guy I had ever met. I am very honored to have met you and your dad and the chance to get to know you both. You're dad will be greatly missed by many people. My prayers are with you hun, I know it won't be easy for you right now, but hang in there and be strong kay?

Tracy Berkhout-Andreotta

October 5, 2008

My sincerest sympathies. Paul was a great person and I have great memories of our high school years together. He was like a brother to me back then.

Yvette Davis

October 5, 2008

Bye Paul, you will be missed and loved. May you Rest In Peace. Sean, Casey and Ryan say good bye. Love Always And Forever, Yvette

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