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Dave Fontana Obituary
The memorial for Dave Fontana is scheduled for Oct. 17, which would have been his 38th birthday. He died at the World Trade Center on Sept. 11, on his eighth wedding anniversary.
Mr. Fontana was a firefighter with the elite Squad 1 unit, stationed in Park Slope, Brooklyn, where he lived with his wife, Marian, and 5-year-old son, Aidan. Neighbors were shocked by the news that 12 men from the small firehouse on Union Street had died, but they took his loss especially hard.
Dave Fontana was a man's man. He volunteered his time for the Boy Scouts. He read to children. He worked tirelessly to find the names of firefighters who had fallen in World War II so that dedication plaques could be hung in the firehouses where they had served.
A trained sculptor, Mr. Fontana was known for the elaborate Halloween costumes he and his son wore in the annual neighborhood parade. "You know Dave Fontana?" Aidan asked the other day. "I love Dave Fontana."
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Kim Cushing
September 11, 2024
Thinking of Dave & his family today
Cindy Roe
September 13, 2021
Remembering Dave on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
July 1, 2019
Thank you for your sacrifice David. Im sure your family still mourns your loss, and the FDNY lost a valued lieutenant.
Alex Lai
The Kindred Family
November 15, 2018
We send our continued sincere condolences to your family. The passing of time doesn't always end the pain of losing a loved one. Daily may God give the comfort and help needed. Dave touched many lives and will always be missed.
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Kim Cushing
September 11, 2017
Dave,
I am again thinking of you and the other people who died on 9/11/01 - all of them strangers to me - but mostly I think of you and of Marian and Aidan. I know it is also your wedding anniversary, and my heart breaks for your family. Rest in Peace, Dave.
Kimberly Cushing
October 17, 2016
Thinking of Dave, Marian, Aidan, and Dave's family today on his birthday.
Ali Ferrari-Fontana
September 12, 2016
the loss of such a generous soul seems to hurt more with each year
Kimberly Cushing
September 12, 2016
Thought of you and Marian and Aidan throughout the day yesterday.
Sue Bailey
September 11, 2016
Remembering....as always.
Richard Fontana
June 8, 2016
6-8-16 Just the other day my wife and I saw a memorial flag with the names of the victims of 9/11. This was in a office at our Beaver County Court House, in Beaver, PA. I had to fight back the tears when I read David's name. I wish that I had known this Brave, Kind young man. But now that I see his picture and read the story of him and his family and friends. I will never forget. And I will try to have the courage and kindness that David brought to this world. Sincerely Richard T. Fontana.
Jack Lopez
September 11, 2015
My name is Jack lopez. I participated today in a ceremony at Red Rocks Park in Denver. We walked besides firefighters from all over Colorado and elsewhere the amount of stairs equal to the number of flights at the World Trade Center. The theme is "we climb because they climbed". It is a moving tribute for all. I was given a badge to wear with David`s photo. After reading his profile, I am very proud and honored to carry his memory with me this day. I salute him and all those in his profession.
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you today.
John and Adrienne Gathmann
The Cushing Family
September 11, 2015
We will never forget your sacrifice.
Kimberly Cushing
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you, Marian, and Aidan.
Barbie Washington
September 10, 2015
We will never forget!
Thank you for being our hero! My thoughts to your son and family.
Michele Gottlieb
September 9, 2015
May you rest in peace. God bless you for the ultimate sacrifice that day.
Leslie Rottino
September 8, 2015
My heart goes out to his family! I grew up with David in Westbury. I lived on Small Place and we used to ride our bicycles around the neighborhood. I will never forget him. He will always be a hero! Very Sad! So devastating!
AL GRAY
September 5, 2015
FROM OUR FAMILY ..Thinking of Fontana family ..God BLESS..your old neighbors on Dryden st.
Barbie Washington
September 11, 2014
You aren't forgotten Mr. Fontana. I never had the privilege of meeting you. I read your wife's book a few years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and the others that lost their lives on 9-11 and in the fight against terrorism. My heart goes out to each family & friend that are grieving. May God bless!
Kim Cushing
September 11, 2014
Dave, we never met, but your wife has made you and your family a part of my life forevermore. I think of you, Marian & Aidan on this day, as I do each year, with gratitude and sadness.
