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Christmas 2015 - Christmas in Kansas City, Mo
January 1, 2016
Grand Canyon - (4/6/2010) - James, we felt your presence every step of the way on our hike out of the Canyon. We miss you and love you.
May 6, 2010
Grand Canyon - Grandma Jo and Grandpa Tom
May 6, 2010
Grand Canyon - (4/5/2010) - Phantom Ranch
May 6, 2010
James Garden - The first harvest
April 27, 2010
James Garden - The new mural
April 27, 2010
James Garden - The perfect flaw
April 27, 2010
James Garden - The unfinished mural with the holes!
April 27, 2010
James Garden - The original mural at Silver Strand
April 27, 2010
James ashes - (1/9/2010)
April 27, 2010
Jmes Ashes - (1/9/2010) - Pacific Ocean, scattering James ashes
April 27, 2010
James Oil Painting by Sue Knop - Our friend Sue Knop painted this portrait in oil of James. It hangs with pride in our living room. Thank you Sue!
September 14, 2009
James Cap - James crocheted this cap!
May 1, 2009
April 28, 2009
James Quilt - Some squares of his quilt.
April 27, 2009
Our Precious Angel - This was the angel James drew the week before he died. Carol had it made into a t-shirt to add to the quilt. Note the crosses - she hand knotted the quilt with white crosses. Gorgeous
April 27, 2009
James quilt - Inside of James quilt.
April 27, 2009
James Quilt - This is the Quilt that Carol Willis made from James t-shirts. Awesome!
April 27, 2009
James Quilt - We are blessed to be quilt #1 from Coronado Keepsake Quilts
April 27, 2009
Batman and Robin - James and Matt on Halloween. They've been working out!
April 16, 2009
Santa (Jim) and James - Mission City Auto Auction Christmas Party. James is thinking, "you look vaguely familiar."
April 16, 2009
Dylan and James - Buzz and Woody
April 16, 2009
James and Grandpa Jack - At Mission City Auto Auction Christmas Party
April 16, 2009
James first visitor - James Grandpa Jack was the first one at the hospital to hold his sweet grandson.
April 16, 2009
Grandpa Tom - James and Grandpa Tom fishing at Lake Tapawingo, Blue Springs, MO.
April 16, 2009
Jim, James and Grandpa Matt Tomich
April 16, 2009
Jim on Christmas Eve - (12/24/2008)
January 30, 2009
Guitar Hero @ Holiday Bowl Parade - (12/30/2008) - Jonas and James Play Guitar Hero
January 30, 2009
Seaport Village - Ice Cream!
January 30, 2009
Christmas eve dinner - (12/24/2008) - Emma, James, Grandma Jo, Mom, Sofie, Grandpa Tom, Uncle David, Matt, Jonas
January 30, 2009
Jonas, Jim, Mom and Emma - (1/2/2009) - Marching in the Disneyland Parade
January 30, 2009
Jim's New Years Resolutions - (1/5/2009) - Written the week before he died
January 28, 2009
Angel picture - (1/6/2009) - James drew this picture the week before he died
January 28, 2009
Matt and James caught at Wahoo in Cabo - (11/2004)
January 28, 2009
Zion National Park - (11/2007) - Thanksgiving
January 28, 2009
Torrey Pines State Park - (12/26/2008) - James and Mom
January 28, 2009
Catalina Island - (7/2007)
January 28, 2009
James and Enrique - colonial Day 5th Grade
January 27, 2009
Grandma Dar and James at Cotiliion - Sixth Grade Coronado Middle School
January 27, 2009
Colonial Day - James 5th Grade
January 27, 2009
Mom and James - (12/24/2008) - Christmas Eve
January 27, 2009
Jim Hanggliding - (12/26/2008) - Torrey Pines Glider Port
January 27, 2009
Jim and Matt - (8/2008) - Diamond Ranch
January 27, 2009
Auntie Janet and Jim - (4/2006) - Puerto Vallarta
January 27, 2009
Uncle Jeff measuring Jim - (12/23/2008) - Christmas visit
January 27, 2009
James and Brewski - (12/23/2008) - Christmas visit
January 27, 2009
Jim's 13th Birthday Naruto Cake - (6/7/2008)
January 27, 2009
James in front of his dorm at DRA
January 27, 2009
Jim in Library at DRA - (7/2008)
January 27, 2009
James and Jim reeling in a Wahoo - (11/2003) - Cabo San Lucas
January 26, 2009
James and Matt Tandem Parasailing - (11/2003) - Cabo San Lucas
January 26, 2009
Jim Jumping off a cliff in Catalina - (8/2004) - Cherry Cove, Catalina
January 26, 2009
James and Mrs. Montgomery - (6/2004) - Jim's favorite Principal
January 26, 2009
James and Mr.Merlin - (6/2004) - Jim's 5th Grade Teacher
January 26, 2009
Disneyland - (1/2/2009) - 3D glasses
January 26, 2009
Matt, Great Grandma Ree and James - (8/2003) - Visiting Ree in the hospital
January 26, 2009
Matt and James making a splash - (8/2008) - Hotel Visit, Washington Utah
January 26, 2009
James at Crater of Vesuvius - (7/2006) - Jim hiked to the top!
