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Kaitlyn Harper Obituary

Kaitlyn Harper of Brooksville was struck by a truck and killed this morning while walking to a bus stop. Her family and friends held a vigil in her honor.

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Published by Tampa Bay Times from Sep. 9 to Sep. 14, 2008.

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for Kaitlyn Harper

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Christine

October 4, 2023

Beautiful, sweet girl <3
It´s been over 15 years since you left this Earth. I still think about you every single day. The older I get the more heartbreaking it is to think about how young you were when you were ripped away from us. My heart is still heavy when I hear your name. You should have kept growing up with me. We should´ve had many more years together meeting at the fence line, talking, singing, laughing and playing. I still hold and treasure the little gifts you gave me as a kid. I miss you SO much and love you SO much.
I hope you can feel all of the love I´m sending you. You are in my heart forever!

Caitlyn Sipple

July 5, 2021

Kaitlyn Harper. It's taken me 13 years to grieve your death. I didnt know you for very long. I met you in 5th grade. With only a few weeks left of school year, my family moved and I transferred schools. I was so nervous but my first day there, I sat next to you. We bonded over our names being the same, and asked each other at the same time to sit together at lunch. You had such confident and beautiful energy. We started the same middle school and the friendship continued. At the time you passed, we weren't going to the same school anymore. It had been a few months at least since I'd talked to you. But that didn't change your importance to me, and my love for you...I found out about the accident while at school from a newspaper article....i was devastated..
You were much too young, your beautiful soul still had so much to do. Youre presence was an amazing one. Rest in peace, girl

Dustin King

July 16, 2018

Fly high Babygurl wish u were here miss u sooooooooooo much

Dustin King

July 16, 2018

I miss u So much Kaitlyn I Kant Bleav it'll b 10 yrz In September I wish u were still here Babygurl Thx 4 wtchn ovr me in heaven

Jonathan Maurer

December 19, 2017

Its been 9 years since you were taken from us. You were taken too early and way too soon. I miss having my baby sister around and here to knock me on the back of the head when I do something stupid. Your smile could brighten any room you walked into. You could always make me smile no matter how upset I was. I miss having you here. You meant the world to me. I know you were there with mom and Aunt Chrissy the night I wrecked my motorcycle. As I laid there in the middle of the road while the EMTs put me in a neck brace and loaded me onto the stretcher I saw all three of you watching over me. I am glad to know I have the three of you watching over me. I love and miss all of you. I have your favorite saying tattooed on me so I never forget you or your wild spirit. SING LOUD DANCE CRAZY BABY SISTER. I will always love you. I wish you were here to meet your niece Serenity Mae. I know you and mom will keep a close eye on her. I love and miss you so much.

Sierra Carpenter

December 1, 2014

I miss you BDFQ.. I think about you everyday and wish you were so I can someone to talk to. You were the only person I could really be myself around. I miss the fun and exciting times we always had. I hope heaven is treating you well, much better than it did down here. I hope you are falling down any stairs,lol. I know you are probably watching over me, well I hope you are, and showing the way to go and keeping me on the right track, for the most part. I love you Katie and cant wait to see you again.

Leanne Indovino

March 24, 2013

I love you kaity!!!! Always will, forever!!!!

Leanne Indovino

March 15, 2013

Hey Katie!
So I'm on my way for spring break and I was just thinking about you. It's been forever since we have talked ya know! I miss you and all of our crazy times together! The sun is shinning down through the clouds and I know it's your smile showing :) I miss you! Can't wait to see you soon! I love you Katie :)

December 12, 2012

<3

Tiffani

December 12, 2012

I get so mad and upset with myself. If I didn't go to the counselor that day I wouldn't have seen the note that said you were gone. I tried not to cry as I left when I went to class, the class we say next to each other in. I walked in and couldn't even sit in my seat knowing you weren't going to be next to me. We always walked to gym together after that class and I walked alone. I remember Austin coming up to me and saying "you know what happened don't you" I looked up with tears in my eyes and just walked away. I sat on the bleachers with my hood over my head crying so hard. Our group came up to me asking what was wrong and where you were. I just told them you were dead. They instantly starting crying and soon the whole school knew. I shouldn't have told anyone and I'm sorry Kaitlyn ): I just want you back so badly. It's not fair that you're not here!

dawny macleod creasy

October 20, 2012

shy`s got your back now! angel forever in peace. watch over all that has touched your heart! thankyou

Jessica McCumber

November 10, 2011

I miss you Kaitie ... I think about you each and everyday. I miss your mom too and I have you on my desk at work. LOVE YOU !!!!

