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Helen Back Obituary

Jeffersonville - Helen M. Back, a retired elementary teacher at Jeff-Youngsville Central School and lifetime area resident, died October 16, 2007 at home. She was 68.

The daughter of Walter G. Scardefield Jr. and Helen M. Krum Scardefield, she was born April 25, 1939 in Callicoon.

She was the widow of Malcolm L. Back Jr.

She was a member of Delta Kappa Gamma Teacher's Sorority.

A family statement reads, "Helen's courage and strength have been a source of hope and support for many people.The family is grateful for the loving care and concern that she received from her caregivers at home, as well as the doctors and nurses of Crystal Run Healthcare."

As well was being an educator Helen, along with her late husband Malcolm L. Back Jr., owned and operated Malcolm L. Back Jr. Sanitation.

She is survived by her daughter, Alyssa Back Bauernfeind and her husband Ted of Hortonville; one brother, Walter G. Scardefield III and his wife Elaine of Jeffersonville; two sisters, Marlene Williams of Syracuse, Shirley Seyler and her husband Bill of Delmar; brother-in-law, Paul Back and his wife, Kathy, of Groton, Mass.; her aunt, Emma Smith of Youngsville; several nieces and nephews; and four great-nieces and two great-nephews.

A memorial service was held Friday, Oct. 19 at 6 p.m. at the funeral home. The Rev. Lee Andrews will officiate. Graveside services will be private.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Jeffersonville Fire Dept., Jeffersonville Volunteer First Aid Squad, The Hortonville Fire Dept., or Hospice of Orange and Sullivan.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald-Record from Oct. 18 to Oct. 20, 2007.

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Cheryl Porter

October 21, 2007

To the family and friends of Sis; I'm sure she was very appreciative of all your love, concern and care for her. It's all the little things in life that mean so much-- so as you go on with your life and wake up to each new day, keep her in your mind and your heart and take a deep breath for her and always stop to smell the flowers--as she would have wanted you to--

Cheryl Porter

October 21, 2007

To the family and friends of Sis; I'm sure she was very appreciative of all your love, concern and care for her. It's all the little things in life that mean so much-- so as you go on with your life and wake up to each new day, keep her in your mind and your heart and take a deep breath for her and always stop to smell the flowers--as she would have wanted you too--

Lynn Terwilliger

October 20, 2007

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Bill & Eva (Porter) Delamater

October 20, 2007

To the family of Helen Back, we offer our deepest sympathy.

Renaye Ronan-Kjenstad

October 18, 2007

To Sis's Family,

It was always so wonderful to come and visit Sis when we were in NY. She always made our family a part of her family, and a special effort to spend time with us. It was so much fun to have Sis & Bud here in North Dakota for a short visit 10 years ago. We had so many laughs and stories to tell.

Sis will be missed by many of the people she touched in her short life. She is now with Bud and watching over all of us and guiding us in our daily living.

Your Dear North Dakota Family
Lois Ronan, Renaye & Gail Kjenstad, Amanda Kuzel and families

Peggy & Carl Hellerer

October 18, 2007

We have so many great memories of Sis, she was a true friend to all who knew her and we are honored to have known her and had her a part of our lives. May she rest in peace.

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