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Shelbi Elwell Obituary

Shelbi Kay Elwell 2002 ~ 2008 Our little princess, Shelbi Kay Elwell, age six, passed away from a sudden illness on Dec. 30, 2008.Shelbi was born to her loving parents, Rian and MeLea Elwell on Feb. 26, 2002. Shelbi loved princesses, Barbies, playing with her cousins, her brothers, and her many friends. She was a happy and fun loving little girl. She shared hugs and kisses with her family. She attended Pony Express Elementary School where she was in the first grade. Survived by her parents, her brothers, Cameron, Nathan and Carter, grandparents, Brad and Debra Sheppard, Ted and Roxene Kresser, Jack and Marsha Elwell, great grandparents, Grant and Karen Stubbs, RueLeen Sheppard, Susan Elwell, Frankie Barney, aunts, uncles, and many cousins. Funeral services will be held Saturday, Jan. 3, 2009 at 11 a.m. at the Eagle Mountain East Stake Center, 4506 E. Pony Express Parkway, Eagle Mountain, Utah. Viewings Friday evening from 6-8 p.m. at the church and Saturday 9:30-10:45 a.m. prior to the funeral. Burial, American Fork Cemetery.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Jan. 1 to Jan. 2, 2009.

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Colin Dunne

January 27, 2009

So sorry to hear about Shelbi.Know that we love you. May Heavenly Father bless and comfort all of you is our prayer.
Colin & Theresa Dunne
(Dublin, Ireland)

Frederick Molloy

January 12, 2009

Dear Rian and MeLea,

I am Eric Molloy's Father in Dublin, Ireland. I wanted to say that my wife, Pat and I are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your little girl. Your family are in our prayers at this sad time. We will always be grateful for your help in introducing Eric to the Church of Jesus Christ, Latter Day Saints.

God Bless,

Fred and Pat Molloy

Krista (Graham) Thurman

January 11, 2009

Rian and MeLea,

I just heard about your terrible loss. I am so sorry for you, but I know that through your faith you will be with your beloved daughter again.

MeLea, I have been thinking about you quite a bit the past few months...wondering where you are and how you were doing. I haven't seen you since your wedding and I've just been remembering all the good times we shared on our missions. I'm glad I finally found you, but sad it occurred under these circumstances. Again, I am so sorry for the loss of your little angel. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Love ya!

Blake & Cheryl Jensen

January 9, 2009

Rian & MeLea,
We just heard of the terrible loss of your sweet little one today and wanted to let you know that our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you at this painful time. May the Lord bless and comfort you and your sweet family.

Suzy Carson

January 9, 2009

Dear Rian and Melea,

I am sorry to hear about Shelbi. My love and prayers are with you. May your hearts be healed by the Grace of God.

Love,
Suzy

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Susan Pierce

January 8, 2009

Dear Melea,
We were so sad to learn of your loss. We were out of town and didn't hear about this till last night. Our hearts ache for you and your family and can't imagine what a hard time you are having. We sincerely hope that the peace of the Gospel will help comfort you and that our Savior's love will support and sustain you until the pain you are feeling is gradually replaced by the wonderful memories of the short time you had with your little princess. Our love also goes out to your parents as I know how difficult it would be to let go of a sweet grandchild. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. It was such a coincidence to find out that you live less than a block away from Josh and his family. You've always been such a strong and happy person. I know the Lord loves you and your family and will help you through this difficult time.
With love from the Pierce Family

Dan and Evonne Carlson

January 8, 2009

Rian and MeLea,

We are heartbroken to learn about your loss. No parent should have to endure this. Our deepest sympathies go to you and all your family. I know that your faith will keep you strong at this time. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Susan Hansen

January 8, 2009

My most sincere prayers are with your entire family through the loss of your little angel. I just received an email from Marcia this a.m. and did not know. I work with Jack and Jared and just want you all to know how saddened I am by this news for you but I know this little girl must be very special and very strong for Heavenly Father to need her at this time. You will be deeply blessed for giving her her needed time here on earth and being such a good family for her to experience. Much Love In Christ, Sue Hansen