Laura

September 9, 2011

Wow, i cant believe its 3 years today that we lost you, but the pain still feels the same. Well i miss you oats. and some times i still talk to you, i hope you here me when i do. Recently i've stopped believing in heaven and hell and god and the devil, but then i think back to you and i remember there is no way that any 'god' would just let you rest forever. you arent the type to rest. (: and then it brings me to the realisation that i have no idea where the people i lost are, or where they woll be when people lose me. but i hope and pray that if heaven really does exist, that i'll see you up there, and my grandmother too. You where/and are the bestfriend i've ever had, and dont think that just because i write on here today, that i wont write on your birthday. 2.17.95. of course i remember, what are best friends for if not to keep secrets and remember everything important about one another. well, i love youuuuu.

P.S. the picture is a tattoo im getting behind my ear for you and my abuela. <3

Laura

August 13, 2011

Hey kaitlyn, i miss you SOO much. well i just thought i'd let you know how i've been and what i've been up too. Lets see? Well you remember how we talked about going horse back riding, i finally got to it, it was for my 15th birthday and i went for a week. and then i moved to fort myers, trust me its not a fun place. lol well i just turned 16 and i wish you would have been here to celebrate it with me. but writing her is making me cry so i'll write agian to update. you know i love you, and miss you, bye.

January 21, 2011

i miss you katie! </3

tayla davison

January 19, 2011

hey this is tayla kaitlyn cusin i was shcoked when i heard kaitlyn passed away i love you guys and will keep u guys in my memories and prayer.
love tayla

Jessica McCumber

December 24, 2010

Katie ,

I miss you so much i think about you everyday... I carry a picture of you everywhere i go... I love you sooo much and wish that you were here still maybe things would be ALOT different.. I love you so much you are still my favorite cousin and ALWAYS will be ... I will aways have you in my life always and forever in my heart !!!
I will see you some day :P ..Tell your mom and Aunt Chrissy i love them and miss them so much !!! you guys meant so much to me.. Merry Christmas !I will SING LOUD N DANCE CRAZY for you ! xOxO ,
Jessica !! I love you with everything i have !!!

Cici

December 15, 2010

Katy,
Hey katy!I know your watching over me and your family and at night i feel safe knowing that your there.I miss you everyday and night and when i look up at the sky i smile and i say a prayer.I know you are gone now but i know in my heart that your still there silently watching us and keeping us safe.Thank you for being my friend Katy.I love you always!!Seeya later!

Brittany Stafford

December 15, 2010

Kaity,
Hey girly just wanted to write you and tell you i miss you and i love you and always thinking about you. I talk to you almost everyday still and i need you to help me. I am going through a lot I just found out there is something wrong with my blood and im scared and dont know what to do. I am stressed out and dont know which way to turn or where to go. I have always came to you for advise cause you always were the best at giving the right advise to me. And now im here to ask you for some more advise. I need to know that everything is going to be ok and that I am still going to have you and my daughter to look over me. Kaity you always knew what to say to make me feel safe and at peace. I just hope that you and chelsea and god keep me strong and give me the strength I need to make it through this life here on earth. Well I love you kaity and I miss you like crazy. Give my little girl lovings for her mommie and tell her I love her and miss her more everyday she is away from me. Just let me know what I need to do. I give you and my little angel all my love. Keep her safe till I get there.
Always with the your best friend
Brittany Marie Stafford

danielle walker

November 26, 2010

hey kaity ,
hey its danny i just wanted to tell you that i need ur help help me get through this its hard out on my own with no job and kevin without work. Its tearing us apart i really love him kaity ur my angel i pray to you everyday and i wish you were here you always knew just what to say at times like this i love you kaity just talk to god and halp me get through this!!

Brittany Hill

October 20, 2010

kaity,
Hey kaity just thought i would write you some. Just to tell you i miss you and i love you and i am always thinking of you. Wish you were still here with us to day but i know you are now in a better place. I talk to you a lot when i need to get things out. I know you are with my daughter and your looking over me with her. She is her mommys lil angel. I am so happy she has someone like you kaity to look up to till i get home with you guys. I sit here everyday and wonder how it would be for me you mikey and josh and my sisters to be together again just to be able to play and have fun. well I love you kaity and i miss you bunches. Ill be home soon. give my lil girl lovings for me and tell her mommy will be with her soon enough. Ill talk to you soon kaity. I give you all my love my dearest best friend.
Your bestie
Brittany Marie

