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Rufino Conrado F. "Roy" Santos
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Roy Santos was a perpetual tourist in the city that he loved. He had lived in New York for nearly six years, but still relished it. His mother, Aurora, called him "a Broadway addict." He had to get tickets to all the latest shows, loved "The Producers," loved "The Lion King." On the memorial Web page Mr. Santos's friends created, there are photographs of him against the New York skyline, the Statue of Liberty, the World Trade Center.
Last Christmas, his brother Ronald and Ronald's wife, Rosemary, stayed with him on the Upper East Side. It was a typical Roy good time. They saw "Cabaret," had Christmas brunch at the Marriott Hotel's revolving restaurant, and spent the rest of the day in Central Park, playing in the snow. On New Year's Eve they were supposed to go to Times Square, but Roy Santos got the flu. It was the second year in a row that he had gotten sick and missed it. "Next year, I'll be ready," he told his brother.
On Sept. 11, Mr. Santos, 37, was at the trade center again. This time, Mr. Santos, a computer consultant for Accenture, was working.
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Gene Flores
September 11, 2023
Remembering my cousin Roy Flores Santos a.k.a Rufino Conrado Flores Santos III, 9/11....
"Roy" @ 37, had moved to the big apple in 1996, transferred there from the Vancouver office of what was then known as Andersen Consulting. Born in the Philippines, in the 1980s he’d moved with his family to British Columbia, Canada where he eventually became a systems analyst.
He was promoted to a computer consultant in the Big Apple and promptly fell in love with the city. My late Aunt Aurora once called him “a Broadway addict,” always wanting to be among the first to see any new show.
Such was "Roy’s" affection for his second, adopted city that he became a kind of perpetual tourist/tour guide, venturing out in all directions from his home on the Upper East Side. At this, he was a natural talent, since it combined many of the traits that made him so successful in business.
My cousin "Roy" was on the 94th floor of the World Trade Center’s North Tower on Sept. 11. He’d just been promoted to a new job, in another building several blocks away. But the transfer wasn’t due to take place until he was, by all accounts, a very quick study, focused and driven. But his friends also remember his infectious smile and laugh, how easily he seemed to make friends.
My tribute to you Roy and it's been 22 years, I miss you my caring, loving, generous and funny cousin. I know you're in a better place sharing stories & laughter with our dads, tita au, tita baby, tita amelia, nanay tita, tito alming, tito armando, tatay philip, our grandmas and grandpas.
Gene Flores
Gene Flores
September 10, 2023
Remembering my dear cousin Roy Flores Santos a.k.a Rufino Conrado Flores Santos III, 9/11....
"Roy" @ 37, had moved to the big apple in 1996, transferred there from the Vancouver office of what was then known as Andersen Consulting. Born in the Philippines, in the 1980s he’d moved with his family to British Columbia, Canada where he eventually became a systems analyst.
He was promoted to a computer consultant in the Big Apple and promptly fell in love with the city. My Aunt Aurora once called him “a Broadway addict,” always wanting to be among the first to see any new show.
Such was "Roy’s" affection for his second, adopted city that he became a kind of perpetual tourist/tour guide, venturing out in all directions from his home on the Upper East Side. At this, he was a natural talent, since it combined many of the traits that made him so successful in business.
My cousin "Roy" was on the 94th floor of the World Trade Center’s North Tower on Sept. 11. He’d just been promoted to a new job, in another building several blocks away. But the transfer wasn’t due to take place until he was, by all accounts, a very quick study, focused and driven. But his friends also remember his infectious smile and laugh, how easily he seemed to make friends.
My tribute to you Roy and it's been 22years, I miss you my sweet, caring, loving, generous and funny cousin. I know you're in a better place sharing stories & laughter with our dads, grandmas and grandpas.
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Gene Flores
September 11, 2021
Dear cousin Roy, 9/11/21 it's been 20years since your passing... time truly goes by so quick and I still can't imagine how all things happened just like that... time surely went by so fast but you're still remembered. Your kindness, warm smile and your corny jokes that I truly miss... please continue looking down upon us... we miss you very much my dear cousin ...
John Yarbrough
September 16, 2018
The TV cameras focused on your name during the 9/11 ceremony this year. You are not forgotten.
