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Theresa Elliott Obituary
Born May 13, 1957. Passed away Jan. 18, 2007 at her Sacramento home, surrounded by loved ones, after a short battle with colon cancer. She worked for the last 18 years at the Bureau of Land Management. She was a loving and caring mother and a friend to all who knew her. She is survived by her husband of 27 years, Raymond, and their two daughters, Tasha, Christina, her mother, Catherine and her three sisters, Peg, Janice and Barbara. Private family interment will be on Feb. 10 at Mt. Vernon Memorial Park, 8201 Greenback Lane, Fair Oaks, CA. A celebration of life will be held on Feb. 10 from Noon to 5pm at the Arden Hills Resort, 4500 block of Fair Oaks Blvd. In lieu of flowers, the family is asking that memorial contributions be made to the Hospice Foundation.
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Memories and Condolences
for Theresa Elliott
Sponsored by Maria Damitz.
Lisa Swenor
January 20, 2022
You have been gone for 15 years now! And not a day goes by that I don´t miss you soooooooooo very much girlfriend . You were and are my bestest friend and sister on this planet . You were amazing and you loved life to the very fullest that´s for sure . Miss you more each and every day!! Love you forever sister
Maria Damitz
January 19, 2011
Dear Terry,
At times it's almost more unreal now than 4 yrs. ago that you're not here. Said your name @ Newman on Sun., and been mentioning your Mom. I'm praying for her. Happy to visit with Chrissy, Paco, Tasha, Lisa & Steven on Mon. When dealing with a difficult matter @ work yesterday, I said "that's just wrong!" and laughed 'cause I felt like I heard you say it.
The message you left in 2005, makes me like to picture you still on a continuous wonderful cruise having fun: "I will be out of the office starting 12/09/2005 and will not return until 12/20/2005. I am cruising in Mexico sipping margaritas. Wish you were here. Ole! Will respond upon my return."
Wish you were here also. Love you and miss you,
Maria
Peg
January 18, 2011
Dear Sister,
I miss you so much. Thinking of you a lot lately, and of course especially today. Please help watch over Mom with me. I know she will find rest and peace with you beside her. I love you
RelayForLife510
Maria Damitz
May 13, 2010
May 13, 2010
Happy Birthday Terry! Wearing purple again in your honor, recalling how great you looked in the color, including purple eye shadow! Also have on your purple angel pin, & put the photo out of you and I at my wedding. Carson and I met up with Chrissy & Paco and walked in Relay-For-Life recently. Took awhile in dark to find luminary bag I did in your memory. (Check out photo from Chrissy.)
I Love You and Miss You Forever,
Maria
January 19, 2010
Dear Terry,
Thinking of you allot lately. Yesterday, wore purple hat and scarf. Cefe (on her BD you always acknowledged) gave ME a glass star with an image of a purple angel in your memory. At times it hits me that I can't believe you're gone, then I remind myself how fortunate I was to have known and loved you. At Mass I've been mentioning your Mom "for the sick". Also, said your name this past Sun. On 27th, planning to attend Relay for Life. Fitting that color for all cancers is our favorite, purple.
Love you forever,
Maria
January 18, 2010
Hey my sweet sister...it has been 3 years today and I miss you just as much as I did the first day!!!!! I know you wouldn't want us to be sad.., but sometimes you can't help it. I take care of the girls as best I can from here. I Love you * miss you more than these words could ever ever say. I love ya
May 14, 2009
Happy Birthday my sweet Sister!! I miss you more than words could ever express!!! I think of you daily & even at times during my day, I think, "Oh I should call Terry & tell her this or that!!! Life just isn't the same without you. I miss sharing life with you!!! I miss your zest for life & how you always made the best out of any situation that came your way, NO MATTER WHAT IT WAS. We may not have been related by blood, but you couldn't have been more my sister than one that was. You were and always will be my best friend & sister. I promised you that I would always be there for the girls & I will never stop being there for them. I love them so much & am proud of them and their accomplishments as they grow more and more as the women you would be proud of. They mean so much to me. Sister, I love you & miss you just as much today. Love you so so so very much & miss you!!!
Love you,
Lisa
Flowers for Terry
May 13, 2009
Maria Damitz
May 13, 2009
Sweet Terry,
Happy Birthday! When I arrived at work this a.m. Allison had left me a bag of purple and white statice flowers (just as she did last yr.) to commemorate your BDay. Some of us wore purple and took a walk in your honor. I miss you and the fun we had. Had a nice time visiting with your family and friends at Ray's BD party. Carson and your nephews, Kyle and Andrew bonded. When Andrew told Laura "Mom, I have a new friend!" I got teary eyed thinking about how that comment must have had you smiling in heaven. I let them know that their grandfathers (Larry and Papa) used to race cars together in the 60's. Because of you, we're still making connections! I Love You my forever friend.
Tasha Elliott
May 13, 2009
hey mom just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday. I miss you so dearly and there isn't a day that goes by that your not on my mind. I love you so much and wish that you were still here with us. There is so much I miss about you and wish that you could just share with me, all the happiness that I have in my life now. You are forever in my heart....as you would say "Live, Laugh, Love" I am living my life to the fullest, Laughing as much as possible, and am so In Love and couldn't ask for any better. Thank you for helping me become the person I am today. If it wasn't for your words of encouragment I wouldn't be where I am at! I love you with all of my heart and will see you again when it is my time. I miss you Mom!
April 24, 2009
Hey Sister,
I can't believe that it has been almost a year since I have written in your book!! Just the other day I was doing something & thought "Oh I need to call sister & talk to her." Yes, even still I catch myself with those thoughts of calling you & sharing the latest news in my life. I don't think that desire will ever go away. Your birthday is coming up & that is an especially hard time as you and your husband share the dates that are close. Not a day goes by that I don't think of the days when I was able to care for you. That was such a sacred & special time for me...memories that I will cherish for the rest of my natural life. Times that no one can take away from me. I was so blessed to have you as a part of my life, having you as my sister & very close friend. We shared the whole realm of being sister's & friends, from the greatest to the hardest of times. They each mean something to me. I want you to know that I love your girls just like they are my own. As I promised you, I will always be there for them as long as I am capable. As well as for Ray. They are a very important part of my life. No one could ever take away the awesome bond that the 3 of us share. They are incredible young ladies, each very individual and unique in their own ways. I know you look down with joy in your heart and a smile on your face. Well sister, I love you AND miss you more than any words could say.