Leanne Indovino

October 5, 2010

Kaity,
So I'm sitting here in school and your on my mind. I miss you sooo much, but I know your in a better place now and I can't wait to be there with you. I miss all the times we had together! I looked through my memory box the other day and saw all the letters you wrote to me and all the pictures you drew me and I couldn't help but smile! I still have the shirt you made me and the belt with the horse on it that you gave me!I'll never get rid of them. Everyone misses you tons!! Your my angel and always will be (: I talk to you every night, but it's so hard cause I know you can't answer. I wanna call my Poppy and ask to talk to you, but I know your not there.. I wish I had another chance to say goodbye. Remember that I love and miss you and I'm always thinking about you!! Kaity, you were more than a cousin to me, I felt like I had another sister. Me, you, mikie, and josh always fought playing hide and go seek outside after dinner..I miss it. Watching Oliver and Company every night before we ment to bed...those were the days. Now that your in Heaven be sure to be looking down on me and know that I'm looking up at you with the biggest smile on my face that will never fade away! I wish that I could say this to your face and not have to write it all down, but I know you are watching over me right now reading it. Please remember we all love you and can't wait to be with you again (: Kaity everyday I see a rainbow I feel like your sending me a present and I love that feeling(: On the count of 3 I'll look up and you look down and we can send a smile to eachother, 1....2....3 I LOVE YOU BUNCHES KAITY! <3333 XOXO

danielle

September 28, 2010

Dear kaity ,
i miss you soo much and i wish you were here ive had some hard times but i know you were there with me you were the footprints in the stand walking beside me. i love you and i wish you were here with me to share the good and the bad with me but you will never be forgoten and i hope that one day we will be toether soo we can sing and dance all over again i lobe you and miss you kaitly.
love
danielle

tayla davison

September 28, 2010

hey guys it's kaitlyn cosin tayla daughter of tasha thomas i was shocked when I heard about her death I miss her

Laura Ruiz

December 14, 2009

Dear Kaitlyn,
I Miss You So Soo Much. You Where My Best Friend, I Told You Secrets I Was Afraid To Tell Other People, And You Told Me Yours Too. I Haven't Found Some One As Nice Or Good Or Caring Or Funny As You. But The Truth Is I Haven't Been Looking. I Forgot The Dance You Showed Me, And Every Time I Try To Redo It I Get It Wrong. :'[ I Wish I Could Remember, Everything We Talked About. I Remember Most Of It, The Dance To I'm So Hood, Lol. The Bee, That One Was The Day Before You, Well You Know, Left Me. That Day, When It Happened, I Heard Rumors About It, Whats Funny Is That I Actually Believed Them. These Crazy Kids Coming Up To Me And Telling Me Over And Over Again, It Felt Like A Knife. And I Cry All The Time Now.My Grandma Passed Exactly 3 Weeks After. And I Miss Her Too. I Miss You Both, And Even Though I May Never See You Again I'll Always Keep The Secrets That You Told Me Because I Know That You're Still Keeping Mine. I Miss You Sooo Much Katie. :'[ I'll Never Forget You If You Never Forget Me. I Swear To It. I Love You Bestie.Forever And Always

November 15, 2009

and Kaity I love you there as well as here!! I will prove it to you with the Project!

November 15, 2009

Again, I don't know if u can see this, Kaity, but I want you to know the Kaity Project is slowly growing and hungry people are being fed in your honor. The world will NOT forget you were here!!

Angel Brandon

September 19, 2009

hey katie, we miss you, sorry i couldn't get to your funeral, ill regret it until the moment i die
love angel.

Jessica McCumber

September 13, 2009

Kaity ,

I miss you so much me and you always dancing and trying to write a song together , those were the days , member when Aunt Debbe was babysitting you. Yea we have a lot of memories together that i will never forget. I love you Kaity and there is never gonna be someone ever quite like you. You were like a sparkling star that shinned all the time. a very bright girl that always knew what was best and showed me how to doa things as well.Kaitlyn I can't belive that it has been a year now since ya kno... I love you and miss you , soon we will all be back together as one family again..
Kaity.. if your reading these letters that all of us write ...
just keep singing and dancing loud!!
love ya and miss ya
your cousin
Jessica ..

Ashley White

September 10, 2009

Kaity, I didn't personally know you. But i do know that you were a great girl, the kids at school talked soo highly about you. And even though it's already been a year, people haven't forgoten you. We never will. My friends and i had made shirts for you the other day to wear to school. There was alot of people crying, and remembering times with you. we all love and miss you soo much. <3

September 10, 2009

Just wanted to let you know Kaity we were thinking of you yesterday..We think of you often and we know you are looking out for all of us...We miss you...

