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Deborah Peterson Obituary

Deborah Peterson Passed away peacefully on April 4, at Coming Home Hospice in San Francisco, after a long and courageous battle with breast cancer. Debbie had a huge heart, a huge smile and a huge capacity for letting others know they were loved. Debbie was born June 5, 1957, in Chelmsford, MA. She moved to San Francisco in 1978 to study sociology at San Francisco State University, and made San Francisco her home. After receiving a bachelors degree in sociology, Deb went on to study nursing at San Francisco City College, and women's health at the San Jose State sponsored EPA program, becoming a nurse practitioner. Deb and family moved to Pacifica in 1994. Debbie was passionate about her family and her work. She was a loving wife to Wayne Lunden; and loving mother to Cody Peterson-Lunden, both who survive her. Deb maintained a close and loving relationship with her parents, Paul and Eileen Peterson (Westford, MA), and five siblings: Michael Peterson (Laurie - Newburyport, MA), Susan Peterson (Eugene, OR), Larry Peterson (Salisbury, MA), Tracy Crocker (David - Groton, MA), and jill McDonald (Steven - Westminster, MA), who all survive her. Deb adored her nieces and nephews: Meaghan Riney, Sarah Peterson, Hailey McDonald, Hannah Crocker, Tommy Crocker and Eric Peterson. Deb was also devoted to many cherished friends and colleagues, too numerous to mention, bust especially Nancy Tibbets (SF), Janet Vega (Nevada City), and Jane Pannell (SF). Deb had a lifelong dedication to women's health. After working at St. Mary's and St. Luke's hospitals, and Planned Parenthood, Deb became lead nurse practitioner with the Women's Study at UCSF, providing heath care to women affected by HIV. Researches there recently dedicated an exam room to Debbie to acknowledge her outstanding dedication to the participants and to the scientific goals of the study. Through her clinical expertise and her warm, accepting presence, she touched so many women's lives in a very positive way. Visitation will be on Wednesday, April 9, from 8 am to 9 pm at Chapel by the Sea, 801 Oceana Blvd, Pacifica. A Celebration of Deb's life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Susan B. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation, or WORLD, 414-13th Street, Oakland, CA 94612.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Apr. 8, 2008.

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Debbie (Neves) Talbott

June 23, 2008

To Wayne, Cody, Family, Friends - I've just learned of Debbie's passing and my heart aches for your loss. I'm a Westford friend who remembers a lovely person with an amazing energy about her. Such a playful laugh, cute smile, and kind spirit. You have my deepest, heart-felt sympathy.

Janet Vega

May 4, 2008

I met Debbie in nursing school and we became close friends right away.I guess it was that smile.We maintained our close relationship right till the end. I have never laughed so hard with anyone, ever. I will keep the laughter, the desire for a good time and the strong sense of love for family, deeply close, keeping the essence of Deb alive, within me, my actions and in my laughter. I miss you sweetie poops.

Steven c. (beaver) Rogers

May 1, 2008

Debbie was the near perfect person and friend to everyone she would meet, it was a joy to be her buddy and to spend time with her from the time we met in jr high until she moved in '78 you couldn’t stop smiling when you were with her.
I am proud to call her a friend.

Lisa miller

April 30, 2008

To Deb's family and friends, I am terribly sorry for you great loss. Deb was a wonderful friend to me in high school. We shared many laughs together. I had heard she had many great accomplishments in California. My condolences to everone who was lucky enough to have Debbie touch their lives. She will be truely missed.

Judy Goldstein

April 27, 2008

My sincere condolences to Wayne, Cody and family and friends of Deb. I knew Deb from our Breast Cancer support group at Kaiser. She could always make me laugh out loud, no matter what was going on in my life. She was an amazing, funny, warm and caring person. She will be missed by all.

Joan Anderson

April 24, 2008

My sincere condolences to Debbie's family, on the loss of such a wonderful soul whose life was taken too soon. I knew Debbie for all 12 years of school in Westford and we had our share of fun and laughs during that time. One of my fondest memories is when we went to see Alice Cooper with Linda Mackey and Sue Monty at the Garden - we were freshmen and I believe that it was our first concert. What fun! Debbie's smile, grace and quick wit were always a complement to any occasion. She will be missed!

Mary T. (Joyce) Brown

April 20, 2008

My sincere condolences to Debbie’s’ family and friends.
I grew up in “Nab” with Debbie on Plain Road. We graduated from Westford Academy together. Though I have not seen her in years I often thought of her as I drove pass the “Petersons” house on my visits back to Mass. She had the best smile, one that took over her entire face to the point her eyes smiled as well. May all the wonderful memories help to guide you through this loss. I will pray for strength for all of you near and dear to her heart.
“It’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.”

Mark Dunning

April 19, 2008

Paul, Eileen and the entire Peterson Family.
My deepest condolences on your great loss.
Debbie is in my thoughts and prayers.

Pat Jong-Thomas

April 18, 2008

It is with great shock and sadness that I rec'd word of Debbie's passing through the HS e-mail chain. Deb was always a bright and beautiful example of humanity and doing things 'the right' way. She was uncompromising and dedicated, warm and confident, eager and competitive. Her family was blessed with such a wonderful soul - just not for as long as they would have hoped. My condolences to all who had the pleasure of being a part of her life, and know that she now looks down from her place above, keeping you always in her heart and not far from her sight.