January 26, 2009
January 26, 2009
Uncle Jeff, James and Cousin Emma - (7/2006) - Ravello, Italy
January 26, 2009
Mazatlan, Mexico Holland America Cruise - (5/2006) - James, Annie, Britta, Matthew, Matt
January 26, 2009
James and Sensei Miko - (2006) - Black Belt Test
January 26, 2009
Zion National Park - (11/2008) - Thanksgiving
January 26, 2009
Matt and James - (11/2003) - Cabo
January 26, 2009
Grandma Jo and Grandpa Tom - (12/24/2008)
January 26, 2009
Uncle Jeff, James and Uncle David - (12/23/2008) - Christmas Homecoming
January 26, 2009
DRA class - (6/2008)
January 26, 2009
DRA - (8/2008)
January 26, 2009
Deana Delsol
July 10, 2022
So sorry for your loss. Prayers.
January 10, 2020
Love him and miss him very much. Gpa Tom and Gma Jody
Pop, Maggie and Daisy
Jim Baker
January 30, 2014
Jim, Sue, and Matt, God surely called home one of his saints when he took our James. That is why there can be both sorrow and joy at the passing of one we lived so much. We cannot understand why things happen but we know it is not because God doesn't love us. Thank you for keeping his memory for all to share. Pop
Stacy Eichman
February 6, 2012
Today I was looking for Sue's address and used Google. The search enging took me to this Guest Book. An ordinary day turned extrodinary. I sat and thought about James and remembered being at the city market in Kansas City with my daughter, Chloe, James, Matt, Sue and Joe. James was five, Chloe was six and Matt was in stroller a wee little tot. The day was beautiful. Sunny, not to humid and Joe was clowning, Handing out ballons and smiles. James was concerned about Chloe's ability to push the stroller with one hand. She looked at him with her thousand watt smile and said we both can push Matt. This made James light up and he kissed Chloe's cheek. Chloe tilted her head up and smiled at James and both of them became friends forever. We love you James.
Eichman Family
January 12, 2012
Sue & Jim,
I read all the of the Guest book. Put all the thoughts, prayers & tears together and there comes more. Only new James at the Clown Show where he was a brave. Brave one at the end of the Rainbow.Love the Shireys!
Pam Dukes
January 11, 2012
I love you and we miss you
Tom and Jody Goddard
January 10, 2012
There will always be a hole in our hearts. Time goes so fast but we will never forget our special James. Blessings to you today and always. With lots of Love.
joyce montgomery/weaver
January 10, 2012
Jim, Sue and Matt,
It is hard to believe that it has been three years. James continues to be such a strong and positive influence in so many of our lives. I know that as a student, James helped define me as an educator...such a wonderful spirit. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Paige
March 14, 2011
I did not know Jim personally but they he died while I was at DRA, i finally understood what people meant about live while you can. Im so sorry for your lost and I hope things are better
Brian Norvell
December 6, 2010
Sue,
I did not know that your son had passed away. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ron juarez
June 7, 2010
Sue, I'm at a lost for words right now... I had no ideal you lost your son. You have my deepest sympathy.
Sharon Scroggs-Eikel
June 7, 2010
Sue, What a wonderful tribute to your son. My Thoughts and Prayers are with you, and your family.Thank you for sharing your son with us. Love ya lots!
Judi Stivers
June 7, 2010
Dear Sue, Jim and Matt,
You are very special people, James was blessed to have you as family. As you celebrate James' Birthday today (knowing you miss him terribly) I wish you all the happiness your memories bring. After reading your journal entries, I have no doubt that James' smile will be shining bright all day.
Happy Birthday James!
Grandma Jo Goddard
June 7, 2010
Happy 16th Birthday, James. We love and miss you. RIP.
April 14, 2010
Dear Jim & Sue, Dean and Katie Van Leuven used to work with the Shirey family at the auction in San Diego. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your grief. Bless you all.
Corinne and my daughter Olivia.
April 8, 2010
Corinne Ruiz
April 8, 2010
Dear Sue, what a beautiful tribute to your son James. James has such a wonderful smile. I know that he is in Heaven with my daughter Olivia. They are both smiling down on us saying "Just be happy, because we are".
Peace and Blessings.