Shirley Crider

January 7, 2009

Dear Elwell family I'm so sorry. I understand completely and pray Heavenly Father will be with all of you. Rian I'm Aunt Janices friend that knew you when you were little...........Shirley Crider

January 7, 2009

Dear Rian & Melea,
We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter Shelbi. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow. May the happy and beautiful memories of your daughter, help to carry you through this sorrowful time.
With our deepest sympathy and love.
Max L. & Jean R. Howard
Sandy, Utah

Stephanie (formerly Gibbens) Lynn

January 7, 2009

Rian and MeLea,

I want to express our condolences. We were deeply saddended to hear about what happened to your precious daughter, Shelbi. We (my husband, Eric and I and our son) were not able to make it time for the viewing due to unreliable directions but we were there for the funeral services and the funeral was beautiful.

I wanted to approach you and give you a hug and give you our support but the family prayer had just ended and you and Rian was at the casket with Shebli, spending one last moment with her and wrapping her up before the casket was being closed so I decided to leave you alone and let you have that moment alone with her and not let that moment be interrupted and I am so glad I did not interrupt because I wanted you to remember it.

With the Gospel in our lives, just know that we will see each other in the next life, makes it all worth it...May the Lord bless you and your family...With Love,

Allyssa & Brady Cluff

January 7, 2009

It's nice to see this book for others to express their sympathies for you. I'm grateful that you have so many friends and families who care and thought of your family. You both are amazing, and we hope that both of you will find peace throughout all of this. We'll always remember your daughter. We're sure that she'll want all of us to be happy and she'll be anxious to see all of us again someday. Our lives here will be short when we can have all eternity! :)
With lots of love, Brady and Allyssa Cluff

Brittany Donaldson

January 6, 2009

Dear Elwell Family,

My son is in first grade at Pony Express and he shared with me your heartbreaking news. I just wanted to let you all know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Timothy, Benjamin, and Grant Donaldson

Kristine Clayton

January 6, 2009

Elwell Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always. I am very sorry for your loss. Please know we are thinking of you during this time.
With Love,
Nic, Kristine, Dylan & Kelsey Clayton
(Dennis and Wendy Parker's Children)

Deanne Ericksen (Metcalf)

January 5, 2009

Dear Melea and Rian, I can't express how sorry I am to hear about your little princess. I was shocked and sad to hear the news. I'm sorry we couldn't attend the funeral, we were out of town. I heard the service was just beautiful. I just want to express that I'm truly sorry. I regret for not meeting her. She is sure beautiful and looks just like you, Melea. I'm thankful that you and I know the Lord's plan and that you will be able to meet again. I would love to see you when you're ready.

Erich Seal

January 5, 2009

Melea,
I don't know if you even remember me, but I am one of the Seal kids. Due to my receiving poor directions, I wasn't able to make it in time for the viewing, but I was there for the funeral. What an incredibly strong spirit I felt just being there!! From that, I know that you have a very special little girl and that you are an amazing family! I also know that Heavenly Father is pouring out His spirit of peace upon you right now. Your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.

Pua VanHaaften

January 5, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss and simply wanted you to know that you and your family are in our hearts and our prayers. We are friends of the Sheppards and wish you peace and love from our Heavenly Father.

James (Chad's family) Olsen

January 5, 2009

We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful little girl. We have kept you and your family in our prayers and hope that you will be comforted knowing that she is perfect and you will see her again. I know the Lord has work for her to do.

Milton Reedy

January 4, 2009

Dear our special deaf friend, Rian & Melea & family, yes it was difficult to comprehend that you loss the beautiful princess. We were speechless. In our heart that Heavenly father is taking care of her for reason. She is in better place but wont be long before you will reunited her again in short time. Please accept our deepest sympathy from us in Ireland. Hope this words find you in comfort. Love Milton & Ann Reedy

Ayas

January 4, 2009

Sorry to hear about your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you. I deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Kent andJoyce Seal

January 3, 2009

We were so sad to hear of your sweet daughter's passing. Our hearts go out to you. You have been in our thoughts and prayers since we found out about her death from MeLea's father. What a beautiful little girl she is!
We wish we could be there to give you our condolences and love in person but, since we can't, know that we will continue to pray for Heavenly Father's peace to come into your hearts.
With love,
Kent and Joyce Seal

