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Dana Stermer Obituary
Age 48, of Curren Rd., in Elmira, passed away in a construction accident on Fri., Sept. 5, 2008. Dana is lovingly remembered by his family including the love of his life, Laurie Bonci; Dana's children, Ryenna (Ryan) Clark of Greenville, SC, James Stermer, Brian Bonci of NYC, NY, Blake Stermer of Elmira and "Abby" his spoiled border collie; mother, Janet "Jeana" Stermer; brothers and sister, Ernie Stermer (Laurie) of Canandaigua, NY, Eric Stermer (Cissy) of Elmira, NY, Renea Rosplock (James) of Erin, NY, Brent Stermer (Peter Marks) of Elmira, NY; grandmother, Ida Strong Bates of Elmira Heights, NY; as well as many nieces and nephews he loved; special friends, Mary Lou Earl (Blake's mother), Robbie and Mary Jo Albee IV and their girls; and devoted friend, Shelly Andrus, who always tried her hardest to keep him in line, organized and on time; aunts and uncles, Frank (Barb) Stermer of Montour Falls, NY, Earl (Cindy) Stermer of Erin, NY, H. Virginia Bailey and Edna Link, both of Elmira, NY. Dana was predeceased by his father, Arthur O. "Todd" Stermer in 1994; grandfathers, Raymond Stermer Sr. and Richard Strong; grandmother, Delia Stermer and Uncles, Ray Stermer, Vincent Link and Charles Walker; aunt, Audrey (Charles) Walker. Dana, a graduate of EFA, achieved his dream of owning his own excavation business, Dana Stermer Construction (Many thanks to all his workers); prior to that, Dana was employed by several local area contractors: his uncle, Earl Stermer, Buster Vanderhoff, Walt Crooker, Bruce Patoka and others, too many to mention. He was also employed by the NYS Department of Corrections at the Elmira Correctional Facility and Horseheads School District. Dana's uncle, Earl Stermer, taught him two of his greatest loves, excavation and how to wrestle. In 1978 Dana went to the NYS Championships. Dana always wore a smile and was easy going. Outside the love of his family and vocation Dana was a member of Fur Fin and Feather and always enjoyed the outdoors including hunting. As an avid outdoorsman, Dana had been ever so excited to bring home a trophy elk from his planned guided hunting tour in Wyoming. Although we miss him dearly, Dana's smile and zest for life will remain in our hearts forever. We are thankful that he found love and died doing what he loved. Family and friends are invited to call at the Barber Funeral Home, 413 S. Main St., Horseheads, on Thursday, Sept. 11, 2008, from 2-4:00 and 6-8:00. A celebration of his life filled with memories and stories will take place at the funeral home on Friday at 10:00 a.m.
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Memories and Condolences
for Dana Stermer
Natalie Smith
September 1, 2022
He was a good man, friend and he is missed!! Much Love always to his family.
Natalie
KAREN OSBORNE
October 9, 2008
we will miss you hope u see my uncle larry(waxy) in heaven too!
James Stermer
October 7, 2008
Dad, Thank you for your kind hearted ways, your gentle spirit, and your smile because you gave these qualities to me. I'll always have the memories of the times we had together, on the jet ski, swimming at the high school, visiting family, going to the fairs, and when you let me drive the back-hoe. I wish we had more of those times. I'm sorry your gone, I love you and always will. Sincerely, James.
Ryenna (Stermer) Clark
October 4, 2008
Dad, i miss you and i will ALWAYS love you despite everything that has happened over the years. I am going to miss you coming down to South Carolina to visit and how you would tear up every time we would hug each other goodbye. I never told you but I hated it when you would leave.
I have prayed for you every day since I was little and i trust that God has answered my prayers and that I will see you again one day. I promise to keep in contact with Blake and share my good memories of you with him. We both love you so much!
PJ Pinelli
September 20, 2008
Dear Jeanna,Eric,Ernie,and Renea - Very sorry to hear about Dana's passing. It is always hard to hear of such a tragedy but especially when it is someone you grew up with. Take care all of you - you are in my prayers. Love, Pam Pinelli
Karen and Dave Decker
September 17, 2008
Dear Stermer Family, Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you. Like so many others, Dana's smile was so warm and big, like his heart. God Bless your family. David and Karen ( Sophia ) Decker.