Nicole Bardzinski
September 11, 2014
David I think of you often and miss you always. I'm honored to have know you and been able to call you my cousin. You were one of a kind and touch ever life in a positive way that was lucky enough to have met you. RIP
Sayungu M?K?nana
September 11, 2014
THANK YOU
Ali Ferrari-Fontana
September 11, 2014
Your cousin Ali Ferrari-Fontana missing and loving you more with the passing of each year
Shane Weber
May 18, 2014
We have never met before. I have been a lifeguard at Jones Beach for 11 years, and work at field 6 for the six of them.
Inside of our shack there is a picture and plaque of you hanging above the door.
Even though I only know you through pictures and stories other lifeguards share, I feel spiritually connected to you some how. Perhaps it was our shared love of jones beach. Maybe we're just kindred souls.
My girlfriend's father also died in 9/11, and every year I visit the memorial, I've looked for your name and placed a flower in your letters.
Today I visited the 9/11 museum, a powerful and worthy tribute to people like you. I looked for your name and picture on the wall, and couldn't find it. When I lowered my head, there you were, Dave Fontana, staring right back at me the whole time.
I'm not sure why I needed to write this, but I did. I want you and your family to know that there is some jones beach lifeguard out there who will always think about you.
Barbie Washington
September 12, 2013
God Bless
Sue Fontana
September 11, 2013
Marian: Thinking and praying for you, as always.
Ali Ferrari-Fotana
September 11, 2013
Still feel the pain and loss of that day and all the days since. You were an everyday hero, my closest cousin. Never forgotten, always remembered.
Kim Cushing
September 11, 2013
Marian & Aidan,
Thinking of you on this day...and remembering your husband and father. Hope this finds you with joy in your lives, and comforting memories of Dave.
With love,
Maya Shoup
May 14, 2013
Hello, my name is Maya and a select group of students are going to New York to visit the memorial sites. Each person going was given one or two firefighters to research and create a memerorial for, and one of my firefighters is Dave. From what I read just on this webpage, I can tell that Dave was an astounding man and a kind soul. It's a tragedy that he was lost that day. I read a very small portion of a Widow's Walk before my teacher had to give it to someone else, and I would very much like to get it and read it. If you'd like to contact me to help me with descriptions or pictures of Dave, you can email my teacher, Mr. Chrvala. Whatever you can do, that'd be great!
Nicholas Green
May 6, 2013
My name is Nicholas green and I recently ran a race/obstacle called "hero rush" here in Maryland. There was a wave in the race to Recognize fallen firefighters from 9/11 being a baltimore city firefighter I thought it would be a experience to run in the race. Each runner in the 9/11 wave was given a number to wear with a name of a fallen member on it, I happen to have David's. I ran the race hard and fast thinking of the name on my chest. After I wanted to know who he was so I researched and landed here. I ment something to me having ran with his name I just wanted to let someone out side my family and friends know that this had happened and that he is a all around hero.
Nicholas Green
BCFD
E23
Barbara Washington
September 12, 2012
May you Rest in peace Mr. Fontana.
Mrs. Fontana and Aidan, I pray you are both well. I can imagine Aidan as a young adult now. Having faith that the Lord has provided some peace and comfort to make your days and nights easier. Praying you both found happiness.
I am just a person who has red, white and blue running in my veins and who read your lovely book. Thank you for allowing us into your lives.
Mike
September 12, 2012
God Bless you, Dave, and your 342 brothers. May He watch over your family. You will never be forgotten.
September 11, 2012
All our thoughts and prayers are with you
The Johnson family
Big moose lake
September 11, 2012
Marian & Aidan,
Thinking of you both today...hope this finds you well.
Kim Cushing
Glen Ellyn, Illinois
Sue Fontana
September 11, 2012
Marian: My thoughts and prayers on this day, as always.
louise lord
July 4, 2012
rest in peace...you are a hero who gave the ultimate sacrifice
chris balltree
September 27, 2011
dear dave fontana
i was looking on this website and saw stuff about 9/11 and i just wanted to thank you for all you did to protect our country and save other peoples lives. our school is planting a flower in your memories.