The Betts Family

September 10, 2009

Kaity,
it has been a year already and not one day goes by that I don't stop and think about you or the things that you did..... I miss your smiles and you walking into walls, I miss it all. We did a candle light vigelance for you last night and we let off balloons with messages on them so I hope you got to read them all. Joshua and Mikie send thier love and they miss you so much. They don't have anyone to kick their butts in games any more.... hugs and kisses to my lil punkin, I love you and miss you soooo much.
Love mommy

Kim Indovino

September 9, 2009

Kaitlyn!!!
I cant believe its a year already!! Not a day goes by that I dont think of you and that I dont MISS you!! I see your smile every day when I open my phone and yeah as you know I say hi to!! LOL!! I Love you Katie Hugs and Kisses!!!

Nicole

September 9, 2009

Kaity,
you were so crazy and i loved being around you. you made each day happy and made me happy too. Me and you, one day, eating pickels up in Heaven together <3 love and miss you girl.

allen harper

August 26, 2009

I don't know if God lets you see this but there is a project underway in your name Called the Kaity-Sue project. I will make sure none forget you were here

July 17, 2009

to my lil punkin,
just thought I would sit and write you a few lines to say hello and that I love you and miss you dearly. Things just aren't the same without you here. They say time heals all wounds, but hiney it is going to take a long time for this one. Just keep singing and dancing because I can hear you through the wind........ I love you punkin

yvonne

July 15, 2009

Kaity,
we miss you everyday. Not a day has gone by that my girls don't look out the window and tell me how much they miss seeing you. Our lives go on, but i keep thinking how it's not fair. why do the good people have to leave us?
Keep dancing Kaity.

July 4, 2009

Kaity,
Mommy missed you so much. I sit here and look at your pictures and it makes me miss you more. I just wish that I could reach out and touch you. I miss your BIG hugs and you singing to me. But you are singing your songs in heaven. I hear your voice in the wind as it blows through and then I know that you are near. I love you and miss you, mommy's lil punkin.........

ALEXIS RUIZ

June 14, 2009

katie i miss you n everyone is right you are in a better place now!ily katie SING LOUD AND DANCE CRAZY FOR KATIE ILYSMKH

jasmine wilcomb

June 13, 2009

i love you. im sorry for her death. we all loved her very much. But she in a better place now. we all wish u were here with us right now> I LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The Betts Family

May 22, 2009

Just stopped by to say hello...We think and speak of you often..Still wish you were here...

May 20, 2009

good evening my lil punkin, I love you so much and I miss you dearly! I miss everything that we did , even as stupid as it sounds when you would sit there and just play with my hair, making things, Kaity's style of course... I miss it all and I wish that could bring you back and do it all, then my heart wouldn't be so heavy. Joshua misses you so bad, I have gotten him to go out and talk to the stars so hopefully you can hear him, it helps him. I love you and I miss you love mommy

May 9, 2009

hello my dear, I was just thinking of you and thought I would drop you line. I miss you dearly and so does your brothers, I still walk Josh out at night so that he can say good night to you by talking to the stars. I hope you hear him. I am doing a few things around here for you. I have 2 dolls that I am doing and 1 am raffling off in memory of you to help the kids out at school, so all the money raised from that will go to the kids. I miss you so much, I can't say it enough. I heart aches for you all the time and it doesn't get any easier either. I love you forever my punkin....xoxoxo

May 2, 2009

to my little punking, I miss you so much, I think of you every minute of the day and I find myself wondering what we would be doing if you were here now. You tought me so much in the short time you had here on earth, the biggest thing is that everyday is a new day, it doesn't matter what happened yesterday but live for today and the smiles that you always had I can't forget. I miss you baby so so so much........... love mommy

love the wild hair do

May 2, 2009

dimitrius titone

April 21, 2009

even though i never really got to know you, you are missed by me.

tiffani jensen

April 21, 2009

Kaitlyn you were an amazing girl and will never be forgotten no matter what.i miss you so much and wish that you were here still. but where you are its better for you and i cant wait till im u there with you so we can hang out and go back to the dyas when you were here with me and all the people who miss and care about you. ill miss you girl and wish you were here.

