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Scott Saber Obituary
Scott Saber was not famous, and he was probably not even the biggest spender at Wollensky's Grill in Midtown, one of his favorite spots for entertaining clients. But when news spread around the restaurant that he had been on the 106th floor of 1 World Trade Center on Sept. 11 and was among the missing, several members of the staff wrote memorial notes to send to his family. It wasn't a surprise.
"I'm sure that nearly everybody in that restaurant knew him by name because he schmoozed with all of them, from the busboys on up," said Mr. Saber's oldest brother, Bruce. "That was Scott."
It was a kind of theme in Mr. Saber's life. When he made acquaintances, it was not casually. When he made friends, they became like family. A friend recently became ill during a trip to Boston, and Mr. Saber, who worked for UBS Warburg, offered to drive up and get him. "He was not kidding," said his brother.
When it came to his family, Mr. Saber, 37, was unwavering. His other brother, Brian, recently adopted a baby from Vietnam. Upon returning to the city, Brian Saber learned that he was not going to be able to return to his own apartment. So for six months, Mr. Saber had shared his small, two-bedroom apartment on the Upper East Side with his brother and the 6-month-old baby.
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Paul Cooper
September 14, 2024
11 September 2024
Scott and I were colleagues and friends at UBS Warburg. 23 years on from the tragedy of that day, my over riding memories of Scott, his bear hug, his infectious laugh and amazing character are still me and will always endure. Gone but never forgotten.
Paul Cooper
Steven Wondrasch
September 11, 2024
Scott..i always think of you this day..
We were together on that entire weekend.. You said to me.."if i die tomorrow I´ve lived a great life"..
For those that this means something to..,when i finally decided to for the 911 memorial..i randomly walk up to to one of the ponds..i looked down..in front of me ..Was Scott´s name...that is not religion..it´s spiritualism..
Bradley Wells
September 11, 2023
9/11 affected me profoundly even though I wasn’t there or knew anyone. A few months later (might have even been the one year anniversary I can’t recall) the city (San Diego) organized a memorial at the stadium. Anyone could roll up and voluntarily read a victim’s name aloud on a microphone that would be broadcast on the radio in town. So I did. I had to.
The persons name I received was Scott Saber. Never knew him. From what I recall he was a businessman in one of the towers (I think south tower). I almost choked up as I read his name. I kept the card with his name on it for a long time. His name sort of haunts me to this day, but I do not loathe it at all. I feel it my duty to carry on this man’s name in my head and memory.
So to Scott Saber, you are not forgotten. A stranger from across the country has carried your name in his heart and mind all these years. If anyone knows him or any of his family read this page, know that his happened and I remember his name and his loss despite not knowing the man himself.
Angela Byrne
January 27, 2023
I did not know Scott but his picture stopped me in my walk today and I immediately researched him. What a loss. Please know he is still thought of (and learned about!) in Westchester, NY.
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Ren Mika
September 11, 2021
Today is the 20th anniversary of 9/11 and I think of Scott. Not that we were really close, but we were good business acquaintances. I would always chat with him at conferences, knew him over a few years. A really good guy. I was suppose to be at that conference, but I was in Boston. So I missed it and I am alive. When I think of all those who were up there in that conference, I think of Scott.
Karen Elsberg-Mendez
September 11, 2021
Scott and I met during the summer when we were both working as lifeguards. He was funny and smart and always ready for an adventure. He was a true friend. Scott, I think of you often and miss you. My thoughts and prayers to your family.
Melissa Rohland
September 28, 2020
I miss Scott a lot. He was a genuine friend. I've been thinking of you a lot lately, and I always smile for the great memories!
The Lucas Family
October 26, 2019
Sending our thoughts of sincere sympathy. Every new day may God give the help needed to cope. Scott is still sadly missed. May a time come when these violent acts are ended for all time.
Sharon Lenzi
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you today, reminded of the blessing you were to everyone who knew you. We will never forget.