Mike DeMartini
September 25, 2011
Dear Mr Fontana My name is Mike DeMartini I'm a firefighter in Charlotte NC on September 11 2011 I carried a badge with your name, we did a memorial stair climb in honor of all that had passed away on 9/11/01 My company climbed 110 flights I had your name badge with me as a memorial to you and your company. It was a honor to have you with me and I plan on doing the memorial stair climb next year I will have your name badge with me again to honor you and all the people that passed away on 9/11. God bless you and your family Mr. Fontana
lm
September 11, 2011
Although I didn't know you, I watch for your name each year on the 9/11 services. I'll never forget walking into my 8th grade Earth Science class that morning, right as news broke the towers were hit. Your brother, Mr. Daguerre as I knew him, told us you were headed to Ground Zero to help and that everything would be okay. You are a true hero. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today and always. May you rest in peace.
Vincent Fontana
September 11, 2011
David,God Bless you and all the dear souls we lost on that awful day. America will never forget the sacrafices you made and you will live forever in the hearts and minds of your families and people who didnt know you personaly. We will never forget.
John Fontana
September 11, 2011
We will never forget the sacrifice David and the others paid on that dreadfull day. Always know you are surrounded by people who love and care for you. God Bless... John Fontana & family
Leann Spencer
September 10, 2011
I never knew you. I was handed a prayer card on Sept. 22, 2001. Your name was on it. I was pregnant with my oldest daughter at the time. I cannot imagine what you and all the others went thru that awful day. But I will remember and pray for you and your family always. God bless you forever and always.
Mike
September 10, 2011
May God Bless you and your family. You will never be forgotten.
Chris McDonald
September 7, 2011
David was a great guy! I remember him always being so funny and upbeat, but mostly I remember him as Vicki's little brother! We were all so proud of him (and kind of astounded) when he became a fireman. What a fine man he was. He is REALLY missed!
Sandi
September 7, 2011
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.
How rich are those that were touched by Dave.
May we never forget the sacrifices that were made that day.
Sue Fontana
September 6, 2011
Marian: All my prayers are with you during the approach of this 10th year anniversary. May your future shine bright to remember the good that life brings.
Ed & Odessa Mauro
April 20, 2011
You've left us a legacy of love and compassion. Thank God for bringing you into our lives and teaching us that we are all sisters and brothers. You will remain in our hearts forever. God bless your soul as He looks over your family.
Vinny Pickford
April 20, 2011
We stood side by side on September 8th of that year to celebrate 10 years on the job. You raised a glass and toasted Chris who our class lost years earlier. 3 days later you were taken from us. At the reunion this year the toast will be for you. You are missed.
September 11, 2010
David,
Westbury high: I remember your dimples, your rosy cheeks and your kindness. You are a king of kings!
Randy Smalls
Mike
September 11, 2010
When it is dark enough, you can see the stars" ---Charles Beard
God Bless You. Dave. You and your brothers lost on 9/11/01 are the stars shining through the darkness.
Sue Fontana
September 11, 2010
Marian, my prayers are with you always.
Ana
May 18, 2010
Learning your story has been a gift. I share your passion for history, and it's wonderful that people are working to preserve your story, just as you strove to preserve the stories of so many service members who sacrificed their lives. You, like the men you sought to honor, are a hero who will never be forgotten.
Sarah
April 12, 2010
I like the fact that people (like myself) who don't even know Dave Fontana are able to pay tribute to him. I was only four when September Eleventh, 2001 occurred, so I don't have much of a memory of it. I have to do a project on Dave Fontana, but i am glad i can research him. He is a good example of a model citizen. To all of his loved ones, I keep you in my prayers. The lost of a loved one is always hard. I lost a loved one myself, and i don't go a day with out thinking of him. I am sorry for you. God bless you and your family.
Aracelis (Sally) Rivera
September 11, 2009
Hey David,
May you rest in peace and be around your wife and son always. You and I graduated from Westbury High School and we were in a few classes together. I didn't find out you passed on at WTC until a few years later and I was shocked. Your wife and son will be added to my prayers. God Bless your family.
JUlia Aussenard
September 11, 2009
I took a moment this morning to think about you and all the people we lost that day.
God bless you all... and Thnak you.
Julia~
Sue Fontana
September 10, 2009
Marian, your book will always be forever in my heart. My prayers are with you always.
