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Lydia Berman Obituary
Born on October 4, 1928 in St. John's, New Foundland, died peacefully at her home in Elmira on July 29, 2008. She had been living in Elmira since 1947 and married her future husband, Bernard, in 1949. A loving and devoted wife, she was married to Bernard for 54 wonderful years. Lydia was a loving and compassionate mother of their 12 children. An education advocate, her children graduated from the likes of the US Military Academy at West Point, the US Naval Academy at Annapolis, Syracuse University, University of Maryland, UMass, Roger Williams University, Elmira College, Utica College and the US Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs. Three of her children (senior Army and Air Force officers) are war Veterans of the Gulf War, Operation Enduring Freedom and Operation Iraqi Freedom. A strong and religious woman of integrity and character, she set the highest standards for her children to emulate. Lydia was predeceased by her beloved son, Rubin (1992); and her husband, Bernard (2004). She will be greatly missed by her family and friends. Arrangements by the BAKER FAMILY FUNERAL HOME.
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Rebecca Cohen
September 22, 2008
My grandma Berman,was a loving and giving person.And I loved her very dearly.She meant so much to me and I know we meant alot to her.She was the best grandma anyone could have and I miss her alot.
Love you grandma,
Rebecca Cohen
Aaron Berman
September 5, 2008
My mother Lydia was a sympathetic and hardworking individual. she worked around the clock doing house chores, preparing meals for her 12 children. She was an attribute and a great contributor to her husband Bernard who always could rely on her support and blessing. Her daughters Brina and Risa had a special place in her heart. Her five boys were very fond of there mother and enjoyed her company every moment.
theresa willis
August 26, 2008
May god bless your family in this time of sorrow.Love Theresa,Lucy,Henry,Billy,Sam (sister mary's kids)
theresa willis
August 26, 2008
I wish I have known you more. I thought of you all the time.You were always in my heart,and that is where you will stay. Love your brother Jack howlett
theresa willis
August 26, 2008
Dear sister I will miss you. You will always be in my heart. Love your sister Janie
karen berman cohen
August 7, 2008
LYDIA JOSEPH BERMAN my mom was such a giving person, she was my best friend and was a wonderful grandmother to my daughter rebecca. I will always cherish the time we spent together in virginia and in Elmira. I will miss our daily talks on the phone. My mom always gave me good advice and helped me throughout my life.My mom was my rock. I loved my mom so much,she gave me so much comfort. My daughter Rebecca and I will miss her dearly. I have such fond memories of my mother. Karen Berman Cohen
Bernice Berman Beckwith
August 6, 2008
Lydia Howlette Berman, my mother, was very observant of the Jewish Sabbath. She enjoyed the Sabbath's serenity and holiness every week, lighting the Sabbath candles, praying, and studying the Torah. Over the years, I had plethora international affairs/political discussions with my Mom; she was both interested in and learned about world affairs. Both my Mom and Father influenced me and my children, Andy and Micah, to serve the American people, as soldiers. My Mom watched as Andy, Micah, and I were all deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan, since 9/11. We will continue to serve. Through the years, my boys and I tried to give back to Mom all that she gave to us through her actions. My Mom's biggest dream and goal, after the death of my father, was to spend out the rest of her life where she was happiest with her family -- on the Southside, at 1150 Broadway. Unfortunately, she was never able to achieve this significant quality of life endeavor. My Mom never valued materialism; rather, integrity, dignity, and honesty. I will miss my Mom dearly.
Jennifer Belz(Nemier)
August 5, 2008
Lydia Berman was my grand mother. Not having an opportunity to see her in past years makes this time is especially difficult. I hope that the family can find comfort. My deepest sympathies to my mother and to the entire Berman family.
Aaron Berman
August 3, 2008
My mother was a great woman who thought about others before herself. she frequently attended to her elderly children and gave them there basic needs like food and shelter when they needed it. she also was there for her grandchildren and provided them with much comfort.
Allison Pizzi
August 1, 2008
Rachel and Family, We were so sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved grandmother/mother. It was apparent from your stories of her, how wonderful she truly was. May you celebrate her life and your memories of her be shared and passed down to future generations. Let your fond memories help you all through these difficult times. Our thoughts are with you. Allison
Theresa Willis
July 31, 2008
To the Berman family,We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. If i had to know she was so sick,I would have been with her. But i'm so glad I had the chance to visit with her and family a few times, over the years.she will be in our hearts forever, love sister mary and family
Theresa Willis
July 31, 2008
To the Berman family,We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. If i had to know she was so sick,I would have been with her. But i'm so glad I had the chance to visit with her and family a few times, over the years.she will be in our hearts forever, love sister mary and family
Sue Raub (Bennett)
July 31, 2008
To the Berman family: I am so sorry for your loss. I remember when you moved into the 4th & College house. I have so many fond memories of the good old days. Please take comfort in the memories of your mom, as these will help you to get through this difficult time.
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