Love Ya Sister,
Lisa Swenor
Maria Damitz
April 23, 2009
Terry,
OMG! I was deleting messages at work when I came across the link to your site here, and realized I hadn't written in a long time. I do think of you often, like when I was in Disneyland a couple weeks ago; how you would have looked forward to when I returned to ask how our trip went. I often say to our friends: "Terry would have said..." As a special angel please keep watch over our sweet Gia who came home yesterday after a mo. in the hospital with a rare form of luekemia. Stats show it's 90% curable, but need all the prayers, healing thoughts and love from near and far. I miss you and love you my sweet Terry.
Your Forever Friend,
Maria
Lisa Swenor
May 15, 2008
Happy Birthday Sister, Just wanted to say how much I love you & miss you, as well as your contagious laugh & smile...you always had a way of lighting up a room when you came in. Your laughter was heard throughout the whole room, which in turn would make every one eles laugh too. Today Rose, Maria & I went to lunch at your favorite place--Mimi's Cafe..We shared great food, wonderful memories & I even had a glass of wine in your honor too.
'Yum-O' as you would have said !!!!
Some days time just seems to go by so very slow, then other days it seems like, boom, it's over. But, not one single day goes by that I do not think of things that we did, phone calls we shared, or even spending the week-ends together. I was very honored to be able to take care of you the last 8 months you where here on this earth with us !!! God blessed me with that ability to do so. Now I celebrate your birthday in a different way--honoring the awesome daughter, wife & mother & friend that you were.....I am forever greatful to be able to call you my friend and sister.
I will treasure each & every memory that I have of you & I together, and will forever hold you close to my heart.
Happy Birthday my Sweet Sweet Sister,Theresa Ann Pekonen-Elliott.
Love you & honor you always to the end of time,
Your sister, Lisa
Maria Damitz
May 14, 2008
Happy Birthday Terry!
Had a nice day thinking about you yesterday. Stopped by your site and left you a BD note. Met up with Lisa and Rose for lunch at your favorite restaurant, Mimi's. Lisa gave me a photo of your Mom and I, taken at Chrissy's BD party this yr. Looking at your Mom and how fun loving she is reminds me so much of you! Got an email from Anita, a card and call from Bonny, and this a.m., purple and lavender statice flowers from Alison, all in honor of your birthday. I'm so thankful for the time I had with you. You made me a better person, and are still bringing us together. I like when I have dreams about you as I did a couple days ago when you visited me.
I Love You my sister-friend,
Maria
Anita Warren
May 13, 2008
It would've been your 51st Birthday today, Terry! I sit here, still remembering your laugh and smile and the sweet way you had of loving others.
We all miss you,
Anita
Maria Damitz
January 30, 2008
"A YEAR AGO"
In Memory of Terry Elliott
A year ago I lost my best female friend
A year ago two daughters lost a mother
A year ago a Mom lost a daughter
A year ago a husband lost a wife
A year ago many lost a sister
A year ago co-workers lost their friend
A year ago my life was altered
A year ago so many others' lives were changed
A year ago I vowed to try and not sweat the small stuff
A year ago friends and family cried together
A year ago the memories came flooding in
A year ago I gained new friends
A year ago I looked at many photos
A year ago I helped organize a Celebration of Life
A year ago a crowd of people wore purple
A year ago a slide show to music was shown
A year ago I expressed my love for my friend
A year ago a hearty laugh was remembered
A year ago we danced to Tower of Power
A year ago my church honored a member
A year ago my faith got me through
A year ago heaven got a great person
A year ago writing in a Guest Book helped me cope
A year ago I created a memory shelf at work
A year ago a sweet person left this earth
A year ago my own mortality was realized
A year ago I vowed to see more of the good in others
A year ago love was abundant
A year ago I realized that people come into your life for a reason
A year ago "Live, Laugh, Love" would be associated with my friend forever
By Maria Damitz, Jan. 2008
Lisa Swenor
January 19, 2008
My Sweet Baby Girl,
In some ways it doesn't feel like a year has gone by, in others it does!! Each day I think of you in the things I do and some times when I'm at work I feel that you are there with me. Sister, I will never forget all the joys and sorrows that we shared, like when you got married, when Tasha & Chrissy were born. I remember the first time I saw you in Ray's little green & white Corvair in the parking lot of K-Mart in Santa Clara!! I thought "how pretty is she" and then we met and "the rest is "history" as the saying goes. I remember living with you, Ray and Tasha(as a baby) in only a 2 bedroom apartment!! Now if that isn't friendship I don't know what is. Ha-Ha. Then I moved to Stockton & you guys always came up on the week-ends and the guys would go fishing & we would go shopping!! Then you all moved to Sacramento. Eventually I moved up to Loyalton with Steve and the kids and still you all would come and visit us. I LOVE the picture of you in my kitchen doing one of the things you loved most, cooking!! We hung out and shared so much of our lives that you truly are the "SISTER" that I never had...you are a true blessing from GOD!! HE knew that we would be together until HE decided to take you HOME TO BE WITH HIM!! I am so grateful for all the friends(especially Rose & Maria) that have become a part of my life because of you...even in your
absence you bring people together. I was so very blessed to be your"care-giver" for those 8 months and as we sat watching "Dancing with the Stars" and eating dinner together, having talks about life and what your wishes were after you were gone are things that I will NEVER EVER FORGET!!!! You will forever be in my heart and memories each and every day that I am here on this earth!!! I will, to the best of my abilities,carry out the wishes that you asked of me in the last months of your life, like being here for your girls and helping them in whatever issues of their lives. Making sure Ray was ok and ALWAYS BEING HERE FOR THEM--THAT IS A PROMISE THAT I WILL ALWYAYS KEEP AND HONOR TO YOU!!!!!! Each day is a new day and I know you are right beside all of us in all we do!! I miss your zest for life and your contagious laugh that could be heard all over and continues to be heard. As we gather today for Chrissys' birthday I take great pride in being "Godmother" to her and Tasha!!!! I am excited to share in a new chapter of her life. We will celebrate like you would want us to Sister!!!!! Knowing that you are here with all of us.