Felix and Rita Kapron
September 16, 2008
Deepest Sympathies.
One of us lost a brother in his 20s due to an accident - a tragic parallel to the loss you are now experiencing.
Condolences from both of us.
DANNA FAMILY
September 12, 2008
TO ALL OF DANA'S FAMILY,
SORRY FOR YOUR LOST. DANA WAS VERY SPECIAL AND WILL BE MISSED.
Bobbi Gascon
September 12, 2008
Laurie,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May your memories of times you and Dana shared bring you some sense of comfort at this time. He will always be with you. Bobbi
Kim (Webb) Kimball
September 12, 2008
Ryenna,
Our prayers are with you sweetie. We know how difficult this has been for you. We love you so much..wish we could be there with you. You're a very special young lady who is loved by many. May God bless and strengthen you and the rest of the Stermer family during this time of grieving.
Aunt Kim and Uncle Mark
Natalie Smith
September 12, 2008
Dana was a beautiful person and a true believer. We went to school together and kept in touch all these years, only over the phone and my once a year visit to Elmira but he was my friend and I will miss him deeply. I am very sorry for his family's loss and I wish them the strength to go on as that is what Dana would expect and want. I have many great memories and I will miss him deeply so until I get to the other side I will have my memories. We have lost a beautiful person and a great man may we all be blessed with our memories, I will always love him!
Kathy (Friz) Doland Fielding
September 12, 2008
I was a classmate of Dana's in 1978 and remember the smile on his face and how he was so friendly to everyone. I can still remember the drive and determination on his face each time he stepped on the mat. May God bless the Stermer family and Dana will always live on in your hearts. My prayers are with you all.
Melissa (Stermer) Jacobs
September 12, 2008
It has been many, many years since I have seen my cousin Dana, I guess when we were kids visiting them on the farm. I feel so sorry for the entire family and hope that his memories live on for many years to come. When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure. (Nelson Stermer's daughter)
Tania Yannarilli
September 12, 2008
I'm so sad to hear the news about Dana. Dana was a wonderful person that touched many lives in a positive way. There aren't many people in the world like him, that's for sure. I've known Dana for about 32 years. Although, I hadn't seen him in many years, that never changed how much he meant to me. He was a life long friend and I loved him dearly, and still do. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. God Bless.
Tom and Barb Burlew
September 12, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to all of Dana's family. He was a very special person who touched so many peoples lives, always a gentleman and always with a smile. His work here is done and now we are left to carry on what he began - helping others and sharing a smile.
Susan King
September 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
John Rose
September 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Rita Griffin-Shroyer
September 12, 2008
Eric,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in your memories. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
September 12, 2008
Earl, Cindy & family, we are so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you all in your time of need. Luv you all, Smitty & Linda.
Beth Taft
September 12, 2008
To all of Dana's family and friends, I'm so sorry for your loss. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Blake Stermer
September 12, 2008
Daddy, I love you very much. I will miss you soooo much. I wear your picture everyday and I will take good care of Mommy, Laurie and my dogs.
Charlotte Anne Bartlow
September 11, 2008
Hi Janet, just heard about Dana today, Becky gets the Elmira paper, she showed me Dana's obituary. I lost my son, Jim, in July. Am looking forward to the Resurrection. My best wishes go out to all your family.
Daryl McKibbin and Family
September 11, 2008
Deepest sympathy to the Stermer family and Lori Bonci.
Heather Darrow
September 11, 2008
My thoughts are with the Stermer family and friends during this very sad time. May you find some peace and comfort in the many memories you've shared with Dana. Although I did not know him, I've had the pleasure of spending time with Blake in the classroom and I know he loves and admires his dad. His memory is alive in you and he is with you always.
Gerald Tompkins
September 11, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
September 11, 2008
Our Hearts go out to the family of Dana he was a good man ,and will be deeply missed. Geno&Doreen Haight & Dave Curtis (Deacons Transport)
September 11, 2008
Our Hearts go out to the family of Dana. He was a good man ,and will be deeply missed. Geno&Doreen Haight & Dave Curtis (Deacons Transport)
Dolores Phillips/peters
September 11, 2008
To the Stermer family, my deepest sympathy is with you at this time of your loss. I know the many happy times all of you have spent together in Dana's short life will help through these difficult days to follow. God Bless!
