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Herbert Homer Obituary
Herb Homer, 48,
Raytheon executive
By Globe Staff, 9/14/2001
Herb W. Homer of Milford, an official with the US Department of Defense, was killed Tuesday when United Airlines Flight 175 crashed in New York. He was 48.
Born in Everett and raised in Framingham, Mr. Homer was a graduate of Framingham North High School and Northeastern University, where he majored in political science and education. In 1997, he moved to Milford.
Mr. Homer served as a US official coordinating government work by Raytheon Co. in Burlington. He began his 27-year federal career at the Defense Contract Management Agency's Raytheon office in 1974.
A member of First Congregational Church of Milford, he worked on several church committees and volunteered in the church nursery.
He was active with the Framingham chapter of the Jaycees, serving as a Special Olympics coach, and was a member of the Jaycees International Senate.
Mr. Homer was also an avid traveler throughout the country and Europe.
He leaves his wife, Karen L. (Pond); his parents, William T. and Winifred M. (Burke) of Framingham; and a brother, Stephen H.
A memorial service will be held at 3 p.m. Sunday in First Congregational Church in Milford.
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July 3, 2020
I met Herb through his niece, Kim, a week before 9/11. I posted a remembrance, but it was never posted. RIP, Herb.
-Matt Rowe
September 18, 2019
RIP Herbert.
N M
September 8, 2019
Very soon another year will have come & gone. So hard to believe. KLPH, you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Harriet Kooiman
October 21, 2016
October 21,2016
To the family of Herbert Wilson Homer
Last evening we attended the fall concert of South West MN. Chr. High School, and when we entered we were asked to pick up a blue square of paper (depicting the blue-blue sky on 9/11) On the back was a picture of a 9/11 victim. On the back of ours was the picture of your loved one, Herbert Wilson Homer.
During the concert we first had a moment of silence for the family of each person. Than the choir sang "RISING" by Bruce Springsteen, and every one in the audience raised the blue square with a picture on it.
Following that was the song, AT THE RIVER, to which the director said, "May we some day meet them at the river."
So we honor and remember your loved one and all others that lost their life that day.
Glenn & Harriet Kooiman
Leota MN.56153
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Rhode Island JAYCEE Alliance
October 23, 2015
As we always recall being loyal Americans and the tragic events of 9/11 - that balmy day in September of 2001 - we all humbly and proudly come together to remember those innocent and enliven people that were genuine Victims of such evil aspects that form the darker side of humanity.
Our personal and collective sentiments of admiration and appreciation are also so extended to the intrepid men and women that represent us under such grave conditions as America's First-Responders.
We highly salute our outstanding and dedication Military Forces across the globe in protection of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness for all creation by our living God.
From time to time, we all become more familiar with someone who had a direct experience with the 9/11 attack on American soil and are always surprised, saddened and taken back when becoming familiar with each and every poor soul lost to hate and ignorance in the name of religion.
As JAYCEES (U.S. Junior Chamber & Junior Chamber International) we continue to mourn, honor and pay tribute to a comrade with such tremendous human and professional characteristics in the likes of Mr. HERBERT W. HOMES, a Massachusetts JAYCEE Alumni and worldwide JCI Senator.
Here in neighboring Rhode Island, our JAYCEE Alliance (RI JCI Senators & JAYCEE Alumni Association) each year on September 11th, coordinate and organize a statewide 9/11 Ceremony, that commemorates that goodness and decency of those Victims and Heroes of that fateful day, and continue to remember our brethren and associate HERB' in such blessings to the True & Living LORD GOD for eternity.
Joyce Firth
September 17, 2015
September 2015- I have just learned that Herb was a passenger on that ill fated flight on 9/11. We went to high school together and Herb was a friend of my husband Bruce. My heart goes out to Herb's wife and to all the Homer family. I send you my blessings for healing the brokeness of grief, and for peace. And for Herb...Who ever knew, back all those years ago, that that quiet, gentle kid would grow to be one of the angels who sacrificed his life to bring the world to a safer place? We thank you Herb, and we will not forget.
Anonymous
September 12, 2015
Mrs Homer: I don't know where you're living now, I'm sorry I couldn't deliver flowers as I've done every year. I will always honor your husband and the other lost souls in some way. Peace to you.
Fred Valentine
September 11, 2015
On 9-11, I was the Executive Officer XO for Army Brigadier General Edward Harrington at DCMA HQ in Alexandria, VA. Mr. Herbert W. Homer, was one of the best. "Never Forget."
