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Benjamin Gilbert Obituary

GILBERT, BENJAMIN ELI Benjamin Eli Gilbert aka Caleb Carter left us too suddenly. Born on October 9, 1980, he left us on February 20, 2009. Benjamin leaves behind, Kimra and Chuck Martin loving "momma" and stepfather; Thom and Tracy Gilbert loving father and stepmother; loving brothers, Ian Gilbert, PFC Gilbert, Skylar, Ryan Godwin; loving sisters, Tara Gilbert and Lindsy Martin; and many loving family friends which include, Tim, Brittany, Jared, Jason and numerous others. Benjamin joins his Grandpa Dick and his Uncle Bob in wearing angel wings. A Celebration of Benjamin's life will be Saturday, March 14th 4 p.m. in Ocean Beach; followed by dancing at The Brass Rail. Benjamin decided his time here was complete. Ben committed his life to God at a very early age and has always known that a place of loving peace and acceptance awaited him. He now rests in the arms of God where he is finally fully loved and accepted. Rest in peace our precious Benjamin.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Mar. 13, 2009.

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Kristy Rebel

March 25, 2009

Thank you to all of those who have reached out to my sister and her family during this sad time. Ben will be greatly missed but will live in our hearts forever.

Matthew Oliver

March 16, 2009

Gil, Kimra and family

Our sincerest thoughts and prayers are with during this time.

Matt and Coreen Oliver

Scott

March 14, 2009

The passage of time brings many gifts and lessons to look upon during difficult times such as these.

May the gift of the love you cherished and shared with Benjamin now be the strength of remembrance of which you carry in your hearts throughout your lives.

Srb412

Thomas OXENDINE

March 14, 2009

Dear Thom, Kimra and Family,
I was saddened to see your son Benjamin's obituary in the paper. My memory of Ben, is that of a five year old, fun loving, mischievous little boy. Vickie and I both send you our deepest sympathy.
Sincerely,
Thom Oxendine

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