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Melva Brockoff Obituary
In loving memory of Melva Brockoff, born March 12, 1972, passed away October 5, 2008. She was a hair dresser for 17 years at Donna's Styling Salon in Spencer, NY. Melva is survived by her husband, Dean Brockoff; and two children, Tyler and Danica; mother, Charlene McCarthy; sister, Carole Wereski; brother and sister-in-law, Brad and Becky Blohm; many aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. She will be missed and remembered by all who knew her. Friends and family are welcomed to call on Sunday, October 12, 2008, from 1 to 3 p.m. and 5 to 6 p.m. at Allen-Manzer Funeral Home in Spencer. A memorial service will follow at 6:00 p.m. with Pastor Clarence Windnagle officiating.
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Memories and Condolences
for Melva Brockoff
Dan, Cheryl and Richard Inman
October 31, 2008
We miss you, Mel. Our thoughts go out to all you family.
Allison Clark
October 20, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I was both shocked and saddened to learn of Mel's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of her family.
Sherry (Nellis) De Sandro
October 16, 2008
Dearest Cousin and Friend Carol and Brad, I am so very very sorry in the loss of your beloved Sister and Friend, Mel. I remember the beautiful little girl growing into a beautiful lady. We all love you, with sincerest sympathies, Sherry, Melissa, Jason and Jennifer
Sherry (Nellis) De Sandro
October 16, 2008
Dearest Char, my deepest sympathies from my heart to a very dear not only cousin but a very, very close friend. I love you and even though the years have gone by so fast, I will always remember Mel, the beautiful girl who grew into a beautiful woman.
Sherry (Nellis) De Sandro
October 16, 2008
Dean and Family, Watching Mel grow into a beautiful lady, she was more than just a cousin, family to me, Mel was more of a friend to me and my family. We loved her dearly and still do, Sherry, Melissa, Jason and Jen
Roxanne LaFritz
October 11, 2008
To Dean and Family
Our Hearts and Prayers go out to you and your Family , From The Lafritz Family Vern Roxanne And Kids
Colleen (Hicks) Pariso
October 11, 2008
I am saddened by the loss of Mel. She and I graduated from Horseheads High School together. She was a nice girl. My prayers go out to her husband and her children as well as her whole family. May you look to God to help you all through a very difficult time. I can relate to her children because I lost my Mom at a young age too. I am sorry to hear of her passing and please ask God to help you through. Colleen (Hicks) Pariso Class of 1990 HHDS
jackie
October 9, 2008
charlene,my sister so sorry about the loss of our precious melli,my deepest sympathy to dean,tyler, danica and your entire family love your sister jackie
Deb LaRock
October 9, 2008
Dean,Tyler and Danica,
We are so sorry about Mel. I have rarely seen a love like you two had. I hope to memories of the good times will help get you through the rough ones. Love, Bruce, Deb and Lindsay
erik lane
October 8, 2008
to dean and family our prayers are with you
robert wylie
October 8, 2008
aunt char and family melli will truly be missed and you and yours are in our hearts and prayers in your time of need your nephew bob
billie jo zimmer
October 8, 2008
well miss you
robert wylie
October 8, 2008
its always hard to hear of lost family member but aunt char and family mellie will always be in our heart's and our prayer's go out to you in your time of sorrow your nephew bob
Ron McCartney
October 8, 2008
Dean Tyler & Danica i am sorry sorry for your lost i know how much you loved her Dean and kids Mell was and always will be a great women you guys are like family to me and i love you guys
lorrie case
October 8, 2008
Dean&Family, We all are so sorry to here about your familys loss,I know she will be missed. Our hearts go out to you and the kids. Lorrie and Byron Case (Corning,NY)
Lockwood United Methodist
October 8, 2008
You are in our prayers during this time of loss. Remember God is not far away from the greiving. He is always there for you. Your friends at the Lockwood United Methodist Church.
Amanda & Tommy
October 8, 2008
Dean and Family, we loved her and we'll miss her alot. We are here for you through this, you can call on us for anything. We love you guys!
Molly Lee
October 8, 2008
Dean and family,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Mel. She was a great woman and will be missed my many i'm sure! If there is anything that we could do to help make this a little easier please let us know.
ryan buzzetti
October 8, 2008
Dean & family
My heart goes out to you and your family .
ryan buzzetti
Josh,Shonna,Tia,Jayden & Makenzie
October 8, 2008
I am very sorry for your loss! Mel was a very good person and loved by many people!
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