Margaret Whittemore
February 26, 2019
Perhaps because it's winter and the shrubs are gone, but this is the first time that I've noticed a beautiful plaque in Scott's memory at the entrance to Central Park on East 76th Street. It's close to a children's playground and the commitment is to maintain the playground in his memory. I'm glad I spotted it and that I was able to come home and learn about Scott from his family and friends. He must be missed.
Lia Malatesta
September 14, 2017
Always in my thoughts and prayers Scott.
Sharon Lenzi
September 11, 2017
Remembering you, especially today. Strange how so many years can't dull the ache of missing you. Not surprising, though, those years can't keep me from smiling at the thought of you. You are a special blessing of my Journey here. Till we meet again, I wish you a hug.
Carol Mason
September 11, 2016
Scott,
I can't believe it's been 15 years since we laughed. You touched so many people's lives and were a true gentleman in every way. It was an honor to call you my friend.
We will never forget. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always.
Carol
Michael Herskovitz
September 10, 2016
Scott,
It has been 15 years, but I will never forget your kind and wonderful nature. You has a way to make us all feel like we were special.
Michael
Dina Rabiner
September 11, 2015
I never new Scott Saber. My only connection was that I lived in the same building as him and occasionally received his mail, my maiden name was Siber. I found out about his passing because a family member worked at UBS and said that one person from UBS was among the victims and he said Scott Saber's name. I am still saddened and send my thoughts to his family.
a friend
September 11, 2014
13 years later and it still feels like yesterday. I try my best to remember Scott in everything I do. He touched my life and others in ways that are impossible to explain. To say he is missed is an understatement, and what he world lost on that day can never be expressed in words. I know one day I will meet my dear friend again, and get to hear is stories and see his smile, and hang out on his leather couch in heaven watching sports on a big screen TV. "Game Called. Upon the field of life
the darkness gathers far and wide,
the dream is done, the score is spun
that stands forever in the guide.
Nor victory, nor yet defeat
is chalked against the players name.
But down the roll, the final scroll,
shows only how he played the game"
Scott played like a champ.
Carol Mason
May 25, 2014
I was blessed and honored to get to know Scott while working together at UBS. I will never forget his kindness, and his ability to always put a smile on your face. His life impacted so many of us and he will never be forgotten.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Saber family.
Jeanne Walsh
November 30, 2013
I didn't know Scott personally but somehow I received a card with his name on it shortly after the tragedy. I have kept his name in my wallet for the past 12 years and when I see it I pause to pray for his family. I took my first trip to Manatten last week and found his name on the memorial and prayed for him and his family. My he rest in eternal peace.
WILLIAM SABER
October 16, 2013
RIP SCOTT
Liz Harvey
September 13, 2012
While going to graduate school at Lehigh, I had the privilege of having Scott in one of my freshman writing classes in 1982. He was a genuinely nice, smart young man with a huge smile and an easy demeanor. He sat in the front of the classroom and participated in such a way that made my job teaching writing to reluctant engineering students much easier. Naturally, I was devastated to learn of his untimely death in 2001. I think of Scott often and made sure that I found his name when I visited the 9/11 Memorial site last year. I wanted to honor this special man's memory.
david paine jay winuk (brother of Glenn)
May 9, 2012
We are at Wollensky's Grill and saw Scott's picture on the wall. We are the founders of the 9/11 Day of Service and Remembrance. 911day.org. We honor you Scott and offer our best wishes to your family, friends and colleagues.
Stephanie Forim Maldonado
September 14, 2011
Sending so much love to you Elaine, Bruce and Brian. Every year I watch and my world stops until I see Scottie's picture. Somehow, I feel he can hear me and he knows the love going to him and to all of you. I feel his smile. I go to your old house and send more love.
To a great family...may great memories warm your hearts and know, old friends are still with you.
Ali Ferreira
September 11, 2011
Dear Saber Family,
As a student at the University of Delaware I held a candle in honor of Scott Saber and 2 others whose lives were taken 10 years ago.