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Heidi Hirschfeld
September 11, 2018
It has been 17 years now. Roy was such a remarkable person that even after all this time, I still think about him. Whenever I am in lower Manhattan, I find myself stopping off at the 9/11 memorial, find his name and tears come to my eyes. When I decided to remove his name from my computer contacts, it tore at my heart. We sat next to each other when I worked at JPMorgan and I have had him in my head ever since. Roy will live on in my heart as a wonderful, extremely intelligent, and kind man. He will always be remembered.
gene flores
September 11, 2016
today is 9/11/2016 to you my dear cousin Roy, you are always remembered and i miss your kindness, smile and your being funny. i know your in heaven now but please always look upon us... i love you cousin!
September 11, 2016
Its been 15 years now since the day we lost so many loved ones. Our country still mourns that day. You shall not ever be forgotten. You all will always be in our hearts. R.I.P to you all that died that day. You all were heroes and still are and you always will.
Reniel Talon
November 28, 2015
I may not know you personally. But as a filipino,my heart was deeply hurt that you were one of those 2,000+ victims of 9/11. I warmly extend my sincere sympathy. Pagpalain ka nawa ng poong maykapal. Amen
September 12, 2015
you will always be remembered
Gene Flores
Gene Flores
September 11, 2015
Roy, my dear cousin, I miss you... your smile, your genuineness, your kindness.. it has been 14years now since your passing... time truly flies...you will always be remembered and never forgotten... please continue to look down upon us and your spirit be around us at all time... we miss you!
October 14, 2013
Roy, 12 years had gone by and we still miss you. I was just in Manila. I saw your mom, your brother, sister-in-law and nephew. During my conversation with Rico, I accidentally called him "Roy." I think at that point in time, you were with us...still trying to be a part of us. Wherever you are, I hope you are happy and is always watching over us.
Aurora Santos
September 27, 2013
Roy we miss you so much. It's already 12 years since you've been gone and you will always be in our heart. We pray for the eternal repose of your soul. Please look after us .
Gene Flores Ellsworth
September 11, 2013
Roy, it has been 12years since the 9/11, time truly goes by and time really flies... It seems like it was only yesterday... I will always remember you my dear cousin, your smile, your kindness and your gentleness...all the jokes and laughters we have... please continue to look upon us and where ever you at Roy, I hope you're always happy...
Raymund Jovy Sugay
September 12, 2012
Our DB batch still remembers you bro!
Someday ... I hope to see you again.
Gene Flores Ellsworth
September 11, 2012
Roy, 11yrs has been... i think of our good times and good laughs... i still miss all that... you are truly missed and lease continue to look down upon us... i hope someday will meet again...
Jenny Ellsworth-Baccay
September 11, 2012
Can't believe it's been 11 years. Roy, you are gone but will never be forgotten along with all the others that went with you during the 9/11. attack.
Jose "Jun" Santos
September 11, 2012
Roy. You have a very familiar face. I guess I was too young to remember. My brothers told me you used to carry me around when I was a kid. Not enough time to have spent with you as a cousin. I'm sure you are in a much better place. You have not been forgotten. Say hi to everyone up there for me.
Jenny Ellsworth-Baccay
September 13, 2011
10 years had passed but it seemed like it just happened. Even with my eyes closed, I could still picture Roy...his big smile, his funny ways and gentleness, his travel stories and the memories we've shared. Roy, you will not be forgotten. Rest in peace...
Raymund Jovy Sugay
September 12, 2011
May your soul rest in peace Roy. Thank you for the times we've shared in school. Sadly, we didn't get that chance to see each other again after DB.
Raymund Jovy Sugay (DB Mkt 80)
Gene Flrores Ellsworth
September 11, 2010
roy, today is the 9th year anniversary of 9/11. it has been 9yrs since you have been gone. i look back and can still remember the fun memories we have together, your smile and you gentleness. i miss you cousin....
Jenny Ellsworth-Baccay
September 11, 2009
I cannot believe Roy had been gone for 8 years now. I truly miss my sweet, caring, loving, generous, and funny cousin. I know he is in a better place now sharing stories and laughter with our dads.
Gene Flores Ellsworth
September 11, 2009
Today is the 8th year anniversary of 9/11 - my dear cousin Roy, you are truly missed. I will always remember your kindness and smile...
Gene Flores Ellsworth
September 11, 2009
Today is the 8th year anniversary of 9/11 - my dear cousin Roy, you are truly missed. I will always remember your kindness and great smile...
