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Daniel Tarpey Obituary

Milton Daniel F. Tarpey, a 50 year resident of Milton, passed away at his sons home in Cohasset on Friday, February 1. He was born and raised in Boston and graduated from English High School before serving in the Navy during WWII. After graduating from St. Michaels College in 1952, Dan began his 30 Year Boston Public School Teaching Career in Charlestown. He was subsequently appointed to the Faculty at English High School where he spent the bulk of his teaching career. While at English, Dan coached the Swim Team to many city and regional championships. In 1964, the English High School Swim Team won the State Championship, becoming the only Boston Public High School to ever gain that distinction. Many of Dans Swimmers went on to enjoy success while competing at the collegiate level. Additionally for many years, Dan umpired Baseball and Officiated Football at the High School and Collegiate level. He particularly loved Baseball and, in partnership with his friend the late Bill Stewart, helped to develop the Yawkey Baseball League into one of the pre-eminent amateur baseball leagues in New England. At the time of his passing, Dan was serving as the Leagues Commissioner. He was a proud member of the Boston English H. S. Hall of Fame, and the MA Swim Coaches Hall of Fame, as well as the Yawkey League and Kiwanis Halls of Fame. Dan worked tirelessly throughout his life in support of his Alma Mater, St. Michaels College, and was named Alumnus of the Year in 1971. He was the founder & former owner of the Irish Cottage Stores, as well as the founder and late owner of Celtic Monument Co., Milton. Dan was also a late member of the Milton Post #114, A.L., and the McKeon Post, Dorchester. Also, as bespeaks his tremendous pride in his Irish Heritage, Dan was a member the Irish American Veterans and the Donegal Association and actively supported the charitable and civic improvement efforts of the Greater Boston Irish Community. The beloved husband of the late Mary T. (McDonough) Tarpey, he is survived by his devoted children; Daniel F., Jr. of Cohasset, John J., Esq. of Scituate, Michael C., Paul G, and Kevin A. Tarpey, both of Cohasset, his brother Frederick J. Tarpey of Milton, 10 loving grandchildren and his dear friend, Della Costello of Dorchester. He was the loving father of the late Joan M. Tarpey Skinner and brother of the late Mary E. Betty Flaherty. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Elizabeth Church, Milton, Tuesday at 10AM. Visiting hours will be held at the Alfred D. Thomas Funeral Home, 326 Granite Ave., Milton, Mon. 3 to 8PM. Interment will be at Milton Cemetery. In lieu of flowers expressions of sympathy may be made to the Mary T. Tarpey Scholarship Fund, St. Michaels College, One Winooski Park, Colchester, VT 05439. Alfred D. Thomas Funeral Home Milton (617) 696-4200

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Published by The Patriot Ledger from Feb. 2 to Feb. 4, 2008.

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George A. Scala Jr.

January 29, 2021

I remember Mr. Tarpey from high school. He was very kind to me when my father passed away way back when .He will always have my utmost respect. Rest in peace and thanks for being there for me back in 1970.

Jimmy Kelly

February 14, 2008

Dear Dan & Family,

Great memories with the English High Swimming & Diving Team! You were a true life-coach and an inspiration-Your humility and sense of humor sustained us. Your kind, encouraging words shaped us! The world was a better place when you were with us; You left it a better place...and now Heaven is a better place! God Bless your family in their time of sorrow.Thanks for being,Dan!

A Forever grateful Townie,
Jimmy Kelly
1966 English High diver

Mike & Kathy Dunford

February 9, 2008

We were so sorry to hear about Dan. He was a great guy, and we really enjoyed our time in Carraroe, Galway with him in 1999. The Tarpey Family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Ellen Power

February 7, 2008

Dan Tarpey will be missed by many. We enjoyed his company on several trips to Ireland including our son, Declan's wedding. He also celebrated the millenium "2000" with us in Ardmore, Co. Waterford. I'll never forget all of us standing on a windswept hill in front of a big bonfire toasting the New Year as fireworks from the seaside village below soared into the sky.
Sleep well, Dan.

Don and Clare Slaven

February 7, 2008

Our dear friend,Daniel Francis Xavier Tarpey was given an outstanding tribute and outpouring of love from hundreds of friends and family on Tuesday,February, 6,2008.A tribute richly deserved.
Knowing Dan for over 60 years starting as a classmate at St.Michael's College ,a teacher-coach, and an entrepreneur
personified,it is no wonder that such an outpouring occurred.
All of Dan's family should be proud to know the Wake,the Mass ,the Interment,and the Reception were all of a very high class affair.....
Dan's favorite line......
"O,MICHAELMEN come join the fray Hip Hoory,Hip Hooray !!
We miss you dearly!!!!!!

Edward Grant

February 6, 2008

Dan,
I have known you as Uncle Dan all my life. Technically, my Grandpa, Michael Tarpey, and your Dad were brothers. I'm just thankful we share the bloodline. As a matter of fact, I am extremely proud of this. Thank you for alway's treating me as an important person on this earth. Whenever we met at family functions, I always felt a little stonger after speaking and being with you. There is a quality about you that few are blessed with. I thank God that I know you and I believe he set it that way. You made the footprint God expected you to. He led my Uncle Fred on the same path.
I will alway's remember you,
Ed Grant

Carol & Martin O'Donovan

February 6, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kathy Mills

February 6, 2008

To John, Lucille and Tarpey family.
I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you in your time of need.

God Bless you all.

