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Sharon Raymond Obituary
She was born Sept. 2, 1966, at Portsmouth Regional Hospital, the daughter of Thornton G. Tobey and Carole Mary (Muder) Blethen.
Sharon was raised in Kittery, Maine, and graduated from R.W. Traip Academy in 1982.
She married Henry Raymond in 1986. They had two children, Eric Logan Raymond, age 18, and Grace Loren Raymond, age 7.
In addition to her husband and children, she is survived by her father, Thornton G. Tobey and partner Norma Valentine; mother Carole Blethen and husband Larry; sister Debra Fredette and partner Carol Stiles; brother Brandon Blethen and wife Whitney; niece Amanda Tobey; and nephews Christopher Tobey and Mark Washburn and wife, Lisa, and their two, children Olivia and Blaine.
She was predeceased by her brother, Christopher Russell Tobey, who died May 11, 2008.
WE REMEMBER: Sharon attended Norwich University in Vermont, the University of North Dakota and New Hampshire Technical College.
She became a licensed practical nurse in 1995 and a registered nurse in 1996. Sharon was well known and loved in the community as a skilled and compassionate nurse. She was an administrative nursing supervisor at Frisbie Memorial Hospital in Rochester for 10 years. She also worked as a nursing supervisor at Portsmouth Regional Hospital. She made dear friends at her work places, making them a part of her family.
Sharon wanted her children to know that they were the most important things in the world to her. She was a nurturing and loving mother and an incredible advocate for their educational needs.
Sharon established the Reach to Recovery Program at Frisbie Memorial Hospital and volunteered to help newly diagnosed breast cancer patients cope with their situation. She was also a Reiki practitioner and she offered her services for free as a way of giving back to others.
Sharon was a fabulous cook, making everything from extravagant meals with her husband for family gatherings to her top secret recipe for carrot cake for her brother's wedding.
Sharon loved spending time with her family and she was especially fond of the beach. She adored her devoted golden retriever, Dakota, also known as "Fatty." Sharon was deeply loved by her family. She was a wonderful wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, neighbor, nurse and role model.
SERVICES: Flowers are welcome or in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Reach to Recover Program at the Frisbie Memorial Hospital. Friends and family may call from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Monday, with a funeral service to follow at 1 p.m. at Wiggin-Purdy-McCooey-Dion Funeral Home, 655 Central Ave., Dover. To sign an online guest book, visit www.purdyfuneralservice.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Sharon Raymond
Donna (Appleby) Clifford
May 1, 2009
I am so saddened to hear of such a loss of a wonderful person. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Angela Butler
April 24, 2009
I feel privileged to say that I had the opportunity to work with Sharon. Incredible RN and patient advocate. Not many nurses have the special qualities and talent that Sharon possessed. I admire her strength and courage during her fight for life and also her family's strength in supporting her. She may be physically gone from our lives but she will never leave my thoughts. What a nurse, what a person and what a great role model. Our paths crossed for a reason! And I will never live down the "recees and kilbasa" joke from Sharon.
CC Dickinson
April 23, 2009
To Sharon's family and friends,
Sharon was one of the sweetest, kindest, and most caring person who I know will be missed by all.
I volunteer at the hospital which gave me some special moments/times to talk with Sharon. She so loved her family and her friends,as well as co workers.
all of you played such a special part in her life and during her most difficult times. It was you that gave her hope and the courage to keep strong and wear thata beautiful smile.
One of my volunteer postions is that I visit with patients to talk with them about many things. Of course, I always hear about the staff, Sharon being one. How they loved her , her humor, her sincere heart for them, always caring about not just thier illness but them as a person. They would laugh with her, listen to her advice and rsepect her as a nurse and as a person.
Sharon will live on forever , in the hearts of many many people.
She will be missed for many reasons, her loyal friendship, her knowledge, her smile, her laughter, her courage and of course her cooking and all those special treats she use to bake. I love that special secret " carrot cake" that she would never share,lol always saying it is a family secret.
We have so many special memories, they never die but remain to help us cope with the loss.
