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Hugh Ridlehuber Obituary

Hugh Wilson Ridlehuber, M.D. Born in Greenwood SC, died Oct. 8, 2008 at Stanford, CA, at age 74. Educated at Duke University, the Medical College of SC, and University of North Carolina Medical School. He came to San Mateo Co. in 1968 to be director of psychiatric services at Children's Health Council and then maintained a private practice for adults and children for over 40 years in San Mateo Co. Dr. Ridlehuber also served on the clinical faculty of Stanford University and was director of the Children's Unit and Adult Intensive Care Unit at CPC Belmont Hills Hospital. During the later years of his practice, he specialized in attention deficit disorder and related conditions, spoke widely, and co-authored the publication of a joint research study in this field. Dr. Ridlehuber is survived by Pam Ridlehuber, his wife of 34 years; children Amy Kingsley, David and Hal Ridlehuber; and two grandchildren, Tawny and Russell. A Celebration of his life will be held at 1:00 PM, Saturday, October 18th at the Congregational Church of San Mateo, 225 Tilton Avenue. Donations may be made to: the Dr. Hugh W. Ridlehuber Memorial Scholarship c/o Notre Dame High School, 1540 Ralston Ave., Belmont, CA 94002.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Oct. 12, 2008.

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David Knox

November 5, 2008

Pam and the Children

I am so sorry to hear about Hugh passing on. He was truly a beautiful, wise and loving man. A rare breed on this earth and I cannot begin to tell you the ways that his wisdom and guidance have changed my life and the way I see the world. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about him. My thoughts are with you and know he wil be in my heart and mind forever. He will be missed and I am very sorry for your loss.

Jennifer Babcock

October 31, 2008

Dear Mrs. Ridlehuber, Hal, David, and Amy: I was so sad to hear of Dr. Ridlehuber's passing. I know this must be a very difficult time. Dr. Ridlehuber was a great man and was widely admired. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do. Take care.

Brian Des Rochers

October 17, 2008

Pam, David, & Amy:

Growing up on the street with your family has meant a lot to my family, and we are all sad to hear this news. We all appreciated Hugh's sense of humor and love for life, and we'll miss him dearly.

The Des Rochers'

Laurie Livingston

October 16, 2008

We learned of Dr. Ridlehuber's passing in yesterday's newspaper. We were very surprised, and very sad. I can say with full conviction that Dr. Ridlehuber was the one and only doctor who treated my sons that NEVER gave up, and was always willing to go many extra miles to find a treatment we had not yet tried. To Dr. Ridlehuber's credit, he did eventually find a solution for my oldest son, who suffered from traumatic brain injuries, among other problems. Dr. Ridlehuber also had a very gentle, but persuasive way of talking with my sons. My youngest son usually had some difficulty expressing himself orally. However, Mitchell was amazingly articulate when speaking with Dr. Ridlehuber.
We have only wonderful memories and consider ourselves fortunate to have been patients of Dr. Ridlhuber.
With our deepest sympathy to Pam and the rest of Dr. Ridlehuber's family,

Jessy & Dr. Ridlehuber Christening August 2008

Carol Prater

October 15, 2008

Dear Dr. Ridlehuber

You always told us that you where just a phone call away and God was only a prayer away. Thank you for always being there.

Jessy and Elijah, Crol and Doy

Elijah & Dr. Ridlehuber Christening

Carol Prater

October 15, 2008

Dear Pam and family,
We are all still in shock at the loss of Dr. Ridlehuber. Even though he was "retired" he was still around for us to offer his amazing words of wisdom and expert guidance. If he taught us anything over the many years we counseled with him it was to sincerely believe even at our lowest moments that whatever God asked us to lift, He would give us the grace and support to carry. Dr. Ridlehuber never left us alone during those walks through our valleys and despite the severity of any situation he could always make us smile and hope again. Attached is a picture of Elijah. Dr. Ridlehuber attended his christening last August. We have no doubt Elijah will also bless many people in the years ahead because at times he acts so much like the "good doctor" when working through a problem or just experiencing life. He, like Dr. Ridlehuber, also "dives in" an gives every project 110% of his focus, energy and lots of love. We have no doubt Elijah would not be here today, blessing many people, if it were not for Dr. Ridlehuber. His legacy and gifts will live on through his many friends, family and patients. God Bless You and Keep you close in the days ahead.
Doy, Carol, Elijah, Jessy, Hannah Prater

Lani Leydig

October 12, 2008

Dear Pam, Amy & Jon, David & Shana, Hal & Marcie, Rusty and Tawny,

We are so thankful to have known Hugh. He brought so much humor, love, curiosity, joy,and handymanship into our lives. His jokes are legendary and will continue to be told whenever we gather at his favorite places-Shasta, Yuba, Chapin Lane, Napa, Tahoe-Donner...Love to you all, Lani and Don

Sheila santero

October 12, 2008

Our heartfelt condolences to the Ridlehuber family. Dr. Ridlehuber was a great neighbor, always warm and friendly. We are so sorry to hear of this tragic loss not only to his family but to the whole community.

Karin Williams

October 11, 2008

Dear Pam, Amy, and David,
With much love and admiration, I will always remember your father...laughing and dancing at our Christmas celebrations, hiding Easter eggs, and loving you all very much. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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