Cathy Pierce

January 3, 2009

Rian and Malea,
We are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how are heart breaks for you. We love you and your family and you are all in our prayers.
With love,
Cathy and Mike Pierce

Morris & Judy Wright

January 3, 2009

Dear Rian and Melea; we were shocked and saddened to learn of the passing of this beautiful little daughter. Please accept our profound sympathy and love. We will keep you in our prayers and know that Father in Heaven will bless you with peace and solace at this time of parting. We have been out of town and didn't know about your loss. We are sorry we didn't know sooner. Love,

Jim & Nancy Macedone

January 3, 2009

Rian & MeLea & boys;

Jim & I were shocked and saddened to hear of your loss of your sweet daughter, please know our thoughts & prayers are with you all. I have always been impressed by the strength of your spirit, let us all look forward to that great reunion when we will have our families together again- and you will hold her in your arms.

Love & hugs-

Judy Lent

January 3, 2009

We are sorry to hear of your loss. We are sure she will brighten Heaven with her smile. Remember families are forever. Love Judy & Dennis Lent

Cheryl Martinez

January 3, 2009

Dearest Rian and Melea and boys,
My deepest broken heart reach all of u, i am so sorry for ur beautiful angel daughter, sister, and her sudden illness death that hit all of ur unexpected loss. For some reason she is in gone but she is being a great angel up in heaven. love ya all... :-x \"/' ( we only know for short time) Love

Gail Jenkins

January 3, 2009

We wanted you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sorry we cannot be there to give you our love and a hug.
Kjell and Gail Jenkins

Johansen Family

January 3, 2009

My heart aches for you today, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.

Megan Jenkins-Dixon

January 3, 2009

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Remember what great family & faith you have to get you through this rough time. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Suzanne Jorgensen RN

January 3, 2009

I am so sorry for the loss of your adorable Shelbi. As one of her nurses, it was very obvious that you took very good care of her and that she is very loved and always will be. For the short time I was with her, Shelbi has touched me and will always be with me.

Kristin Jenkins-Astle

January 3, 2009

I too was sorry to hear about your loss. The only comfort we can take is the promise of eternal life for her. I am not close but if there is anything I can do please let me know.

Charmaine Mendonsa

January 3, 2009

Rian and Melea:

I never met your daughter Shelbi but I saw her on vp (videophone). She was a so pretty girl. Your family all in my thought and my prayer....always in my heart.

- Charmaine from NYC / MD

Hillyard

January 3, 2009

Our hearts and love go out to you at this time. We know that you will hold strong and take peace in knowing Shelbi is alright. We will continue to keep you in our deepest and most sincere prayers. Love your friends the Hillyards.

Holly Postell

January 3, 2009

I was very saddened to hear about your loss, my prays go out to you and the family ..God Bless you all!!

Holladay Family

January 3, 2009

Dear Rian and MeLea, We are so sorry for the loss of your sweet angel. Our prayers for your comfort and peace are with you. God bless you.

Kresser Family

January 2, 2009

We are sadden by your loss. We want you to know that our hearts and prayers are with you. We love you so much and know that you will be together again someday.
LOVE LOTS
Uncle Robert, Aunt Kathy, Kara Cory and Josh

Betty+Eugene Anderson

January 2, 2009

What a beautiful little sweetheart, we are so sorry for your loss. May god be with you at this at this trying time. Heart felt prayers to you and your boys.

Angilyn (Jenkins) Mathews

January 2, 2009

Rian & MeLea,

Today when I saw Shelbi's obituary in the paper I felt so sad for the parents that lost such a beautiful little girl. I couldn't believe it when I noticed the name and my heart ached to see that she was yours. I was thinking about you just the other day and wondered how you were doing, where you were living now, etc. I am so sorry for your loss and pray that you will be strengthened at such a difficult time. I love and miss you.