Sharon, I know your angel now looking over all of us, still caring that we feel loved.
What a grand celebration it must have been when you entered those gates. Having your brother greet you must have been one awesome site.
You will always be remembered
CC Dickinson
Christy Dubois
April 22, 2009
I had the priveledge of working with Sharon for a short time at Frisbie. She was an incredible nurse! She always said something to make me laugh! I will never forget when she bought her car "Pearl" (I think) she was so happy and funny. Henry, she always cracked me up when whe would call you her pool boy! You and your precious children are in my thoughts and prayers!
Sharon, you were one of a kind and will be missed!
Maddy Bottari Eaton
April 22, 2009
Thank you for inviting me to share Reiki with Sharon the day before she left this Earth. I felt in her presence deep abiding peace. It was a joy to know her and share in her love of Reiki. May you be comforted with your memories of her and her love.
Carolyn Williams
April 21, 2009
To all of Sharon's family,
As an in-patient physical therapist, I had worked along side Sharon during her years at Frisbie. One of my 1st memories of her was when she was expecting Grace and she was sharing with staff at work the 1st name her then 7 yr old son had picked out for his baby sister.. I think it was "Velvet or Violet" something. She got such a kick out it and it made us all smile too.
She wasn't afraid to stand up for what she believed was the right thing to do and she knew how to get things done. She was a force to be reckoned with, and as I have learned, a tower of strength.
I will also remember her delicious baked goods that she so generously shared with all who visited her Nursing floor.
With deepest sympathy to you during this difficult time.
Michelle Parsons
April 21, 2009
To The Raymond family,
I am saddened by your loss. I was always impressed by Sharon's strong spirit and fierce devotion to Grace. I hope that you can gain some strength from this spirit to help guide you through this very difficult time.
christopher arsenault
April 20, 2009
I am sorry for your loss , My thoughts and prayers go out to the family
lizzy styves
April 20, 2009
henry,family,sharon touched many of our lives threw the years,she was a wonderful nurse,a great friend,,a wonderful mom,now a beautiful angel to look open us all,
Anne Deminoff
April 20, 2009
Dear Henry, Eric, and Grace,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. With our deepest sympathy,
Strafford Learning Center
April 20, 2009
Our thoughts are with you...we are all thinking of you.
Golden Harvest and Carl's Meat Market
Linda Jay
April 20, 2009
Henry and family,
Sharon touched many hearts. She helped me though my cancer and taught me to laugh. She will be watching over all of you and her family at Frisbie and Portsmouth.
Todd Daigle
April 20, 2009
Henry,
My families thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. I hope you can find some comfort in god and in your
cherished memories.
The Daigle Family
Heather Jones
April 20, 2009
We are sorry for your loss. Our Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Heather & Shawn
Ross & joyce Turco
April 19, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Danielle Cline
April 19, 2009
Sharon touched the lives of so many. For me she made me not only a better nurse, but a better person. I will miss her. My heart goes out to her family.
Jessie Rankin-Carll
April 19, 2009
To Sharon's family, I am so sorry for your loss. Sharon was a wonderful person, and she showed great strength and courage every day, no matter the circumstances. She was a true professional and her sense of humour helped all of us on those hectic evenings. She brought a sense of teamwork to the staff, as well as her best cookie recipies. She had the best smile--it lit up the room. I know that she is watching over us as an angel now. My prayers are with you and always with her. Jessie
Nancy Knight
April 19, 2009
When I think of Sharon I remeber the little girl who didn't like to get dirty and insisted on wearing a dress all the time. I remember the special friendship she shared with my daughter Jolene, the many sleepovers, and the secrets they shared (if only for a little while) especially on one particular New Year's Eve.
Then there's the memory of a beautiful blushing Bride on her wedding day, walking towards Henry, with her dress that had a mile of ruffles.
I remember the excited expectant mother who jokingly said she wanted a present for the baby every time I saw her and the smile on her face when I complied. I remember the devoted wife & mother whose Love knew no bounds.