LOVE AND MISS YOU BEYOND ANY WORDS!!!
Christina Elliott
January 19, 2008
Mom,
So as you know yesterday was your one year anniversary that you left this world before us and was put into the hands of god, who was left to take care of you as if you were one of his daughters. not only has it been difficult throughout the year without having you around to celebrate the holidays with or to share a laugh or two with, but it hasn't been easy for me to actually come and sit down to come and write you this letter either. i've been reminesing about you through poems and songs that helps me think of all the good times that not only i but the family and friends have shared with you as well. kind of like the poem below that i recently wrote about you about how your guidence through the journey that still lies ahead of me is what's gonna help me get through in life. but what was hard for me the most was when we came out to see you yesterday @ your cemetery and to be able to write you a note as if i was sending you "air mail" like rose had mentioned. it was like i knew what i wanted to say to you, but it was emotionally so hard for me to get pen to paper to get everything out that i ever wanted to say to you. but now that i was able to get that oppurtunity to be able to write you a lil "air mail" i feel like i've gotten alot off of my chest. even though i'm still having a hard time accepting the fact that its already been a year since you left this world before us, all i can ever do is just always remember that our life has a purpose when it comes to honoring you. and thats always to live, love, laugh! i love and miss you so much mom that words can't even begin to explain how i feel! but life goes on and i'll always continue to live my life in your honor!
love always and forever!,
Chrissy
Christina Elliott
January 19, 2008
Walk Beside Me in Life
As I grow up from
what you created me into be
I want you to walk beside me
And see what I've grown to be
Witness what I've
accomplished in life
Knowing that you'll
always be proud of me
I know that you're
not physically here
But at least I will always
know in my heart
That you'll always be
walking beside me
In life to witness
The journey that still
lies ahead of me
For me to accomplish
Just because I will always have
You walking beside me to guide me
Along the way
Written By:
Christina M. Elliott
Age: 19
Maria talking about love for Terry 2/10/07
Maria Damitz
January 18, 2008
Hi Terry,
We gathered a group of about 20 in a circle outdoors at work this a.m. in your honor. It was so nice to hear what friends had to say about you. Mostly that we feel you are right here with us, and that we see signs of and from you. After I mentioned that your sign to me would be a white peony flower, Allison said yesterday she received a thank you note that had a white peony flower on it! That is amazing!! I'm on my way to pick up Cefe and meet your family at your site, so will be talking to you again there. This past year has been difficult but I'm trying to remind myself that you want us to live life like you...with a lot of laughter!
I love you and miss you so much dear girlfriend,
Maria
Cefe Hyatt
January 18, 2008
Dearest Terry, As I celebrate my birthday today I will celebrate your life & how much you meant to me. You never forgot to send birthday cards or gifts & you loved celebrations. I will wear purple today to celebrate the fact that my birthday angel has been in heaven for one whole year today. Please give Mom & David a hug for me & thank you for your little miracles everyday. I still have the wand you gave me for my 50th birthday & the tiara. After all, aren't we both princesses? I miss you a lot Terry & I thank you for your friendship & for brightening my life. Here's to you,girlfriend! Much love, Cefe
We know you were here with us...see the shadow?
January 17, 2008
Thinking of you
January 17, 2008
We Love you Girlfriend
January 17, 2008
In your Honor
January 17, 2008
RoseMerida Lucero
January 17, 2008
Hello my dear friend, Angel in Heaven,
Today makes a year that you entered those pearly gates and brought life, love and laugher to those who were there before you, and as you gave to those whom you left behind. Of course that is what you left here for us to remember you by. You have now been with my cousin and my brother for a whole year
and I know and feel that you all know each other. I’ve seen you a few times since and you looked peaceful and happy so that brings comfort to me. Today on your day I am taking you some purple balloons and Maria made the suggestion that we put the messages that people wrote to you last year at your “Celebration of Life” and we will attach them to the balloons and let them go up to you. So be there to catch them we are sending the messages and on the balloons to you by AIR mail. I truly miss you and am doing my best to stay in touch with your beautiful daughters. Chrissy told me the other day that if we saved all our e-mails and text messages since last year we would have a million. And she is not exaggerating. They are both doing so good in college and I told them that it is because it's you that is guiding and helping them. Tasha is getting high honors. Chrissy has written a poem for you and is working on a song for you on her new guitar. One day you will hear her sing the song she is writing for you. Well I better let you go so you can go get your mail. I’m sending them certified mail return receipt so I’ll know when you get them.
I love you forever and thank you always for the life, the love and the laughter that you shared during your lifetime with me. By the way it will be really nice seeing your mom Catherine, your sisters, Peggy, Jan and Lisa again today, just wish it was under different circumstances.
I'm going to submit some photos for you so take a look when you get a chance.
Love you always,
Rose
Maria Damitz
January 11, 2008
Hey Terry,
Even though I think of you daily, you're on my mind even more as we approach 1 yr. from today. For Christmas, Laurie gave me a framed 8x10 photo of you taken around Christmas 2004 at work. It's such a meaningful gift and I love it! You have a Santa hat on, Christmas earrings and a pin of a woman wearing a Santa hat. It's so you, and I remember it like it was yesterday! Today, I put it up at work near that plant you gave me years ago on St. Pat's Day. The plant is still thriving, just like the love I have for you still is. Russ emailed me on Mon. and said: "I think of Terry frequently. I have the sailor she gave me still. When I see it I am reminded of her laugh and both of you having such a good time." I didn't know you gave him a sailor, and I thought of course you did! You probably gave it to him when he started working for the Navy and it's just like you to find just the right gift. Finding out something new about you made me feel like you're still present and still affecting people's lives. Thanks for keeping us connected to you and each other. Oh, you probably know by now and discussing with my Mom and David that Anita is pregnant and Rick is engaged to be married! Our family is growing and 2008 will be a great year for us. We thank God for the continuing little and big miracles! Keep 'em coming! Talk to you again soon...