I wanted to take this time to express my deepest condolences to the Saber family. My thoughts, prayers, and love were with you all tonight. I will continue to keep Scott's name in mind in a remembrance of all those that suffered on that horrible day.
Please know, that even 10 years later, Scott and all those lost are not forgotten.
Although I did not know Scott directly, his name will forever be in my heart in memory of all those lost on that day. I will be reminded to live a life that impacts others in a positive way. I am confident that the light I held for Scott will continue to guide me in life. Best wishes, love, and prayers.
David Grout
September 11, 2011
I want to add a few words to the guest book. I had the good fortune of knowing Scott when he was a high school senior, back in 1982. We were in the same dormitory at Exeter, Webster South, and as a skinny, reclusive 9th grader I remember Scott as being the one upperclassman I could always turn to for advice. His door was always open, and he was always positive, always smiling, a truly kind individual in a school where students were often in fierce competition. Besides helping me through that first year, Scott's other major contribution was an article of furniture: a huge, soft, dark-green armchair, attached to a heavy base, which came to be affectionately known in the dorm as the "Saber chair." It changed hands several times my senior year, but the name remained, passed on along with the memory of the original owner. Scott, I never got to thank you for the chair, or more importantly, the time you so generously gave to others. My sincere condolences to Scott's family on this day of remembrance.
Bill Hebert
September 11, 2011
To the Saber Family,
I know I speak for many of us who knew Scott both professionally and as a friend that he is very much missed. I personally remember him as a lively, honest, dedicated and very considerate person who was fun to be around with a sense of humor that was both unique and contagious. Scott, may God bless you and keep you. We will remember you and your friendship always.
Joseph Bachana
September 7, 2011
It has been 10 years since Scott lost his life in the Twin Towers that terrible day. I think of you often, Scott. So sad that some of our best souls were lost in that building that day - I count Scott as one of the finest and sweetest people I have met.
Has this world grown better, wiser, sweeter, in those 10 years? Without Scott, it is one person shy of being a better place, no matter what comes.
John Zwolinski
May 1, 2011
Thinking of you tonight, Scott.
Judy Johnson
September 13, 2010
I would like to express my condolences on Scott's ninth anniversary in heaven to Mrs. Elaine Saber, Bruce, Lisa and family. I remember Scott having a very sweet disposition. God bless him and keep him.
Paul Cooper
September 10, 2010
I used to work with Scott at UBS Warburg, we met at a conference in NY and used to hook up whenever I visited from London. I can still remember Scott's infectious personality, his bear hug of an embrace and the ability to make people laugh. These memories will never leave me and my thoughts go out to his family.
Brad Wolff
September 11, 2009
To The Saber Family:
I wanted to say how sorry I am each of the past eight years. Scott and I worked at UBS. He was my informal boss... We were working to improve the electronic trading platform. The projects were politically charged. However, Scott manuevered through the political maze like a sergeon at the operating table. He always worked hard to benifit all parties. Even during difficult situations. Most importantly, Scott became my mentor. His warm personallity is missed. My condulances goes out to all of his friends, family and lives he touched. He made a difference to all he encountered.
Steve Harrison
September 11, 2009
My thoughts and prayers will always be with the Saber Family.
Patricia Cotton
February 10, 2009
Scott was a former co-worker and seeing his picture so many years after 9-11 only makes me smile. He was a wonderful person and I'm so grateful I had the privledge to know him. God Bless you Scott.
Mark Gies
September 11, 2008
9/11/08: It's been 7 years and I will never foget you and our friendship at Exeter.
Jeff Parness
September 2, 2008
Scott -- thank you for letting my friend Hagay Shefi use your phone to call his wife Sigal to say goodbye.
John Woodberry
September 11, 2007
Scott, your Exeter teammates miss you, but we know you are waiting for us so we can play some more water polo.
