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Alice Erway Obituary

ERWAY,
Alice L. (Lowery)
Age 80, of Penn Yan, NY, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, August 26, at home surrounded by her husband and children. Alice was born and raised in Elmira, NY, and was a longtime resident of Apalachin, NY. She was the beloved wife of 62 years to Harry G. Erway, Jr. of Penn Yan, and the devoted mother of 8 children. She was predeceased by two sons, Michael in 1950 and Tim in 1996. She is survived by her husband, (Slim); and her children: son, Harry G. Erway III (Skip) and Eileen of Penn Yan, NY; daughter, Kathleen and son-in-law, Lawrence Beinert of Williston, VT, and grandchildren, Libbey Beinert of Lowell, MA, and Marcy Beinert of Arlington, MA; daughter, Gail Erway-Haight of Penn Yan and three granddaughters, Claire Harapat and Emily and DeeAna Haight; daughter, Patty and son-in-law, Don Proutey of Clayton, NC, and grandchildren, Julie Rogers, husband, Tim and great-grandson, Timmy of Binghamton, NY, Jason Proutey and wife, Michelle and great-grandchildren, Emily, Jack and Meghan of Binghamton, NY, grandson, Ben Proutey and wife, Garietta of Smithfield, NC, grandson, Joseph Gabello of Vestal, NY, grandsons, Carlos and Joshua Proutey of Clayton, NC; a son, Thomas and daughter-in-law, Margaret Erway and grandson, Derrick of Binghamton; a son, David and daughter-in-law, Sue Erway of Boca Raton, FL, and their children, Holly, her husband, Jerry Sullivan and great-grandchildren, Jeremiah, Jacob and Johnathon of East Stroudsburg, PA, Michelle and husband, Chris Blanda of Raleigh, NC, and Tim and his wife, Jana Bunsic, and great-grandchildren, Aviah and Briony of Morristown, TN, granddaughter, Jocelyn and grandson, Justin Erway of Boca Raton, FL. Alice is also survived by her sisters, Marie Striker of Reston, VA, Carol Wade of Penn Yan, NY, Doris Kiff of Elmira, NY, Helen Campbell of Penfield, NY; and her brother, Mike Lowery of Big Flats, NY. She was predeceased by her sister, Theresa Mallette of Elmira, NY. Alice is also survived by her brother-in-law, Robert Erway of Elmira, NY; sister-in-law, Ellen Tobey (Sis) of Elmira, NY; and brother-in-law, Charles Erway and his wife, Nancy of Satellite Beach, FL. Alice was a longtime member of Saint Margaret Mary's Catholic Church in Apalachin, NY. She was a current member of Saint Michael's Catholic Church in Penn Yan, NY. Alice worked as an operator at New York Telephone Company as well as a bookkeeper for Rosebaums in Johnson City, NY. Alice was blessed with the gift of hospitality and the ability to make everyone who crossed her threshold feel welcome and loved. Alice's love, devotion and faithfulness to her husband, Harry, was rare and precious. Alice was blessed with many friends who loved her, especially her two longtime best friends, Millie Gaddes of Nesquehoning, PA, and Sophie Student of Apalachin, NY. To say that she will be missed is an understatement. She leaves a void in our lives that can only be filled with the love of God. Funeral Services will be held Saturday, 10:15 a.m. from the Allen Memorial Home, 511-513 East Main Street, Endicott, followed by a Funeral Mass at 11 a.m., from Blessed Trinity Parish at St. Margaret Mary, Pennsylvania Avenue, Apalachin, with the Reverend Father Bob Ring of Penn Yan presiding. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery, Johnson City. The family will receive friends at the Allen Memorial Home Friday from 2-4 and evening 7-9 p.m. and Saturday from 8:30 a.m. until service time at 10:15 a.m. The family would like to express their deepest gratitude to all those who have supported them with their love and prayers these past few months.

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Published by Star-Gazette on Aug. 29, 2008.

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Bernie and Laurie Student

September 19, 2008

Dear Slim and family,
We were so sorry to hear of Alice's passing. You and Alice have always been so kind to our mother, Sophie. Sophie will miss her very much. Alice left quite a legacy and will be missed by many, but she is being embraced with His love now, and she is at peace... Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With love,

Ray & Mary Ellen Benedict

September 6, 2008

We just returned from out of town and we wish to extended our sincere condolences. Our prayers are with you.