Rick Ruth
September 11, 2008
I was a fellow classmate of Dana's in 1978 at EFA. He was a class guy and always went out of his way to treat everyone with respect and used to keep the bullies in line. I am shocked and saddened to hear of his tragic, sudden death. My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to Dana's family.
Will Heikkila
September 11, 2008
I was a client of Dana in which he constructed a retaining wall at my residence last year. What a wall!Excellent construction. I will always think of Dana as I walk by it daily. My sincere condolences to his families.
Richard Hewitt
September 11, 2008
The Stermer Family,
I worked with Dana on the HILL, He was a great guy and we all will miss him. May GOD bless YOUR family at this time and allways.
Richard Hewitt
Dan plummer
September 11, 2008
I moved away from Elmira in 1975 and left many good friends behind. Eric and Dana Stermer were two of those friends. Eric and I were very close and I spent a lot of time at the Stermer farm. We all loved to hunt,fish,wrestle and raise a little hell. Dana was shy in a crowd but when it was just Dana, Eric, and I doing chores in the barn i was always looking over my shoulder for a surprise attach from one of them. Eric and Dana are true and loyal friends and and the world is far to empty of guys like them. I regret not knowing much about the last years of Dana's life but cherish the years I spent with him, Eric,my brother John,George and Mike Gilbert, Tommy and Billy Waters,Dave Orshaw, and the rest of our crazy clan. Looking back it was like living a wild movie. We lived life to the fullest, it was something to behold and for those that weren't there it is hard to explain.
My heart goes out to the family and friends of Dana, he was incredible.
Good hunting Dana and I hope to see you on the other side brother.
Cathy Womer-Glover
September 11, 2008
Earl & Cindy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
DANIEL/LISA MURRAY HUGHES
September 10, 2008
I WAS NOT CLOSE TO DANA BUT I ALWAYS RESPECTED HIM FOR HIS CLASS. WE GREW UP IN THE 70'S
WRESTLED IN THE SAME ERA HE @
EFA AND ME @ NDHS. A GREAT GUY, VERY SKILLED, TOUGH, SUCCESSFUL. WHAT I LOVED ABOUT DANA AT THAT TIME IN THE LATE 70"S WAS HIS FRIENDSHIP TO THE WRESTLER'S NO MATTER WHERE YOU PLACED OR WHAT SCHOOL YOU WERE FROM. MY FATHER HENRY IS ALSO VERY SADDENED BY DANA'S PASSING AND PRAYS THAT THE FAMILY GETS THROUGH THESE DIFFICULT TIMES.
(Pfeifer)Card Janet
September 10, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of this terrriable accident that took Danna's life. Please if there is anything I can do to be of help to any member of your family, just email me and I will be there. You all will be in my prayers.
brian Eldridge
September 10, 2008
I have been a friend of dana for over twenty years, It,s sad too lose your old friends this way. we can not take our life for granted, he will be not ever be forgoten
Phyllis McKlevis
September 10, 2008
Ryenna,
You probably don't remember us, we are Shayna's grandparents.
We are so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your beloved Dad. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Take care,
Tony & Phyllis McKlevis
Penny Cole
September 10, 2008
Brent,
I was so very sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. Although I did not know him, I am sure he was as fine a person as you are.
Penny
Kirschke
September 10, 2008
I am so sorry that it has to happen in this way. Dana, rest in peace..
Joan Tuning
September 10, 2008
Jeana, Laurie and Stermer Family,
So very sorry to hear of Dana's passing. My prayers are with you.
Joan Tuning
Formerly of Camden Ave., Horseheads.
Nicole Doan
September 10, 2008
Dear Laurie, Brian,Blake and Family -
My heart and prayers go out to you all! May your memories of Dana give you peace and my God be with you through this rough time. I enjoyed getting to know Dana the last couple of years What a wonderful, and loving man he was. God bless, Nicole, Vince
Faith Moffe Kid's World
September 10, 2008
Blake and Mary Lou I am so sorry for your loss. Your Dad will be truly missed. We all will miss his smile. Also everytime we hear a big truck coming up the hill we will think of your Dad.