private private

April 20, 2009

you will always be missed and we all love you dearly

April 14, 2009

To my little Kaitysue, mommys little punkin, I miss you more and more everyday! I wake up in the morning thinking of you and my last thought at night is of you. I stare at your pictures hoping that you will just jump out in your crazy little way and say phsyc. but I know that it's not possible. I miss all the little things that we did together (just the girls). I have a doll made for you and I changed the name to Kaity Sue, it's the one with you sticking your tongue out and I thought it fit you. I just have to finish it. It is so hard with out you here, my heart aches so much for you. I love you and I miss you... good night my little angel....love mommy

Brittany Smith

April 8, 2009

You will always be missed Katie I only knew you for about a month but I can still hear your voice and remember how beautiful you were, i will never forget you, you will always be in my heart and I hope to see you when I go to heaven, no matter how long its been since that tragic day the tears will and always come...

Jacob Lane

April 8, 2009

I never got to know you but we all miss you.

Devin Jaco

April 7, 2009

You are greatly missed Kaitlyn. I'm on the WHMS yearbook group, and I personally made your dedication page myself. I'm sad I never got to meet you, but from what I've heard, you were such a fun, and loving person. You brought so much joy, and happiness, into so many people's life's when you were here. You will forever, and always be greatly missed.

Patricia Coyle

March 29, 2009

Dear Kaitlyn,
I miss you so much and I miss all the what if's.On your birthday you were in our hearts and prayers. Patrick has so happy to see you again. He was so blown away you were back and how wonderful it was to see you that friday at school. I am so sorry we didn't call you over the weekend. But I am truly greatful for our reunion. Miss you always.

Brooke Hinton

February 23, 2009

Kaitlyn,
Even though I never knew you, I heard so much about you. Just today I was at the art show and they gave an award for you. Alot of people were in tears.I wish I could of met you.

Allen Harper

February 9, 2009

I don't know if you can read this where you are, Kaity, but I hope you liked the flowers I left for you today. They weren't from my store but I promise you next time they will be. They were pretty though.

Juliet (None please)

February 7, 2009

Even though my brother may have known you better then I, I miss you terribly because it's not fair to have your life taken away at such a young age. Those of us at WHMS will always remember you.

Brandon R.

January 13, 2009

Yeah Even Tho I Jus Met You This Year You Were Soo Nice And Sweet We Will Miss You<3 You'll Always Be In Our Hearts<3

allen harper

January 12, 2009

Hi, Kaity, Daddy here. If you can grasp this where you are please know this. I love you and always will. You were my little girl no matter the powers that be. I think about you everyday with the heaviest of heart. My last memory of you was you and I at the Dairy Queen just a couple weeks before that fateful day. You made me laugh over and over again over the dummest of things. I'll always remember whisking you away whenever I was allowed to steal you to me. Going to the theatre. The beach. Even the way you said "that's lame, dad" and held your hand up whenever I talked about my cycling. I love you, my little girl. I'll never forget you.

danielle walker

January 9, 2009

this is to kaitys mom and family
she'll stay with you
as long as the wind blows
she'll alwaysbe in your heart
she didn't leave you all alone
she has eternal life
her spirit is always within you
and if the sun shines in the sky and rain should fill the air and a rainbow lights up your day know that she is there kaity I hope that you kno i miss you terribly and i still love you mom and kids i hope your doing a little better kaity happy new year and merry christmas i love you Kaitlyn

MOM

December 25, 2008

TO MOMMYS LITTLE PUNKIN
I JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU AND AUNT CHRISSY A MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR. I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND IT IS KILLING ME THAT YOUR NOT HERE. YOU BROTHER MISSES YOU DEARLY AND I JUSTED WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH AND THAT YOUR FRIENDS MISS YOU ALSO, AND YOU ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT YOU DIDN'T HAVE MANY FRIENDS.... MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW.... I LOVE YOU ANGEL GIRL..........

danielle One of kaitlyns best friends

December 19, 2008

Dear kaity
i miss you in so many ways i hate having to wake up and get on the bus and not see you i miss you more than words can say i hope you keep me in you thoughts you will forever be in mine i love you kaity may you always know that i love all you guys mom johnathan and kaitys brothers talk to you soon .

