David Melnick Obituary

David Seth Melnick Born November 23, 1956, died May 23, 2009 unexpectedly and peacefully in his sleep while traveling in China with his wife, Terri. David was born in San Francisco CA. and raised in Marin. He earned an associate degree at College of Marin and served as student body president. David received a B.A. in Business Administration from the University of Phoenix, SF. and was involved in the Master's Program at Golden Gate University. David specialized in the information technology field for over 30 years. Married in June 1981, moved to Lafayette CA in 1995. A dedicated family man, David was a past coach for Twin Cities Soccer League and Lafayette LL. He also served as a volunteer for the Orinda Academy. David enjoyed sailing, traveling, and cycling. He was a HAM radio operator and was affiliated with the Mt Diablo Amateur RC. David was a man of integrity and honesty and a very giving person. He always found time to help others. He loved to read and had a voracious appetite for learning. He will remain forever in the hearts of his wife, Terri; son, Monte; parents, Jack and Marjorie; mother-in-law, Elaine Renas; sister and brother-in-law, Rachel and Bryon Botsford; and nephews, Alec and Cole. A Celebration of David's Life will be held on Saturday, June 20th at 2:30pm in The Lake Room at Heather Farms on 301 N. San Carlos Dr., in Walnut Creek, CA.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jun. 14, 2009.
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Dear Jack and Marjorie,
I was saddened to hear about the passing of your son David late today.I had never met your son but if he was anything like his dad, I know he was just a nice person and a man of integrity. So our hearts go out to you and your family from our family at El Cerrito Lighting.

Victor Canepa

July 14, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear about David's passing. Cousin Steve Orlen Tucson

July 4, 2009

Mr. and Mrs. Melnick - I can't express how sad I am for the loss of David. He always made me laugh. He, Michael and Zip were always up to something! I will always have fond memories of him. My husband and I send our deepest regrets and sympathies to your family during this time.

Lynne Berry

June 21, 2009

Dear Jack & Midge:

We are shocked and saddened to hear about David.

Please accept our deepest sympathy,

The Hamlins

June 18, 2009

Dear Jack and Marjorie,
I heard the sad news today, I couldn't believe it. I am so sorry.
Our deepest sympathy.

Eddie & Suzie Vehouni

Eddie vehouni

June 17, 2009

Terry & Monty -

How sorry I was to read in the paper of David's sudden death. My heart goes out to you, Monty and your families during this time of tremendous loss. Kevin and I still remember the wonderful day on the Bay with the three of you so long ago. Please know that I care deeply and am keeping you in my thoughts over the months ahead.

Joan Engelbart

June 16, 2009

Dear Terry and Monty,
We send our love to you, sympathy, and empathy at the sudden loss of your dear husband and father.

Victoria & Ramsey Ghulam

June 15, 2009

My condolences and deepest regrets to the Melnick family. I attended Terra Linda High School with David and knew him from various Jewish organizations in Marin. -- Barry Taranto

Barry Taranto

June 15, 2009

The Thompson-Sclar family of Lafayette sends their deepest sympathies on Dave's passing.

June 14, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

June 14, 2009

The Berry famly, formerly of San Rafael and now in Phoenix sends their deepest regrets and condolences to the Melnick famly regarding the recent passing of their son David Melnick. In addition, Mike Berry, Judy Berry and Lynne berry, who attended school with David Melnick, also send their condolences to the family.

June 14, 2009

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