Laurie (Pariso) and Chris Hobler
September 10, 2008
Dana recently did some work at my house and was a classmate in high school. Dana always had a smile on his face and was one of the nicest people to deal with. He will be missed by not only his family, but all whom he touched in life. Our thoughts and prayers are with Dana's family.
Debbie Stermer/Allen
September 10, 2008
I am very sorry to hear of the loss of my cousin, Dana. My earliest memory of him was when our homeroom teacher in 7th grade tried to put us in the same seat because we had the same first initial. We spent the next several years getting to know each other better. Our paths have crossed many times over the years and it was never thought that the last time would truly be the last time. Dana really was a great, fun-lovng person who was living his dream. My love and prayers go to all of you. Please take comfort in knowing that Dana is in heaven watching over you. I am so very sorry for you loss.
Curtis Freeman
September 10, 2008
It was with great pleasure to have known and done business with Dana.
I am greatly saddened to hear of his passing. He will be greatly missed by all that knew him.
Lori (Loper) Dapp
September 10, 2008
I havent seen Dana in a very long time. Whenever I did see him he always had a smile. I first met Dana when he drove the school bus on our route. He was by far the best one we ever had!! My thoughts are with his family and friends who love him so much. His presence in the lives he touched will never be forgotten.
john plummer
September 10, 2008
to the stermer family,me and my brother dan grew up most of are lives in elmira.we became very good friends with dana,and eric.times in my life i"ll never forget.my deepest sympathy to the family.god bless you
Dan Drake
September 9, 2008
Dana was a talented equipment operator and a good person, my thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Erik Henry
September 9, 2008
To my freind Dozer Dana you will be missed as afreind college boss an all around good GUY REST IN PEACE we miss ya your freind Wingnut
Kim Amberg
September 9, 2008
Renea, Dad & Chantil, and ALL of the Stermer Family: Dana's loss is felt by SO many people, and although you are ALL hurting now-time will heal our broken hearts...Keep your fond and happy memories of Dana in your hearts for he will always be with each and every one of you! Dad & Renea- Jay & I ARE HERE WHEN YOU NEED US! WE LOVE YOU BOTH VERY MUCH!!
Tina Butters
September 9, 2008
There are no words to exclaim how very much Dana will be missed. We are all at a loss for words at this time of sarrow. May God keep you closer and surround you with the memory of Dana's presence on this earth and all he blessed by that presence.
I knew Dana through his work, he for many years provided for my ex-spouse. Dana was always respectful, and hard working, over the top kind of guy. Not common in the construction world today. Prayers be with you.
Sam & Lawana Trifoso
September 9, 2008
To the Stermer family:
We were saddened to hear of Dana's passing. He was a very special person who touched many lives. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.
BRENDA ELSTON
September 9, 2008
My heart goes out to the Stermer family. I will always rememer Dana as a very kind caring man. Dana use to work out with my son in westling and he always thought a lot of him. Keep all of your wonerful memories in your hearts of Dana. GOD Bless all of you at this sad time.Brenda Elston
Greg Ault
September 9, 2008
Oh I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I really enjoyed talking with him at Fur Fin & Feather on Thursdays, he was a real gentleman, I will miss him greatly. May God comfort you, God bless you always.
Esther Wright
September 9, 2008
I was so sorry to here of Dana's passing. He did some excavating on our property this past winter so we could put in our new home.
Mary / Jeff Case
September 9, 2008
Laurie and family, Sorry for your lost he was a wonderful young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mary and Jeff Case
Chad Carpenter
September 9, 2008
Dana,
I felt that you took me under your wing, and showed me so much. You allways carried yourself in a manner that i looked up to. I will miss you very much. Deepest sympathies to the Stermer family.
With Love.
September 9, 2008
To Laurie And The Stermer Family, We Are So Sorry For Your Loss. Our Thoughts And Prayers Are With You.
Jason & Debbie (Krauss) Kirk
Gus Schiefen
September 9, 2008
When I wrestled at N.D. Our coach brought in this guy named Dana to show us the proper way to do some moves and I was very impressed with this guy. I meet Dana some years later and he helped to convince me to Join the Dept of Corrections. The world has lost a very bright shining light. RIP Dana, and thoughts and prayers to his family.