Leanne Indovino

December 4, 2008

Kaite,
I MISS YOU SOOO MUCH! When my mom told me the news i broke out in tears! I couldn't believe it! Everyday i think about how much i miss you, but i know your in heaven looking over me right now! I wish i could have been there to say goodbye and tell you that you are the best cousin ever and i am going to miss you bunches. We had so much funn when i came to visit.. folling around with mike and josh! I am going to miss those times. You were going to grow up to be such a pretty girl, but now I have my own angel thats there for me, one that I love! Your drawings were AMAZING...they may have been some of the best drawings I have seen. Katie, you were more than a cousin to me...it felt like I had another sister. Please remember to keep all those good times in your heart. Josh, Mike, Evie, Poppy... I know you all miss her alot but she is looking over all of you everyday! Katie, everytime i was with you, you put a smile on my face...but now when i think of you I can't help but cry. I miss you and love you with all my heart and I can't wait for the day me and you are together again! LOVE YA! xoxoxox

taylor ruby

November 1, 2008

katies parent
i will miss katie with all my heart an when we all go to heaven we will all have no more pain with out her
so i will send mi wishes to ur son josh who is in my 4th period

Maryah B.

October 29, 2008

Katie,
Even thou i met yu this year,yu were soo nice, i remember the first day of school and yu just came up to me and said hi im katie i loved yur way of happiness. I loved yur big vocabularyss i miss yu soo much its hard to believe that yur actually not here.

mom

October 13, 2008

Kaity,
you are an amazing young lady who taught me to love from with in and to hold no grudges, every day is a new day and you always had a smile on your face no matter what. You were the best of the best, your love and friendship and values are still here today... you have left alot of people behind however not one of could ever forget the mark you made on thier lives, I know I was truely blessed to be your mother and friend........I love you my sassy lil punkin forever and always........

Lacey grieves

October 5, 2008

WE LOVE YOU. We know how you are handling your child's death. We still love her and we always will. My family and I hope you are going to be ok for now. I love her forever and for always.

Jasmine Wilcomb

October 4, 2008

I LOVE YOU KAITLYN. I WISH YOU WERE HERE.Kaitlyn was a wonderful person. She is and was a helpful girl. I miss you forever & for always. I hope you are safe & care for. WE LOVE & MISS YOU.

Gabby <<3:(

September 29, 2008

kaitlyn i miss you
i am so sorry for the loss of an incredibly A M A Z I N G girl... she was fun, outgoing, and smart! i miss her and loved her so much!!

mom

September 24, 2008

Kaity,
mommy just wants you to know that I miss you ever so much. I keep waiting for you to come home from school but your not there. I want to reach out and give you a hug and a kiss but your not there. But I know that you are here, in my heart. I watch you through the stars and I talk to you but it's not the same. I love you so much. You will never be forgotten, my lil punkin

Autumn washington

September 24, 2008

I new u for a short time but i still miss u.

Allisa Babor

September 17, 2008

kaitlyn, when i heard the news of what had happened, i just started crying. all i could remember was how sweet you were, how young and beautiful. i remember we'd always hang out in elementary, and even though i hadn't seen you since then, it was probally one of the hardest days i've ever had. my mom went to your veiwing, i wanted to go but i couldn't, i just don't think i would of been able to see such a thing happening to a friend of mine who i love and miss so much. my mom told me how beautiful you looked. i can picture you, kaitlyn. being that beauiful girl you are and always have been. i've cried so many times latley, it just hurts because you were so young, such an amazing person. everyday i pass by the scene on my bus, i feel like crying but then i remember your up there in heaven, watching down, smiling. you didn't deserve this, but the loss of you has taught me so much. but i promise, just for you, that now i'm going to live a little more, and see old friends and everything. this experience has brought so many people together, you wouldn't even believe it. sometimes i feel bad for myself, knowing that a person like you is really gone. but then i start to feel bad for everyone else who hadn't had the chance to meet you. always remember how much you are loved and that people miss you so much down here. i can't wait till the day i see you up there in heaven. the sun has been shinning brighter, and the stars really have had more of a sparkle to them since you've arrived in heaven. everyone up there is lucky to be with you. rest in peace kaitlyn, i love and miss you. you will never be forgotten<3

amanda forman

September 17, 2008

i can't believe your gone. we didn't know each other too well, but i did know that you were an amazing person. You were always the one to be a leader in gym class when you went to powell, it's a shame that you're gone, but we all know you're doing much better now. i'll never forget you and i wish the best of luck to you and your family.

