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Charles Ryder Obituary

RYDER, Charles H.
age 94 of Horseheads, NY passed away on Monday September 22, 2008 at Bethany Manor. Charles was born on June 2, 1914 in Knoxville, PA the son of the late William J. and Edith Bonney Ryder. He was a Veteran of WWII serving his country with the U.S. Army. Charles was a graduate of Lawrenceville High School and graduated from the Mansfield State Teachers College in 1937. He was a Music Teacher in Little Marsh and Westfield, PA, he worked for Eclipse for over 25 years and was the owner and operator of Ryder's Music Store. Mr. Ryder was a member of the Oakwood Methodist Church in Elmira Heights and a member of the trailer club. He was given the gift of music and shared that gift by performing in the Elmira and Corning Symphony Orchestra's, The Bill Butler Orchestra, the Elmiran's and also in the Army Band. He was a former Mason. Charles was pre-deceased by his sister Dorothy Scarlett and brother William Ryder. Mr. Ryder is survived by his wife Marian Garner Ryder; son and daughter-in-law: Alan and Phyllis Ryder of Big Flats, NY; daughters and sons-in-law: Barbara and Ron Roach of Pittsford, NY; Cheryl and David Thurkins of Painted Post, NY; 8 grandchildren, 7 great grandchildren, 4 nephews. Relatives and friends are invited to call at the Lynch Funeral Home 318 West Broad Street Horseheads, NY on Thursday September 25, 2008 from 7-9 PM. On Friday September 26, 2008 calling hours will be held from 1 PM-2 PM at the Oakwood United Methodist Church in Elmira Heights, NY. A Memorial Service will be held at 2 PM at the conclusion of calling hours. The family will provide their own flowers and those wishing may remember Charles through memorials to the Oakwood United Methodist Church or to a charity of one's choice.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Sep. 23 to Sep. 25, 2008.

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Patty Fitzgerald Breese

September 27, 2008

Cheryl, I am so deeply sorry to hear of the passing of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. Cherish all your wonderful memories.

Scott Streeter

September 25, 2008

I saw cousin Holley's entry. She said a lot. Mom and Dad (Dick and Bonney) thought the world of both of you. I have lots of fond memories and will cherish them. My wife Susan and I want you to know that we are thinking of you and that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Will was a wonderful man. If you need anything don't hesitate to call. Love you all. Scott

Howard A Taft

September 24, 2008

To the Ryder Family
Many memories of Charles and Marian, my neighbor, and Charles my music teacher.

Holly Schoonover

September 24, 2008

I would like to extend my sympathy to all family members. I have fond childhood memories when Aunt Edith and Uncle Will would come to Knoxville to visit Grandma Schoonover and in later years Charles and Marion provided that transportation for them to visit. My father, (Matt Schoonover) always enjoyed his visits with Charles.

Don Bruner

September 24, 2008

Al/Phylis/children, family, My condolences to all. I remember buying my trumpet off Charlie many many years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Kay Moyer

September 23, 2008

Sending you our prayers for your entire family.

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Skip Mills

September 23, 2008

To the Ryder family. Barb and I share your feelings on the loss of Charlie. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.

laura Griffin

September 23, 2008

To the family of Mr. Ryder,
You are in our thoughts & prayers
Manor dietary staff

Richard Hewitt

September 23, 2008

The Ryder Family,
I would like send condolences on behalf of the Hewitt Family. We were neighbors for many years. May GOD Bless your family at this time and allways
The Hewitt's

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