Frank Romanelli

September 3, 2008

Dear Slim and Family,

Barbara and I want to send your our deepest sympathies in your loss. I'm sure she will be missed by all for she was such a happy and fun lady. We will never forget the good times and laughs we had with you at the Gaddes's. We are sorry we missed the obituary and didn't make the services.

God Bless, Frank and Barbara Romanelli

Dick & Bonnie Arielly

August 30, 2008

Harry, Alice is one of those people who leaves a big hole in the lives of so many when they leave. It's hard to believe she's gone. Please know we are thinking of you and your family and holding you in prayer.

Theresa Larrabee Creed

August 30, 2008

Slim and family:
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Alice has always been a kind and wonderful woman. She will truly be missed. So many wonderful memories of days gone by. You both are special friends to mom and dad (Izzy and Bill) and family. You can bet that Alice and Dad are now able to laugh about all the wonderful times they had. I am sure they could tell stories.

Alice is now at peace and watching over all of us.

God bless you all at this difficult time.

Tom Parker

August 29, 2008

Dear Tom,
Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You are in our thouths and prayers.
God Bless,
Tom and Diane Parker

Len & Rita Nossal

August 29, 2008

Dear Harry & Family: We send our thoughts and prayers to all of you. Alice was a great lady and one that we will never
forgot. With love and blessings!

Maren & Red Lawhern

August 29, 2008

Dear Slim ,
To you and all the Erway's our deepest sympathy .
You and Alice were an " institution " on Frederick Drive to our kids growing up during the 70's , but also to all of us neighbors . We had many good times together , and experienced great losses .
Alice will be missed by all of us .
I will always remember fondly our last reunion in June 2008 . Little did we know that Alice would be gone from us two month later .
With our love to all of you at this sad time ,
Maren and Red

MIKE OLENSKI

August 29, 2008

SKIP,
JUST LOOKING TO READ THE GUEST BOOK FOR MY MOTHER WHO PASSED EARLIER THIS MONTH. SAW THE ERWAY NAME. I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. THE NEXT TIME I'M IN THE AREA, I'LL LET YOU KNOW.

Fr. Joe Lutz

August 29, 2008

Dear Harry and family,
May the Lord grant Alice eternal rest and may He watch over you all during this time of great loss.
It brought back fond memories of our times in Elmira.
God bless you all!

RUSS,STEPH AND BROOKE TOBEY

August 28, 2008

UNCLE SLIM AND FAMILY, WE ARE SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT AUNT AL, BUT WE KNOW SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE WITH A GREAT BUNCH OF PEOPLE. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER COMING TO APPALACHIN WHEN WE WERE SMALL AND SLED RIDING WITH HEIDI THE SAINT BERNARD, AND AUNT AL SAYING WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? ANYWAY OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL, MAY GOD BLESS AND TAKE CARE. RUSTY

DONNA BIDWELL

August 28, 2008

ERWAY FAMILY, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS VERY SAD TIME. ALICE WAS ALWAYS SO FRIENDLY AND A GOOD NEIGHBOR FOR MANY YEARS. THE BIDWELLS, ROD, DONNA, RICK, KIM, ROBB, TIM AND JON

Virginia Douglas

August 28, 2008

Dear Uncle Slim and family -
I was so sorry to hear of Aunt Al's passing..please know that we are thinking of you all and send our deepest prayers to help you thru this trying time. When I think of Aunt Al, I will always remember her great smile and laugh, and that twinkle in her eye.
Lots of love -
Virginia "gig" Erway-Douglas

Marilou Besanceney

August 28, 2008

Dear Uncle Slim and family,
Sorry to hear of your loss of your wife, mother and sister. I remember most times when Aunt Alice welcomed me graciously into her home as a young adult. She will be missed.
Marilou Besanceney

Susan Erway Roberts

August 28, 2008

Alice's love and devotion to her family and friends were indeed rare and precious. My sincere sympathy goes to her loving family and all those she loved and held dear.

Esther McNeil Griffin

August 28, 2008

Harry "Slim" and Family,
My deepest sympathies for the loss of Alice. Reading about your families and Elmira roots brought back many memories.

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