Your friend,

Debbie (Penrod) Robinson

January 2, 2009

Ted and family,
May the Lord bless you as you remember the beautiful daughter and granddaughter you were given for such a short period of this mortal life. Remember her smiles, her laughter, her love, her joys and her struggles so she may always remain close to you.

January 2, 2009

Elwell Family - We are so sorry for the loss of such a sweet little girl. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during the tough days ahead. Hold tight to your memories.

Love,
Tom, Deni, Jace, & Kylie Archuletta
(Dennis and Wendy's kids)

Christie Lamb

January 2, 2009

I will miss Shelbi coming into my class every day in her snow boots. She was such a bright and vibrant little girl who was always happy and friendly to everyone she came in contact with. I know my students were very lucky to have her as a classmate and I am very lucky to have her as a student! I love you guys and I know Shelbi is with her Heavenly Father. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dennis and Wendy PARKER

January 2, 2009

Rian and Melea,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Words cannot express how sad we are for you.
Love,
Uncle Dennis and Aunt Wendy Parker and girls

Michael & Rex Gaumond

January 2, 2009

Rian and MeLea-
Just wanted you to know you're in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all with peace.

Aunt Nanna and Rex.

Hannah, Holly & Mike Kidd

January 2, 2009

Hannah LOVED Shelbi! She is heartbroken--as we all are. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. She is a beautiful little angel!

Josie Peterson

January 2, 2009

My name is Josie Peterson, and I work for Brad Sheppard. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. Although I did not know Shelbi, she is beautiful. She must have been a very special girl. On October 3 of this year my 17 year old brother passed away, so to hear of another loss of a child just breaks my heart. The coming days a months will be so hard, and pain so real. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My the Lord bless you with comfort during this very trying time.

Stacy Anderson

January 2, 2009

Oh how tough it must be to lose a child... She is a beautiful angel. Our thoughts and prayers are constantly with you and your family. Hugs and love, Jeremy & Stacy Anderson & Family

Bryce & Jennie Hendricks

January 2, 2009

You are in our thoughts and prayers. We miss you guys and wish we could be there to give you all a big hug!! We are so thankful to know that Familes are Forever. We love you!!

Tony and Whitney Child

January 2, 2009

Rian and MeLea-
Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are so grateful for our knowledge of eternal families. You'll be able to see Shelbi again one day. We love you!

Matt and Teresa Larsen

January 2, 2009

Its just not fair! We were sick when we heard what happened and still have a hard time believing it is real....... sorry doesnt begin to express how we feel about the emptiness you must be experiencing. Cameron and Shelbi were always such good friends and good examples for Ryan and Seth. The love we experienced and the many things we learned from your family are treasured memories we think of often. Heavenly Father will be very close to you at this time, he knows what it is like. Christ will help you carry this burden. We pray for your family many times each day, we love you and wish we could be with you now.
Matt and Teresa Larsen

Tara Carpenter

January 2, 2009

Our daughter Halle is in Shelbi's first grade class. She is heartbroken. She loved Shelbi and will miss her terribly. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jennifer Crowther

January 2, 2009

Rian and Melea,

I'm so sorry for ur loss, Shelbi is so beautiful! She is an angel! It hurts my heart! but we all will see her again and family forever!!! Let me know if u need anything! Take care! Be strong! HUGS!

Jennifer (Taylor) Crowther and Family

Judy (Kresser) Loader

January 2, 2009

Malea & Rian: Iam so sorry to read about Shelbi Kay. I don"t think you know me. But your parents(Ted & Roxene Kresser) knows me. Heaven has received a perfect ANGLE. My prayers and thoughts will be with you at this most difficult and trying time in your lifes. Always know you will see her again. God knew a perfect Angle when he saw Shelbi Kay. That is the reason he called her home at such an early age. God bless and be with you always.

Sherman Kirby

January 2, 2009

Rian and Melea,

I am soo very sorry for the loss of sweet Shelbi. I have a constant prayer for your comfort during this unbelievably trying times. I wish I could be there to help and comfort you, but I am there in my heart with you all. I hope you can take comfort in knowing your family will be united again for eternity. I will bring my family down to see you all when I get back. Love and miss you all. Sherman

Dave, Nikki, Grace and Lydia Kelley

January 2, 2009

Rian and Melea,
We love you and your family. Our hearts and prayers go to you and your sweet boys. May the Lord comfort you at this time. Shelbie was a sweet little angle on this earth. She is now with our Heavenly Father. We loved her.