Renee Rogers
June 1, 2009
Dave, I've had the chance to meet your loving family. I know that they make you so proud. They are good and kind and caring people who work hard to make the world a better place in which to live. I'm honored to get to know them. Thanks for the opportunity.
http://www.the343.org
Marsha Murphy
May 29, 2009
Hi I wanted to say hello and that I think of you often over the pst yrs. Thank you for all you did to help others - you were a good man and husband and will always be in their hearts.
eva arons
January 5, 2009
thank you.
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
October 17, 2008
Dave,
Happy Birthday.
Susan Edmiston
September 18, 2008
It's been a long time since i was touched so deeply by a book but Marian Fontana's book about her and her son Aidan and their loss of Dave was just the most moving book. Took me a very long time to read as i cryed thru out the entire thing....I hope she and Aidan are doing well and know that Dave is w/them always....
Susan Edmiston
Doug Abraham
October 17, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Michael iezzi
October 17, 2007
Dave,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Cheryle Schmitt
September 25, 2007
I have read extensively about the tragic day that changed all of our lives and our world. But never was I so moved than when I read Miriam Fontana's account of her husband Dave's life, their son, and her precious memories of the husband she loved so much. Thank you Miriam for sharing a peice of your heart and I pray for peace and happiness for you and your family as well as the Fontana Family. God be you and Aidan and as well as with us all. I know in my heart that Dave is watching over you and will be there to greet you at Heaven's gate. Although time heals all wounds, know that many thoughts and prayers are with you, praying for the strength that will enable you to endure.
niña garcia
September 18, 2007
i've just read the book wrote by marian fontana..it really touched me.. dave is such a great, great guy and i'm inspired by marian's braveness..wherever dave may be now,i think he's really happy.. actually, im doing a reasearch about what's goin on now between aidan and marian, i think what happened las 2001 made them stronger..i just hope they're doin fine and to marian and aidan: you're always on my prayers..good luck and God bless!=)
September 6, 2007
Thinking of you David..
God Bless you and your mom and brothers and sister. Your mom is a wonderful loving and caring woman, who misses you immensely, as you know. Take care of her, until she is with you again.
God Bless,
Nancy Nee
sister of FF George Cain...Ladder7
Frank Colinco
August 26, 2007
I read your wife's Book " A Widow"s Walk" It was inspiring-and again on this Sept.11 we (The world) will think about her loss. Again, this year I will feel sad just like the 6 years when the anniversary rolls around ! God Bless Dave!
Jimmy Posadas
August 11, 2007
I attended Daves Memorial Service on October 17th. I never knew him before then. But since that time there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him. I have been a fire fighter now for over 35 years and my living room is full of fire fighting stuff. But there's also a special section that I have created for Dave. The best thing is a bronze axe that was made by Liberty Art Works for me. It is a commerative 9/11 FDNY axe and I had a special plaque put on it that says "In Memory of Dave Fontana - FDNY / Squad 1". I am glad I found this site so I know there are others who remember Dave. I also read Marians book.
Barbara Washington
June 2, 2007
Marion, would love to know how you and your family are doing. I am a stranger to you, but after reading your book over a year ago, I feel that I've known you forever. I wish you well. Dave and all of the heros of this beautiful counrty we live in are in my prayers daily.
Julia Aussenard
May 26, 2007
Dear Marion and Aidan:
I am reading your book and feel the pain of 9/11 all over again. May God bless you always... you have not been forgotten and neither has your husband or any of the brave people who lost their lives that tragic day. Thank you for writing such a heartfelt book for all of us.
Julia~
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Michael Iezzi
October 17, 2006
Dave,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Heartaches are sorrows no one can heal; memories are treasures no one can steal.
P Tabbernor
October 7, 2006
In memory....
Barbara Washington
September 20, 2006
Marian, I have just finished your book. I left a message a few days ago. I felt inspired and so I wanted for some reason to let you know that I had finished reading. I somehow am in touch with my oen grief more now. And tho' I am trying to soak it all in, I am loving my husband even deeper now. I am looking past all the things that he 'doesn't do the right way' and I find myself thanking GOD for his presence. I lost my grandmother, whom raised me and then I cared for as she grew old), last FEB 24th and since then I too have had 'issues' with GOD. I relate a lot to. Thank you for sharing your experience and your life with us. Again, I know Dave is so very proud of you.
