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Mary Ilacqua Obituary

Mary V. Ilacqua QUINCY Mary V. Ilacqua, September 17, 2008. Devoted mother of Charmaine Ilacqua and her husband Frederic Philemond of Bridgewater and Wanda Ilacqua of Quincy. Sister of Joseph Ilacqua and his wife Anne of Pawtucket, RI, Anthony Ilacqua and his wife Carol of Littleton, NH, the late Dominic Ilacqua and the late Francis Ilacqua. Cherished grandmother of Chante, Nicholas and Dominique Ilacqua of Bridgewater; Victor, Paul, Nicole Ilacqua, and Andreanna, Christopher and Joaquin Duarte and great grandson Amaru Houston of Quincy. Loving Aunt to many nieces and nephews. Mary is also survived by many cousins. Mary Ilacqua was a born in South Boston and graduated from South Boston H.S. in 1943. She subsequently moved with her family to Quincy where she lived for 60 years. She attended Simmons College, School of Nursing, from 1943-1945. In 1947, she graduated from Fisher College as a Medical Secretary. From 1947 until her retirement in March of 1989 she was employed by Carney Hospital. She was Executive Secretary under seven consecutive administrators during her career at the Hospital. She was a Charter Member of the Professional Secretaries International, South Shore Chapter and a member of the Association of Healthcare Assistants. Affiliate of Daughters of Charity of Saint Vincent DePaul. She was also a member of the Carney Hospital Little Theater Group for which she was a one of the founders. She was a founding member of Single Parents for Adoption of Children Everywhere. Mary was a devout Catholic and member of Sacred Heart Church in North Quincy where she also served as communicant and taught Christian Doctrine. Beside family, Mary leaves behind many loving friends and neighbors. She will be dearly missed by all. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend the funeral at the Keohane Funeral Home, 785 Hancock St., Quincy, MA on Monday, September 22 at 9:00 a.m. Funeral Mass at The Sacred Heart Church, North Quincy at 10:00 a.m. Visiting Hours Sunday, September 21 from 2-6 p.m. at Keohanes. Burial at Mount Wollaston Cemetery, Quincy. Donations in memory of Mary may be made to The Sacred Heart Church, 386 Hancock Street, North Quincy and/or The Old Colony Hospice. Call 1-800-Keohane or visit for directions and online condolences.

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Published by The Patriot Ledger from Sep. 19 to Sep. 20, 2008.

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Santa Donnarumma

October 28, 2008

To The Ilacqua Family & Charmaine and her family. Dear cousins, I recently heard of Mary's passing. I am devasted that I hadn't heard of her death. I spoke to her a week before she passed away. Mary and I were very close growing up. I used to spend two weeks of my summer vacation at her house in South Boston. Her mother Santa was one of my favorite cousins. My prayers are with you all. She will be sorely missed. She was such a wonderful person. I will never forget her. Love Cousin Santa (Squadrito) Donnarumma, Malden, Ma.

Norma Jenckes

September 22, 2008

My sincere sympathy to the family. I extend a special word of condolence to my dear friend and long-time colleague, Joseph Ilacqua. My thoughts are with you and Anne at this sad time.

Dianna (Lentini) McDonough

September 21, 2008

Charmaine, I'm sorry to hear about your mother. I remarried and moved out of the area so we lost touch. My kids haved moved back to Quincy though. I hope we can meet soon to catch up. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Your mother was a lovely and gracious woman.

Julie and Dan Kellerman

September 21, 2008

Charmaine, Wanda & family,
Aunt Mary will truly be missed. She was one of my favorite aunts and she was like a sister to my mother. I guess she missed Mum alot and now they are together again and smiling down on us (and probably sharing a glass of wine or two!). You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Joan Day-Chenette

September 20, 2008

Although its been many years, I remember Mary fondly, she and her mother were close friends and neighbors of my parents and family. She will be in my prayers. God bless you all.

kathy cavanagh davis

September 19, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Richard Coe

September 19, 2008

remember Mary well 1st met while we served under Sister Helen,what great years The Carney Family looked forward to going to work because of folks like Mary,her smile was infectious

jeanne fitzgerald

September 19, 2008

I grew up with Mary in South Boston,
and graduated with her in 1943. She was always the smartest in our class. She was thoughtful,kind and
generous in her support of others.
she will be dearly missed.
She took wonderful care of her mother, sister Frances and all of her
family.
Her faith was her life..........
She is in a far better place today.

Jackie Mcdonald

September 19, 2008

Charmaine,Wanda and Family,

Mary was a great person! We will miss her smiling face.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Sincerely,
Jackie,Paul, Matthew, Kevin and Mary-Kate McDonald
81 Edwin Street
Quincy

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