I love you,
Maria
Cefe hyatt
September 2, 2007
Hi Terry, I've been thinking about you a lot lately.You were in my dream & I introduced you to my Aunt Marian as Theresa who has cancer.You smiled & said "Don't say I have cancer & just call me Terry". It was so great to see you. Throughout your life as it has been said you enjoyed every day.That is the message I believe you are telling us to enjoy every moment with the excitement & anticipation of a child.You made ordinary moments special & so much fun! I miss you Terry but I know you're still having fun.Please give Mom a hug for me as I miss her too.May God continue to bless you & your family & friends. One love, Cefe
Sonia Santillan
July 19, 2007
Hi sweet Terry...
I just saw Rose's message and it was a perfect opportunity for me to write too because you were really on my mind today. Today is BLM's picnic and the theme is Hawaiian. I just keep smiling to myself because I can see you in my mind and how you would have loved this day...well, you loved every day didn't you. Anyway, I know it would be you who would win the contest today! It's such a fitting theme because you would have had so much fun! I hear your laughter all the time...sometimes I stop and look around to see if you're there. I know you will be on the minds of many today, girlfriend and you will bless the people at the picnic in one way or the other with your spiritual presence!
I love and miss you Terry...
Sonia
Maria Damitz
July 18, 2007
My dear Terry,
Even after 6 months it's still difficult for me to grasp that you're not here. It does give me solace to have dreams about you, because I get to see you so clearly, hear your voice, and talk to you. In one I said "it's been awhile since I gave you a hug", so we hugged, and you were happy and smiling. As I walked away I turned to say "I Love You". I woke up feeling happy to have that so familiar "visit" with you. It still warms my heart to feel the love we have for each other.
Tomorrow is our BLM annual picnic. I've been thinking how you enjoyed the picnics, how I wish I had you to share this day with, your enthusiasm and how you would love this Luau theme. In your honor I will be wearing your Hawaiin blouse -- the bright orange, green, yellow one you wore to David's fundraiser 2 yrs. ago. I cherish those pictures I have of you with our family that day and the memories that go with it.
I Love You, (I hear you saying "I Love You too")
Maria
RoseMerida Lucero
July 18, 2007
Hello you beautiful Angel of God. It has been 6 months today that you left this world and went to heaven and I miss you more today then yesterday but not as much as tomorrow.
I look at your picture everyday and reminisce of our good times, your laughter, your humor, and your thoughtfulness, as these are the things I love and miss most about you, and I remind myself that you are in peace and with God.
I had a dream about you and my cousin and you both were having a good time, smiling, laughing and you both told me that everything was alright.
Girlfriend, THANK YOU with all my heart for saving my life two weeks ago, I felt your presence and heard your voice tell me why I had to have the strength to get to safety, and I know it was you who got me there.
You are my savior and I promise to always do what you told me.
I love you my dear girlfriend.
Cefe hyatt
July 7, 2007
Hello Terry, I just had a dream about you last night.You were in Hollister with all our family & you gave me a gift for Maria for Christmas.I know you would give it to her in person if you could.On the 4th of July I watched a parade & they had a float of the red hat ladies complete with a big sun umbrella fashioned to look like a big red hat with purple ribbons.Of course I thought of you.On your 50th birthday(also Mother's Day) my children took me to see Spiderman.In it Peter Parker(aka "Spidey") gave his girlfriend a bouquet of flowers which had peonies in it.Maria had told me about a conversation you had about giving her a sign that you were in Heaven & here it was on your birthday a sign! I love you girl & thanks for all the signs & for helping me to enjoy life more.Soon many members of my family will gather together to honor our mother at a mass on the one year anniversary of her death on July 26th.Terry I know you'll be there in spirit with us.After all you are both wonderful mothers.Sorry it's taken so long but Happy 50th girlfriend!!! Missing you & remembering all the gifts you gave us. Your friend,Cefe
Maria Damitz
June 9, 2007
June 9, 2007
Dear Tasha,
Happy 25th Birthday! I've thought of you often today. Can't wait to hear all about your family's cruise to Alaska. I've heard it's one of the best cruises to go on. I'm imagining you and the rest of your family felt your Mom's presence right there with you on the trip. It was good you all decided to stay with your plans to go as it's what your Mom would have wanted. Living life to the fullest, being joyful, bonding with each other, meeting new people and forming friendships --- that is all part of your Mom's legacy. You're a confident young women with a good head on your shoulders, and I wish great things for you! Happy quarter of a century old (whoa!) from Dave & Carson too!
I Love You,
Maria
Maria Damitz
May 14, 2007
May 13, 2007
Terry,
Happy 50th Birthday! Thought of you all day and visited with you later in eve. Saw you received a bouquet of red roses and a "50 birthday wand". Joey had a friend make a red hat with purple ribbon for me to wear in your honor, which I received in the mail on Fri. I was so excited! The woman was moved by your "story". Last June while in your hospital bed, you and I had so much fun laughing, and taking pics by holding the camera way out in front of us, that it occurred to me I could do the same today "next" to you. I wore the hat and a red feather boa for our pictures. It was a little difficult to leave, but when I got in my car I realized you came with me by reminding myself you'll be in my heart forever. Also, Happy Mother's Day! Your girls have grown up to be confident and loving women and I'm blessed to be a part of their lives.
I Love You girlfriend,
Maria
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND HAPPY MOTHERS DAY GIRLFRIEND, I MISS YOU AND I LOVE YOU
RoseMerida Lucero
May 13, 2007
HAPPY 50th BIRTHDAY and HAPPY MOTHERS DAY to my friend you may not be here physically but you are in heart and many memories. Many memories of ingredible birthday's.
I know you and Linda (my cousin) have met and are celebrating both your birthday's and Mother's day together. I see you laughing and having a good time today as Linda was as good hearted and fun loving as you. This is a hard day for many of us but your memories will get us through. I miss you so much girlfriend. Tomorrow (Monday) we will be celebrating with you again as the "Red Hat Ladies" come to work in your honor.
I love you.