Robin Jeff Titus
September 9, 2008
I remember the day I meant Dana back in the late 80's. Dana was a wonderful and thoughtful man. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him. R.I.P.
Richard & Deborah Draper
September 9, 2008
Our thoughts are with the whole Stermer family .We are very saddened by the loss of Dana .My husband works for KRP trucking and knew Dana .
Richard & Deborah Draper
jeanne reese
September 9, 2008
Laurie Let your memories and friends help you through this difficult time. I pray for you. Jeanne
Pat, Kathy & Alecia McKillip & Matt Peters
September 9, 2008
To the Stermer Family:
We were so saddened to hear of your great loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. It was always so nice to bump into Dana up at the school while he picked Blake up at the after-school program. He always had a big smile on his face and was always such a joy to talk with. He will be greatly missed by all who came in contact with him!!
Harold Besley
September 9, 2008
I
have know most of the Stermer family for many years. Dana was a great young
man and was a class act. He will be missed by everyone. Sorry for your loss.
Chtistine & Bob Sliger
September 9, 2008
My prayers are with Dana's family and friends. A lovely person is gone from your lives and will be greatly missed. He was too young to be gone from this earth forever, but your love and memories of him will keep him with you always.
Shirley Hannon
September 9, 2008
Laurie, My prayers and thoughts are with you. May you find comfort in the things you two shared.
Shirley
Tammy&James Ludwig
September 9, 2008
To the Stermer Family ,We r so sorry for ur loss, God Bless u all
Ahmed Saleem
September 9, 2008
To the Stermer Family,
We are deeply sorrowed by Danas loss. He did some work for us over the summer. Was a very kind, easy going gentleman. Our heartfelt condolences to the family.
Drs Ahmed and Sadaf Saleem and family
Langdon Hill Hunting Crew
September 9, 2008
To the entire family,friends and co-workers of Dana.I'm so sorry for your loss,What a champion Dana was in ever thing he did.He will be missed and never forgotten.
Sherrie and Sam Pizzo
September 9, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Dana was a dear man and we were sad to hear of his passing.
Sincerely,
September 8, 2008
Laurie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with You, Brian, Blake, Dana's family and friends. Dana bought a smile to your face. You had a special love for each other. Please keep the good memories and share them with other you know. Always here for you. Love Teri & Jim
Doug and Irene Elias
September 8, 2008
To the Stermer family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy
Pat and Linda (McKlevis) Bubacz
September 8, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of Dana's passing. Our prayers are with you.
Randy Stanton
September 8, 2008
To the Stermer Family:
Dana was a wonderful man. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Randy and Lorraine Stanton
Tonya
September 8, 2008
The first time I met Dana was when I was a bartender at a place he frequented quite often. I knew from the moment I met him that he was a kind and genuine person. He always had a warm smile, funny jokes and even better stories about what he did on the "Hill". This wonderful man touched me deeply and will forever hold a place in my heart. The Laurie and the Stermer family, I am so sorry for your loss and take solice in knowing that Dana is in a better place and God truly does have an angel by his side!
Bevery A. Porter
September 8, 2008
To The Stermer Family:
I remember Dana from the Bus Garage in Horseheads, he was a very nice person and he was a considerate bus driver. He would always be wearing a smile.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Beverly A. Porter, Sarasota, Florida
Bob Cowles
September 8, 2008
May god be with all of you at your time of sorrow our thoughts are with you. Bob, Jackie and Sophie Cowles
Ed & Debbie Rohde
September 8, 2008
We were so sorry to hear about Dana. Our thoughts and prayers will be with the entire family during this difficult time.
Stacie Dalrymple
September 8, 2008
I was very saddened to hear about Dana's untimely death. I will always remember how he smiled. He was a good friend of my father's, and a good friend to Robbie Albee. For that, I will always remember him...as a good friend to two men I love and a man that always smiled.
Nicki Carpenter
September 8, 2008
Dear Family and Friends of Dana,
I have not seen Dana in many years, but what I do remember is that he was always friendly and very kind. He was close to my brother. It is apparent from all of the kind words written here that he will be deeply missed. The story from his neighbor says it all, he was a kind and selfless soul!! My Condolences.