Jesus Pamintuan
September 12, 2008
Quiet and unassuming, but one of the brightest yet humblest person in our section back in third year high school. That is how i distinctly remember him. It was only about four years ago that i learned of this unfortunate tragedy through a fellow classmate. My deepest Condolence to the family. Godspeed Roy!
Claude Martinez
September 11, 2008
To my fellow LA SALLITE, always in our family's prayers.
A tragedy that something like this
can happen to you and to every victim of 9/11.
Gene Flores Ellsworth
September 11, 2008
Today is the 7th year anniversary of 9/11 - my dear cousin Roy, you are truly missed and will always remember your kindness...
Gene Flores Ellsworth
September 11, 2007
In memory of my dear cousin Roy Santos, today commemorates the 6th year anniversary. We all miss you Roy...
Claude Martinez
July 12, 2007
Roy went to the same high school with me in Manila (La Salle Greenhills). We graduated the same year (1980). I remember him as a nice guy in school though we didnt belong to the section, probably because he was in the honor section and I wasnt. There was a small tribute to him during the 25th reunion in 2005 and what happened to him and all the other victims still makes me mad. The only consolation (if you can term it that way) is that at least he is in god's embrace now.
From a fellow "La Sallista" , I will keep you in my prayers.
kristine
May 9, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
March 1, 2007
In memory....
Gene Flores Ellsworth
September 11, 2006
I could never imagine that today commemorates the 5th year of your passing. Roy, I miss you, I miss your jokes, your laughters, your kindness and gentleness. YOU will always be remembered...
David Gardner
February 26, 2006
I thought of Roy on his recent birthday. This happy, gentle person will never be forgotten. Memories of him still visit me at the places in New York that he loved and where we spent time in the brief spring and summer that we were friends. We miss you.
m nolan
January 15, 2005
I worked with Roy at Accenture, and he was always the happiest, most fun guy to be around. He is truly missed, but those who knew him are so blessed to have had a friend like Roy.
Mike Dean
January 3, 2003
Roy was my best friend, he was always there for me,no matter what. I remember calling your number and leaving messages, I was praying that you had called in sick, or had to be somewhere else, I called all day and night. Finally I call Te et, and she told me you were missing, I felt my heart drop, everything slowed down, my life will never be the same. I want the world to know how much you were loved, and how you have changed my life twice. The first time just by talking to me, and the second by being taken away.
I could never ask for anything more, but if I could, it would to have him back. I miss you so much, I think about you every day that I awake, and pray for you every night before I fall asleep. It has been along time to the rest of the world but only yesterday for me. I pray for you, your family, Aurora, your mom, that you loved so much, your brothers, and Cherri, Nannet, and te et. You have brought love, knowledge, and respect into my life, and made me realize that the world just needs a hug sometimes. I miss you, and I will see you again, I know that for sure.
Love always Mike
Erly Juatco
September 16, 2002
Roy is now in paradise where good souls reside with our Lord & Saviour Jesus Christ.
Our prayers and deep condolences to his family especially his mom, Mrs. Aurora Santos.
May the Holy Spirit comfort your whole family.
God bless you!
Ruben Santos-Claveria
September 14, 2002
As I read the stories in legacy.com, I was deeply moved. Especially whenever I saw a person with the same name of someone I know. I love musicals too and it filled my eyes with tears. I send my blessings of safety, love and peace to the family. Roy will never be forgotten.
Rebecca Gonzales-Mercado
September 13, 2002
I was shocked when I learned from a townmate that Rufino Santos III, a WTC victim, was the same "Roy" I knew 30 years ago. I could very well remember Roy when I and his "Ate" Miling Luna used to tutor him and his brother Ronald ("Ito"). My deepest sympathy to his mom, Aurora, and to "Ito". How I really wished I knew where I could get in touch with his mom. Hopefully, with this guest book, this message can reach Aurora and his brother "Ito". May God rest his soul. I could still remember very clearly Roy at that time when "Ate" Miling and I used to come to their house Monday to Friday afternoon calling him from their backyard to come inside the house for his homework.