Cathy McCann
September 11, 2007
Scott on your 6th Anniversay in Heaven, through the rain clouds I look up and see your smiling face. You are always in my heart!
kristine
May 4, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
February 28, 2007
In remembrance....
Ali Theo Saber
September 13, 2006
Dear Scott
Though I do not know you, I feel for you and your family and I am sorry for what happened on 9/11. God probably decided to take you to heaven sooner.
From one SABER to another, Rest in Peace.
Ali Saber
Scott Greenspan
September 12, 2006
It's been 5 years since we lost Scotty and I just happen to find this site today. All the anecdotes you read about this man are 100% true - he was all heart, all the time. How fortunate I was to not only have known him, but to be one of his closest friends for many, many years. We will never forget you 'Buff', never.
Leigh Garner
September 11, 2006
I live in Tyler Texas and go to school at The University of Texas at Tyler. We had a memorial today for 9/11 and I was randomly given Scott's name out of all of the 2,996 victims. Him and his family have been in my mind and prayers all day. His name has been worn on my shirt, along with his age, hometown, and a yellow ribbon. I just wanted to give my thoughts and prayers to the Saber's. Scott sounds like he would have been an amazing person to meet and be around.
Regina Smith
September 11, 2003
To the family and friends of Scott: Words cannot fully express my heartfelt sorrow for you all. May peace be with you all the rest of the days of your lives. Scott now dwells with God Above, there's no more tears or sadness, just Eternal Love.
-- excerpt From A Poem From Heaven -- When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years, because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain; remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
Donna Gutkin
September 11, 2002
I am saddened to learn that Scott was a victim of 9-11. My thoughts are with Scott and his family on this one year anniversary.
He was a breath of fresh air, witty and warm, and I feel lucky to have known him. I hope to carry his spirit with me always.
Norma Castillo Condra
September 7, 2002
My heartfelt sympathy is sent to Scott's family and friends. I went to Lehigh University with Scott and have fond memories of his humor and genuine friendship. I will never forget how supportive Scott was when my mother died in 1985. We lost touch after I married and moved to the west coast, but I will always consider Scott to be a very dear, special friend who will be deeply missed.
Zoltan Horcsok
September 6, 2002
Scott was a colleague and friend. He endeared himself to those who knew him, and has had a lasting effect. Obviously there are no words. Scott is missed by all his friends in Canada.
Sandra Mangal Ortega
August 28, 2002
I know it's almost been a year, and my condolences go out to the Saber Family. This is the first chance I've had to look through the whole list of names of everyone that passed on 9/11 at WTC. I've knew Scott since 1996 when I joined MSDW. He was first intimidating but then became a big brother to me. He looked out for me and knew how to put a smile on my face when I was down, with his great stories and adventures. He was one of a kind, and my heart goes out to the Saber family for such a great loss. May GOD be with you Scott.
Kevin Saer
May 21, 2002
Scott was a good friend of mine from grade school and I was deeply saddended to hear of his passing in the Trade Center disaster. My mother, who also knew Scott well as a young boy, just recently saw a picture of him on a television show about the 9/11 tragedy. She became very distressed and called me immediately to ask if this was the same Scott Saber who was my childhood friend. She knew however from Scott's picture on TV that this was the same baby-faced boy she had grown so fond of almost thirty years ago.
Although I lost contact with Scott after our grade school and junior high school days, I always considered him a very good friend. When I ran into him several years ago in NYC, it was if we hadn't missed a beat after all those years. I have some great childhood memories of my friendship with Scott. Most of all, I remember his intelligence, generosity and quick wit. Scott is a friend who will always have a special place in my memory and heart. He was truly one-of-a-kind and will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to have known him.
My prayers and thoughts are with Scott and his wonderful family.
Richard Rennert
May 19, 2002
I heard Scott's name while watching a recent HBO special on the WTC tragedy. Scott and I went to high school together. He was always upbeat, smiling, and had a great sense of humor. Though we lost touch after graduation, you knew he had what it took to be successful. And he was.