Evelyn B
September 19, 2006
Thank you for your courage and bravery. You are truly an American hero. We will never forget.
Ana
September 18, 2006
To Brave Dave Fontana : You are an example to the world, God Bless you.
I am sure you are protecting your loving family with your soft and beautiful Angel Wings.
Barbara Washington
September 16, 2006
I am in the middle of Marian's book and I put it down to find pictures of the men she writes about. I came across this site and wanted to say:
TO DAVE, Thank you for all that you were and may you rest peacefully in Heaven with your creator!
TO MARIAN: May God and others comfort your soul. You are a wonderful spirit. I am sure Dave is so very proud of you. I pray that you may find happiness and peace.
TO AIDEN: I am sorry for you r loss. As you struggle to grow and try to make sense of your father's loss, please find peace in knowing that he saved the lives of many AND that you will see him again someday if you model your father's love for life!
To all of your family and friends: May God be With you too. I am sorry for your loss. You were a HUGE support for eachother, GOD BLESS!!!
TO ALL OF THE FIREFIGHTERS and Firefighters Fmilies: Thank you and May God Bless Each of You.
May your memory live on!
Michele Gottlieb
February 23, 2006
Marion:
It is hard for me to imagine that I could possibly do all that you have done since 9/11. I worked in DC on that awful day and never believed that I would stand on the roof of my law firm and watch the Pentagon burn. I never believed that I would sit in my office and worry about Flight 93 heading toward the Nation's Capitol. God bless those passengers who dies so that those of us in DC that day would be able to go on. I read your book and admire your strength and courage through those trying times. I hope that you and Aidan have found peace and some closure with the fifth anniversary. May God bless you and all the 9/11 families. I would love to hear from you.
Michael Iezzi
October 17, 2005
Dave,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Irene Oseguera
September 11, 2005
Marian:
I read your book in two days. What an eye opener for me. Love is forever, thanks for reminding us by writing such a heartfelt book. On this day, September 11, 2005 there are still many of us remembering so much sacrifice, and we will remember always and remain grateful. I know Dave is always with you and for those of us who did not know him, after reading this book, he is in our heart too.
Thanks for sharing.
IRene
Jeannie Jackson
September 11, 2005
Dear Marian,
Thank you for submitting the beautful book excerpt to Vanity Fair. I cried from the first paragraph of your loving tribute to your husband Dave and those that perished with him. Thank you for keeping his legacy alive for all that loved him, and for introducing him to those that never had the honor of meeting him. I continue to think of you and your family on this day and every day.
God bless you,
Jeannie
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Fay Molinell
August 6, 2005
Dear FF Fontana,
I just read the very moving diary in Vanity Fair of your wife's heart wrenching experience on that fatal day in September. I cried after the very first paragraph. I too am a Fireman's wife. My husband is Jim Molinell of 246/169 in Brighton Beach but fortunately for us he was one of the lucky ones. I know this goes without saying but your wife and child loves you very much and you are missed dearly. You are a very brave man and your family is extremely proud of you (as well as all who have never met you). May you rest in peace. P.S. If you haven't met him in heaven yet, look for FF Jeff Olsen...he's a great guy. If you find him please tell him Jim misses him.
Pamela Long
September 11, 2004
Thank-you so much for serving this country, and the state of NEW YORK. You are an angel, and an example to many. You are watching over and protecting those you love. Three years later, and there is a lot of love. The memories are real and close. Many times as we go to the site we sit and think and remember. Life is challenging, but knowing you are on our side is helpful.
Patricia Hawco
May 18, 2004
I came across this memorial site today and saw this memorial to Dave Fontana. We were in Ireland at the Kileen House when you came in from a long journey. We all toasted your wonderful husband, father and friend in the little tiny bar. I have thought of all of you since that time and hope you have found peace in your lives and have been able to carry on. I said a prayer that next day at the seaside where you were going to scatter the ashes. I think of all of you often and hope you are well. Meeting you in Ireland was a blessing. We are honored to have met you and to be able to raise a glass in tribute to your wonderful husband and Father. God Bless.