Your Girlfriend,
Rose
Bonnie Osborne
May 12, 2007
Dearest Terry: My goodbye is long overdue girlfriend. Life has a way of pulling us in every direction. But I'm back on the right path.
During the few memorable times we shared together, I was in awe of you, whether we spent five minutes or a lunch hour together. You had such a zest for life, a phenominal positive presence, the brightest twinkling loving eyes and that huge heart that you "specially gift-wrapped" for each person you encountered. My only regret is not having the opportunity of meeting you sooner and laughing with you longer. Ah, but I have great memory of your laughter and at a moments wish I can recall your laugh -- I grin, and laugh with you again.
Thank you Terry, for your genuine loving soul.
God: Thank you for the gift of Terry!
Love Always, Bonnie Osborne
Maria Damitz
April 27, 2007
Anita,
Thanks for posting the pictures. Just yesterday I was thinking about the ones you took. The pictures from Terry's celebration reflect her and was just as she requested.
Love you,
Maria
Maria & Marisss
April 27, 2007
Star & Maria
April 27, 2007
RoseLisaMaria "Terry's friends"
April 27, 2007
Ray & his girls
Anita Warren
April 27, 2007
Some pictures doubled up on the photo album, but here's some more
BLM
Anita Warren
April 27, 2007
Some pictures doubled up on the photo album, but here's some more
Dancing
April 27, 2007
Sisters
April 27, 2007
Lisa Maria
April 27, 2007
Chrissy, Maria, Grandma
April 27, 2007
Anita Warren
April 26, 2007
Hi Terry's friends and family,
I posted some pictures from Terry's memorial services. I know Terry would want you all to know to "Keep on Dancing" in her honor. Terry had a beautiful outlook on life and she knows you are all struggling and missing her but I feel if you can live a great, happy, successful, loving life for HER, she will be so proud. All my sisterly love, Anita
Warren Sisters, missing our 8th sister, Terry
April 26, 2007
"Dance in my honor"
April 26, 2007
Lisa & Maria
April 26, 2007
Chrissy, Maria & Grandma dancin'
April 26, 2007
April 23, 2007
Hi Mom, I miss you so much! Last week was 3 months since you passed and it was a hard day for me. I woke up knowing that today was 3 months since you were released from the pain and the sorrowness but felt your pressence. I told myself that I was going to come see you. Ash and I came down and had lunch with a friend and then in the middle of lunch i told her that i couldn't go out there....It's just too hard for me! I know that you are there but you are really in my heart! I look in the mirror and I see you! I daze off and I see you! SO i know that even if it is too hard for dad and I to go out there that you know that it's okay and that when we are ready then the time will come and be easier for us to handle! I am so greatful to have such a great person like Aunt Lisa in our lives! She means the world to me! No one can ever replace you nor will they, it just hurts me to know that you are not here even though your spirit is! The depression has subsided a lil for now so i am able to enjoy life even though i feel empty inside. I love you Mom and miss you so much more then words can explain!
terry doing what she loved the most!!
lisa swenor
April 23, 2007
lisa swenor
April 19, 2007
to my sweet baby girl, terry!!! it has taken me this long to be able to even do this. life is so empty without you. i can't even put into words how i feel and how much i miss you!!!!! damit, i miss your zest for life, i miss your laughter, but most of all i miss YOU...i am soooooo greatful that we got to spend those months together i would not have had it any other way sister. you are my ray of sunshine and your smile and laughter was so infectious how could any one not love you!! your celebration was so you, ray did such a great job deciding where to have the celebration and having the right colors and flowers and all the people that honored you there. even in your absence you brought so many people together and you still are even tho you are in heaven. relationships are forming and growing because of you and your spirit. baby girl, i miss you beyond belief. life seems so empty without you to live, laugh and love together.. when does the hurt subside? or does it ever? it was 3 months yesterday and in some ways it seems like an eternity and in other ways it feels like just yesterday that you went to be with our lord. the emptiness is tremendous and i just don't know how to move foword without you here with me! i miss you baby girl!!! i promise to watch over the the girls and ray. to always be there for them no matter what. i love your girls just like they were my own and they mean the world to steve and i. we love you so so much. thank you for being my friend and sister, accepting me and all the junk that went with me--you are our angel now and we know you look over us daily. i'm greatful that you no longer are in pain and having to deal with all that stuff you deserve better and now you have been released from the pain and sorrow that you were going thru. i miss you soooooo much. don't ever forget how much i love you i love you, i love you baby girl!!!!
Maria Damitz
April 18, 2007
Terry,
It's been 3 months today, but in some ways seems so long ago. Maybe it's because I got to see you almost every day. In your honor I am wearing your purple angel pin and a purple tank top today. Recently I went to your site and cried very hard. No one else was around and I talked to you, but you probably know that. I said "I need you!" I miss you and your cheery disposition. You were so full of life and laughter. Don't find that around work as much anymore, but do appreciate the other friends I do have. And my family is everything to me -- my little family and my big family, who got to know and love you and vice versa. They have been so supportive during my grief. I find comfort with pictures of you at my desk and anything that reminds me of you and celebrates you, like your 50th coming up next month. Think purple and red!
Love you,
Maria
Tasha
March 24, 2007
Hi mom, I love you and miss you so much more then words can explain! It's been a lil over 2 months and it still feels like it was yesterday! I catch myself getting ready to call the house to see how you are doing and what's new, but then realize that your no longer here! I have been really depressed lately and haven't been sleeping well! I see a picture of you and I cry, I try to go by and see dad and chrissy and see how they are hurting as bad as I am and tears me apart! We all miss you so much and wish we had more time with you! We are strong and will be okay, It just has been really taking a toll on me lately! Not a day goes by that I don't cry....I wish it was easy but it's not! I can't hold it back! I am sorry mom that I wasn't able to be with you through everything! I am mad at myself because I wasnt there the whole time....It was just hard for me, and it still is! Mom...help me through this! I don't want to be this depressed, I wanna be strong but I don't know how much more I can act like everything is fine when it's not! But I know that you and dad raised Chrissy and I very well and that we all will pull through the hard times! I Love you mom!