I will also remember the woman who fought cancer with strenght, courage, & an iron will. She truely was an inspiration to all of us.
To Sharon's loving family & friends, my heart aches for you during this great time of sorrow. May your memories help to ease some of your pain, for memories are like a treasure chest...all you have to do is open the lid and they come flooding out, which I hope will help to restore your smile. With caring thoughts and love - Nancy
Bonnie Painter
April 19, 2009
My darling friend Deb,
My heart aches for your loss. Having grown up with you, Sharon was always in our picture as well. I was blessed to have known Sharon as an adult ... and to have our children (Dan & Eric) play together. I know Sharon left this world to go to a better place. No more pain, where she is at; no more worries either, for she knows how faithful you will be to Henry, Eric and Grace. You are an angel Deb.
Amee Haas
April 19, 2009
Brandon, Whitney & Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We may not have known Sharon personally but we learned so much about her from all the amazing stories about not only her courageous fight to beat this disease but how much she loved her family, especially her children and all the amazing things she has done in her life that Whitney and Brandon so graciously shared. We took from these stories that Sharon was an amazing woman and a true fighter! We are so sadden to hear this news as we know this loss is truly painful to your family! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and we hope you all heal from this terrible loss and know she is in a better place and no longer in pain. We love you,we are thinking of you and please call if you need anything at all! Love, Matt and Amee Haas
Megan Zopf
April 18, 2009
Thorny and Carol,
I know words mostly fail in times like this but I did want to let you know that our hearts ache for you. I am sure Sharon lives on in the hearts of all that came to know her. Her work on earth will continue to shine. Her love and compassion is proof that there is a higher meaning above this life. She has helped pave the way for all that came to know her until we all meet again. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Arlene Carlson and her children, Monty, Dale and Megan
Your Bus Driver Melody LaMore
April 18, 2009
Henry, Eric and Grace,
I am awful sorry for your loss. Sharon was one of the strongest woman I have ever met. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
James & Becky Reinhold
April 18, 2009
To all of Sharon's family,
We were happy to have known Sharon through Whitney and Brandon and are very sorry for your loss.
We hope you will remember the good times and moments you shared with her.
With sympathy and love,
James & Becky
Nonie Mayo
April 18, 2009
My prayers and thoughts are with Sharon's family, may you find peace of mind...I personally worked with Sharon at Frisbie , she was a great RN...She was an awesome coworker,friend, always willing to go the extra mile...Sharon was the most courage woman that I've ever known...She was always worried about everyone else and not herself...It was truely a blessing to have known such a great person...
Gabrielle Morse
April 18, 2009
Henry, Eric & Grace,
I had the honor of working with Sharon at Frisbie. She never, ever failed to make you smile/laugh when you needed to; she was always willing to teach, and she wasn't afraid to stand up for what she felt was right. She loved you all fiercely! I am a better nurse and human being because of her. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Angel
April 18, 2009
Sorry for your loss of a good mother,wife,child,sister,Friend and care giver.
April 18, 2009
With deepest sympathy on your loss. Our thoughts and prayer are you all.
Shawn and Carrie Arsenault
Jodi Schroeder RN
April 18, 2009
Raymond Family,
I worked with Sharon at Frisbie Hospital several years ago. She was a wonderful nurse and had the best sense of humor. I saw Sharon a few years ago on the "Cruise to Bermuda", although that cruise was nerve wracking to say the least, it was nice to have seen Sharon again. My thoughts are with you all at this time.
Arwen Printy
April 17, 2009
Sharon has been brining in her family to me for haircuts since before Gracie was born. It was my pleasure to have know her. I always knew I would have a good day if Sharon had an appointment. Thank you Sharon, for what you have inspired in all of us. I will think of you often. All my sympathys to her family.
Rita Vied
April 17, 2009
Sharon brought happiness to all that knew her. I felt very sad to hear of her death. I will always remember Sharon as a wonderful person and nurse. She truely inspired other nurses to better themselves. I am not at all surprised that Sharon ran with the Reach to Recovery program at Frisbie Memorial. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and all the friends that knew her.