Corinne Ruiz,
Olivia's mom
Christine Figueredo
January 15, 2010
Suzy Q,
It's hard to believe I could be so disconnected..had no idea you had lost James. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and Jim and Matt. I hope he is having his best adventure now with Jesus!
Dianna Gibson
January 12, 2010
Sue,
You may remember me, as you were so very gracious in talking to me last fall, 2009, regarding my son, who is currently at DRA. I was fortunate in connecting with you quickly, because I know/used to work with your Mom. First, I want to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son, James. I know that you and your family truly treasure your time with and memories of James. I clearly realize, after reading more about James, that he was very special and had become so well prepared for life. His poems are absolutely amazing! I cannot imagine how much you must continue to miss him, but I know, as you do and have shared, that he is in Heaven and most definitely lives on! Second, I wanted to let you know that my son is doing very well at DRA and achieved Supervisor status. I just returned from my first visit with him. I so appreciate your support last fall, when I was in need! You are special! Thanks so much..
dave mosby
December 31, 2009
Suzie:
I am having trouble with what to type. I have two daughters and can only imagine the pain. From reading the guest book it appears James lives on!
His first Sylvan recognition award for outstanding growth!!!
Frances Lopez
September 4, 2009
Hi Sue and family,
James was such a wonderful student here at Sylvan. He is lucky to have such a loving family. We miss and love him here at Sylvan.
Elaine Tenen
April 24, 2009
Sue,
It was so good to spend some time with you this morning. I miss James and his sweet smile. When I think of him I always think of when he slept over and wanted hugs before he went to bed. He gave such great hugs!!! My heart breaks for you, Jim, Matt and all your family. I love you guys and I am always here for you day or night, whenever you need me. James will always have a special place in my heart and his beautiful soul will always be present and a gift to all of us.
Carl Santavicca
April 17, 2009
Dear Sue,
I can't find the words to convey how sad and shocked I feel. My deepest sympathy.
Carl
Kelly Goddard
March 27, 2009
Jim, Sue, and Matt,
Always remember that our thoughts and prayers are with you guys all the time. Grand Canyon was incrediable and we would love to share the experience with you someday soon. If it is anything like heaven James is in an awesome place. We love you all!
Goddards
Colleen Colvin
March 11, 2009
Dear Shirey Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, and I know me saying that doesn't make it any better, but I just want you to know that James was a wonderful person (even though you already knew that!). I remember participating in school plays with him at Silver Strand and what a friendly, kind, caring, and funny boy he was. He will really be missed!
Matthew & Leloashia Taylor
February 17, 2009
We are friends of Tom and Jody, they have been such a blessing to our family and I can't imagine what they and you are going through right now. I am really sorry to hear that your son has passed, but the story you told about him being in a much better place encourages me that you guys will be fine. My family will be praying for your family. Where there is unity there is strength. Be encouraged and be blessed.
February 11, 2009
To The Shirey Family,
You have may deepest sympathy.
I knew James thru Jodi - we worked together at Honeywell for years. I have a grandson,"James", also...he's 18. We'd share stories about our grandkids.
Please know that I feel your pain and pray that, in time, your days will get a little better.
I'm sharing the journey with you, as your Mom can tell you.
Trust God. That's all you can do.
Sheila Parks,
Kansas City, Missouri
Garrin Williams (8 years old)
February 9, 2009
Aunt Sue, my mom just rand the letter to me I was criing so bad my mom to.Did you see hem in your bedroom or the chichen.I wont to know?My mom saids hi me to.I have lose of queshtens. We miss you and pray for you guys almost everyday. love Garrin
Katie Lussier
February 8, 2009
To The Shirey Family,
I never got to meet your Son James or know of his quest in life. I am deeply saddend to of heard about his passing. To you all..my deepest sympathy. A prayer has been said that your loss eases and memories deepen in the future. This is an absolute wonderful way to share in all you've gone through in life with him.....Sincerely
Author Unknown
February 8, 2009
God is with him in heaven...know that. May he be blessed for all of his good deeds on earth. Amen
Ellen Evans
February 3, 2009
Dearest Sue, Jim and Matt:
Sending love and encircling all of you with love and prayers....this morning and every morning. My heart aches feeling the tremendous waves and infinite love holding each of you-Sue Jim and Matt,sweet James, Jim and Carrie, Jeff and his beautiful family, Jodi and Tom,sweet David and everyone in your extended family. There are no words that I can articulate here to express the emotion that is beyond comprehension, so with deep sympathy and love I will continue to pray and breathe on your behalf....with all my heart-
Del Merlan
February 2, 2009
Jim, Sue, and Matt,
It was an honor to have worked with James in class. James made a significant impact in my life and I will always remember him and his free spirit. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
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