Julie Brown

January 2, 2009

Dear Elwell family, We are so sorry to hear the news of the loss of your little princess and angel. Her picture is how I remember her, with a big smile. I know you must feel heartbroken, but rest assured that God loves you and you will feel his tender mercies in your life. We have such fond memories of your family and feel so blessed that we got to know you while you were living in MT. Our prayers are with you. Love Julie and Cary Brown

Mele'Ofa Baker

January 2, 2009

We are praying for you and our thoughts are with you all. I am so sorry.

Christine Mair

January 2, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your little angel. My prayers are with your family at this time.

Jared & Amie Loftus

January 2, 2009

We are so sorry to hear about this. Our daughter Ashlin was so sad to hear of this - she loved having Shelbi as a friend at school - she will be missed!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
~Love the Loftus family

Jennifer Hartley

January 2, 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss

T. Jessop

January 2, 2009

Your family are all in our prayers and thoughts!!!
I am sorry to hear of the loss of a loved one... :(
We will pray for you and peace of mind knowing she is with our Heavenly Father now.

Cheryl Solis

January 2, 2009

We are sorry to hear of Shelbi's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

--The Solis Family
(John, Cheryl, Cassie, Alicia, Kelly, Makenna, Emily and Josh)

A Mother

January 2, 2009

WHat wonderful people you must be to have been blessed with such an angel. Shelbi is beautiful. My heart goes out to you at this time. May you find comfort in knowing one day you will be with her again.

Erin Kirby

January 2, 2009

We were so sad to hear about Shelbi. We will always remember her for her love to dress up as princesses, her beautiful smile, and cheerfulness. She was always so friendly and willing to talk! We have fond memories of the time we shared with your family and her time with Shay. Wish we could be with you at this time. Our prayers are with you~

Kristin Waters

January 2, 2009

Rian and MeLea, My heart is broken for you. After I talked to you 2 days ago, I found comfort in knowing that Shelbi is with Grandpa and Grandma. I am sending you loving thoughts and prayers.

Scott Smith

January 2, 2009

Rian and Melea, Our thoughts and Prayers have been with you and your family for the last couple of days. They will continue to be with you.

Scott and Diane Smith

Karen Young

January 2, 2009

Dear Melea, My heart goes out to you and your family. The passing of a loved one is difficult. How grateful we are for a loving Heavenly Father and the peace he extends to us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this time.

We love you, Karen, Ethan and Jake Young

Dan and Nicole Baldwin

January 2, 2009

We all loved little Shelbi and will miss her at family dinners. She was such a little sweetheart with a winning smile. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Donna Wilkins

January 2, 2009

I'm sorry about your beatiful daughter. my thought was with your family in my prayers. W
e love you all..

Love, Donna and Roger Wilkins and kids

eric molloy

January 2, 2009

Shelbi Kay Elwell

I am sorry to hear of your loss you and your husband. I was remember to meet to your family at house and I look to lovely and beautiful your draughter too nice and really kind it. I felt my know to believe very sad it. we will pray to bless for your family.

lots of love
Eric and Laura molloy.
England, west yorkshire we live in Huddersfield,

Marie & Trent Hendricks

January 1, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We will pray for you.

Susie Wee-Bishara

January 1, 2009

We are struggling to find the comfortable word for your overwhelmed grief. We look at the picture, it beguiles us that she would live an invincible life but it reminds us that life can be fragile. We feel your weep and your brutal heartache, also, we pray that we may feel your steadfast hope and endure until you achieve the glory where you will truly enjoy the blessing being with your Shebi once again and for the eternity. Only we pray that the Holy Spirit comforts you and carries you through the most difficult time is the best we can give at this moment.