Mother of 3

September 17, 2008

I saw those rainbows Sunday, so bold and clear, and with a mother's heart knew that Kaitlyn had put them there for you to see that she was alright. I was overcome with emotion for your family and hoped that you had seen them too. May you find peace in the memories of your beautiful girl.

brianna marie daniels

September 16, 2008

katie
u were amazing in all eyes .
the day i went 2 school and herd the news that was the worst day of my life it was so sad to no some one so young and loose u be for u can even see the world but on sunday those who went to her funreal she was a gorges girl and in her moms wedding dress im gust happy her mom got to see her little girl in the white dress ...
for the family that lost her i can not tell u it is going to be ok
couse it wount be .
but if i ever lost one of my brothers or my sister i would not be able to live so to the harpers u r a strong family and i cound never be able to go thrue what u did ..
it was a tarable loss for all
every one who new katie now has a empty spot in there heart

ashley betts

September 16, 2008

OK KATIE,
Yes i know i wrote in your guest book a couple of days ago but i cant stand to believe that you are gone this seems one of the real only ways to connect with you now.I pray at night for you to rest in peace and that your family and friends will get through this to.So many people at school cant believe that this tragic accident has happened, i still cant get over it myself.I wont ever forget when we were in sheriffs camp together we had so much fun together.You would always tell me things on the bus ride home....I will never ever forget you katie.You will always be in my heart.The day i went to say my last goodbye to you in person there were beautiful rainbows outside and i understand you like rainbows so that to me and my family was your way of saying that your ok and that you are watching over your friends and family.I will keep in touch with oyur family all the time i hope you hear my prayers for you at night.
I Love You Katie!

mommy

September 15, 2008

to my beautiful angel. last night was the hardest night of my life, cause I knew I had to say my final goodbye and that I would never be able to touch you again.My heart breaks because there are so many things that mommy wanted to do with you and now I can't. I will forever cherish the 13 years I had with my punkin and will forever hold onto the memories that I have of you. You done the ditzy things that you done were oh ever so funny and the way you talked so highly of all your friends was above your age. However you painted the perfect picture for mommy and all to see last night when you put the rainbow above the funeral home because you know that right there at the end of that rainbow was mommys pot gold, you my precious little angel. You will never be forgotten and you will always be here with mommy in my heart and in your spirit. I want to thank my precious girl teaching the world to be a better place with her smile and loyalty to her friends..... I love you mommys little punkin.........angel girl

September 15, 2008

You were so beautiful lying there, Kaity. It was almost as if you had that fake sleeping smerk and all I had to do was tickle you to make you laugh. But the logical me knew better. I regret us not being together more and I miss you so bad. Dad

ashley betts

September 14, 2008

katie,
katie was a really good friend of mine i have known her for four years.Me and katie went too a sheriffs camp together.Katie and i also went to the same school together for a couple of years.I am really sorry for the family's loss. I keep katie and her family in my prayers at night.Noone knows why it was her that had to go,god must have better plans for her up there.I believe that katie is watching over everyone right now.Katie was a beautiful girl and yes her smile was gorgeous also.I will miss you soo much (lil joe)

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Angela Martin

September 14, 2008

i really didnt know you that well i met you once or twice but i do no that u didnt deserve what had happened I just wanted to say im very very very sorry for your loss and I hope everything gets better ily kaitlyn

melissa dobson

September 14, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Grant Abrahams

September 14, 2008

Top reader, writer and artist. Thanks for the wonderful pictures you drew for our class and for your phenomenol presentation on our semester project "All Things Great and Small." Mr. A and I will never forget you, your energy or beautiful smile that lights up our classroom. Rest In Peace and may God bless your family during this time.

April Rabun

September 14, 2008

I love and miss You. You always greeted me with a smile and a hug. I remember when You would squeeze in-between Robert and Me and look up and say, "Hi Aunt April and Uncle Rob!" It is just the little things that mean so much. You and Chrissy fly high. I know we will feel the warmth of your spirit and your art will touch our hearts. Love forever, Aunt April

jason bobby

September 14, 2008

even though i only saw you a couple of times at school i still hope you the best of luck to you and your family

AUNT APRIL RABUN

September 13, 2008

I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU. YOU ALWAYS WELCOMED ME WITH A BIG SMILE AND YOU ALWAYS LOOKED FORWARD TO SEEING ME. I REMEMBER WHEN YOU WOULD RUSH TO GIVE ME A BIG HUG. (sometimes without falling) I WILL MISS YOU SQUEEZING BETWEEN ME AND ROBERT ON THE COUCH TO SIT NEXT TO ME AND SAY SAYING HI AINT APRIL AND UNCLE ROB. JUST SEEING YOU EACH TIME ALWAYS MEANT SO MUCH TO ME. YOU AND AUNT CHRISSY FLY HIGH AND PAINT THE SKYS AND I WILL FEEL THE WARMTH OF YOUR SPIRIT. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU DEEPLY.