Traci Watts
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you and your family today. We will never forget.
Del Newberry
April 30, 2015
I pause today to think of Herb's friends and family and say a prayer of enouragement for them. It is evident from what I read, that he was a great man of service to humanity, down to the children in his church nursery. May we all honor his memory by also giving of ourselves to help others. Each is in their own struggles, but together, and with the help of God, we can make the world a better place. Much love from Texas.
Melissa Blue
September 24, 2014
You'll never be forgotten. God has you in His Hands in Heaven now. All of you belong to God.
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you and your family today. Will never forget. Anonymous, Mendon MA
Barbara Shevock Daughter of Annie Hamlin
September 8, 2013
I always heard of you as cousin Herby, I don't remember you, I was too young. My mom Annie and Aunts Rachel and Regina always talked about how you were so kind and funny tho a little soft spoken. We were all shocked to find you were involved in the horrible tragedy and it made it all too surreal. Luckily My Grandmother Julia (June) was able to attend and pay her respects My mom still has the candle she was sent from your wedding setting out in her home. I know you are well missed.
Priscella Mills
September 12, 2012
Always remembered and not forgotten. Blessings to the family.
Fred Valentine
September 11, 2012
Thoughts and prayers to the family. We won't forget you Herb.
Joseph Ferrante
May 2, 2012
I only learned of the tragedy of Herb's demise 4 days ago at a reunion of Salem Jaycees. I was in the Framingham Jaycees before Salem, and had been friends with Herb since 1983. He and I were roommates at the annual conventions in different cities in the U.S. Herb was a caring person, I knew his brother, parents & sister in law. I'm grateful this website remains active after nearly 11 years, so I may add my respects. I now know someone personally who was a casualty of that senseless 9/11. God bless Herb
Priscella Mills
September 12, 2011
So often what's said the least is felt the most; like what a special person and how very much respected Herb was.
Priscella Mills
September 12, 2011
So often what's said the least is felt the most; like what a special person Herb was and how very much respected.
N. Victoria Reinsel
September 12, 2011
Herb's niece, Kym, and I were close friends growing up, and I often saw Uncle Herb, as I, too, called him, while he was visiting his brother's family. Herb was a wonderfully kind and thoughtful man, and I will always remember him for the joy he brought to others' lives. Much love to Karen, Steve, Paula, Kym, Danielle, and Uncle Herb.
Roger & Lee Bales
September 11, 2011
Every Day, every year - we remember. A kind man, a gentle man, a good man and most of all a MAN. We miss you Herb, we miss you every day
Edana Salisbury
September 11, 2011
I, too, was a DCMA employee on that terrible day ten years ago. I never met Herb, but of all the people who touched my life in my 33 years in government service, Herbert Homer made the biggest impact. I will remember his service to our country for the rest of my life. My prayers are with his family, his friends and his fellow DCMA co-workers on this somber anniversary.
September 11, 2011
I never had the opportunity to meet you but, I want to thank you for making Karen so happy. Rest in Peace, hopefully one day I will get to meet you. Keep shining down on Karen.
Priscella Mills
September 11, 2010
Heartfelt prayers on this day of remembrance.
Carrie Zunk
December 19, 2009
I am a DCMA employee who serves in much the same capacity as Herbert Homer. I remember hearing of the loss of a fellow DCMA employee. It brings the tragedy close to home, even though I worked many miles away in Ohio. I still think of him often, even though I never met him.
Ross McDonagh
September 19, 2009
Herb was my Aunt and Godmother's business partner and travel companion/best friend-they always traveled together on business. My Aunt had taken a new job in DCMA closer to my Grandparents house some time before Sept 2001, my two favorite memories of Herb were at my Grandparents 50th anniversary in '94 and then at my cousin's wedding in '96 Herb put pink flamingos on my Aunt's lawn the night before the wedding. She went NUTS :) I now live in NY and drive ferries on the Hudson that stop next to the site every day and EVERY DAY, I remember a great man and friend who loved to make people laugh.
Joe O'Brien
September 11, 2009
Herb was our friend,and a great fellow Board member at the National Scoliosis Foundation. He was also our brother Jaycee who lived out the motto that service to humanity is the best work in life. Although eight years has passed, the memory of his spirit, his pleasant demeanor and willingness to lend a hand will never be forgotten.