I am blessed to have known Scott and my condolences go out to his family.
April 19, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN...SCOTT H.SABER AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND MANY MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY AMERICA NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...MAY GOD AND HIS ANGELS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Ellen Glickman
March 24, 2002
I went to grade school with Scott and his older brother Brian. I would like to extend my condolescenes to the Saber Family.
Sincerely
Ellen
Tom Girard
March 11, 2002
I met Scott through his best friend, Andrew Levy, and right away you could sense he was a very special person. The many times I have gone out with Andrew, and all the gang, it was some of the most fun I've ever had, which was a reflection of how Scott, Andrew, and all their friends really enjoy life and its special moments.
David Lysenko
February 27, 2002
Scott was my best friend as I grew up with him in Woodmere, NY. He and I had lost touch when my family moved away in the mid 70's. What a shock to hear that he had perished in the WTC. My heart goes out to his family for their tragic loss. He is remembered fondly..
David Lysenko
Lisa Sotto
February 20, 2002
On behalf of Scott's family, we are deeply grateful for all the kind words here and in so many notes we have received about Scott. While we always knew how truly wonderful Scott was, it is gratifying to know that he managed to enrich so many lives during his own short life. Your memories of him help to ease our pain. Thank you!
Bonnie Chattler
February 20, 2002
You don't know me, and I didn't know your son Scott. But I too have recently lost a child. My heart goes out to you and your family, no one who has not experienced such a loss can know the pain you are feeling. It is a terrible tragedy as it always is when a young person dies. I hope you can find the strenth to move forward with the help of your friends and surviving children.
With love, Shirley Stein's daughter.
Peter Gilbert
February 11, 2002
Scott liked people. My condolances to Scotts friends and family. (Freshman hall friend; Lehigh)
Ellen Shepard
February 8, 2002
My prayers and thoughts for peace and healing are with Scott's family. Scott was an icon in the financial services community. All who knew him were always assured of a straight-forward and "elegant" interaction. I knew Scott, first, as a colleague and then, as was always true with Scott, as a friend. When I was struggling with a career move and trying to plan my future, Scott was a steadfast support - when many others who could have chose not to...Scott was his own person and will remain an inspiration to all who were lucky enough to have crossed his path...Although he was with us for far too short a time, he "got his job done"...as a professional, a good guy, and a real friend.
God Bless,
Ellen
Mary Foreman
December 31, 2001
God bless Scott's family and friends. We are all so sorry for your loss. May 2002 be a time for healing and peace.
Teresa Jahn
December 14, 2001
Friends became family, what a wonderful way to have lived his life. The world will miss such a friendly person. We are so sorry for your loss of Scott. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Memories of Scott yrs ago @ Merrin Financial
X-Merrin Financial
December 10, 2001
Scott was a friend to many X-Merrinites. We will miss his company, his presence and his friendship...
Steve Raaen
October 21, 2001
Scott was the most inclusive person I knew. He had a knack of bringing people together. He was one of the worlds great story tellers. His humor was uniquely tinged with self deprication and true sensitivity. He treated his friends and family like gold, and was a leader in both a social and business sense. Since we can't have him back, all I can do is recognize his special qualities and try to develop some of them in myself. I think that everyone who attended Scott's memorial service called their mothers as soon as they got back to home or work. Scott, thank you.
Joan Morningstar
October 15, 2001
I was shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of Scott, who is the first cousin of my very good friend Gilda Brancato's husband, Elliott. My thoughts and prayers are with Scott's mother and brothers and their families, and with Elliott and Gilda and their children in their time of grief. May time bring you some peace.
john manning
October 15, 2001
My thoughts and prayers are with all the Saber family. Scott was a friend, a client and one of a kind. I think of him often and I am blessed to have known him. God bless.
John Manning
Austin Lawrence Group
Stamford, CT
Patty Ryan
September 28, 2001
My thoughts and prayers are with the Saber Family.
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