Maria Damitz
March 19, 2007
Terry,
Couldn't help but think of you on St. Patrick's Day. We always had fun exchanging cards, small gifts and going out for a bit every year. Chrissy gave me the pic of you & I glued on a shamrock taken on St. Pat's '96 the first day we ran into Dave in Old Sac. I wore it as a pin to work on Fri. I reminisced while reading some of the St. Pat's cards Chrissy gave me that I had given you and the cards you gave me. Of my decorations I realized allot of mine(leprechauns, Irish Coffee mug, etc.) were from you. Had lunch with Chrissy, Lisa, Rose, Star, Austin & Carson on St. Pat's. It was a nice visit and we toasted to you! Carson & I went to Old Sac for eve parade and ran into Cefe & Rivi. Invited them over to watch "Little Miss Sunshine", so it was a nice St. Pat's. Missed you, and was picturing you out in your green hat, dancing the Irish jig with my 100% Irish Gammy, and your Irish eyes smiling!
I Love You my Irish forever friend,
From Your Irish forever friend,
Maria
Cefe hyatt
March 16, 2007
Happy Saint Patrick's Day Terry! The party is tomorrow downtown at the parade.I know you'll be there in spirit.We will wear green ,have a guiness & celebrate you. Party on girlfriend! Missing you! One Irish love,Cefe
Maria Damitz
February 18, 2007
Terry,
This a.m. in Mass at the Newman Center I did an intention for you and mentioned it's been 1 month today since you passed. It doesn't seem like it's been that long, but also seems like yesterday you stopped by my house for us to go somewhere. I also mentioned a new baby in our family was born 2 days ago --- Hayden Arthur Brown to my neice Rayna and her husband Geoff! We're all very excited and I know he's blessed to have you as a guardian angel watching over him.
We celebrated Mardi Gras before Mass today and it reminded me of us going to Newman's Mardi Gras parties. Every holiday will remind me of you and I will picture the fun clothes and jewelry you wore as well as the cute cards and gifts we exchanged. A friend was told "Life isn't just one big party!", and he said "I know, it's a series of allot of little ones!" You and I sure enjoyed holidays and parties together, and instead of being sad you're not with me, I will continue to celebrate them in your honor.
I Love You,
Maria
Terry at work
February 17, 2007
Elaine Downing
February 17, 2007
As I post the notice of your passing into another world in our union newsletter, I think back to all the times we spoke over the phone and in person. You were always so friendly...always smiling and laughing. The photo I found on our hard drive from three years ago when you were running for a union office is exactly the way Ken and I remember you.
That infectious smile and laughter of yours will be missed by all who knew you, loved you, and all that were blessed to even casually cross your path at work.
I guess God needed another good union member up there to help him. You're probably standing at the front gates,(conductor/sentinel) greeting the new customers and helping them find their way, as you did so well down here on earth.
Our condolences to your husband, daughters and family.
We will miss you sister.
Cefe Hyatt
February 16, 2007
Dear Terry,Your celebration of life was so wonderful,elegant,heartwarming & full of tears & joy.Ray was so gallant as he helped me out of the car since I had a fractured leg & I was on crutches due to being hit by a car the day before.I know you were one of the main guardian angels watching over me & I want to thank you for that.I wouldn't have missed your celebration of life for anything,girlfriend! To Maria & Rose & others at BLM for putting together the slide show ...it was truly wonderful & my niece Rayna's song brought tears to my eyes & Josh Groban was pretty good too.Dancing to "We are Family" with Terry's Mom & hearing her laugh I know Terry was there.She was there in her daughter's hugs & in Lisa's heartfelt words.Ray, thank you so much for giving your wife such a beautiful celebration of life.To see the pretty purple flowers & all the people who loved Terry wearing purple it touched my heart.I am filled with joy today as my niece Rayna & her husband Geoff had their baby boy Hayden born today.I know you,Terry along with my mother & David had something to do with that after all the baby is heaven sent.I love you Terry & I will miss you everyday.May God continue to bless your family & friends.One love,Cefe
RoseMerida Lucero
February 14, 2007
Happy Valentine’s Day Terry my Dear Friend.
Today is the first holiday without you, here with me.
I came in to work and didn’t have a Valentine card or gift from you, on my desk as I had from you for many years. I miss your thoughtfulness and your ever giving from the heart, that you shared so unconditionally. Now what I have are the precious memories and the gifts you have given me. Which I will continue to cherish with all my heart.
I hope you enjoyed your “Celebration of Life” on Saturday it was very, very, elegant. Ray did a wonderful job in choosing a great place for everyone to gather and celebrate. The purple decorations were just so beautiful, as everything was that day. Everyone did a great job to be in purple, as you requested us to be. Dave even wore a purple shirt. He did make me promise that I would not make him wear it again. But he wore it "juss for you".
But you know all this, already as you were there.
AnnMerida was looking at the pictures we took on Saturday and she noticed a white shadow in a few of them which she mentioned was your presence with us.
Of course you were there you’re our Angel watching over us now.
Even though it was raining it was a beautiful day. I told Ray, Tasha and Chrissy that the rain was your tears of happiness because we were all there to celebrate you.
You are so loved and so missed.
LIVE…LAUGH…LOVE……thank you for ALL our wonderful memories.
Happy Valentines Day to you my lovely Angel in Heaven
I will always love you
Your Friend
Sonia Santillan
February 13, 2007
It's me again. I just had to say what a wonderful celebration of life in your honor it was! I'm not going to mention any names because I don't want to leave anyone out, but everyone did a wonderful job making certain that it was perfect in every way...I know you were very proud. I also know you're very proud of your beautiful girls...in such a difficult time they are being very strong and I know you're in their hearts guiding them. Purple...a color fitting of royalty and you my sweet friend wore it well. Ane and I had to leave your party early, but I loved seeing all the pictures of you...surrounded always by so many people who love you. I wish we could have stayed longer so that I could have danced too (just kidding...ha ha!!!) I have the little chimes you gave me above my desk which says What a Blessing You Are. What a blessing YOU are, Terry...we were all blessed by your friendship and that will never end. Thinking of you always...
