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Harriet Terwilliger Obituary

Wawarsing - Harriet Ivy "Hat" Terwilliger, of Wawarsing, entered into rest on Sunday, Nov. 11, 2007 at Albany Medical Center in Albany. She was 78 years young and vibrant. The daughter of Asa Terwilliger and Ellen McDole Terwilliger, she was born March 9, 1929 in Hillsdale, N.Y. Harriet enjoyed the company of her family, children and friends as shown by her holiday meals, teaching Sunday school and bowling league. Harriet was well-known and respected throughout the community for her genuine interest in other's lives. Harriet worked for the U.S. Postal Office, the Home National Bank and retired as vice president of the Ellenville National Bank. She loved to garden, bake, travel, go on shopping trips with her sister and watch wildlife. She was a loving sister, aunt, cousin, great-aunt, friend and neighbor. Her kindness and compassion is what we will all remember. Harriet was predeceased by her brothers, James Terwilliger and Homer Terwilliger. She is survived by her sister, Amy Jackson of Ellenville; brothers, Arthur Terwilliger of Wawarsing and Phillip Terwilliger of Hancock; sister, Mary Jackson of Ventura, Calif.; many nieces, nephews, cousins, grandnieces and nephews; and her old dear friends and colleagues from the Ellenville National Bank. Visitation on Wednesday, Nov. 14, 2-4 & 7-9 p.m. at Loucks Funeral Home located at 79 North Main St., Ellenville 845-647-4343. Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday, Nov. 15 at the funeral home. The family suggests, in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions be made to the Ellenville Regional Hospital, PO Box 668, Ellenville, NY 12428.

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Nov. 13 to Nov. 15, 2007.

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Allison Carleton

November 15, 2007

Growing up we always heard stories about the Terwilligers from our moms. Harriet was a wonderful person and will be missed by all. I always knew when I couldn't get my mom on the phone she was talking to Harriet. Sometimes it would be for a couple of hours. You will always hold a special place in our hearts.

JoAnne Everett

November 15, 2007

A beautiful light has been extinguished.
I am honored to have known Harriet and will miss her. Whenever I would run into her around town, she would always take the time to talk to me and ask about my family. Her memory of people and events was amazing. Harriet had a good sense of humor too, and you never knew when it would come out. She always had a twinkle in her eye and a smile on her face for everyone. God broke the mold when He made Harriet - there will never be anyone else like her.

Maureen Cronin

November 14, 2007

I don't think I have ever met a sweeter person the Aunt Harriet.I felt the same about her brother Sam.such a loss for her family.
Maureen Cronin

Bobbi Guntlow

November 13, 2007

It was an honor knowing and working with Hat. What a wonderful person. She will be missed!

Julia & Gregory Mednick

November 13, 2007

Dear Amy and family,
Harriet will always be in our hearts and we will miss her dearly. She was a remarkable woman filled with great Joy for life for her friends and family. Harriet walks with our Lord Jesus now through His wonderful Garden!

VIINCENT P. GILLEN

November 13, 2007

I HAD HARRIET IN SCHOOL AS A STUDENT AND SHE WAS A GOOD ONE. I TAUGHT HER TYPING AND SHORTHAND AND RECOMMENDED HER TO BILL ROSE PRESIDENT OF THE HOME NATIONAL BANK AT THE TIME OF HER GRADUATION FROM E.H.S. SHE WAS A DEDICATED WORKER AND SPENT HER IDLE MOMENTS AS FEW AS THERE WERE, DOING GOOD FOR OTHERS. MRS. GILLEN AND I SEND OUR SUMMPATHIES TO HER AND HER EXTENDED FAMILY. MAY SHE REST IN THE PEACE OF THE LORD. SINCERELY
DR. VINCENT P. GILLEN

Kristy Barnes

November 13, 2007

We will all miss you Harriet. You have been there for every part of our lives. You spoke so softly & always greeted everyone with a smile & a kind word.
Thank you for being a part of our lives. I can remember knowing you my whole life, it will be sad not bumping into you at a shower, wedding or the mall with Amy.
Even the young ones can't imagine Halloween without going to Harriets house for her famous toll house cookies & a chat. The simple nice things in life & you were part of them. Heaven just gained an angel.

Linda Pomeroy-Panasuk

November 13, 2007

My heart goes out to your entire family...such a terrible loss.

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