TOM & PATRICIA BARRY

February 5, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Laurie McEachern

February 5, 2008

Tarpey Family and Della, You are in my thoughts and prayers. Dan was a fantastic man and will be missed by so many.

John Duffy

February 5, 2008

To the Tarpey Family

Sincere sympathy on the death of a great and wonderful father and grandfather. I have known Dan for many years on my trips to Boston and Milton. He served the United States and his organic roots in the West of Ireland which he loved dearly.

John and Mary Duffy, Dublin/Mayo.

TOM & PATRICIA BARRY

February 5, 2008

TO THE TARPEY FAMILY & FRED,
IT IS WITH OUR DEEPEST
SYMPATHY WE SEND OUR CONDOLENCES
ON DANS PASSING,
MAY HE REST IN PEACE
TOM & PATRICIA BARRY

Tommy Lenihan

February 5, 2008

Sincere sympathies to all on the death of Dan

Dave McKay

February 5, 2008

God Blessed everyone who had the opportunity to have met Dan Tarpey. We in the Yawkey Baseball League will miss his leadership and kindness. The Father of the Yawkey League has passed. Dan will remain as a figure of true sportsmanship and quality play on and off the field. All members of our League salute this icon -- a True Gentleman! One of the best men to ever walk the face of the earth. We love you Dan and share words of sympathy and hope to his tremendous family and friends.

Patrick, Susan, Molly and Ryan Bagge

February 4, 2008

Dear Tarpey family,
It was with deep sadness that I heard of the passing of your father. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Joe Hughes

February 4, 2008

To the Tarpey Family:
I have many fond memories of your Father. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Carrie & Joe Hughes

Karen Cross

February 4, 2008

John,

I'm sorry for the loss of your Father. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Clyde & Karen

Lucille Campbell

February 4, 2008

Dear Dan Jr. and family.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Those of us that were fortunate enought to meet him and get to know him will not forget him! What a wonderful man. I will always think of him as "My main man, Dan" as I often said to him on the phone. God bless all of you and God is the fortunate one to have Dan on his ball field!!
Lucille Campbell
Barre Vt.

Mike Casey

February 4, 2008

Mr. Tarpey,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the USN during WW II and for being a member of the Greatest Generation. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Fair Winds And Following Seas

ellen kenny

February 4, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your father, he was a great man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
the Kenny family, Dorchester, Ma

Larry & Karen McEachern

February 4, 2008

Dear Tarpey Family and Della,
We will be forever grateful to be able to say that we called Dan Tarpey our friend. Larry called him " Big Dan " and I referred to him as my wild colonial boy, Danny Boy. We will treasure our time spent with Dan & Della in Florida last year. We loved & will always remember Dan as a kind, generous friend. Love, Larry & Karen McEachern

Marge & Jim Murrin

February 4, 2008

Sincere sympathy to all the family at this time.Fondly remembered

Joe Gallagher

February 3, 2008

To the Tarpey Family,

Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. "Coach Tarpey" was an inspiration to me and, I'm sure, to the many Townies that swam and dived on his teams at English High during the 60's and 70's. His mentorship, personal guidance and great sense of humor sustained me through my years at English High and I am thankful to have known such a great man and educator.

Joe Gallagher, Class of 1970

Ellyn & Joe Dunford

February 3, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to all the Tarpey family . Remembering big Dan fondly.

Helena Sullivan

February 3, 2008

DEAR FREDDY AND FAMILY, I,'M SO SORRY TO HEAR OF Dans passing.He was so good to me when my Frank passed away .I'm only sorry we never keeped in touch,like every one with big family's it keeped us busy.My brother Bill and my self will do our best to make the wake,I'm sure he is with his dear wife in Heaven.My thoughts will be with you.Fondly Helena (lyons) Sullivan

Bill McGreal

February 3, 2008

Dan and I were neighbors at the "Milton Hilton." He was a gentleman and a great friend. Occasionally we would see each other at the "Pub." Even when he was sick he never complained and was always upbeat.
Sleep well my friend, God bless.
I am out of state until March, wish I could be with you during this time. You, his loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers.

Joseph Dunford

February 3, 2008

Dan was a pleasure to know and one 'who lit up the room', we have many fond memories of Dan and Mary including our trip to Saint Michael's. Love,Joe and Kay Dunford, Florida

Fr. Joe Hart, S.S.E,

February 3, 2008

Dan was a delightful person to know, and a dedicated alumnus of Saint Michael's College, VT. May he rest in peace

George Scala, Jr.

February 3, 2008

Mr. Tarpey was one of my favorite teachers at Boston English back in the day. He was very kind to me when my father passed away during my senior year. I have and will think of him often. Sorry for your loss.

Manuel Gonsalves

February 3, 2008

The English High School Association expresses its sympathy for one of its own who served as both student and teacher. The Hall of Fame members remember him well. As a tribute to Daniel F. Tarpey, we are attempting to revive the swim team that he coached. Our best wishes to his family. Manuel Gonsalves class of 1955, President of the Alumni Association.

February 3, 2008

Dan Tarpey was one of the most delightful people I have had the blessing of knowing! He and Mary and the Tarpey family were such fun neighbors on Hawthorne Rd. May his memory be a blessing. With sympathy, Chris Sorensen Woodside

thomas charlton

February 2, 2008

We will miss you Dan ! You had a great sense of humor.

Anne & Tommy Charlton

Jay White

February 2, 2008

Dan was one of the greatest men I have ever met. He brought out the best in people. His love for Boston amateur baseball will not be forgotten. It was an honor to know him!

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