Love,
Sonia
Maria Damitz
February 12, 2007
Sweet Terry,
So many people came to your Celebration of Life that they had to add an extra table. I loved it when the audience clapped at the picture that showed you laughing the most. I felt you right there with us then and later when your Mom was having a blast dancing. I was nervous for weeks thinking about what I would say about our special friendship, but ended up feeling strong when I talked. Must have been you guiding me and me wanting to express how much I cherish you. It was nice we could honor your wishes from the note you wrote in June stating "wear purple and play Tower of Power". It was so fun to see the different purple clothing, napkins, flowers and keepsakes with your picture. I loved watching the young children enjoying their time playing together, laughing, and running around with a long purple ribbon that Anita brought. They wrote and drew pictures of you.
Ray, thank you for giving us the opportunity to celebrate Terry in the manner she deserved and loved. She was right there with us.
One Love,
Maria
Anita Warren
February 11, 2007
Terry's "celebration for life" on Saturday was so beautiful. It was a testiment to the person Terry was. You will be remember always...
Damon Hackney
February 10, 2007
Terry,
You were always there to bring a smile for those around you to enjoy. I remember eating all those burned BBQ ribs at your house a few years back, and laughing about it with you...I will miss you!
Paul tells us that to live is Christ but to die is gain. Jesus Himself told us that He goes to prepare a place for us...theat where He is, we shall be also. We'll see you again in the clouds on the final day...
Cynthia Ice-Bones
February 6, 2007
Terry -- you are missed, my friend. I will always remember your smiles and getting to know you at WW at work.
To your family, I send my deepest sympathies. I am so sorry for the loss of your wife and mother.
My prayers are with you and your family/friends.
Love,
Cynthia
Russell Kaldenberg
February 6, 2007
Terry: Gee whiz, I can see your smile and hear your enthusiasm for everything around you here at China Lake. It was like yesterday you punctuated our office with joy and piercing laughter. You will never be forgotten, you live in the hearts of all of us who you touched.
Rest in peace my friend. Keep the rest of the folks in eternity laughing. Best to you and your family. Russell Kaldenberg
Robert Cichowski
February 2, 2007
Hello
Gorgeous,
The first time we met was at the VA hospital in S.F. You were the
receptionist at the front desk where I had to check in. I was there for
over 3 hours. Which was good for it it took me two hours to get the
courage up to ask you out. It was June 22, 1978. Something about those
dates. You were my first true love. Then the following September my
mother had cancer and I left to be with her in Florida. Although we
travelled differnet paths from then on, our friendship continued to
grow. I know you are in a better place and more then likely already met
my Mom. You were a very special person. The best friend anyone could
ask for. You captured my heart all those years ago and I was very
blessed to have you come into my heart and life. Fair winds and
following seas.
Susie Burns
January 29, 2007
My Dearest Friend Terry:
I can only aspire to have the goodness in my heart that you profusely shared with your family and friends. Your unconditional love for others, and reminding me of not discounting the ones we love. I call you my angel because I distinctly remember a time when was coming home from work and my car broke down on Hwy 87. I was offered assistance from a stranger. This was a scary moment for me. Not knowing what to do, I accepted. The next moment I could hear your voice calling me. As I turned around I saw your face and immediately thanked god that my friend Terry was here to help me. I could tell we were thinking the same thing that I'd better not get in the vehichle with the stranger. I immediately ran towards the car you were in with your friend and hopped in. I felt safe again! I've enjoyed your love, friendship and the roadtrips we've done together. There will always be a special place for you in my heart.
Until we meet again!!
Love, Susie
Anita Warren
January 29, 2007
Tasha,
I am so sorry for your loss and Chrissy too, I look fwd. to seeing you on the 10th. Your mom's love will live with you forever. When we buried my mom in July, I told my friend, "how could she just be 'down there' and I was so distraught?" She said, "she isn't, she is in you, she is you, she made you the woman you are today." Everytime I am sad about not seeing my mom or that my daughters can't hug her anymore, I think of what my friend said. I will carry on her legacy and I wish the same for you.
Traci:
That was the most clever legacy note I have read and I have been reading alot since my brother in law died. You made me laugh and that's what Terry would've wanted.
Sonia:
I just bought Josh Grobin's hallmark CD and I had no idea Terry liked him, so it put a little chill up my spine when I read this from you.
Lisa:
I've heard alot about your loving ways and I look fwd. to thanking you on Feb. 10th.
Maria:
Because you have been touched by Terry's giving and loving ways, we all have been touched. Thank you for bringing Terry into our lives.
Terry:
I know my mom is happy to have you near her. David too! Take care of all those who need to laugh. That is your legacy...that you showed the rest of us how to laugh and looked on the brighter things in life. I will miss not seeing you but glad I got to see you at Christmas mass. You are loved...
Lisa Cooper
January 29, 2007
Terri, You always had a smile on your face and I loved to listen to you laugh. Remember the New Years Eve party at Gina's house?, I'll never forget. "When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me..." John 14:3. You must have the biggest wings! Lisa.
Gina Cloutier
January 29, 2007
Your smile brightened every room. Your laughter bounced off the walls. You're presence always welcome. I'm so glad you are my friend. You are so missed! Until we meet again my friend!
By the way, how's the wine in heaven?
Maria Damitz
January 29, 2007
Dear Lisa,
I want to personally thank you for being an angel here on earth. We are all blessed to have had you be Terry's caretaker and friend for 30 years. It's interesting that after all these years we've just gotten to know each other in the last few months. You are a remarkable woman and I know we'll stay in touch and be even closer friends. Terry would want that. I've already missed you since you've been back home for a week, so look forward to seeing you soon.
I Love You,
Maria
Eric Dennis
January 29, 2007
Dear Terry. It was always a treat to see you and your lovely daughters at our annual D Day party. Your spirit will always be with the Derelicts. I'm thinking that now you and our long lost friend Blake will be doing all the planning in Heaven. I look forward to seeing you both whenever that time will come. God Bless.