Jeffrey Gardner
September 8, 2008
My deepest sympathy to all affected by this loss.I knew Dana from Elmira C.F. My smpathy to you also Shelly!
John and Carri Vogt
September 8, 2008
We knew Dana because he worked on our property last year for several months, excavating a property that desperately needed it, along with installing new drains. He did alot more work than he actually billed us for...knowing that funds were tight. He was always laughing and smiling and there was a genuine warmth about him...you couldn't help but smile while in his presence. Our hearts and prayers go out to everyone who loves him.
Stosh Vicki
September 8, 2008
Dana, We had some great times in high school, times that I'll never forget. Especially Harris Hill with the guys. God Bless you and your family.
Sherry Pellor (Jeff Storch)
September 8, 2008
Laurie and the Stermer family-
I am so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts. Dana will be very much missed. Laurie, please know that I'm always here for you.
Stacy Sherman
September 8, 2008
Laurie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Teri & Jim Benjamin
September 8, 2008
Laurie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with You, Brian and Blake and the entire family and friends of Dana's. You are a wonderful person and Dana give you a new look of life. I have never seen you so happy, as you have been over the past year. He will always be in your memories and heart. Keep your memories going forever! We love you ever much Teri & Jim
September 8, 2008
Laurie, Kids, and The Stermer Family,
Just a note to let you know, Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family during this difficut time. Always remember to hold onto the Memories and dont ever let them go! Dana will be missed !!
Chuck & Sue Woods
Michaleen Lehman
September 8, 2008
Laurie,
My thoughts of hope and healing are with you my friend. You are an amazingly strong woman - but remember that you are surrounded by people who love you and want to help you heal.
Patty Capozzi Thompson
September 8, 2008
To the Stermer Family,
so saddened to hear about Dana, my prayers are with you all.
Patty Capozzi Thompson
Karen, Megan and Sarah O'Hanrahan
September 8, 2008
Laurie,
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of Dana. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Jo Carpenter
September 8, 2008
Dana,
God must have needed another angel. I will never forget you and your smile. Lou and Blake--my thoughts and prayers are with you. Please call if you need anything or a shoulder to cry on....
"Keep on smiling my friend."
Andrea Verrocchio
September 8, 2008
My dearest friend Laurie,
Our summer concerts will never, ever be the same. Our Styx and Boston concert I will remember how lovingly you and Dana were. How he put his hands on your shoulder and you kissed his hand... I have never whitnessed such love. I know he was your everything and know how much you will miss him. Sorry isnt enough, I promise you I will be here for you when ever you need me.
I love you Girlfriend and I love Dana Also, God Bless you, Brian, Abby and all of his family...
Maribeth Elmquist
September 8, 2008
Jeana,
We are very sorry for your loss. If you need anything you know where I am at. Kevin & Maribeth Elmquist
Francis (Paul) & Dorothy Stermer
September 8, 2008
To all your family
You left us TOO soon. What a chock
Prayers to all your family.
Mary Ann Roupp
September 8, 2008
Laurie, my sympathy and caring are with you and Brian during these difficult days. I'm so glad I got to see you and to meet Dana and James last year at the Bonci reunion. My prayers are with you and with all of the family.
Michelle Jamison
September 8, 2008
Laurie, Blake, Lou, and the rest of the Stermer Family - Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will truly miss Dana! We were proud to call him our friend. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him.
Mike, Michelle and Alle Jamison
Maribeth Elmquist
September 8, 2008
Jeana,
I am very sorry for your loss if you and the family need anything you know that I am right next door.
Love always, Maribeth, Kevin, & Kati Elmquist
Valerie Krauss
September 8, 2008
Laurie (one my dearest friends)-my heart goes out to you and the family.
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Kenna Morehouse
September 8, 2008
Laurie, My deepest sympathies to you, Brian and the rest of Dana's family. As you know I went through something very similar and from my own experience I can say, please just take one day at a time. Take the time to grieve, to cry, to laugh and to remember. Time, and sometimes its a long time, does begin to heal. All my love and prayers.
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