Susie and Samond

Amy Barrick

January 1, 2009

I don't know you, but my husband and I lost our little four year old girl to a sudden illness about three years ago. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. This will be a hard, hard time. Your faith will sustain you. Please contact us if you need to.
Mike and Amy Barrick
Cedar City, UT

Trish James

January 1, 2009

Sawyer sobbed when he heard the news. We are all so heartbroken for you, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord's comforting powers rest on you. Shelbi will be missed by many.

Kaycee Hammer

January 1, 2009

I will never forget her similing face. I want you to know how much I looked up to your family. May God be with you at this time!

Lori & Chuck Harding

January 1, 2009

What a beautiful angel! Our prayers are with you and your family. All our love!

Rachel Crane

January 1, 2009

Rian, MaLea, and family.
So sorry to hear about your sweet Shelbi. Know that we are thinking of you and sending a few prayers your way.

Matt and Rachel Crane in Heber City

January 1, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. When you lose a child there are no words to express how your feeling. I have 3 children, and I can honestly say that it would be the hardest thing to go through.Know that the Lord is with you, and that you will see her again. I really believe that the lord takes certain children, because they are the chosen ones. She must have been very faithful before she came to earth. I really believe the Lord allowed her to return home, so she would not have to go through the trials that we are going experience here in the last days, Know that my prayers are with you. She was a beautiful little girl, and I hope that you find comfort knowing you will see her again some day.

January 1, 2009

I am sorry for your loss. It was just the other day she was teaching the primary sign language. She was taught by very righteous parents who helped her fulfill her calling her on earth. May peace be with your family in this time of need.

Kevin & Nikki Turner

January 1, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. Our son Alex sits next to Shelbie in class. When we found out, he, and us were so upset. We want you to know, from our family that we are so sorry and our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

Wayne Adams

January 1, 2009

I am sad to hear about your loss. You may have lost a princess, but Heaven has gained a special Queen. She will take care of your family spiritually. You're in my prayers.

Wayne x x x x

Shellee (Lundgren) Carrick

January 1, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss of your daughter. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

John and Angie Crane

January 1, 2009

Malea and Rian, we are so sorry for this loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
I know she's in heaven telling grandpa Fred all about her wonderful life and what great and loving parents she has. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

Lisa and Henrie Miller

January 1, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Kay McEwen

January 1, 2009

Our condolences and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow."...little children are holy, being sanctified through the atonement of Jesus Christ..." D&C 74:7 Shelbi Kay looks like an angel. Kay & Fina McEwen

David & Trudy Bezzant Family

January 1, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We know Shelbi is in a better place and you will see her again. We love you, your cousins.

Heidi (Groo) Tilman

January 1, 2009

I am so sorry. I never got the chance to meet her but I bet she was wonderful. Always remember that this is part of the plan and you will see her again. Until then live every day like its the last and just charish the children you have with you still. Again I am truly sorry.

Lois Rosario

January 1, 2009

Lois and Mike Rosario
Our heart is with you at this difficult time. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Willes and Karen Thorne

January 1, 2009

There are no words to say how sorry we are hearing this sad, sad news. We know that you must be hurting so very much with this loss and we are fervently praying that Heavenly Father will give you special blessings of comfort. We love you guys and hope you will find the peace that comes only from knowing that families are eternal and that every sadness will be replaced with ten times the joy when you are together again. All our love, The Thornes

Buttons and Marion Chappell (Toris mom and dad)

January 1, 2009

Our hearts ache for you,,We are truly sorry for your loss.
Know you are in our thoughts.

Sandra Link

January 1, 2009

She is such a sweetheart. Sorry for your loss. But Family are forever! Our prayers and thoughts are with you. We love you all.
--Sandra & the boys

Christopher & Alicia Flygare

January 1, 2009

Our most sincere condolences in this difficult time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. How wondrous and comforting it is to know of the promise of being able to be with our families eternally. God bless.

Michelle Hofferber

January 1, 2009

We love you very much and have a constant prayer in our hearts for you all.
The Hofferber Family- Billings MT

Cami Wilding

January 1, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Hugs.
--Cami and girls

January 1, 2009

My goodness, what a GORGEOUS little angel. The Heavens are rejoicing. I know your hearts are brokem. May the Lord shower you with peace and carry you at this time. I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
Sincerely, another Mother who understands.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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