Tasha Elliott
January 28, 2007
Mom not a day goes by that I don't think about you! I look in the mirror and see you, I go to sleep and you always wind up in my dreams! It is so hard to be the "ROCK" but I made you a promise and I will never let you down. It has been hard but I know that we will all be okay. Even though you are not here with us physically you will always be close to us...You were brave, and strong and kepted up the fight till the end! Mom just remember that the cancer didn't beat you, just that you had a calling....that calling was that the Lord needed your help looking over everyone that you have brought into your life. You have inspired all of us in some way or another and you were/are such a caring and loving person. You have raised Chrissy and I very well, and I thank you for that! I
PROMISE that I will take care of Dad and Chrissy for you! I love you so much and miss you like no other! But I know that you are in a better place and that there are holes in the floor of heaven and that your watching over us!
Traci Hallstrom
January 28, 2007
Dialing: Heaven
Ringing...Terry answers
Terry: "Heaven, How may I help you?"
Traci: "It's me, another Miner needs a print out of active Gold claims and I can't get into LR2000, do you have a sec to help please?"
Terry: "Sure, that's an easy one, the only active Gold claims are up here in Heaven, hey and by the way, you know all those Pointsetti's we've thrown out over the years...they are all up here just blooming and so beautiful! Gary and Viola would want to know that."
Traci: "Well that is wonderful, I knew that they never die, they just go to a better place and we can't see them. Thanks for the help sweetie, I'll tell the Miner that all the claims down here are not available, but rather reserved."
Terry: "Okay, is there anything else I can help you with?"
Traci: "Yeah, thank you for blessing my soul with your friendship, support, kindness, and many hours of laughter. I'll see you when I file my assesment work.
Terry: "Okay, sounds good, I gotta go...many friends and family to watch over."
Traci: "Okay, bye..love ya, I'll call ya later!"
Phones disconnect...for now.
Cefe Hyatt
January 27, 2007
Terry,You were always so encouraging to me.Your birthday cards would say "You go girl"& have a great time because you deserve it.On my 5oth you made a special album for me complete with a picture of you,Maria & I in faux leopard coats & hats.You brought a lot of fun in my life & I want to thank you for that.I remember at David's memorial picnic last May & you were wearing your orange & red tropical shirt with matching sandals & white capri pants.You looked good girlfriend & I remember your laughter that day & other times.I hear it still.I remember when you starting driving the "Scooby mobile" & your new car "The Grape Ape" you were so proud.Whenever anyone is wearing purple I'll think of you.Thank you Terry for everything you were in my life.I think it's fitting you became an angel on my birthday After all you never forgot my special day & I will never forget you.Give Mom & David a hug for me.I'll miss you Terry & I love you very much.Always,Cefe
Pam Courtney
January 27, 2007
Terry,
You will always be remembered by The Derelicts. You were a great person, and your tenacity towards battling the cancer was inspiring. I just lost my Dad on Tuesday to cancer so I know the struggle you endured. Heaven just got two pretty awesome angels.
RoseMerida Lucero
January 26, 2007
Terry,
You were always so full of Life, Love and Laughter. You taught me
how to love and laugh at life. You were such a good friend and we had lots of fun no matter what we did, and I thank God for bringing you into my life.
My saying about you is that “You knew no strangers” and that was because no matter where we went people were attracted to you by your laughter and you would talk to everyone. I am proud to say that you were part of my life.
I am glad to have had our specials times/days and moments during your last days, with us.
I will miss your smile, your laughter and your friendship in my life but I know that just because you are out of site doesn’t mean
that you are not with me in spirit.
Until we meet again girlfriend, know that I love you and will miss you deeply.
Always in Spirit
Bud Jensen
January 26, 2007
Terry,
You will be missed but never forgotten. I still hear your infectious laugh and see your never ending smile.
Bud
Sonia Santillan
January 25, 2007
Dearest Terry...
What a joy it was to have you as a friend in my life. You loved unconditionally and were always there to offer a word of support and a special hug. I loved sharing stories with you and we had a special bond in how we feel about Josh Groban. I loved the look on your face when Ane and I gave you the signed Josh Groban CD...I can hear you in my mind still and how much you appreciated all the little things like that. I love the way you always asked me about Ane and how supportive you were of her in everything. You are a true friend Terry and I will miss you more than words can say. You fought till the end and never gave up and had so much courage. I love you, girlfriend...rest in peace and smile knowing you made so many happy. Join the angels, Terry...you have definitely earned your wings.
Bonny Rothwell
January 25, 2007
Terry you were an inspiration to all of us in the "Warren" family. With your sweet ways you made everyone love you, even through your difficult illness you had a positive outlook. As my Sister Maria always enjoyed your friendship so did everyone you came in contact with feel a special joy in your presence.
We will truly miss you!
Love - Bonny Rothwell
MICHAEL HILL
January 25, 2007
I miss you alot, a great coworker to work with, all the laughter & joy.
Percilla Holt
January 25, 2007
Terry you where always full of laughter, and made everyone else laugh. You will be greatly missed by all your friends and loved ones. I am glad that I had a chance to meet you and become a friend. Will miss you.
Percilla Holt
Aka Percy
Rick Warren
January 25, 2007
I feel so grateful that we have another one of our "own" angels in heaven.
Peggy Crawford
January 25, 2007
Terry, I loved the way you accepted our big family and wanted to become our 8th sister! You also showed great support through our grief over David's passing and through my own cancer ordeal. But mostly I thank you for being such a loyal and loving friend to Maria. Your spirit will always be with us. One Love Forever,
Maria Damitz
January 25, 2007
My dear sweet Terry,
I miss you so much, but feel you with me in spirit. You came into my life for a reason and I am blessed to have had you be my closest friend for 18 years. You taught me so much. You were not judgmental of people and saw the good in everyone. What people like and remember about a person is how they made them feel. The magnet you gave me "Girlfriend Wisdom LIVE LAUGH LOVE" says it all. You taught me to LIVE life to the fullest, LAUGH often and LOVE unconditionally. But you know all this, from when I wrote you in July. When I'm sad about not being able to spend time with you any longer, I listen for your hearty laugh, picture you in one of your "sassy" poses, and a memory of something fun. Thanks for all the fun times, great memories, your spirituality and joy you brought into my life. In your last days I felt blessed to tell you something more every day, mention more names of those sending their love and how much I love you. And on your dying day "Friends Forever".
I Love You,
Maria
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