September 11, 2009
Herbert Homer,keeping him and his family in my thoughts and prayers, as well as the families of all September 11 victims and warfighters serving overseas. I am also DCMA, in L.A. God Bless
Captain Karin Werner, USAF
September 11, 2009
Today I am serving over in Iraq for DCMA under an Air Force deployment. I learned of Mr. Herbert Homer today and will be dedicating my SPIN class to him that I teach at the MWR at FOB QWest. God Bless.
Carol Cuellar
March 28, 2009
Herbert W. Homer is a Hero never to be forgotten. I am a DCMA employee who first heard of Herbert after 9/11 and will never forget him. Although many years have past, he will always remain a Hero.
Amanda MacGee
September 11, 2007
I can hardly believe it has been 6 years since Herb's passing. I was a college intern when the attacks happened. I'll never forget my mom telling me (she too worked with him at DCMA) that they were looking for what flight he was on. Then the confirmation came. Herb was a great man who treated everyone from a young intern all the way up to the Commander with the same respect and dignity. I was fortunate to have Ret. Col. Young take me to the Pentagon to see Herb's memorial a few years back. It was beautiful. He will always be missed!
Lee Bales
September 11, 2007
I worked with and for Herb from 87 to 94 when we moved back to Texas. He was a great mentor and better friend. I enjoyed his sense of humor. He could always make me laugh.
P Tabbernor
June 15, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 1, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Patricia Simmons ( Hiscock)
May 16, 2006
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Homer and Burke family for the loss of such a special person. I had met Herb quite a few years ago when he used to visit Victoria,Nfld,Canada ( Burke family).I know most of his family from Victoria, He will surely be missed by everyone.
Chris Homer
March 8, 2006
I visited New York, and "Ground Zero" last week.
Such a hole in the ground..... and a canyon in the lives of the people left behind....
Mr Herb Homer, I never knew. No apologies for that. We share the same surname thats all......
There are many Homers around me, 8 of them were in New York last week celebrating my parents 50th wedding anniversary.......
From my experiences of death, which are few.....
They live forever if you talk about them.
Don't lower your voice when you mention his name.....
Look at his face every day....
Say goodnight to him. (under your breath is best)
Remember him, wherever your life takes you, and he lives on.....
Kyle
November 9, 2004
Never have I experienced something when I heard about the attack on our country three years ago. I knew Herb personally. I was a member of the same church. Me being the organist of my church, I had to play for his memorial service. He was always really supportive of my future plans in music. It was something more emotional than I could ever imagine. There were people from the military there, some saying some words of rememberance. I had never seen so many people in my church before that day. It was very uplifting. Ever since that day, I think about how proud I am to be an American, and I know in the end we will prevail. God Bless you Herb, we all miss you.
Julie
September 1, 2004
1,085 days ago, my hometown of Milford, Ma was rocked to it's core with the loss of Mr. Homer.
Though I never knew him, there is not a day that goes by I do not think of him or his family.
May he rest in peace, and may his family and loved ones find peace again soon.
chris
September 11, 2003
Although I never met this man I am from the same town. It is really hitting home today on the 2nd anniversary of this horrible tragedy. Just reading all your kind words for this man makes me feel, and hopefully his family, friends and those of you who know him better. I know we can never change what happened but we can pull through and show everyone what America is about. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who needs them.
Karen Clougherty
September 11, 2003
All of us who knew Herb will ever forget his dedication to work, family, and friends. We miss you Herb and I send best wishes to his family and friends, Karen Clougherty/Sep 11, 2003
Karen Clougherty
September 11, 2003
All of us knew Herb will always remember him and how he made a difference with his dedication to work, family, and friendships he made throughout his life. My very best to his family and other friends who were honored to know him. Karen Clougherty
Fran Murray
September 11, 2003
We remember you, Herb, and honor the sacrifice you made for this country. Rest in Peace.
biannca
September 16, 2002
dear homer family,
im doing a project on people who died in the attack . and i got Herbert w. Homer. I wanted to write and tell you .I also wanted you to know that even though no one I know died in the attack I still know how you feel. and when I heard about the attack I went home ,and I cried and cried . Im praying for you.
with lots of love and thought,
biannca
Diane Pond Luchini
September 11, 2002
From the first time Auntie Karen introduced us to Uncle Herb, I knew that he would be a very special part of our family. He was always there to help with all our family parties, showers and get-togethers; cooking and decorating. He always got so excited when we shared news with him and AK. I will never forget the day my husband Joe & I went over to tell Auntie Karen and Uncle Herb that we were expecting our first child. He jumped up off the couch so excited for us. We got the same reaction for baby # 2. Family meant the world to him and he always showed it with us and especially Auntie Karen. He brought so much love to our family and for that I will always be grateful. My son Matthew called him "Uncle Huurb" when he was first starting to speak. Now my daughter Marissa pronounces it the same way. We love you Uncle Herb we miss you and we will never forget you.