Mark Toussaint
April 17, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Sharon's family. Sharon's courage and positive attitude through this ordeal was inspirational, and so was the strength, love, and support that you all gave her.
Ken McCarron & Family
April 17, 2009
Henry, Eric & Grace,
You have our deepest sympathies for your loss. Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. Sharon was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed .
Karen Langlois
April 17, 2009
Sharon, you will be sorely missed. We love you! - Karen
David Jacques
April 17, 2009
Carole, Im so sorry to hear of your lost, Its so hard when its one of your own children. My prayers are with you and Larry, I remember her around your house when we use to hang around together, she was a real sweetheart. Take care.
Leslie Myers Strong RN
April 17, 2009
I was deeply saddened to hear of Sharon's death. She was a loving, caring and courageous woman and a role model to us all. She loved her family deeply and my thoughts are with you. May her strength give you strength in the days ahead.
Jolene Knight-Ballou
April 17, 2009
It's so hard to understand why loved ones are taken from us, but please take comfort in knowing Sharon was such a special part of so many lives. I will always be grateful for the memories I have of her. I only hope that your own personal & wonderful memories ease your grief & guide you during this time of sorrow. Memories are the true legacy of love. Our hearts ache for you and you'll continue to be in our thoughts & prayers.
Love Jolene, Bob , Zachary & Trevor
Susan Gelinas
April 17, 2009
To Sharon's Family~
I first met Sharon when we both worked at Rochester Manor several years ago. I remember her giving me a gift during Social Worker's Month and how that made me feel. She was the only person to acknowledge how special this was to me, especially being a brand new social worker! Sharon and I worked together again at Frisbie Memorial Hospital. I was so happy to be working with her again. She always had such a quick wit and wonderful sense of humor. She was loved and respected by her co-workers and patients. She really cared and made a difference. I truly feel blessed that our lives crossed paths. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
And to Sharon~
"People will forget what you said, People will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". In Love & Friendship, Sue
Corinne George
April 17, 2009
Dear Henry, Eric, and Grace,
We are so sorry for the loss of Sharon... we feel blessed to have known her ~ she was an amazing woman with amazing strength and will certainly be missed... Please know we are thinking of you all ~
Hugs, Corinne, Bill, William, Ethan, Courtney & Snickers George
Sarah Johnston
April 17, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sally Leary
April 17, 2009
Debbie,
I was so sorry to hear of your sisters death. I didn't know her very well, just seeing her as your little sister at your house. She sounded like a wonderful, caring person who I know you will miss terribly. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Joann Hebert
April 17, 2009
Dear Raymond Family,
I had the priviledge of working with Sharon at Frisbie Hospital. She was an excellent nurse, a great friend and had a wonderful sense of humor. She will surely be missed. Please accept my deepest sympathy and know you are in my prayers,
Joann Hebert RN
Terry Wood
April 17, 2009
Thorny and Carol, I am sop sorry for your loss.
Charlotte Spinucci
April 17, 2009
To Sharon's Family
Sharon was a wonderful nurse to my father who was at Frisbie for over two years. She was always willing to listen to my fathers needs even when she was not feeling well herself. Right up to my fathers death he always thought of Sharon. She will be missed by so many people. Both my husband and I was saddened by hearing she had pasted. She is no longer in pain, God love her.
Coreen Toussaint
April 17, 2009
Sharon was a strong, kind, caring, and loving person and she will be greatly missed. I feel blessed to have had her in my life. My heart goes out to her family and friends in this difficult time. Peace be with you Sharon. I love you.
Jessie Powell & Family
April 17, 2009
Deb & Family,
I am deeply sorry for the passing of Sharon. May you find comfort in the memories that will be with you forever.You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Jessie
April 17, 2009
Henry, Eric and Gracie,
Our deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you. Sharon was an incredible example of strength, determination and courage. May your loving memories bring you peace and comfort.
God saw her strength was fading,
He did what He thought was best.
He put His hand upon her shoulder, and said "Come home and rest".
Keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
The Gobron Family
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