Michael Iezzi
October 17, 2003
Dave,
Happy Birthday in Heaven.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of those who cared.
A loved one lives forever in the memories that were shared.
Maggie Nieves
September 11, 2003
Marian, You and our family are in my thoughts today.... David sounds like a wonderful man! Stay strong girl. Maggie (PA Class of 84)
Ed Fontana-Daguerre
July 4, 2003
Dave,
It's been a very long time since we talked together at Mom's birthday party. Who could have imagined the world would be so different four days later. You are missed. Not a moment has passed since the 11th without your being present in my thoughts. The world is a much harder place without you.
I want to thank everyone who has taken the time to offer some kind thoughts to Marian, Aidan and our family. Dave was a remarkable human being. I’d like to share a little of who he was.
Dave was at his finest when he had his son Aidan in his arms. Nothing in Dave’s life had brought him as much happiness as Aidan. Being a father defined Dave in everything else he did.
Dave loved his wife Marian with every bit of his soul. Through Marian Dave became whole. Marian showed Dave a unique way to view the world and to live his life. Dave reveled in Marian’s humor, charm, beauty and strength.
Dave was devoted and committed to our mother Toni and all the rest of our family. He reached out to family near and far. He truly enjoyed the presence of family, whether they were known for years or in meeting for the first time.
Dave was an artist. Not just the creator of fine art, though he created many pieces of impressive work. Dave’s art manifested itself in everything he did. In the costumes he made for Aidan. In the small objects he created for fun. In the jokes and pranks he loved to present to us.
Dave was a true fireman. He loved every aspect of his profession. From the engine or truck he rode in to the satisfaction of the important work he did as part of his regular routine.
This is a small glimpse of my brother Dave.
I miss you Dave, especially on the holidays. You always made them more than they might have otherwise been.
Love you and miss you, your brother Ed.
Leann Spencer
February 22, 2003
I have visited this site before and signed this guest book. This time around, I have a new reason to sign. I am pregnant with my second child, and I am due on September 11, 2003. My husband and I have chosen the name of Mathew David, if we are blessed with a baby boy. In my heart, I feel that Dave is watching over us, and that he somehow had a hand in this miracle. I believe it is a nice way to honor this great man. God bless your family and you are always in my thoughts.
David Joseph Fontana
November 8, 2002
I am 42 and am proud to know this firefighter who carries my name. I am planning to be in New York in the summer and the first place I am going is the firehouse. God bless the Fontana house, proud and tall among many..
David
Leann Spencer
October 26, 2002
Dear Marian and Aidan,
As Sept.11, 2001 events unfolded, I could not help but feel sorrow and pain for those who were directly affected. I was 5 1/2 months pregnant with our daughter, and, later that week, I received a prayer card from a friend at work with the name of a firefighter who was listed as missing on Sept. 11. The card I received was for David. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of the brave man who died doing what he loved. My daughter came early on 11/9/01, and I was home on maternity leave when news came that Dave's remains had been found. I was finally able to see a face of the very people whom I have prayed for for so long. Marian, you are a hero to me and the picture of strength. I keep you and Aidan in my thoughts always. I still have the prayer card. May God bless your family always, and remain strong.
Biagio Fontana
October 24, 2002
God bless you.
Michael Iezzi
October 17, 2002
Happy Birthday Dave.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God shine His light on you and comfort all those who mourn you.
Michael Iezzi
October 17, 2002
Happy Birthday Dave.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God shine His light on you and comfort all those who mourn you.
Sandy Drumke
September 15, 2002
Dear Marian,
I first met you and Dave at the engagement party for Mila and Joey in New York. Dave and I spent the evening talking about our mutual love of Disney World. His face lit up when he spoke of the trip you took as a family. The next time we were together was in Wisconsin for the wedding. You played for the ceremony and Aidan was the ring bearer. I will never forget the look on Dave's face as he got Aidan ready to walk down the aisle. It was very apparent what a loving father he was. I know from stories that Mila has shared with me what a wonderful husband, father and dear friend Dave was. May his memory be a blessing forever.
Tamara Hansgen
September 13, 2002
marian, i just want you to know that i still think about you and aidan often. i so admire your courage and hands on involvement in the name of your husband.
Karen's sister,
Tamara (danville, va)
September 13, 2002
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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