Love,
Dee Dee, Joe, Matthew & Marissa
Kathy V
September 7, 2002
I also have a mercy band with Herbert's name on it. I am honored and humbled to be able to pray for Herb and his family. I am pleased when people ask me what that bracelet is I am wearing, I can explain that I will always be keeping this man and his family in my prayers, and that we will never forget him and the others that died that tragic day.
Teresa Jahn
January 12, 2002
May Herbert's passion to volunteer to help others, his life and love live on in all who love him. May the deep sorrow in your hearts be lightened by golden memories of times together. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Vickie O'Krakel
January 3, 2002
I work at Raytheon Aircraft Company in Wichita, Kansas. People in my company have always spoken so highly of Mr. Homer. He will be missed by so many of us.
On his last trip to Wichita, Mr. Homer impressed me when he purposely sought out other USG employees just to say, "Hello". He truly seemed to be a very caring individual.
My heart and my prayers go out to his family and friends. May God help all of you through this very difficult time.
Sarah Hoff
December 21, 2001
On Wednesday I got a mercy band at my church with Herb's name on it. The mercy band is to bear another's name daily, to remember to pray for his family and friends. Since then I have done so often. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you this Christmas, pouring out His comfort and peace at a very difficult time.
BARBARA BOLIN
September 30, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
HERBERT MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
shirley menendez
September 27, 2001
With deepest sympathy to Herb's family. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. Cherish your memories of Herb, because no terriorist or anyone else can take them away from you, they will always be with you. Time and only time will help ease your pain. May God be with you in your time of sorrow. Shirley
Beverly (Gillespie) Parsons
September 24, 2001
I am sending my deepest sympathy to Herb's wife, Karen, and his family. I shall always remember him as that sweet little boy that I took care of many years ago. Herb's Mother, Winnie, is my cousin and I was his babysitter. May God bless you all and our Country.
Karen (Hiscock_ Piscitelli
September 20, 2001
Herb will always be a wonderful and compassionate human being. I saw Herb more than the average family get togethers because Herb worked in my building. We would see each other in the halls and spend time conversing to "catch up" with family discussions, "How is Uncle George doing?" he would say, and then go right down the list of Aunt Rosalie, Nancy, Sandra and Cheryl and families, always asking me how I was doing. It was always personal never business and it was good to see him whenever he wasn't on travel. Herb loved his family, loved knowing everyone was okay and "happy", as he would say. He will be sorely missed by all of us. May God Bless his family at this time and God Bless America!
David Stymiest
September 17, 2001
Herb was my original mentor in the Framingham Jaycees back in the 1970's. He always led by example, and such a fine example he was. Herb was always the bright center of any Jaycees activity, and we were all better because of his presence.
Mere words cannot express my horror and sadness at this loss, nor can they express your grief. May God bless Herb and his family in this time of profound loss. May God bless us all.
Karen Clougherty
September 16, 2001
My condolences to Herb's friends and family. I had the pleasure of knowing Herb for 25 years in our DCMA family. One of the most wonderful guys I've ever met--luckily I saw him at a couple of conferences over the past year - had dinner after one conference with Herb & other friends from our DPRO Raytheon crowd; last time I saw him he managed to catch me on the way out after I spoke and we gave each other a kiss on the cheek. We miss him deeply!
Laura (Homer)McKenna
September 14, 2001
My best memories of my cousin Herb were of family get togethers, I was a child and he always was laughing and joking with everyone. He was ever the bright spot in any room he entered. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you who will miss him as will I.
Arthur Mason
September 14, 2001
I first met Herb upon arriving at DPRO Raytheon in May of 1984. His warm smile and sense of humor put all at ease. I had occasion to see the reports he generated in his employ for the United States Government. They were detailed, well written, and always voluminous. The one occasion I will always remember was a crazy time when the workload appeared mountainous. Herb called me into his office to tell me he needed me to work on a little contract for about two hours a week. Upon leaving his office I learned the particular contract was one of the largest in the office, and the workload was much more intensive than Herb had informed me. After letting the steam vent from my head, I knew there was no one else to give the work to, and Herb was always there to assist me if it became too much. Herb was always a presense at the Christmas work party, and an inspiration at the CFC Golf Tournament. I will miss, and never forget Herb.
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