James Roy

April 18, 2008

Debbie was a beautiful and charming young lady when I knew her in elementary school through high school. Knowing her made our lives better. Unfortunately, I never saw her again after high school. To her family, I am very sorry for your terrible loss.

Miriam Dunning

April 18, 2008

I like to think that the beautiful personality of Debbie toward the world she touched as being a tribute to her parents, grandparents, siblings-family. Favorite memories. The plant her grandmother brot back.

John Rigg

April 17, 2008

Paul, Eileen & Family,
We cannot even imagine your heartache at losing such bright and accomplished daughter. Someone once said "It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all." This is so true . . . you must be so proud of everything Debbie accomplished in so short a time! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this very sad time in your lives. Much love from the Rigg Family.

Eden Gardner

April 16, 2008

So many warm and funny thoughts of Debbie (and Nancy T. for that matter). Valley Head, H.S. drama and just shenanigans. Debbie was soulful even in h.s. Condolescenses to Deb's husband and son... her folks and siblings. All of us will remember her smile and "calmness" With sadness, Eden

Mark Hayward

April 16, 2008

As a classmate of Debbie's for all 12 years of school in Westford, I have only very fond memories of Debbie. To all of Debbie's family in the Bay Area and in New England, I send my sincere condolences.
Mark Hayward

Debbie (Shields) Graf

April 16, 2008

Special thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of an extremely kind, warm and well-thought-of classmate (WA, Class of '75).

Sandy LaPrade (Fletcher)

April 16, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the families. I knew Debbie from school (1st through 12th) You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Louise (Bergamini) Furia

April 16, 2008

My deepest sympathies to Debbie's family. I have great memories of her during our North Middle School years. May your own happy & loving memories of her somehow help lift the burden of your sorrow.

Lynn Roderick

April 15, 2008

My deepest condolences to Debbie's family and friends. My prayers and thoughts are are with you. Such a kind and giving person, she will be sadly missed.

Gordon Jones

April 15, 2008

To Wayne and Cody. Though you don't know me, my heart aches for your loss. You wife and mom, always had a smile on her face and could always bring one to those around her. She was a great friend to everyone from Westford, MA and will always remain in our hearts.

Kathy Harte

April 15, 2008

Condolences to Debbie's family. I knew her in Westford, going back to first grade. "Kind" is an understatement - she always went out of her way to be uplifting. I am very sorry about her passing.

Anne Sheeran

April 15, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to all the Peterson Family. I remember Debbie as an infant. She survived my helping her mother!! What a bright light she was to so many. Anne Marie and Jim Sheeran

Helena Crocker

April 14, 2008

To Wayne and Cody...our prayers have been for you all every day and at Mass. All the Crockers in Westford send their love to you both and in Debbie's memory. Felt as if we all knew you well via Tracy.
sincerely,,,,Mickey Crocker and family Westford, Mass.

Priscilla Abercrombie

April 11, 2008

My thoughts and prayers to Debbie's family. I am so honored to have worked with Debbie and known her loving way of being with patients, her gift of humor and her wonderful intellect.

Donna Lum

April 11, 2008

My deepest condolences to Cody and Debbie's husband Wayne. I no longer reside in Pacifica but often think about the people there who touched my life. Debbie was definitely one of those people. She always had a huge smile, always kind to my daughter Stephanie, and she was a genuinely sincere person. My thoughts and prayers to her family.

nancy TIBBETTS

April 10, 2008

i cannot express the loss i feel, we have known one another forever. you were a loyal and loving sister/friend and i will miss you all of my days. i am blessed to have had such a dear friend for so long. xo nt

Elizabeth

April 9, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Deb was an amazing woman (the kind that made you proud to be a woman); always able to bring a smile to your face, with quick wit and the intellect to match. She is a beautiful soul.........

Seanda Conley

April 9, 2008

Debbie, you know that you will always be in my heart. you were not only my provider you were my friend. I will always remember the joke's we shared, the stories about are kids and the tears you have let me shead on your shoulder.You will missed but never forgotton

Angela Padilla

April 9, 2008

Dear Debbie - You mentored me in my early days as a breast cancer warrior. Thank you for everything. You are missed already - but we will keep your memory alive through our activism. My deepest condolences to your family. With much love, Angela Padilla

Carol

April 9, 2008

Debbie will be missed by everyone who knew her. I will miss her warm personality and great sense of humor. I am so sorry for your loss.

Veronica marrero

April 9, 2008

Debbie, I love and miss you dearly, you were always the sweetist and only medical appointment I didn't mind attending. My prayers go out to the family. Thanks you for the being a part of my life at the women study for 12 years.

Doug Brooker

April 8, 2008

A voice from the past would like to offer condolences to Debbie's family back east, to Debbie's many friends and to her husband and son. I knew Debbie briefly back in Westford, we went to the same schools (North Middle School and the old Westford Acadamy) until our family moved to the bay area late in 1973. You could tell even back then she was destined to do good things in life. She always had a great smile, a twinkle in her eye and always offered a kind word. Even though her time here on earth was way too short, she accomplished a lot and obviously touched a lot of lives. Sincere condolences to the family and to all those who were close to Debbie. Doug Brooker

The Milton Family

April 8, 2008

Our condolences to Wayne and Cody. Debbie was a good neighbor, who was very interested in the world and the people around her. God bless you both as you go forth without your loving wife and mother.

Dana Cayce

April 8, 2008

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"- Mary Oliver

With deepest sympathy to the beloved, Dana

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