brittany

September 13, 2008

kaitlyn harper wow i cant even believe your truly gone . you were a great person . we all miss an love you always ! always keep that beautiful smile on your face an always know your in our thoughts

Karina

September 13, 2008

even though i just met you this year and it sucks so much that i didn't get know like i wished but i stilled cried and 7th period is so diffrent without you well miss you lots

laura ruiz

September 13, 2008

Dear Kaitlyn,
i miss you soo much. i have no one to walk to class with. no one to tell me those hilarious jokes about what happened in first period. i miss you you were my best freind and i will never, never forget you your smile is engraved in my heart.You were like my sister someone i could talk to about any thing. just like you kept my secrets i will always keep yours. love,

FREDDY HILLERUD

September 13, 2008

KAITY...YOUR LIGHT ON EARTH IS GOING TO BE MISSED,BUT I KNOW IT WILL SHINE BRIGHTER ON US AND MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE FOR ALL...I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO SEEING ALL THE BEAUTIFUL SUNSETS YOU PAINT FOR US ...YOUR LOVING POP POP...

Eric Martindale

September 13, 2008

Katie,
I love you and miss you, I wish this hadn't happened to you. There is no control over God's plan and I know this but I can't help but to keep asking him why? You were like a daughter to me and I would have done anything for you. There is so much I wanted to do for you and so much to say but now I have to send it to you through prayers. I will always love you and will never forget you for the rest of my life.

Your Loving Uncle Eric

Alicia D

September 13, 2008

OMG! i cant believe she died she went to my school i didnt even know her but there is so many people that said she was nice but the reason why i dont known her is because she was new to the school and she seems like a nice person i wish none of that happened it is really sad but she is with GOD! and she is with the right person.

AUNT MARY & UNCLE JERRY SMITH

September 13, 2008

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.You are one great niece and you will be missed very much.

Diana Duer

September 13, 2008

I didn't know Katie (she's the neice of a friend), but it's obvious that she made the world a more beautiful place while she was here. I'm convinced that she'll continue to do so as her spirit surrounds all those who love her. She is even touching the hearts of those who never had the pleasure of knowing her. To Katie I say thanks for the joy that you brought to the world and to the family I wish you much love in these dark days of grieving. I can't imagine your pain and I'm sure it will never heal, but in time let Katie and those you love help light your way out of the darkness.

With Sadness and Heartfelt Condolences,

Best Friends Always and Forever

Sierra Carpenter

September 13, 2008

Katie was the best friend. She was more than just a friend, she was like a sister to me. Art was her passion, where ever she went, she will think of new pictures to draw. We were BFFL's (Best Friends For Life). We would tell each other everything. One of us would be there for each other when the other was feeling blue. When we were living together we would always talk to each other until we fell asleep. She was also the Klutziest person that I've ever met. What I am just trying to say is she was the coolest, most funniest person I have ever met in the whole entire world. I wish she was here right now. I love you and miss you.
Love your BDFQ,
Sierra

The Anderson's

September 12, 2008

dear katies family

katie and us has meet each other at ft. riley kansas when she was with mary and eric and i just wanted to say-

it was sad that katie had to go so early in her life but while she was here. she made smile and laghter with friends and family. she brought hope to people around her. we had lots of fun playing basketball and just sitting around laughing she was a great girl had many goals in life. me and my wife are very sorry for your lose and we wish you the best. we will forever keep your family and kaitlyn in our prayers.

sincerely
carl, kari, and carly anderson

may god be with you and show you the way now and forever.

joshua harper

September 12, 2008

We will all miss the loving artistic ability you had,we know your gone but your free spirit will folow us through out the heart.I miss you and
I always will,but remember the fun times we had,keep it with you.

sherley cano

September 12, 2008

im sorry for your lost i new kaitlyn and i was shocked to hear about this at first i didnt know who it was but when i saw her in picture i really was so sad n shocked we went to the same school powell and i met with her a couple of times she was one of the nicest persons i ever met and even if i didnt know her for long i really will keep her in my memories especially siting by her at lunch n just having a a normal conversation may she rest in peace !.

Jackie Haines

September 12, 2008

I am so so sorry for your lost my prayers are with you and your family may god bless you all.

andrea allen

September 12, 2008

katie you are the smartest girl iv ever met your reading class misses you so so much

Kathleen Tarro

September 12, 2008

So sorry for your loss. Many thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.

The Tarro Family

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