- Rebbie (Gonzales) Mercado, Markham, Ontario Canada
Jim Case
September 9, 2002
As we approach the one-year anniversary of that horrific day, I feel the need to say my words to you. I can honestly say that not a day goes by that you are not thought of. Families are so often made up of completely different personalities, but you were the personality that could bring people together in joy and harmony. Even though I am an outsider to your family, and we only met a few times, I greatly enjoyed your company, sincerity, humor and your genuine personality. I think that it is very special that when family gets together and they talk about their times with you, it is done with a smile and with laughter. So often, a "full life" is based on longevity. You managed touching so many people and you truly lived life during your 37 years on this earth. You proved that a “full life” is actually determined by the way you lead your life. I have learned many things from you, even if most are from stories. I will strive to make my home as open and warm as you made yours. I will strive to give people warm pleasant memories. I shall always try to allow my smile to warm a room, and to remember that you can also smile with your heart and eyes. I will remember that you get so much when you give yourself. You touched so many. Thanks for the lessons and look up my dad, you two will get along famously.
June 15, 2002
You will be sadly missed. God Bless your family.
Carlson Wagonlit Travel and Via Support Services for Accenture
April 22, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN..RUFINO CONRADO F.(ROY) SANTOS AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Philip Lee
March 11, 2002
It was six months ago today that I was driving through Arkansas toward my new life in Texas. It was a beautiful morning. The radio had reported a horrific incident at the WTC. My thoughts were immediately about Roy.
I worked for Accenture and visited New York quite often. Roy and I got to know each other during a period when he was not working on a particular client. He'd sit in my office and we'd talk and I'd give him advice. I remember his positive attitude and his wonderful smile. We met for drinks in the Village with other friends I was visitng. We had a wonderful time laughing and enjoying what only a city like NYC can provide.
I remember specifically how excited he was when he was assigned to his client, located at the WTC. I was happy for him.
On that September morning, so many miles away in Arkansas, alone in my car, my heart sank knowing Roy was in trouble. I tried desparately to call. Desparately. But no answer.
I miss you Roy.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family today, March 11, 2002.
Regards,
Philip
mhel penaflorida
February 11, 2002
i am just so sad about this..i dont know him personally but as a filipino my heart is crying out loud for this tragedy.
Teresa Jahn
December 13, 2001
We are very sorry for your loss of Roy. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Aurora Santos
December 4, 2001
My life has changed ever since I lost my thoughtful and generous son. I miss his regular phone calls, his sending e-mails and the many things a lovable son always have for his mother. I humbly commend to you Good Lord Roy whom you have called out of this mortal life. You loved him always with great love. Now that you have freed him from all evils of this earth,bring him into your paradise where there is no more grief or mourning or sadness but peace and joy with your Son and the Holy Spirit forever.
Brenda Gonzales
December 2, 2001
In this busy world, it's wonderful some people have the art of taking time for others...of giving from the heart. Roy was especially thoughtful and nice in everything he did. He was immensely a pleasure to be with. I miss him a lot.
Ana Collado
November 29, 2001
Roy was a very honest, hard-working and sincere person who always brought a smile to my face. His laughter was contagious and he had a joy for life that will always be remembered. I will miss you very much and will always remember the laughs we shared. I hope to see you in heaven again one sweet day!
Luigi Crespo
November 28, 2001
Sincere condolences to Roy's family.
Luigi Enriquez-Crespo
Sylvia Manalang
November 26, 2001
Roy lived a full life. He was happy with what he was doing and had a lot of bright plans for the future. He was very thoughtful and wanted people around him to have fun just like him. May God grant him eternal happiness.
Elinor Case
November 26, 2001
Roy lived a very happy life. He was very bright, very organized, very ambitious, hard-working, well-liked and funny. He achieved everything he dreamed and aimed for. He loved New York and always make big plans for people who visited the city. He is tremendously loved by a lot of people. May God grant Roy eternal happiness in Heaven.
Reynaldo Flores
November 24, 2001
May he and all the innocent victims of September 11 tragedy rest in peace.O Eternal God,we humbly beseech You in behalf of Your servant Rufino Conrado Santos,whom You have called out of this world,that you would not deliver him into the hands of Your enemy nor forget him forever,but bid the holy angels lead him into Paradise and come into possesion of eternal joys. Through Jesus Christ our Lord.Amen.
Ernie and Mariel Aguilar
November 19, 2001
Roy will be remembered for his pleasant disposition, friendliness and conscientious ways. He will be missed by NYC. God bless!
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